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#Its such an infp thing to imagine it all working and believing it but also wholeheartedly believing the bad outcome
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Hello! Can I please get a matchup for supernatural?
I'm a straight female and my pronouns are she/her
I'm 5'9 and I have long and curly dark brown hair and brown eyes. I have a fair skin tone, I'm slim and I've got full lips and fairly large eyes. I also have these dimples that I really like!
I love reading, my favorite genres are poetry, Russian lit, and mysteries! I love learning about new things and knowing a little bit of everything. I adore adventures, witty and playful banter, joking around and having indepth discussions on anything and everything! I adore all forms of art and I have quite a few creative hobbies! I listen to a lot of modern/indie rock and I love watching films very much! It takes me a while to feel comfortable around new people but once I do, I become really talkative and outgoing. I love helping out and I'm the therapist friend, people come to me to vent or for advice and comfort. I'm smart and ambitious; I love being the best at everything I do. I'm quite the hopeless romantic and I love being in love! I adore big and small romantic gestures and I love domesticity sm!! My love languages are acts of service and quality time. I'm a ravenclaw, my mbti is infp and my enneagram is 4w3!
Thank you very much!
Anonymous x Supernatural Matchup
Hello there!! Here is your request, I hope you like it!!
Disclaimer: its been a long LONG time since I last saw supernatural, so keep this in mind hehe.
I believe you would match pretty well with Castiel.
Learning and knowledge
Castiel shares your intellectual curiosity and thirst for knowledge. We is constantly learning about the human world, pretty much like you enjoy knowing about different genres and subjects.
Also, his vast knowledge of everything, having been an angel that has lived for thousands of years would be amazing, he'd talk to you about so many topics most would include angel themes such as celestial lore or even the intricacies of angel weapons and so on.
You two would always (playfully) challenge each other on knowledge of different things
You'd also tease Cas a lot because of how outdated some of his information about human history is.
You'd provide a grounding presence for Castiel as he tries to understand and learn human emotions and relationships. While he would introduce you to the Supernatural aspects of the world (lets be honest, you'd be a hunter and his tips would be useful)
Potential Banter
Castiel's literal interpretations and occasional social awkwardness could lead to some truly hilarious moments.
Imagine trying to explain sarcasm or a pop culture reference – the possibilities for amusement are endless!
Also his straightforward nature and close to no filter when he talks would bring so many funny moments between you two, especially due to your playful personality. Also, expect the most unhinged comments ever
Your playful personality could help him loosen up and discover the joy of wordplay.
Artistic connection
Being an angel, Castiel's appreciation for art may not rely on human traditional art forms, though he does marvel at the complexity of human creations
You say you're interested in poetry and I can imagine Castiel asking you to recite one of your favorite poems to him. Then him being awestruck by the emotional depth of the poem you just read to him.
I believe he would be very interested in painting and sculpture, especially the ones based on angels and god (cuz he's an angel), enter The Piety by Michaelangelo or Crucifixión de San Pedro. Caravaggio (1601). He'd also be amazed by modern ways of painting, such as digital art, he can't quite grasp how it works but he likes learning about it.
You two go to a lot of museums
His ability to transport everywhere is beneficial, he'd take you to all the different libraries, museums, and historical buildings that you might want to visit
Challenges to overcome, growth Together:
Castiel's angelic nature can be a double-edged sword.
His loyalty to Heaven could create conflict if it ever clashes with your values
However, open communication and a willingness to understand each other's perspectives could lead to a deeper bond and a stronger relationship.
Your nurturing personality could be a balm to Castiel's struggles with understanding human emotions
As he opens up (slowly, but surely), you'd be there to offer support and guidance
In turn, his unwavering loyalty and angelic perspective could provide a sense of security and stability in your life.
The hopeless romantic meets the loyal angel:
Castiel, despite his initial awkwardness, is a deeply devoted being.
His angelic expressions of love might not be what you see in human relationships, but his unwavering loyalty and willingness to protect you speak volumes
Together, you could create a unique and beautiful love story, filled with grand gestures and quiet moments of domestic bliss.
I really hope you liked it, if there's something you'd like me to add, anything you don't like of somewhere where you want me to in-deep more just tell me!!
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ghost-party · 1 year
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Thanks for commissioning me, @bluebellhairpin! I had so much fun choosing a match for you. 🤗
I’ve matched you with… Reiner!
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MBTI Compatibility
INFPs are known as the Mediator. This personality type is known for its passion, creativity, and sensitivity. It’s easy to write them off as quiet, but in reality, they’re highly imaginative and natural storytellers. Empathy is one of their strongest qualities, and they’re not one to settle for relationships in which they feel disconnected or neglected.
Reiner is an ESFJ — a Consul. ESFJs have a strong desire for close friendships and relationships, and the idea of community is very important to them. They often adhere to a sense of duty and take on the task of bringing people together, as well as helping them thrive. ESFJs are resolute in their beliefs and perceptions, which means they can be stubborn when faced with disagreement. 
INFPs and ESFJs have some fundamental differences. While INFPs tend to find it easier to embrace change, ESFJs value tradition and stability, making it more difficult for them to accept change. Consistency and predictability are more comfortable for them, so it’s important for these types to communicate their feelings and figure out a compromise. But INFPs and ESFJs have great potential to learn and grow together, providing balance and support for one another.
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Astrological Compatibility
Geminis often get a bad reputation for being “two-faced” when, in reality, they are intellectually curious and often struggle to balance their many interests and pursuits. Their mind is often in many places at one time, and oftentimes, this can lend itself to creative versatility.
Reiner is a Leo. This sign is known to be compassionate, generous, and perhaps stubborn at times. Often seen as natural leaders, Leos enjoy having fun and spending time around people who understand and appreciate them. Words like “ego” and “drama” are often thrown around when it comes to this sign, but Reiner is less concerned about these things and leans more into his passionate, ambitious side.
These two signs are an incredibly compatible match. Their personalities lend themselves to a playful, exciting relationship. Leos believe that variety is the spice of life, and Geminis are creative and open-minded. Air and fire signs work well together both romantically and platonically, and in this case, a Gemini can praise and encourage a Leo’s “fiery” ambitions.
These signs do, however, express their energy in different ways. While Geminis are always moving and changing, Leos have a tendency to stick to their present ideas. It’s important for both signs to communicate their points of view and learn how to compromise. It does help that Geminis value personal freedom and won’t force Leos to be something they’re not.
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SFW Headcanons
• Reiner is someone who appreciates words of affirmation, and he’s always happy to praise and encourage you, especially on tough days. He likes to do whatever he can for you, whether it’s taking care of some household chores or running an errand you’ve been avoiding. And as someone familiar with loss, it’s especially important to him to make time for the ones he loves — you, most of all. He doesn’t want to live his life with regrets, and he’s learned that most things can wait. For him, you come first.
• Since he knows you find it annoying when people just randomly pick you up, taking advantage of your smaller size, he always asks first before he lifts you in his arms. If you’re not in the mood, he doesn’t take offense. But if you are okay with it, he’ll hold you tight and give you a big, long hug. It makes him happy to have you close to him. Even when your feet remain firmly on the ground, his larger size is apparent when you walk beside each other or cuddle on the couch.
• Reiner is skilled at doing things with his hands. He’s a quick learner, attentive and detail-oriented, but he’s also realized that keeping busy usually helps to quell his anxiety. He’s happy to learn archery from you, and it feels nice when you physically guide his hands on the bow or help to adjust his grip on the arrow. He also enjoys playing video games together. Despite his friendly, laidback nature, he can get pretty competitive, but he also really likes co-op games and RPGs.
• He’s lived a somewhat tumultuous life, and it’s made him very appreciative of what he has, along with who he spends time with. He’s patient and content with moving at a slower pace, if need be. He’s an excellent listener, too. While he can be talkative and outgoing in social settings, more so among his closest friends, he’s generally a quieter guy, and much more thoughtful than many assume upon meeting him. Whenever you need to vent or talk something over, he’s there for you. And he knows you’ll always be there for him in the exact same way.
• Partly because he’s dealt with so much over the years, he’s learned that life is way too short to be serious all the time. There’s nothing he loves more than having fun with you, and when you toss a sarcastic joke his way or engage him in an amusing back-and-forth, he’s quick to give as good as he gets. You could say banter is one of his love languages, one he learns and fine tunes over time, based on his partner. But even through his joking and teasing, you never have to wonder if he’s taking things too personally. He knows you. And he knows you would never say or do something to hurt him.
• When Reiner decides to buy a motorcycle, he’s excited to take small — or, if your schedules allow it, longer — trips with you and explore new places. If he could, he would see the whole world with you by his side. But he’ll settle for making as many memories as he can, having a picnic at a park you’ve never been to, or stopping for lunch someplace that looks interesting. Although he appreciates planning some things ahead of time, he can also be spontaneous, depending on what you’re in the mood for. Honestly, he’s just happy to have your arms wrapped around him, tucked in against his back as the two of you ride.
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Drabble
It’s a gray, rainy day — perfect for checking out your local art museum’s newest exhibit. Or at least that’s what you thought. 
It’s been several weeks since it opened, so you weren’t expecting a huge crowd. But when you and Reiner step inside the first room, the largest in the wing, you’re surprised to realize the two of you are completely alone.
“Looks like we’ve got the place to ourselves,” Reiner murmurs, wrapping a strong arm around your waist as the two of you walk a little further.
You lean into his embrace, enjoying his familiar warmth, but also taking advantage of his steadying presence. The room is purposely dark, the only lights in the space small, focused ones serving to illuminate the countless glass pieces carefully arranged on pedestals.
Looking up at your boyfriend, you can see the various colors moving over his face as you both make your way around the outer perimeter. 
He’s always handsome, in a way that always makes you feel a little giddy. But he looks even more so as he smiles, his skin brightened with reflected hues of gold and burnt orange. 
Hugging you closer, he whispers, “C’mere… Trust me.”
You can’t help but feel confused, though, when he leads you over to a wide bench and proceeds to lie down on it.
“I didn’t realize it was nap time,” you joke, and he huffs out a laugh.
“I said trust me, didn’t I?”
He opens his arms wide, and after one last glance around, making sure you’re truly alone, you sigh and lie on top of him, back to chest. He kisses the top of your head in silent thanks, then points up at the ceiling, holding you tight.
“Look… Isn’t it beautiful?”
It’s only then that you realize the glass sculptures are casting reflections onto the vaulted ceiling, like swirling constellations in the dark of night.
Reiner must feel your intake of breath, because you feel him chuckle beneath you. “Let’s stay here a while.” His hand curls around your hip, and you feel him relax, as he always does when he has you near.
“I want to remember this moment with you.”
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NSFW Headcanons
• Reiner usually prefers soft sex, and he enjoys positions where he can see your face. He likes to watch your expression, to see how much pleasure he’s bringing you. But it also gives him the perfect opportunity to kiss you — something he can never seem to get enough of. Even when you’re both pressed for time, he never fails to make you feel adored and taken care of, his touch firm but somehow also gentle, showing you just how deeply he loves you.
• He knows you like his thighs. It’s not hard to notice how you watch him climb on and off of his motorcycle. And when the two of you are spending the night at home, gaming or watching TV, he’s come to expect you to sit in his lap or lie across it, your head nestled against his legs. It’s what prompts him to suggest you try thigh-riding. If you tell him you’re interested, he makes sure you’re seated comfortably before using his large hands to carefully guide you, murmuring praise all the while.
• When you’re out in public, he pays close attention to your reactions when he holds your hand or gives you other gentle touches. If you’re receptive, he’ll keep doing it, using physical contact to continuously remind you of his constant affection. It can also act as foreplay, especially if you’re out somewhere and plan to head home right after. His fingers will trail down your spine before settling on your lower back, both possessive and comforting. He likes to pull you close, press kisses to your temple, murmur in your ear how beautiful you look, how he can't wait to have you all to himself later.
• He has a possessive streak and will gladly mark you, though he always softens it with praise — “You’re such a good girl, letting me do this… Especially here, where your shirt might not cover it.” He kisses the spot he recently sucked into your skin, between your neck and the curve of your shoulder. “I love that someone might see it. They’ll know you’re mine, won’t they?” His tone turns a little teasing as he continues to kiss you, his mouth eagerly moving down to your chest.
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mbti-notes · 1 year
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Anon wrote: I’m INFP, I took creative writing as a minor major for university, I absolutely love it, but I’m struggling with some bits. Could you please help me? (P.S the order is random and does not reflect the importance).
