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#5 love languages
thedurassisterspod · 1 year
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Ds9 version 
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hand-picked-star · 2 months
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Five love languages ft. Laad Governor & Sanka Devi
Mr. & Mrs. Raizada
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hemlock-user007 · 6 months
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Teehee. I just really love Jeeves and Wooster.
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islyingtoyou · 2 years
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we love others the way we want to be loved.
perhaps that's the reason why we are never happy; because the other person can't love us how we want, no matter how many times we let them know.
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can I request what would be the 5 love languages of hq boys ? :)
Oh, dear Anon, you have me squealing in my study. Hopefully, I interpreted this correctly for u, it’s my first request. If you’d like any specific characters and their love language in detail, feel free to let me know and I’ll whip smth up :) ~ Jitsu xoxo
Words of affirmation:
He knows exactly what to say to you. It’s been the case since day one of your relationship, all the way to the present day. Some say he has you wrapped around his little finger, but you know from the bottom of your heart everything he says is genuine. He reminds you you’re worth it, with every “I love you, my dear.” and whispers little secrets only for your ears on the train or when you’re falling asleep beside him. His love language is so obvious, his words definitely affirm you and your relationship with him, and you wouldn’t want it any other way. 
Daichi, Kenma, Oikawa, Asahi, Yamaguchi, Kita, Aone, Hayato, Fukunaga, Narita
Acts of service He’ll do anything for you. Except for the times when he knows you want to be independent, he is ready to fight the world to make you happy. He’ll grab things higher up (but