First, criticism. Our seminars after the lectures are based on us, students, giving feedback for each other, and the negative feedback always upsets me. I talked with our supervisor about it and he assured me that it’s normal in the beginning, but I always feel like it’s painful. For me, writing is a self expression, and i feel like these criticisms always finds their way to wound my whole existence. I’m getting better and critically filtering the feedback and using it for good, but what can I do to not take it personally and to lessen the initial pain?
Taking things too personally means that your view of the situation is too narrow (Ne fail). Yes, it hurts to hear criticism, but the purpose of the criticism is to use it constructively to improve. If you feel hurt, go off and lick your wounds for a bit, and then get on with improving yourself. Feelings can't be eliminated; just let them be what they are. An important point you're missing is that improvement, progress, or growth comes at a price. The price you pay is to have your feelings hurt for a bit. Are you willing to pay? Immature INFPs aren't willing to pay because they are unrealistic and believe that life should always be easy and good things should just happen all the time.
Second, confidence. It’s the first time i share my writings with others, and I’m not confident about it. I’m usually content with them, but what if the world won’t? I know I lack confidence in general, but in this field, I’m totally beginner and my confidence level is zero, how can I keep writing and sharing, when i feel like my writing might be trash? This is affecting me negatively, I’m finding it difficult to pick a theme or an idea that interests me because i feel I’m not capable enough.
Real confidence should come with building real competence. There needs to be some tangible sign that your skill is improving. What standards/benchmarks are you using to quantify and measure your process of learning and improvement? It shouldn't be based on "feelings". It should be based on FACTS. This is something INFPs struggle with when Fi and Te are too far out of balance.
Third, I’m struggling with making my ideas clear, I receive a lot of feedback about students being confused with it. When i write for my self, i like bizarre and symbolic language, which may come up not really clear for anyone other than me. I’m trying to make it more clear, but i feel like I’m losing my authenticity in the process. How to find balance between being genuine and writing but I desire to write, and also keeping it clear for others?
Part of what makes art great is its subjectivity, how it affects the individual. It's not about writing for oneself vs writing for others. It's about being able to see your work from a variety of perspectives so that you can be more skilled at choosing the perspective you want people to use, i.e., to have greater control over how your work is perceived. Your imagination has its limits. If you don't view your work through the eyes of others, you'll never know how your work does/doesn't appeal, and you'll never be able to maximize its impact. Do you want to have such control over your work? If you do, you have to pay the price of hearing about how people view it. Once again, are you willing to pay the price?
Fourth, trusting that i will get better. When I’m really bad at something, it’s so difficult to see positive future. I want to be a better writer, but the idea that i may not keep me stuck and worries me. There’s of course a possibility, but I can’t see it clearly and this scares me. How can i have more positive attitude towards future in situations where I currently suck at it (to an extent).
See my response to point number 2. It's easier to have faith and be positive when your confidence is growing (because your competence is increasing).
Fifth, which is I believe is linked to fourth, how do i stop ideas of regret from attacking me? I’m content with this major the process of writing is really fun, but when I’m struggling, i feel like i should’ve not picked it, and then lose the desire to work.
It's GOOD to regret your mistakes, because that prompts you to learn from them and do better next time (i.e. achieve gradual, incremental progress). However, if you drown in regret and think it means you should give up on yourself, then you're getting trapped in Si loop patterns and Ne development is necessary, see the Type Dev Guide.
Sixth, editing. I do enjoy writing the first drafts, but these are rarely good. I need to edit a lot to produce a decent piece of work, but this is boring! When writing a first draft, i feel fresh and full of ideas, but when editing, i need to think through and make minor changes which can make me procrastinate a lot. How do i get my brain to use to doing this process?
If you truly believe in your work, shouldn't you believe that it deserves the effort of refinement? If you want your work to be at its best, putting time and energy into its refinement is the price you must pay. Once again, are you willing to pay the price?
Seventh, is it always the case that ideas floating in the head would look different on paper? I spend the big part of writing time imagining, and then when i finally get enough will to write, the text looks a lot worse then how I imagined it. This is causing my a big waste in time. Are there possibly better approaches?
As a writer myself, I can relate. Language has its limitations. And your skill of using language needs a lot of practice to improve over time. You can't always find the perfect way to express an idea. Turning the abstract into the concrete is no easy task. But a real writer enjoys the creative process and exploring possibilities. The process of gaining control over language and making it work in your favor is just as important as the result. If you can't enjoy the journey, you won't get to where you want to go.
Eighth, how to read objectively so i can give more effective feedback to my classmates? I usually read for pleasure and I criticise things into i like them or I don’t, which is not acceptable here. But I can’t think and provide opinions/suggestions outside of my own preferences.
This is most likely a matter of not having enough theory under your belt. There are methods of literary critique that you should learn and apply in such situations. Best to talk with your instructor or a tutor about how to learn it. When people opt to do creative writing only instead of a full program in literature, they often miss out on the theory side of things. It's important to be well-rounded in understanding how theory and practice inform each other.
Ninth, i shy. I can’t write freely when there is audience. I feel so exposed and vulnerable because, usually, what inspires me are things related to me. This link is usually implicit, and they won’t know, but i still feel like i want to hide, with my writings, in cave where no one can see. I tried to to present writing that is not at all personal, but I can’t find motivation to work on such things. Who do I get less shy? (I’m shy in general too and find it difficult to share things)
When INFPs are out of touch with Te, they don't want to accept the reality of what needs to be done for success. In order to learn something new or become something better, you have to push yourself out of your comfort zones. Staying in your comfort zone is how you get trapped in stagnation. Are you willing to pay the price for success? Motivation shouldn't come from what others do/say. Motivation should come from how badly you want to succeed.
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signedeclipse · 1 year
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Hii! I hope your matchups are still open! If so, I would like to request one. (By the way, if my English is a bit bad, it’s bcs its not my first language. So sorry!)
Im an INFP, cancer, bisexual woman. I’m 5’7 (i think lol, in meters I’m 1,69m), I have purple hair in a tomboyish sidetails hairstyle and I’m a bit chubby.
Usually I really try to talk to people when I first meet them, but it’s pretty hard for me because I tend to shut off in situations that I haven’t prepared myself for or where I’m not comfortable with. But when I like someone and want to be friends (or when I’m friends) with them, I’m really intense (ig I don’t know how to describe it), loud, and excited (which at times can be a bit much for people, so I tend to try and not do that a lot).
I’d like to say I’m a warm person, I love to tell stories to people and I love being around the people I love. But I really like to be on my own too, after a day with talking to people I adore to just close myself off and to do something on my own.
I like people who give the same energy that you give them back. I’m pretty sensitive with like how people give their energy back (bdkabdks idk if this makes sense) and so if someone that I just met doesn’t look happy if I’m talking to them or if they don’t really pay attention I will get really nervous and I would be scared to talk to them.
My hobbies are: Gaming, drawing and swimming. I’m super interested in animals and space, and I rlly love watching documentaries about those things ! I also really love supernatural things/shows (although I don’t believe in the supernatural)
My dislikes are: Running, sweating (it’s so gross and you get like icky from it and euehgghhhhh) people that smile to your face and then shit about you behind your back. I hate the last one the absolute most, like if you hate me then at least show it and don’t pretend to like me.
Well,, that’s all!! I hope you have an amazing day/night and thank you in advance <333
You got…Tanjiro!
Tanjiro is a very understanding and sensitive person to others feelings, so he always reciprocates your emotions or reactions so long as nothing is bothering him! He can't help but get excited over something you're talking about because the passion makes his heart beat faster!
He is very curious and wants to know about a lot of things he might not yet, which is why he loves it when you tell him about the cool animals he's never seen, or teach him things about the sky! He encourages you to take him stargazing and to tell him more, because he thinks the stars are very pretty and adores special times with you.
He works out a lot though, and tries to encourage you to join him for a jog! He will never force you, but still likes to see you try for a bit because it makes him feel like you really do try for him. But he will make sure to clean up and offer to clean you up too so you don't have to suffer through the sweat.
Sometimes when you tell a story, he will have one too, and so you end up in a cycle of storytelling all night long! In just a day you learn ten times what anyone else has about one another, which leads to you being very close and understanding of one another.
If you ever mention something new that you like, he'll try to make a date out of it! Do you like this food? Surprise, date at a restaurant that specialises in it! If no one nearby makes it? He'll try to do it himself!
I imagine you'd know a lot about legends and myths, which really interest Nezuko so she will come out to hear your stories! Despite what Tanjiro has seen, some of your Japanese horror stories freak him out badly...he might come up with an excuse to get something so he misses the scary parts!
Expect him to fawn over you, and to love when you fawn over him! Tanjiro will protect you, but also likes to bring you on all his missions whether you are in the corps or not. If not, he encourages you to join the kakushi!
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Authors Note - I hope you like your matchup! Also, a lot of people dont realize but I'm Canadian so I always have to translate meters into feet LOL
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hi!! could i please request a ship for either stranger things or harry potter? whatever you prefer or think fits better!!
i'm lexi, i'm 19 she/her, and i prefer to be matched with men. i'm just under 5'4 and i'm a little chubby. i have black/very dark brown hair, tan skin, and blue/grey eyes. i lean toward a more grunge/midwest emo style.
i'm pretty shy at first and also quite a bit anxious and depressed, so i require a lot of patience and attention, but i can be really sweet and fun. i worry a LOT and need reassurance. i'm really good at school, but not much else these days.
i like giving gifts, animals (i'm a zoology major in college), music (especially alternative varieties), coffee (i'm a barista), smoking, the stars, and romantic stuff. i dislike loud noises, being made to feel stupid, and disappointing people.
i'm a virgo, an infp, and a slytherin. as previously mentioned, i love gift giving, but quite frankly, i love all of the love languages and need all of it to feel happy and secure.
thank you so so much and i'm looking forward to this!! :D
Your match for Stranger Things is... Steve Harrington!
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Song: 4 Real - Avril Lavigne
Asks you stupid ass questions about zoology. "Where does a snake keep its eggs before to lay them? Is it like some sort of pregnancy or something?" Please Harrington 🙄 (fun fact: I searched for a video on YouTube out of curiosity and funnier fact: I have phobia of snakes).
Smoking cigarettes and stargazing on the roof at 3 a.m. with Robin (whenever she's not heavy asleep because most of the time she is). Oh and Dustin wanted to try smoking, but you guys didn't let him to ofc.
He loves how patient you are with your friends and the kids and making beautiful gifts to them on their birthday, Christmas, whatever.
You guys met at the bar where you work, he was complaining about being tired of Robin always complaning about him and you complained about how bored you were that day and from that a conversation was born. He came back to the bar a few days later and you guys decided to exchange phone numbers to talk also out of your jobs.
Your match for Harry Potter is... Draco Malfoy!
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Song: Believer - Imagine Dragons
Slytherin lovebirds ofc! This makes me think of Pansy as jealous of you because you got to be in a relationship with the boy she always wanted, but had no balls to tell him her feelings.
You were shy at first, so he though you were weak, but then he saw you getting along with other people and how you turn into a total different person once you get more confident, so he decided to give you a try.
He wanted to reject you first as he though you weren't his type, but in the end he decided to give you a chance asking you out for the Yule Ball. He enjoyed your company and you eventually ended up together.
He makes sure Tiger and Goyle aren't too loud and noisy around you.
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funkymbtifiction · 3 years
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Hello. I have a few odd questions after reading this post I hope that’s alright. INFP said “When I do have feelings for somebody, I love them so deeply that I find it almost impossible to ignore that intensity” and that they’re miserable if they approach relationships ‘pragmatically’ i.e. no attraction and chemistry. So would that mean that high Fi users would be unlikely to do blind dates, arranged marriages (like in Islam where it’s believed love is comes after marriage, would they be miserable like this and unable to fall in love most of the time?), or even to believe in the “well give them a chance, you never know” approach because of Fi?
History stretches way back and often in it, people did not marry for love -- that is a relatively new concept. IFPs in some situations have zero control over their life choices -- in certain cultures and religious establishments, your parents and/or “elders” choose your spouse for you and you don’t have a say. That does not automatically mean you won’t fall in love with your partner/spouse, but it also doesn’t mean you will. In a free society with the benefit of choice, a lot of FP types would say they would rather fall in love than get married for practical reasons. And yet... aren’t all relationships eventually in some sense “practical”? People find people for many reasons -- some of them because they want to fall in love, some of them because they’re afraid to be alone, others because they are lonely. Your motivations are probably derived from your core Enneagram type, more than your personality type -- but a Fi also is miserable, as various posts have pointed out, trying to “force” feelings. The higher the Te, the more able they would be to rationalize with themselves about it, but it’s still ultimately true that Fi does or does not love someone, and cannot force chemistry. I’ve seen FPs be open to blind dates, etc., as long as the ultimate choice is theirs -- and others who refuse to do any such thing. It’s all dependent on them as individuals, what they want for their life, and through what means. I do think, however, the “well, I’ll give them a chance” is more EFP than IFP. IFPs usually know quicker how they feel about someone, and if it’s a no-go, it’s over. It also relates to being sx-blind. Soc wants to bond and forge a relationship, sp wants to nest and grow old together, sx wants raw intensity and friction.
Is this approach to love a high Fe/Te way? <- no, an FJ may also want love or say no to an arranged marriage or a blind date or not care at all.
Would sx-dom high Fe/Te user feel the same way as this because of sx?
Sx is looking for sexual intensity and attraction -- sometimes Lust.
And does this mean that high Fi and sx-doms would be the type to love the most “deeply” then?
What does love mean to you and how do you measure it? To me, love is being willing to stay with someone even when it’s hard, when you have to take care of them while they battle cancer and have nothing to say to you, because they are up at 2am puking their guts out in the toilet -- and you wish you could save them from that pain, because it puts you in literal physical agony to see them suffer. To me, love can mean sending your kid to rehab so they don’t wind up dead of an overdose. It can mean caring about someone enough to walk out of their life, because you realize they are better off without you, that you bring out the worst in them or cause them too much pain. To me, true love is unselfish, and cares more about what is best for the object of their love, than what they want. Is that deep love? Possibly. But it’s not the “consume you alive” kind of love that a lot of movies and books glamorizes, is it?
Basically I’m asking - people love differently right, some fall in love fast and others take more time, some fall in love 'pragmatically’ and others are guided by their feelings, some root their romantic relationships in friendship and familiarity and through that experience love and others base it in chemistry and sex appeal, so does the way we love and experience love correlate with our types and social instincts? How?
I imagine it does, but you’re asking me to compress all of humanity and its complexity into a single answer -- and there is none. I would say heart types make decisions through their feelings, head types try to make them with their head, and gut types operate off of instinct. I know an ESFJ/INTP who got married after their first date (a week later) -- though they had worked with each other for six months. They’re now 40 years into marriage and have been through hell and back, health-wise, without ever making a misstep. I’ve known other couples who dated FOREVER before finally getting married. I’ve seen people hop in and out of marriages and relationships, never seeming satisfied. Are some combos more pragmatic? Yes. Are some more restless? Yes. But that does not automatically mean they will do/not do certain things.
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hwangsbbg · 3 years
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hii ! i was wondering if i could get an nct/ateez/the boyz nsfw ship ? tysm !
a little about me: i’m 19, a leo, 185 cm tall which is about 6’1 i believe. I have medium length dark brown hair with lighter tips (a wolfcut !), light brown eyes, a button nose, small but full lips and slightly pointy ears. i’m on the thicker side and have a slight hourglass figure. i love styling outfits for fun btw ! my mbti is infp/entp (it changes but i’m an ambivert essentially) i work in a cafe atm and its really fun to come up with new drinks (karen’s are not a highlight of my job though 😭) further my hobbies include dancing, listening to music, reading books, doing makeup looks and cooking.
as for kinks and stuff: i’m a switch (leaning sub) i have a huge mirror kink, i’m also into breath play, light degradation, praise, hair pulling/restraining, i like teasing/ being teased in the bedroom and kinda love it when a dom is smaller then me ? since i’m pretty tall for a girl i get the opposite of a power trip idk- (idrc care abt height tho) i think that’s about it, i hope you have a great day/night !!
Hey babes! So for NCT I was thinking Jeno?
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I feel like not only does he match your vibe but he also fits the kinks you mentioned. I see Jeno as more of a dominant kind of guy almost all the time but on some occasions like if he's tired and came back from practice he'd let you take control, watch you ride him or just pleasure him. I see you as someone who receives pleasure from giving pleasure and who gets off on compliments so he'd really love that part of you and it drives him crazy thinking about how you love to please him. I can imagine him constantly throwing praises left and right whenever the two of you do anything, knowing how much it turns you on.
Joker card : your romantic date with Jeno quickly turned into you on your knees and him leaning against the wall, your names and a string of praises falling from his mouth as you sucked him off. He'd have to use every bit of self control to not thrust into your mouth and let you do the work but with his grip on your hair tightening you would be able to tell how close he was. And deciding to tease him at that moment might not have been the best idea because boy were you in for a ride...
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As for Ateez, I think you would go well with Seonghwa.
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Please Seonghwa is so hot and would be such a good fit for you because he's literally the softest dom. Like he can be kinky as fuck but he'd never forget to tell you how pretty you were or compliment you, tell you how great you were doing. I feel like he'd get really turned on by the smallest of things like if you happened to dress a little provocatively and whatnot.
Joker card : you were visiting Seonghwa at the practice room and one thing led to another, you found yourself pressed up against the practice room mirror, the glass foggy with both of your breathing. He'd have one hand on the mirror steadying himself with the other around your throat as he pounded into you. As you both began to reach your highs he'd probably grab a fistful of your hair and tug it to pull your head up, ordering you to look at how fucked out you looked, how fucked out he made you.
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The Boyz was a hard one but I think Hyunjae.
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I imagine Hyunjae to be a major tease. Like I see him as a switch but definitely dom leaning. I feel like he'd find it amusing how easily he could rile you up and it would become his favorite thing, purposefully touching you in places he knows would incite a reaction out of you and then act innocent about it. I see him as the kind of guy who would have a corruption kink and would absolutely love seeing you dressed up for him.
Joker card: he'd have your hands tied up with like a belt or makeshift rope as his hands roamed your body, taking all his time. He'd tell you to shut up and be a good little slut for him as the other members were right next door before he went down on you. Hyunjae was really good with his tongue but he'd get a kick out of watching you squirming around, about to reach your high and pulling away.
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Good evening my liege! 💖 I was intrigued to find out about you while diving deeper into tumblr hell so, I am here with a plead to ship me with nct and svt, of you'd be so kind ✨
Alright so for starters, I'm an infp! I'm a generally well-mannered person with people I meet for the first time, borderline sweet and awkward at the same time. I like not to overinvest in first meetings with people and sometimes I think I am somewhat defensive of myself. My emotions always show on my face, both the good and the bad ones. So if someone does say something that I find offensive or whatnot, it SHOWS. I generally hate rude and offensive people all together, as well as people who are vulgar if we're not well acquainted first.
I'm not good at starting conversations and I usually just tend to listen to my friends talk most of the time. It's not like I have nothing to say but I really like listening to my favorite people ramble on about things they love or generally talk about their lives. Im a pretty good listener and I am always objective, even with my family. I won't hold back and I will give you my honest opinion in every case. I always try to see from all perspectives, maybe that's why I'm often somewhat indecisive.
That being said, I really don't shut up about things I love or my hobbies. I'm usually the mood maker of the group as I hate conflict and tension. I am a very sarcastic and cynical person in general and that reflects on my humor, which can vary from vulgar to very dark and inappropriate. Yes, the type of person that will try to hold in their laughter cause I made a mental joke to a funeral. I love witty, stimulating and deep conversations. I'm not that big on casual chitchat but it's okay most of the time I guess.
I'm the personification of open-minded and im also quite opinionated and I can back up my arguments if needed but I tend to avoid getting into heated conversations cause again, my mind reads it as tension. I love being around friends doing nothing and everything but most of the time, I find alone time to be very healing for my mind and soul. I find authenticity and weird little quirks that people have extremely attractive. I'm somewhat stubborn as well.
I also used to have stress and anxiety issues, not anything serious but enough that I had trouble sleeping at night. It was just a few years ago that I decided to not care about every single thing and have a more of a "fuck that" approach in life and honestly, I've never imagined that it would be so liberating. I regained my confidence, physically and mentally, it was an empowering process! I really do believe that self-exploring and healing is the no1 most important thing that someone can do. Love yourself first and foremost and fck what anybody thinks.
So, moving on xD I am a romantic and soft deep down, even though I try not to show sad emotions when around people. But you can be sure I cry at random rescuing dog videos, or videos with people helping each other. I love humanity but hate it at the same time? 😂 Idk if that makes sense, it is what I feel lol I love to learn new random stuff! I'm currently studying linguistics and uni and I aim to be a translator or interpreter, cause i love languages and the cultural differences that come with it. Hence my undying love for music of different genres and languages! Music relaxes me and I couldn't imagine going on without it for more than 3 days. While I do tend to listen to kpop which is more upbeat and experimental, I also LOVE Latin music and rock. I love love traveling around the world! My hobbies include drawing which I'm self taught, fashion and creative writing! I tend to daydream A LOT during the day and so many ideas pop up in my head. I love exploring other cultures' religions and beliefs as well as mythology. I always found it fascinating. I love plants as well! My room is basically a garden xD I also love mystical but also borderline creepy and gory stuff xD I call skulls "pretty" the same way I would call a puppy "cute" 🤣 I'm aware οf that but I can't help but enjoy the look of horror in people's faces xD
oh, I really enjoy observing people as well! Not in a weird way! Their mannerisms, the way they speak, their features. I also love thriller and horror movies the most as well as dark social drama ones. You know, with murders, suicides etc I like how in even the tiniest ways they depict our society as people and frankly, it's sad but I try to be optimistic and keep a positive approach in life. I also really appreciate stand-up comedy xD
Closing up this huge essay, some last things xD I, and I cannot stress this enough, am unable to flirt. Like at all. I can't even maintain eye contact for more than two Seconds. I wish I was kidding. Sadly I'm not 😂Weird thing is, turns out I am actually able to flirt but I'm not aware I'm doing it?? I'm a master at text flirting apparently lololol. What I am, is also called DENSE AS SHIT when it comes to couple things. True story, if you want to do the freaky with your s/o and you need me to leave the room you better TELL ME RIGHT TO MY FACE or else, we gon be there aaaaall night xD And its actually a remarkable feature of mine, considering how dirty minded I usually am lol
I also think I'm touch starved sometimes, like I really like hugs and cuddling and teasing but I'm not gonna ask for it🥺I'm a night owl and I tend to procrastinate a lot. I can't work efficiently if there's not a deadline, like I need that pressure on me in order to function xD My weak spot is actually to act whiny and needy and cutely in front of me. I can do ANYTHING that u ask me of when this happens. And if I show any resistance, JUST KEEP IT UP. I'm jelly on the floor when this happens. Idfk why, it just works?? My sister is abusing the sht out of this method 😭I can't say I make friends easily, cause I believe I do come off as maybe off-putting or weird at times, plus as I said if you're really cant shove your conversation in my face the first time we meet, imma be just an awkward ball of giggles and smiles and "can I go home now pls" 🤣 My general aesthetic / vibes would be sunsets on beaches, soft grunge, cottage core, lofi and hedge witch aesthetics!
Okay so, I think that's everything and probably way more than u needed, so thank you for reading everything my stupid ass wrote❤️
hi! thank you for responding!
for nct, i think yuta would be a nice fit! yuta also likes rock as his favorite band is one ok rock which is a rock band. i feel like you guys would always listen to music (not always rock) and would enjoy making time go by like this!
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for seventeen, i think you would match well with the8! the8 would be the type to enjoy exploring new cultures with you and new religions, he would also love to dress up with you and put together outfits with you!
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bbugyu · 3 years
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hii i know this is SUPER random but can u talk about seungcheol a bit.....? like i just LOVE the way u talk abou the members..... it can be anything.... like idk i just feel happy in some type of way.....? im so sorry that this is weird and confuse 🥺😪
OFC I CAN TALK ABOUT SEUNGCHEOL OMG i barely ever talk about him (bc i have . brainrot abt other members) but seriously i think seungcheol is one of the sweetest loveliest people in the world so . i’ll just do a lil personality analysis about him!
so cheol is an infp, which is the same as dk! i really truly believe infps are natural born leaders because of how devoted and sensitive to other ppl they are - cheol is a leader by example!!! he works the hardest and encourages others and when others see how much he cares and how loyal he is they want to do the same. the reason u dont see seokmin and cheol as similar personalities is completely from their zodiac sign i think (aquarius vs leo), so lets talk about how being a leo effects cheol's mbti!!!
leos are by nature a lil attention driven, but this isn't a bad thing!!! you can tell by the way cheol talks to carats that he can be super confident, always teasing and telling them to confirm how much they love him, but when someone gives him genuine praise out of pocket he gets SUPER SHYYY like he goes 😳 and then lAUGHS all embarrassed he is SOOO CUTE!!! like, he WANTS attention and praise, but hes still a fucking infp (chronic inferiority complex) so he doesnt??? think he deserves it???? which only makes him work HARDER because he desperately WANTS to believe he’s deserving but he doesnt!!! think he is! BUT HE IS HE IS SO DESERVING I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
infps naturally are super interested in the thoughts and feelings of others, which means he’s super good at listening. he genuinely hears others complaints and struggles and comiserates and comforts i really beliege seungcheol would be like the best big brother ever because he just really LOVES and he would lay down his life if it meant that you wouldn’t have to be hurt anymore. he’s also really good at letting others take the stage and be the center of attention for a while. when he’s confident, he’s SUPER CONFIDENT, but when he’s nervous, you can really tell. he speaks so well though!!! super diplomatic and so well thought out. sometimes he gets flustered and doesn’t know what to say (ex. every ment and every concert SDFHGSDH), but he uses that to alleviate some of the tension!!! like he’ll be like “idk what im saying rn” and laugh and all the other members laugh with him and encourage him and help him finish his thought AAHGFDSHFD god i love him
i also think cheol gets offended really easily, but the people around him have gotten really used to the way he takes things and have adjusted the way they speak to him to accommodate? this isn’t a bad thing! i think because he never seriously gets mad (it’s always joking yelling) it’s made others become more sensitive to the way others react to what they say, and in turn has made them better! yet another reason seungcheol is the best leader ever
i kinda hate talking about this because i hate projecting my mental illness onto real people but i feel its kinda important so... feel free to stop here! 
tw // anxiety (but with a happy ending?)
he internalizes a lot of his struggle (good ol introverted feelers!) and i think that scares him a lot sometimes, but you can tell that in just the last year that he’s learned to lean on his friends a little more. i love him so much i really hope he’s doing okay 😭 i don’t want to talk to much about mental illness because that’s a super not cool move but as someone who was diagnosed with gad when i was 11, watching older videos of him is like almost triggering because i recognize so many of my own defense mechanisms in the way he reacts to criticism and it HURTS. i really TRULY TRULY believe he’s gotten better, though, and so much of that has to do with the bond svt has and how they’ve been able to encourage him and talk to him. you see a lot of the anxiety celebrities have stemming from not being able to relate to anyone and feeling like you can’t complain because there’s so many incredible things about the job, but cheol has 12 brothers that know exactly what he’s going through. i can’t imagine how comforting that must be 😭
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theyscreamjade · 3 years
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Hiiii are you still accepting matchups?🥺 If not pls ignore me. I’m Yan and I identify as she/her. I’m an INFP and a Leo. I’m usually quiet and easygoing but once I get comfortable you need to duck tape me up bc I physically can’t shut up😃 To my close friends I’m an attention whore. I need that shit 24/7 or I will pass away. I will send you essays at 3 am analyzing the new show/book I’m interested in. I also have no filter. I cry really easily. I’m usually passive but if someone tries to take advantage of me or my friend I get really crazy😋 I’m borderline Cupid bc I helped so many of my mutual friends hook up🥰 Some days I wake up and think I’m god’s gift to humanity and other days I wake up feeling like shit👹 I blame all of my problems on capitalism. Its the root of all evil🥱 I really like traveling and trying new things, but I lose interest in new hobbies very quickly.
Match Up # 8
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I hereby ship you with Sero Hanta
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Now, Here me out. I thought about this and he just constantly came into my mind over and over again.
I believe Sero’s like Prince Charming with tape elbows because he will treat you like the princess or prince you are. Love with Sero is extremely attentive, cute and passionate and will leave you wanting more. It’s intoxicating and seems illegal but it’s so fucking right and it’s worth it every time.
His personality is of course, Chill, relaxed and laid back, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t give attention to the person he loves. He’ll hold you on his lap anywhere and hold you as close as he could while you laughed and giggled from his love. His kisses are beautiful works of art that’ll leave you breathless. I don’t care, he gives me that vibe so hard that I see it.
You, Sero, Denki and Mina are a dangerous group because you four always try to get people together while you’re the supposed ringleader of the group. He loves how you’re always asking him for advice to what would be good for your friends and he’ll give his honest opinion. When you actually use it, honey. He appreciates that. Wake him up at 3 about a essay of a book, send him random pictures of if you can’t sleep, this simp will read, respond or leave his bed to just come into yours and hold you until you’re sleeping his arms.
You’ll never ever cry, not a single tear will ever shed from your eyes. If you’re having a bad day, he’ll do whatever to make your day better and if you’re having a good day, imagine those mirrors selfies of how fucking cute y’all would look together with your gorgeous ass with him.
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thesunnyshow · 4 years
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Name: Emmy
Writing Blog URL(s): @pastelsicheng​
What fandom(s) do you write for?: NCT
Age: 19
Nationality: Canadian
Languages: fluent-ish in English, French, Urdu, Hindi, Pujarati, Punjabi, Arabic (listed in order from languages I can speak/read/write in, to languages I can't write/read/speak but can understand)
Star Sign: Aries
MBTI: INFP-T
Favorite color: I like most colours but I always just say purple 
Favorite food: Khow Suey. Idk how to describe it in English but it’s like noodles that you mix with like thick yellow curry and chicken tarkari, and you can put fried onions on top and what I call samosa crumbs (basically the crunchy dough you use for samosas, it’s like the dough fried alone and you just crush it and put it on top), and I add a bit of ketchup too cause its noodles and it's so good
Favorite ice cream flavor: Cookies and cream, or just basic french vanilla
Favorite animal: I love most of them hahah but I will say elephants
Coffee or tea? What are you ordering?: Coffee most likely but I love tea more
Dream job (whether you have a job or not): Open my own cafe
If you could have one superpower, what would you choose?: Control time
If you could restart your life, knowing what you do now, would you?: No thank you I don't want to live through this again
Would you rather fight 100 chicken-sized horses or one horse-sized chicken?: 100 chicken-sized horses because I heard chickens eat people so uhhh no thanks 
If you were a trope in a teen high school movie, what would you have been?: The overachieving nerd/student council president. That’s literally what I was
Do you believe in aliens/supernatural creatures?: Yes. Aliens and ghosts and demons, they’re all real. Not fairies and vampires and werewolves tho. 
Do you have a role model? If so, who?: There’s definitely people I look up to and try to learn from for various things, but I don’t think I have like one solid role model
Fun fact about yourself that not everyone would know?: I used to be a tomboy when I was a kid, and probably still am deep inside
When did you post your first piece? 
January 2020
Why did you start writing on Tumblr? 
I found it easier to gain feedback and find an audience of readers on Tumblr, plus the site was just easier for me to navigate compared to like Wattpad
Do you write fluff/angst/crack/general/smut, combo, etc? Why? 
I write anything I feel like writing, and am open to trying new stuff. I just won’t write smut. I don’t feel comfortable writing or reading it
Do you write OCs, X Readers, Ships...etc?
I write x readers
Who is your favorite person to write about?
I don’t have a favourite person, mainly because I pick people based on who I think would fit a certain concept best. I guess my favourite would be y/n LOL because y/n is in every fic and I put myself into their character.
What inspires you to write?
I just like writing. I get a lot of ideas of stuff I want to write, and as a kid I wanted to be an author, but that obviously isn’t happening anytime soon so I just write fanfics. They’re easier to write because characters are already developed for you, and they don’t have a word limit to how long and short they need to be compared to actual OC fics
What genres/AUs do you enjoy writing the most?
Anything that relates to normal people, I enjoy writing. I like to insert my own experiences and thoughts in my stories so I write scenarios that I can imagine myself in or things I’ve experienced already, stuff like that
What do you hope your readers take away from your work?
I just want them to enjoy what I write. I’d like for my fics to be memorable, but idk if they are lol
What do you do when you hit a rough spot creatively?
I just don’t write. It’s bad but I don’t want to write something that I don’t like so I don’t force myself to write when I don’t feel like it. If it takes me months to get out of that rough spot, then oh well. I don’t want to force myself to do anything that would make me hate writing, since it's one of the only few hobbies of mine.
What is your favorite work and why? Your most successful?
Most successful is murder replay. My favourite is an unreleased fic that I’m still working on. It’s pretty self-indulgent, and I talk about internal conflict with sexuality and not knowing what you really want, alongside being insecure and having mental illnesses. It’s angsty but it’s one of my favourites because of how much of myself I’ve poured into it
Do you think there’s a difference between writing fanfiction vs. completely original prose? 
It’s the same. Aside from the character being a real life person, fanfiction is the exact same as prose because it’s completely original ideas and thoughts, completely original sentences, and in general just the exact same as original prose. There’s like no difference.
What do you think makes a good story?
A writer who enjoys what they’re doing. It doesn’t matter your skill level or your language skills, or whatever. If you are passionate about what you write, then it will be evident in the story, and it will be a great story. There’s other things like the story idea and genre, but that’s all dependent on the reader. What I think makes a good story is different from what someone else thinks makes a good story. But in general, it’s the author that makes it good. You can tell if the writer really liked what they were doing, or if they were just writing for the sake of throwing words on a document and then calling it a day.
What is your writing process like?
Get an idea. Make a doc with that idea. Either immediately try and develop details, or leave the idea as is for months, maybe years. After developing the details, write the beginning of the fic, a few scenes I really liked, and then call it a day and never open the document for a few months again lol. Then I wait until I’m in the mood to write for that specific fic, and then I will write as much as I can. Finishing fics is a struggle, I’ve yet to finish my longer ones lol. I have a terrible writing process. The only way I really finish is if I already told my followers i will post it and theyre all waiting for it. Then I feel bad leaving people hanging and so it motivates me to finish. But yeah once I actually finish it, I throw it into grammarly and some other editors, fix stuff up, and publish.
Would you ever repurpose a fic into a completely original story?
Doubt it. Once I’m done with a fic, I’m done. I don’t really want to go back and change anything. Even the longer fics that I love, I get sick of them and so I just dont want to touch them once they're done.
What tropes do you love, and what tropes can’t you stand?
I’m a huge sucker for childhood best friends to lovers lol. I have gushed about this on my blog a few times. Just the fact that you know someone for that long, and even been through arguments and times of not talking to each other, just to still come back to each other, thats real love even if its platonic. I’m just a sucker for that stuff. I also really enjoy anything that I, as a normal person, can relate to so high school AUs, college AUs, platonic AUs, anything real life based. There’s no tropes that I can’t stand, just tropes I don’t find interest in or don’t read much.
How much would you say audience feedback/engagement means to you? 
Depends on how long i took to write the fic. If it’s a short piece ranging between a few hundred words to maybe a couple thousand words then I don’t really care much because chances are I didn’t take long to write it. My pieces that are longer than 5k, I care about because those are usually the ones more close to my heart, and the ones I spent way more time than necessary working on. Even just one reader telling me they enjoyed my story makes my day 
What has been one of the biggest factors of your success (of any size)?
I know murder replay which is my current biggest story blew up, and I feel like part of it was because of the frequent updating I did. I kept a schedule and made sure to stick with it, even changing parts of the story to fit feedback from readers. Consistency was definitely key, and also engaging with readers. Replying to all their reblogs even if it was just tags they added, constantly expressing how grateful I am, stuff like that because it makes people feel that they’re validated as well. And I guess the general idea/trope of the fic was interesting to people too
Do you think fanfic writers get unfairly judged?
Yeah lol. It’s definitely something I hide from everyone I know in real life because I dont want to be looked down on. 
Do you think art can be a medium for change?
Yes!! Art defies boundaries set by language, especially visual art. Stories are a good way to express things to people who don’t understand why something is the way it is, it’s literally what has been done by humans since the start of time. We pass down stories explaining things. 
Do you ever feel there are times when you’re writing for others, rather than yourself?
Yeah, sometimes when I felt really burnt out, I felt I had to post an update or something just so that my followers got what they kinda signed up for when they followed me. It was partially just the pressure I put onto myself I guess because my followers are always supportive and understanding when I say I cant post an update. I’d also say in general there’s a part of me that wants to write for others too. I would be lying if I said I only write for myself because that’s not true. The whole reason I write and post is because I want some reader interaction and feedback, and if I truly did only write for myself I wouldn’t be posting.
Do you ever feel like people have misunderstood you or your writing at times? 
Not yet! And I hope I don’t have to experience that lol
Do your offline friends/loved ones know you write for Tumblr?
Nope. No one does. It’s something I wanna keep to myself. Even some of my other internet friends don’t know.
What is one thing you wish you could tell your followers?
I purposely send a bunch of messages because I feel bad leaving people on read so I just keep sending hearts and stuff to express my love but also just so that you can end the convo when you feel like.
Do you have any advice for aspiring writers who might be too scared to put themselves out there?
Go for it! It might be scary to get criticism, but I promise there are way more nice people on Tumblr than there are mean people. In fact I haven’t even interacted or met with a mean anon or person on here yet. Also the only way to really start is to go for it. I get anxious too every time I post something, even now, and honestly its just a feeling ya know. Its just chemicals in your body. So don’t stress, and if you always need someone to boost your ego and promote your work you have me! 
Are there any times when you regret joining Tumblr? 
Nope
Do you have any mutuals who have been particularly formative/supportive in your Tumblr journey? 
The memorable ones are Mimu, Nini, Gwen, Philo, and Krystal who were supportive of murder replay. Also sunflower anon and peace sign anon, and recently Jo has been really supportive.
Pick a quote to end your interview with
“...the universe is basically like a machine. I don’t know who made it, if it was the Fates, or the gods, or capital-G God, or whatever. But it chugs along the way it’s supposed to most of the time. Sure, little pieces break and stuff goes haywire once in a while, but mostly . . . things happen for a reason.” Leo Valdez in The House of Hades (so technically Riordan lol)
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edengarden · 3 years
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HEYO BBY 😎 im finally here! U can do a regular matchup or any that u feel more comfortable with!
So starting with basics: im 5'4; Gryffindor; sun Leo rising Gemini and moon Aries; my mtbi type is INFP-T; my love language is Quality Time;
I think my three main qualities are: I'm patient and understanding, I'm very loyal and I can see good things in everyone!
My three flaws are: I'm SOOO insecure, I'm too clingy and I'm too perfectionist
My hobbies are writing, reading, listen to music and drawn! I watch animes too, my music taste is very big, I like Ariana Grande, Beyonce, Imagine Dragons, David Bowie (thanks to u my darling), Frank Ocean, JUNNA, LiSa, Tyler The Creator, Leah Kate, etc. But my fav song is Achilles Come Down – Gang of Youths.
I think the trait i hate the most in people is that type of ppl who think ur achievements arent big just because they dont look big, and the ones who only know how to see the flaws in smthing!
Facts about me: i luv cats (my fav is Maine Coon), i luv potato, i hate onions, my favorite food is fried chicken, one of my dreams is to travel the world, i love history and arts, i hate math, i think that bonds of friendship can be stronger than family bonds, I love to read about what other people love, I get so hyped when someone asks me about my fav character or song or idk anything i love, I strongly believe that violence isn't the answer for anything, I love indie games, I have a bunch of teddy bears in my room, my favorite aesthetic is dark academia, i LOVE short hair, I have a hoodie that I use everywhere bcuz its from my favorite RPG, talking about it I love RPG
I think thats it bub! If u have a question u can sent me!
FIRST: sksksks you’re a gryffindor I can’t believe we have a slytherin-gryffindor friendship going on that’s iconic
Second: lmaoo Atsumu was out the window as soon as you started describing yourself bby we been knew
Third: IM A DARK ACADEMIA BITCH TOO ALSKDJDHJSJA
Fourth: I,,, I tried so freaking hard,, to find someone else,, bc I wanted to be impartial and tRUST ME I WAS FUCKING IMPARTIAL ON MY BULLSHIT but it’s just too good,, forgive mother for I have sinned—
I MATCH YOU UP WITH NISHINOYA
Now listen up you fucker, it’s YOUR FAULT for making your description so compatible with him!! (But honestly you sound just as compatible for Hinata and Inuoka, you just attract those rays of sunshine istg)
First of all; you’re patient?? It’s the number one requirement to be Noya’s s/o?? Also seeing the good in everyone!! I think it also means that you have a really optimistic side that could help Noya a LOT. Boy tends to get swept away by emotions please remind him of the positive stuff from time to time.
Also perfectionism?? With Noya, it’s gone. You KNOW he’s bound to screw something up, but does he care? Unless it’s Volleyball, not really dude. And i think that’s good for you! Sometimes, your best isn’t as high as other times and that’s okay! I think Noya really grasps that concept so any victory, no matter the size, is a victory for him and he hella hopes it’s a victory for you too! Clingy?? What does that mean?? Boy has no idea, he just knows the two of you are joined at the hip. You, Tanaka and him are the best and worst trio to ever walk this earth. God forbid you all went to Karasuno together istg-
And pfft travelling the world?? That’s done and done with Noya, we both know that. Y’all come back hella broke, but even that can’t destroy Nishinoya’s mood because he did all of that with you and got so many good memories!! He swore that he’d never, ever delete any of the pictures, even if they’re blurry or just things he thought were funny at 2 AM.
Overall, I seriously think the two of you are the kind of couple that can get passed anything because 1) you compliment each other so well yet have a lot of similarities and 2) you just?? Enjoy life?? Like you’re supposed to?? And that’s amazing.
Nishinoya could be the poorest man on earth, but if you’re by his side, then he’ll think he’s the luckiest on earth.
Songs!!
- It’s a Hard Life, Queen
- Chilly Down, David Bowie (when I say this is your theme song... THIS IS YOUR THEME SONG. This shit is the We Wreck Shit And We’re Gonna Take Off Your Head For Fun vibe, they’re the fuckin fire gang and so are you. Add Tanaka if you want, this shit is yours and Nishinoya’s VIBE.)
- Hey Ya!, Outkast (again, Wrecking Shit Vibe, but this song just puts Noya in a good mood dude)
- Station to Station, David Bowie (I don’t know why, but “thIs IsnT The SidE EfFecTs Of ThE CoCaINE” playing while you do something hella risky and stupid while Noya cheers you on is a wholeass mood)
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Myers Brigg personalities to ML characters
@loosescrewslefty and I started talking about it last night, and our findings. 
Core aspects and their traits.
Extrovert (E): get energy from others, flourish around others, sociable, involved with the outside world; approachable, can make many friends and keep those friendships
Introvert (I): get energy from alone time, needs solitude to recharge, involved in the inner world, introspective; can hold onto a few friendships, rather not be among big crowds (doesn’t mean they’re shy) 
Sensing (S): live in the now, practical, take in facts, realistic, use their senses than gut feeling
Intuition (N): live in the future, dreamers, creative, imaginative, sees many possibilities, relies on instinct or gut feeling 
Thinking (T): logical, rational, dedicated, ruled by their head, objective takes priority over others
Feeling (F): emotional, empathetic, ruled by their heart, take in others feelings when making a decision 
Judging (J): the planner, organizer, dedicated, sees tasks to completion, work before play, responsible, quick to act and quick to plan
Perceiving (P): flexible, spontaneous, starts tasks but not big on finishing, play before work, less responsible, not so quick to act or plan 
Marinette, ENFJ (the protagonist/teacher)
This personality is very empathetic and ruled by their heart; they go out of their way to help others and involve themselves in others problems, and because they can be easy and inspiring leaders, its easy for others to follow them and feel encouraged to grow and change. Intuitive and judging, this personality is a planner and dreamer that has plans for their future, knowing what they want and having a goal to reach. And being dedicated and responsible, they have high chances of achieving their desires. 
Their flaws can stem from being ruled by their heart too much; when they take on issues for others, those issues becomes their’s, and any faults in a situation they feel is their own failure, even when it actually isn’t. And being dreamers, they can loose touch with the present, can miss or overlook important details. And as planners, they can get stressed and anxious about things not going as expected, derailing their carefully crafted plans. 
Adrien ESFP (the entertainer) 
Known to be playful, showy, are happy to be around others, live very much in the now and don't care as much about making plans for the future. They like having a hands on experience, being spontaneous and flexible. They're usually good at picking up issues and know what to say to support and reassure others. And at their core, they love to put on a good show, for audience or friends, they relish the attention and awe. 
Their flaws are sensitivity, this personality doesn’t handle criticism well, and a desire for harmony, to a point that they’ll avoid conflict and confrontation. Sometimes they’ll even deny unpleasantness or the truth, especially if they cast a dark cloud. These personalities can also be easily bored and can’t stand strict schedules and struggle with long term focus. They like their lives to be flexible and spontaneous. 
Alya ESTP (the dynamo) 
Thrillseeker, adventurer, risk taker; they're energetic, playful, optimistic, bold, direct, like to live life on the fly, and are the life of the party. If there's a chance for a spotlight, they'll go for it or recommend their quieter/shy friend. They're quick to assess and quick to respond, and prefer to fix mistakes on the way. 
They live by their moral compass and apply it to others, not realizing that not all have the same view. They can be judgmental, impatient, lack structure, can fear commitment, and miss the bigger picture. They can struggle with rules and confinement, unable to focus when they feel restricted. 
Nino ISFJ (defender) 
This personality is a nurturer, loyal, practical, and compassionate. They have a strong desire to provide for those they care about, and are devoted to a small handful, though they are friendly with many they encounter. They have a deep sense of responsibility, like having a sense of structure, and are very grounded. They see to it that tasks get done and are very reliable. 
They can be resistant to change or anything not working out how they expect or want it to. They can hold grudges and be bitter when wronged, and can take things too personally. 
Kagami ENTJ (commander) 
They like to make connections, to be involved, to push people forward to grow, and to step up into a position of command. But they struggle to express themselves emotionally and can be tactless with others feelings, making them seem cold and harsh. 
They are logical and organized, taking in facts before them to base their judgement. But, they are also dreamers, and get locked in their ideals and what they expect to be their future; only what they expect isn’t always the case and it can be hard for them to realize this and learn to let go and move on. They can have a very big “it’s my way or the highway” attitude. 
Luka INFP (mediator/healer) 
Imaginative idealist, they live by their core values and beliefs. They are sensing, caring, and compassionate. While they can dream of the future and see possibilities, they also very much live in the now and focus on any issues that need to be attended to. They are nonjudgmental and patient, and believe everyone needs to find their own path, and like to move at their own pace themselves, especially to go with the flow and what comes their way. 
They can be hard to get to know, very private and reserved. And ruled by their heart, they can be too selfless, giving up too much for those they care about, and can be impractical, not initiating and missing out on opportunities. 
Felix INTJ (mastermind) 
Often referred to as the “bookworm”, they go through life viewing it as a chessboard, are capable of deep elaborate planning and strategy, prefer solitude. They have low expectations in people and are extremely picky about their company. If you can meet them intellectually, they'll like having you around. 
They can have high goals for themselves, bury themselves into their work/goals, and are fine leaving others behind to reach it. They can have a superiority complex, can be arrogant, be perfectionists, has a tendency to overthink and analyze, can be emotionally distant and insensitive, and can struggle making connections.
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Hi! I was wondering if I could please bother you for a BNHA match-up. I am not too picky with any specifications as long as the students are aged up. I am a straight, 26 year old doctor doing my residency. I am chubby, 5’1” with blue eyes and wavy light brown hair. I love cooking, baking, reading, writing, working out, playing video games, yoga and watching anime. I love spicy foods and weird new combinations but I’m not the biggest fan of sweet foods.
I am a INFP Capricorn and tests seem to think I would be a good Gryffindor. I genuinely dislike people who are willfully ignorant or unwilling to experience new things. I am an introvert with a pessimistic line of thought but unless you know me very well I appear to be an extremely happy and outgoing person. I have a social battery meter that I have to follow closely or else I get overwhelmed and need to be either alone or around someone special to recharge
Hi, thanks so much for requesting. I’ve had to put A LOTT of thought into your match-up because I seriously didn’t know who to choose
in the end i decided to match you up with...
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~KIRISHIMA EIJIROU~
Now.. I know that some people may not agree with me but lemme just quickly explain why
I seriously believe that Kiri could bring out the best in you ESPECIALLY as an aged-up Pro-Hero and vice versa
I’m more than 100% sure that he won’t even dare judge by appearances since its not manly at all, his best friend is Bakugou for Christ’s sake, so if your appearance, whether it be your height, features or body type, is something you’re insecure about this ManlyMan ® wouldn’t give up until you feel like the Goddess that he treats you like
I’m guessing that being a doctor means working long hours so you two might not see each other much but when you do he makes sure that you both are having the best time and being comfortable. He’s up for whatever your up for, be it a nap or an hour long hike
I don’t think that he is a master chef but he wont burn water either, so you two would DEFINITELY cook dinner together and bake cakes for yourselves like in the movies and all I’m so jelly
I also think he’d eat pretty much anything you would and he has a sweet tooth but won’t force you to go binge eating sweets with him
On days he’s more tired he’d love for you to read him your current book or something you were recently writing whilst cuddling together wherever
Just a quick note on cuddling- HE’S A HUGE CUDDLE BUG
When it comes to writing if you’re the type to write late at night when he’s come back from work (assuming you two live together by then) he’d put your health first and draaaag you either to bed or to take a warm bath with him.
If you ever feel comfortable showing him your work, asking for criticism he’d really focus and try get into the story for your sake so that he can be as honest as possible with you
As honest as he’d be he wouldn’t utter a bad word about your work, compliments only when he’s in charge!
He’s literally a Pro.. of course he’d be working out and would have so much fun doing it with you.
He does mostly, if not only, muscle and cardio work so if you do other types he’d definitely be open to trying!
Same goes for yoga, although i can’t imagine him having very good balance so he’d struggle at first but find himself so at peace watching you gracefully change positions and would find it absolutely adorable
Kirishima, without a doubt, has experience with anime and video games
Animes- he would probably be into ones that give off a yaoi vibe without him even realising it ,he’s just there for the drama and competition. He isn’t the type to watch things like Tokyo Ghoul though (he probably used to get nightmares tbh) but I’m sure you two could mutually agree on something to watch on days off
As for video games.. this man will turn to be so competitive, and the both of you will just try to sabotage each other all the time if you two play something like Mario Kart. If you’re more of a COD, Overwatch, R6S typa gal then He’d love for you to teach him and play with him every now and then but would rather watch you get you mad when you die, puff your cheeks when you get frustrated 
BUT HE WOULD FORCE YOU TO PLAY ACNH WITH HIM
You’d go to each other’s towns and it’d just be really cute and soft
This God of a man would never turn down trying new things, he’s all for it!!
Pleeaase introduce him to stuff he’s never seen before he honestly thinks you’re the most wonderful person ever he’d do anything for/with you
As an introvert tell him if you ever feel uncomfortable when you’re out or if you’d rather stay in than go out he is  p u t t y in your hands
He will try to take you out to new places and introduce you to new people because he is such a social butterfly, just tell him when you don’t want to be involved anymore and he’ll completely understand
When you reveal to him your more pessimistic thoughts he’d be kind of shocked but wouldn’t question you and would just try to let you see the more optimistic side of things!
You have to let him know about you getting overwhelmed because he would just make it worse by trying to press you to tell him what’s going on which I imagine wouldn’t lead to something pretty
Tell him and he’d completely understand! He’ll leave you be and you can go to him whenever you need and rant or whatever would relieve you from your stress
Further into your relationship hopefully he’ll become a special someone you can recharge with (it’d be his honour) and like always he’ll be following your every command
This is exactly like opposites attract and I personally think that you’d have a very wholesome relationship!
THANKS SO MUCH FOR REQUESTING AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY YOUR
MATCH-UP❤
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Alright! Finally got time again to shoot you some questions for the ask meme. For Lucy: A1, 2, 9, 14, 24. B1, 13, 16. C3, 4, 6. D2, 3. E2, 4. F2, 5, 10. G2. H1, 6, 8. I1. L2, 4, 9. Also for Harrison, finally someone who can use the K questions... K1, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10?
Hell yeah long post coming and i’m so happy with the K section,
Lucy: 
A1. What of the Meyers-Briggs personality types they most fit into? INFP, ENFT, et cetera…
I actually took a test thinking how she would answer and i think i got it perfectly right. I wouldn’t pick it better just by reading all of them i think. She came out as Turbulent Entrepreneur (ESTP-T) which feels ok. “ Rules were made to be broken” - hell they were. Also “ If Entrepreneurs aren’t careful though, they may get too caught in the moment, take things too far, and run roughshod over more sensitive people, or forget to take care of their own health and safety.“
Judging by her action and the way of living she is like that. Going all the way, having hard time just by staying idle and ohh yee taking things too far without thinking of consequences. Like chasing an enemy and realizing she left her support far in the back and then dealing with difficulties by herself. Constantly going careless in combat, forgetting her own safety, thinking she will make it anyway but it comes back biting her in the ass. 
Also she is not smart but she can see minor hidden things, be it while cracking some password on terminal or spotting who in the crowd wants to stab her in the back just by the change of their face expression so she might be stupid but still outsmart some folks and mechanics out there and that fits with the nature of the job she had before the war. 
A2. What alignment are they? Chaotic neutral, lawful evil, et cetera…
I never played DnD games and so on so this one is hard but Neutral Evil - she is aware of her being on the bad side of a coin and is willing to do whatever it takes to make her wishes come true even if it means killing someone but she still have some self restrains and won’t go against the allies she is currently working with and friends she made on the way and of course innocent creatures. She has some base etiquette rules and isn't rotten to the bone but when she wants something nothing will stop her no matter the cost as long as it doesn’t strike her out of the game of harms current company. She is bad but not for sake of doing evil shit or proving something but just to do what she wants and get what she wants even if blood will spill. 
A9. Does your OC make a lot of excuses? For themselves? Others? 
She will sure make a lot of excuses for herself after fucking shit up or going way too ahead in combat. But only for herself. She is the type of pointing finger at others while tugging and biting her tongue just not to admit she wronged someone or something and avoid too many questions or yelling at. 
A14. Is your character empathetic?
Despite being a bitch she is empathetic. But might show it a bit differently...like in a page i wrote for Halloween with that bunny mask. She didn’t chop that man only because he grabbed her ass but because he was using many other women poor financial situation just to have some easy sexy time and she did feel bad for them so...her empathy stroke in a solution of killing him instead of only knocking him out and caging. If someone would harass Lizzie or...i dunno Hector, someone she considers slightly weaker at standing up for themselves and is in her “social” circle or society part then she will show empathy by stabbing those who bother them with a fork in a eye, a bit extreme but that’s how she understands empathy. Someone is chaining and kicking a dog at settlement? She will chain that man onto the bridge and let him hang and die slowly and take a dog in Pack care. Gage complains that his gun got broken in a fight and can sense some sadness, she will run for a stealing caps heist to buy new one. So...she feels empathy but her answer to it can be...well unusual, brutal and extreme.
A24. What are some of your OC’s biggest personal obstacles? This could be emotional, physical, social… Are they aware of it? Are they trying to overcome it?
Type of question i hope i understood correctly :)) 
Fear of failing to deliver is her biggest personal obstacle. She was always scared, since childhood to fail at meeting certain expectations, be in it school for her mother who would change her mind bazillion times due to mental illness, then Harrison and fear of his eventual punishment mixed with mental abuse if she doesn’t carry her mission to the end, with Ian it was fear of failing at being the good loving partner due to her secrets and then comes whole town of raiders with Gage on top who have expectations of her and promise of certain small paradise if she delivers but...these fears always pushes her into actions more than she has to and it exhaust her mentally and can sometimes prove deadly, ending up in injuries that could have been avoided. She is aware of this but because it carried through her whole life its unavoidable. 
Also she doesn’t interact much with a friendly society groups because even if she knows she is bad its not something she actually likes to hear. Coming to a small town just with intentions to have a drink and imagining that people will only show her a pistol barrel and tell her to fuck off because she is from within raider circle fills her with doubt so strong she just tends to avoid this kind of meetings.
How was the saying: “Don't tell a psychopath they're a psychopath, it upsets them” and she will get deeply upset. 
B1. Do they believe you have to give respect to get it, or get respect to give it?
Get respect to give it. She doesn’t trust that people will respect her back if she puts effort so she won’t show respect even to great president of whatever wastes because she also doesn’t care if someone respect her but if they pull a hand out first she will shake it back. Her life is too risky and careless to think about gaining someone’s respect first. 
B13. Do they have a large or small group of friends?
If she would consider all nuka town her friends then its big but...nope, small group. Its mostly Gage (even if they are partners they can be friends too), Lizzie, William, well...Mags too and along with that Mason later on once she gets his loyality and a few traders from which she keep connections with Maddox, Chip and Shelbie. From Far Harbor for sure Allan would be easy to gain as a friend. Longfellow is just a friend grandad <3. Harrison cannot be questioned, too scary to reject him. From Commonwealth i can’t yet get idea where she could get the best friend circle. Well aside from that whatever other oc’s out there who accept her bitchiness and way of being :)) but i don’t think she would make many friends out there, she is...well plain simple and dangerous.
B16. Does your OC like to be the center of attention or more in the mix?
Definitely in the center of attention, since she couldn’t be back then. Now that crime and killing is fully legal and there is no police chase other than some disgusted by her behavior minutemen she can be a in the center of a show and she likes it. A circus ring leader, hell yeah...well raiders can be clowns too from time to time. And let’s not start with parties and free time. She’s the first to get up on table to dance. It gets her a bit to realize things she can get away with but once she does she only misses there is no spotlight at the end of the fight, shining on her.
C3. Is it important for them to be with people (socially, intimately, whatever) whose major ideological tenets align with their own?
Major indeloghit....tents what? Good lord, i swear i’m too stupid for these kind of words but good i keep the dictionary close to me, right in the next tab.
Big yes. It’s not many people like her out there and she doesn’t want to flip her coin back to being good and peaceful towards rules of the world, she simply isn’t able to mentally change back anymore so in order to keep feeling like she still has a hole to belong to she needs to spend time with people like her to also boost her confidence that she isn’t the only one with broken mind out there seeking completion of her wishes through darker path. And knowing so isn’t leaving her in fear she will need to change her ways of life. 
C4. Do they consider themselves superior or more important than anyone else? Lesser?
No. Even is she is the Overboss she rather rejects that title and prefers to be just a business partner with Gage. She doesn’t seek and need to feel important or superior, she only wants to feel useful around people she decided to blend in with and have a purpose, nothing else. The fact that she can strike orders around doesn’t fill her heart nor mind with some higher importance or value above other. Also she doesn’t considers her enemies lesser even knowing her skills, its just bad approach that can easily get one killed and she prefers stays on a same line with others. Be it friends or foes.
C6. What do they do when they see someone asking for money or food? If they ignore them, why? If they help, how so?
Depends in what state that person is, she was the liar herself so she can spot one if its an actual person in need or just lazy poor soul. She will usually tho just toss a few caps and walk away without listening or hearing more from that person. She doesn’t want to struggle with a morality remaining deep in her brain if she did right or not so she will just deal with it fast and walk away, telling them to fuck off if they will follow her. These kind of people are like those annoying reminders in a shape of beggar poking her and making think if she still has some pure humanity left so...she wants to be just done with that part. But animal coming up to her is a different deal, here humanity will always strike unless its a seagull stealing her meal, then her humanity part will shrink and there will be a rock thrown in the air after that birb, as a survival contest. 
D2. Do they believe in an afterlife?
She never gave it a longer thought. She cares about here and now but if she would meet someone knowledgeable in that topic she would be willing to open her ears for few minutes longer and put the knife down. She doesn’t rejects religious topics as long as someone is not brushing a saint books or whatever right in her face. She has an open mind on more than just a mortal topics mostly because of Harrison. 
D3. How comfortable are they with the idea of death?
She wasn’t scared of death before the bombs and when wandering through wasteland because she just didn’t care for her life and maybe that’s what made her most effective but this changed once she realized she can finally live a life she secretly wanted but was restricted before. Her strong desire of finally rejecting the dying part is what caused certain being to finally break away from her ;> well i wrote about it in last page so yassss
E2. Which of the nine types of intelligence is your OC strongest in? Weakest? (Linguistic, existential, naturalist, et cetera)
The strongest is surely the Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence, she was trained to the bone and with her careless nature she is mostly depended on her physical skills and putting them into perfect timing. Even if she got a bit rusty after bombs the return of Harrison will bring her back into the right gears of phasing like speed and combat thinking. 
Weakest could be probably the Intra-personal Intelligence mostly because even if she understand her actions she isn’t very good at analyzing it any deeper other than “i want that man’s money cus i want that”, i guess....i could describe it like that. I cant really get any deeper or more detailed into this because there is for sure one thing i share with Lucy....we are simple minded simpletons but..i might be a bigger one :)))
E4. Did they enjoy school if they went to it?
At the beginning she didn’t enjoy any school as other students would consider her a weirdo because of her mother which would sometimes show up, uncalled at school and act really weird but later when she decided to stand up for herself after meeting Harrison as a kid ....others in school didn’t enjoy that change as much as she became seen as a pretty bully girl being overly extreme into serving “justice”. The only classes she enjoyed tho were gym and biology ones as she wasn’t scared to cut a frog but others seeing her just chopping it like a piece of ham could...weighted on her reputation. Also she always joined like a sport/cheerleader groups to have less problems with teachers as it was bringing school good reputation and she was fairly flexible and with high stamina so it was also easy for her. So from being bullied she became popular bully girl of sort. She got hooked on law later on because she wanted indeed to serve some justice, in a peaceful manner at start. So all in all she didn’t enjoy school at start but then she didn’t mind it as she took business in her hands, a bit over the edge but well...bully with some feelings eh? I don’t have many details as to what exact type of school she would go but another reason she would enjoy sitting at school once she became the one in charge is to spend less time at home with her confusing mother so she would be staying late for some extra gym trainings, sweating her emotions off.
F2. What’s their ideal home look like? Where is it?
In Porter’s rough, dirty yet soft heart stuffed in his sweaty smelly top.
She can call Fizztop an ideal home of sort. The weather in Nuka World strikes her preferences and even since she was strolling with Harrison from time to time there before the war she just loved that place and beside the first deadly visit there they made a good memories there, father and daughter like. She prefers her home to be placed inside the town as she hates sleeping in open spaces even if its a single house on top of a hill. She just feels too lonely and insecure. It’s weird to say that but she feels safer to sleep in a town filled with raiders than alone in the wild.  
F5. How handy are they? Can they fix appliances, cars, cabinets, et cetera?
Fairly handy but on a level of fixing a broken car mirror with a duck tape or just gluing shit together hoping it will hold long enough before it breaks again. If she would fix a door handle it would most probably end up upside down on the other side of the door. And if shit breaks again...she will just shrug and glue it same way again or at least add one more layer of duck tape. Sometimes she will try to convince herself she knows what wire to put where when it comes to electric appliances but she only knows cars and car still ain’t a toaster so....electric shortage and fizzy hair incoming. She needed a manual on shoving a cable inside a robot so yeah. But when it comes to fixing clothes she is as good as with cars. Even if some parts can be similar like in car engine of sort she still has hard time to connect the dots if seeing something like half similar. So give her a broken car/truck/any clothing she will swing a wrench or needle and fix that shit in no time but hand her a tv pilot or spoken toaster and she will just look at it and ponder..deeply.  
F10. Do they engage in any of the arts? How good do you intend them to be? Would they agree they are?
Arts...with her only painting comes to my mind but not like painting a landscape but more things like a car painting, pack faces and more abstract stuff which she learned again in Sapphire club with Rosey due to many events that were having certain themes so they needed to do body paints and so on.
I don’t know if dancing is any kind of art but i can imagine her discovering that pole dance but on a level of these sport like competitions. Lucy is flexible and has enough strength to try to perform this kind of stuff since from already school times she was doing a lot of gym and sport in general.
As to how good she would be at these probably not like perfectly good to very details because even she doesn’t have need to be horribly good. Needs to be good enough to just make her happy and she doesn’t have high standards in these topics. I dunno why i found that question slightly tricky....
G2. Who makes up your OC’s family, at least the more important members to them?
The only family she had was her mother since her father left once he could no longer bear with her mental issues and bringing stranger men to house and then getting pregnant with her. I didn’t build up yet like a bigger family tree but..yeah it was just her mother and her most of the time. 
H1. What is your OC’s orientation, romantic and/or sexual? Has it ever been a source of stress for them? Have they always been pretty sure of their orientation?
She is 100% heterosexual when it comes to her orientation both romantic and sexual. She can flirt with same sex but that would only include situations when she needs to finish her job or reach some other goal, no feelings involved whatsoever. 
H6. Has your OC ever cheated on anyone or been cheated on?
She didn’t catch Ian neither Gage to cheat on her. She tends to flirt with other men like William but wouldn’t take it as far as to sleep with him or do it on purpose to hurt her partner feelings so...she doesn’t cheat. She still has SOME backbone. 
H8. What’s your OC’s idea of a perfect date?
She doesn’t have high needs when it comes to perfect date topic. As long as it involves alone time together without additional crowd and some beer she doesn’t care if they sit in a fancy bar or on some building stairs. Perfect date is any that includes relaxed talk, joking, alcohol and a happy ending in bed together. Extra points for bringing her nicely cut flower. Despite being bully, killer and involved with raiders she was looking at late evenings at these white/grey romantic movies where couples were just doing simple things, walking late night together and so on, so her perfect date ain’t complicated. 
I1. What are their favorite kinds of flavors– Sweet, salty, sour, spicy, creamy, et cetera?
As long as its not slimey and gooey like she’s okay. If something of mentioned above would slip into her food she will just puke it out instantly. She prefers salty and sweet tho as her pre-war diet was mostly like so. Salted hard boiled eggs with grilled tatos topped with pinch of salt again and then 200 years old cotton candy for dessert or potato crisps. She eats meat too but like fried till its crunchy. 
L2. What do you consider the biggest themes in your character, if any?
Brain error so i hope i understood this right:
Leaning into the evil side of the society fully confident it’s the only and last right choice to achieve true happiness and satisfy the already croocked mind. 
L4. Would you hang out with your OC if you could?
In my real life probably yes but even i would be slightly nervous around her because she tends to bend towards very extreme solutions if some problems would arise or someone would make me angry (due to her empathy) but in fallout universe hell yeah, i’m just not sure i would be in a physical capability to keep up with her but i wouldn’t mind to get a legendary cane..along with it...But yeah, i would like to hang out for a beer and see her beat some stupid folks and maybe give a her a friendly hug to remind her she isn’t that bad and she will be fine....and apologize for burning her hands lol. If she would find out i’m her creator..oh boy, i’m sure she would beat me with my own cane over the head. 
L9. How did you come up with your OC?
I had different OC design before but she was actually just a general good joking hero, she even had a brother but that got lost later on and that male oc was left just for MMO’s as an additional character. Then a lot of things happened in my life and because i was gaming since early childhood like Norton times and..the pixelated Blizzard Blackthorne it also affected my rpg and game choices in general, like whole way of thinking since gaming was and is big part of my life. I was curious what would happen if i take my oc through the mental change grinder and push it to the edge, towards losing the patience for justice systems and add a pinch of evil mixed with some trauma to give her some reason to choose that path. And there she is. Her face features didn’t change much, neither body type and so on but her mentality is hell of a different and i just...love her. She isn’t perfect, neither that horribly bad but i’m very pleased with how she came out. I threw a glove and was done with playing hero at some point because of life experiences and she came out of my cauldron as a best way to peacefully calm down. As for Harrison he was suppose to be just a small mention in pre-war diary but for some reason my brain pushed it forward and i really don’t mind him as an extra OC. Besides Lucy needs someone to watch over her. 
Allllrighty, Harrison time:
K1. Does your OC have to keep their paranormal aspect (PA) a secret from general society? If so, how? I.e., they can’t discuss their abilities, they have to hide a tail, they have an alter-ego, et cetera. What would happen if society found out about it?
Yes, he has to hide his powers. He is one of a kind and experiment never got finished so his powers are something no one seen before. I’m sure that lab is still buried somewhere near Sanctuary deep in forests containing old data and so on but the place got abandoned and no one found it yet. I can imagine tho that the cryo vault could have been like a last remaining section cut off from the rest as it also was touching a subject of immortality...i mean..a way of not aging. Usually the green smoke will always rise from his body and eyes at times so he prefers to hide his face under the hat and keep fully covered body with that long brown coat and thick gloves. Also he doesn’t look very friendly so it helps him keep folks at distance before they notice something unusual. I can’t imagine how people would react if they knew about his powers but they for sure would be just wary and scared i think. And all in all he has a synth skeleton so more hate from most of the Commonwealth population. He also needs to keep his emotions at check as his powers are driven by a strong sense of desire so if he would really really want to harm someone he would have harder time at controlling his powers before they snap. That’s why he is always so...stoic and calm.     
K3. Does your OC have any friends who know about their PA? Any enemies?
Lucy suspected before and she has a memory from childhood, then she finds out herself on a go and Gage also knows because he was present during the event. Later on she tells Lizzie and Chip Morse because she needs help to repair his synth broken body due to how the...separation came out. Harrison doesn’t tell anyone else unless its necessary. The only enemy out there would be the lead scientist if he somehow survived the bombs and is still out there, looking for him. 
Also...i didn’t mean to make it like that but its just how it came out due to most...common and fast thought design. That lead scientist had grey hair and wore a black mask on half of his face....and that would make the air even more rotten between...someone particular out there :)) 
K5. Does your OC feel isolated or unrelatable due to the experience their PA brings with it? If so, how do they deal with it?
He does feel lonely since he is too afraid to meet new people or even spend too much time in a bar. He would mostly stick to lone table in a corner, being too afraid on not controlling his powers if his mind and emotions lose breaks. He was a family man, not perfect father but still, getting that taken away and changing your life 180 degrees can sometimes upset him and the only way to cool down is just to stick to people he can trust which is Lucy and her gang. Its his only family now. He doesn’t push away the idea of trying again, meeting a woman, making a family, being a better father but is just too scared of that. Also he doesn’t need much sleep as normal person so...this doesn’t help him either.   
K6. Does their PA cause issues in daily life? I.e., if they’re inhuman in a human universe and they can’t go to a doctor or risk the doctor realizing they are not human, super abilities with physical drawbacks, they don’t have control of their abilities and must keep to themselves, et cetera… If so, how do they feel about it?
It causes him a lot of issues. Despite hot weather he still needs to keep his clothes on to not reveal the power radiating from him. His hat always in crowds, even inside the buildings to not risk shining with his eyes too much. Shades can help tho at times. But people might find it weird, accuse him of being another synth and attack him and that would cause more problems because if he snaps people will see his powers. He needs to keep his head low all the time and just act as a shady dangerous mercenary, out of unnecessary questions and troubles.
K7.Does your OC’s PA affect their dietary habits so that they are unusual or problematic by their society’s standards?
Even if he actually doesn’t need to eat he still will because he isn’t fully synth but just himself in a form of soul trapped in such a body. His eating habits are still the same as they were but..he might overdo his craving at times...eating like a kilograms of food just because he remembered it was his favorite and he wants it now and he will feel the taste and satisfaction but because his stomach isn’t human he doesn’t feel when he is full so....yeah. Eating whole cart of cotton candy at one go. It might feel weird to people who don’t know him but he is a big man so they might assume it’s maybe because of his size...and just being freaking hungry.
K8. What are some routines, if any, of self-care that your OC must engage in that are not typical of their society? I.e., having to file their teeth, maintaining magical rituals, drinking blood…
He needs to meditate like a lot to keep his powers better contained and controlled since they sync with his mindset.. Sometimes he will do it for hours, be it standing, siting, he will just disconnect and meditate.
K9. Does your OC have knowledge that they can’t share with the rest of their world that could improve it if it didn’t cause chaos? I.e., a character from the future knowing about technology not yet invented, but they can’t reveal themselves by sharing it
He is the only one knowing the location of the lab but he keeps that knowledge only to Lucy. He can’t imagine what could happen if they would create armies of....entities like him. Being able to inject soul from body to body could solve a lot of health like issues and give a hell of disabled people new chance but you can never know what direction this could go. 
K10. Would your OC give up their PA if they could? Why or why not?
Even if it ruined his life he wouldn’t give it up. He lost his family not because of who she became but because he was fucking irresponsible by taking his son to work and killing them both. His wife was furious and refused to take him home again even if she was freshly pregnant that time. His powers allowed him to protect her anyway without her knowledge and because he is at age he is, these powers still keep him as a extremely dangerous man able to fight. Even if giving it up could give him a better chance of starting a family again he prefers to be able to protect these that are still left in his life than failing or die trying. So he is over the grief and learned to live with how he is, accepting his powers and putting them to good use. 
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Ember, I know this was you. I’m doing it, but that’s 93 questions you’re asking for so they’re going under a cut. 
1. Talk about your first love. There have been a lot of those, so let me talk about the first one I really remember. I was in eighth grade, at the time, and she wasn’t exactly a great person looking back but she was cool and confident and she liked me, and she called me her best friend, and probably the best school-related memory I’ve ever had was her tackle-hugging me from across a classroom. I didn’t even realize I liked girls until she’d pretty much left my life completely. Maybe I’m looking at it through rose-tinted glasses now, but I think that’s okay, sometimes.  2. What’s the most beautiful songs you’ve ever heard in your opinion? Most of my favorite songs are Owl City, especially the older stuff. It has a soft, dreamlike vibe to it that I find really pretty even when it’s depressing. 3. How’s your heart feeling right now? Pretty good, I think? 4. What kind of self care is your favorite to do? The fun stuff. Bath bombs, makeup, fancy shampoo. Retail therapy actually works pretty well for me, even if a lot of the time I don’t even buy anything. 5. What’s your skincare routine? Um... Shower? 6. How did you get to be so beautiful? Natural talent and carefully learned confidence. 7. Do you have any stuffed animals? Oh, do I. I have like, seventy Webkinz, and that’s without getting into anything else. You could say I collect plushes, even if I don’t do it as actively now. I have a couple of Eevee plushes, too - I’d say I want to own all of them one day, but I’m like, 95% sure that’s not possible. 8. Best trip you’ve ever been on? Once, we went to Prince Edward Island for a week, and my mom surprised me by meeting up with my best friend’s family, who happened to have gotten a room at our hotel for one night. I think that probably wins. 9. Favorite thing about your room? That it’s starting to look like it belongs to me, even if I want to move somewhere else. 10. Opinion on love? It takes work, but it’s worth it.
11. Are you affectionate? Around people I’m comfortable with, definitely. 12. Who do you look up to? The people who have enough confidence to be unapologetically be themselves.
13. Favorite poet? Robert Frost. When I was eleven, I found a book of his poems, and I loved that book so much I didn’t pay any attention in English class at all.
14. Song that makes you happy? How about one that calms you down when you’re in a bad place? There’s a lot of songs that make me happy. Hard to go wrong with the Pokemon theme, though. As for things that calm me down... It’s Alright by Mother Mother and Misguided Ghosts by Paramore have both got me through a lot.
15. Do you play an instrument? No. I was supposed to learn piano in seventh grade, but I couldn’t read the sheet music so they never let me play, and I tried to learn guitar multiple times but it never stuck for the same reason.
16. Do you do art? Using what (pencil, watercolor, etc)? I paint, though not as often as I’d like to! Using acrylics, usually, but watercolors sometimes.
17. Do you dance? What style of dance? I took ballet as a child, til they kicked me out of class, and I still enjoy dancing but I don’t remember any of what I learned.
18. What’s your zodiac sign? Do you believe in astrology? Gemini. I think it might have some kind of truth behind it, but I’m not really one of those all-or-nothing people. It’s just for fun, you know?
19. Favorite old film? I don’t watch a lot of them. Does The Aristocats count?
20. What’s your hairstyle? It’s long and wavy. I’m getting blue highlights soon.
21. What weather is the most beautiful, in your opinion? Light rain. The kind that dries off before you get inside, when the sky is perfectly clear, but it starts falling anyway and it stops just as quickly.
22. What upsets you most about the world? That however hard we try to fix it, we’re unlikely to get very far.
23. Are you in love right now? Yes. At least, I think so.
24. Do you have a crush? If so, talk about them! I have a girlfriend. Is that the same thing? She’s cute and funny and she thinks the same things about me for some reason, and she knows exactly how much of a disaster I can be and hasn’t run away yet.
25. Do you have pets? Talk about something sweet about them! I have a cat, Little Prince. His sister died about a month ago, and she was the one who usually kept me company (total lap-cat), but ever since he’s usually either close to where I am or comes when I call him over.
26. Do you have a lucky number? Any multiple of seven, but especially fourteen. They’re my favorite numbers for the same reason.
27. Have you ever wished on a star? What about on a fallen eyelash? I try to wish on stars, when I see them. Eyelashes I’m usually more annoyed about than anything.
28. Do you believe emoji spells to work? I think anything has the potential to work, given the right amount of effort and intent. That said, I don’t think you’re going to accomplish anything drastic.
29. Do you believe in magic in general? Oh, definitely. Just look at the world we live in. How can you not believe in magic when it’s all around you? The night sky without air pollution, the sunlight dancing on the water, candy cane white hot chocolate - it’s everywhere, in everything.
30. What’s the most beautiful thing in life, In your opinion? Everything. There’s something beautiful in everything, if you look for it. Today, let’s say the feeling of sliding around on a hardwood floor in fluffy socks, dancing along to one of your favorite songs.
31. Opinion on the color pink? What about baby blue? As a kid, I hated pink. I like it now, though. Blue is my color, light blue especially (particularly with star patterns), so I’ve always liked it.
32. What instrumental sound is your favorite? Am I alloawed to say wind chimes? I’ve always thought they sounded super pretty.
33. Do you like the sound of wind? What about the sound of rain? I love them both.
34.Who makes you happy? My friends. All of them, in different ways, the people who are still in my life for various reasons. I love them.
35. What makes you happy? Light rain, strong wind, good music. My cat’s soft meow when I wake him up by accident. White peppermint hot chocolate. Fall colors, string lights, Halloween and winter holidays. Ice and snow and skating, dressing up for no apparent reason. The trick to it all is finding new things every day.
36. Imagine your ideal life, the life you wish to make, what will that look like? A house big enough for a family. A degree of some kind hanging on the wall. A life where I’m making things because that’s what I love, and I can try new things just for fun, where I don’t have to worry about money so much. The chance to get married someday, maybe.
37. Do you wear makeup? If so what’s your favorite type of makeup or specific makeup product? Favorite store to buy makeup? I do! Unless someone else is doing it for me, I generally keep to lipstick and eyeshadow. I’ve never been especially picky about what brands I use, but I usually go to Nyx because it’s on my usual route when I go on shopping trips, and I’m kind of attached now. Plus, nowhere else I’ve been in person has as many bold colours.
38. Do you wear dresses? If so what’s your favorite dress you own? I like wearing dresses. My favorite that I still have is a longer black dress, and it’s in serious need of either repair of retirement, but I got it for $20 as a cosplay outfit last year and it served its purpose. I wear it around still, sometimes, because it’s generally an easy fix.
39. Ever been heartbroken? How do you deal with it? Yeah, a few times. I vent to my friends, usually, and then I eat ice cream and listen to gnash for a while and eventually I start to feel better.
40. Who’s your closest friend? What do you love about them?
41. Introvert or extrovert? Kinda both? It’s complicated.
42. Do you like MBTI? What’s your MBTI? Is that... Fuck, is that the one with the letters? I think I got ENFP last time, and when I was younger it was INFP.
43. Would you be a fairy, a mermaid, a vampire, a siren, a or an angel? I’ve had people tell me I have ‘fae vibes’ before, so let’s go with that and hope it’s not offensive.
44. What’s the best song a friend has ever introduced to you? I don’t remember enough of them to feel good about picking one. I basically only listen to music I’m recommended now.
45. Parlez-vous français? A little, by virtue of being Canadian and having driven through Quebec. Not enough to carry on a conversation.
46. Most beautiful place you’ve been to? Prince Edward Island, hands down. It’s gorgeous.
47. Where/when do you truly feel at home? When there’s a light breeze, and the perfect song is playing, and the people I love are there. When we’re laughing with each other.
48. Does smiling put you in a better mood? Try it right now, you’re smile is gorgeous! I don’t think it does, honestly? But it does tend to happen when I’m happy.
49. Favorite shoe you own? These ankle boots I got secondhand that have little metal stars on them. I’m gonna be so upset when they finally wear out and I need new ones.
50. Can you walk in stilettos? Do you like them? God, no, I’ve tried. Any heel that’s too sharp or pointy or tall is a major problem for me. It’s part of what makes finding shoes such a pain.
51. Do you feel loved? Not always, but yeah. When I remember, or when I ask, or when I’m reminded.
52. How do you express love to those you care about? I try to tell them, but I’m also the type to engage in constant teasing. I’m the friend that punches you in the arm as a show of affection.
53. Favorite term(s) of endearment? The more creative ones. The basics don’t do much for me, honestly, but it’s more about the person saying them anyway.
54. Most romantic thing someone’s ever done for you? Make me feel like I don’t have to try so hard to feel like myself.
55. When is the happiest you’ve ever been? Walking the downtown city streets in winter. It was cold, sure, but it was gorgeous and I finally felt independent for a while.
56. Are you happy right now? Yeah, I’d say so.
57. What makes you smile? Bad jokes, among other things.
58. Do you laugh a lot? Yeah. A lot more than I used to.
59. What’s your favorite kind of aesthetic? Punk/scenecore. They’ve really influenced my more recent style choices.
60. Do you want to marry for love or for some other reason (like money)? Love, definitely.
61. What would your dream wedding look like? Do you want to get married? With someone I love, and the other people I love there too. Somewhere beautiful. I think I do, someday, but it’s not something I’m so worried about.
62. Favorite flower? Roses. Blue Moon Hybrid Tea Roses, in particular, are especially pretty.
63. Favorite artist? I don’t really have one. I do enjoy looking at art, though.
64. Favorite music artist? Owl City.
65. How kind do you think you are? Is kindness important to you? I don’t know. People seem to think I’m kinder than I believe I am. It’s important to me, yeah, to try and help people and to do nice things.
66. Ever made a playlist for someone? A few times. They were never anything special, as far as I’m concerned.
67. Do you have anything you do to physically comfort you when your sad? Such as a favorite blanket? Or a relaxing bath? Long, warm baths and cuddling with my cat. Warm blankets and stories with happy endings.
68. Early bird or night owl? Night owl. I’m a night person.
69. Morning routine? Wake up, do nothing for a while, actually get out of bed and figure out breakfast. While that’s going on, try and figure out if anything important is happening today.
70. Night routine? Get comfortable, then write or daydream til I fall asleep.
71. What is the most lovely quality a person could have in your opinion? Self-confidence and a willingness to help others.
72. Do you cry often? Does crying help you get the emotions out? Do you feel better after? I tend to hold back my feelings til they all fall out. So I end up crying at least twice a month, usually. It helps, yeah.
73. Do you like hugs? From people I feel comfortable with.
74. When was the last time you kissed someone? On the lips? Never.
75. Are you small or tall? Small. I’m 5′0.
76. Do you like wholesome memes? Yes. They’re cute.
79. Have you ever lived in a different country than you currently live in? Nope. I’ve never lived outside this city, only been on trips.
80. Do you like plane flights? Airports? I’ve only flown once, and I was two, so I don’t remember it very well.
82. The beach or a forest? Sand or bugs? Depends on the day. Today, though, forest.
83. What time of day do you tend to be in the best mood? Evening, usually.
84. Do you push yourself to act together and in a good mood even when you aren’t? Yeah, when I’m stressed.
85. Favorite kind of tree? Either maple or pine. I’m Canadian, what can I say?
86. Do you care about the health of the Earth? Yes, but there’s only so much one person can do.
87. What did you like most about your childhood, if anything? Field trips. Adulthood is sorely lacking in field trips.
88. Do you read a lot? What’s your favorite book? I used to. These days I still read, but it’s mostly fanfiction. My favorite books, though, are Tamora Pierce’s Emelan series and the first two books of Kenneth Oppel’s Silverwing trilogy.
89. What are you most nostalgic for at the moment? Trick-or-treating.
90. What’s your favorite personality trait you have? I try to let the people I love know that I love them.
91. List at least ONE thing you love about your appearance. I have pretty great hair.
93. Do you worry a lot? Constantly.
94. The dazzling lights of the city or the relaxing countryside? The city. The countryside’s nice, but the streetlights and the city skyline are what make me feel at home.
95. Ever changed the shoelaces on one of your shoes? For what reason? I actually don’t know how to tie laces, so no. I’ve never been able to pick it up. I might get someone sense to, if I could find cool enough laces.
97. Do you like doing little acts of kindness? Yeah. It feels good to make people happy, you know?
98. How’s your day/night going? Pretty good! I did just spend over an hour on this, but I finished it, so that’s an accomplishment of its own.
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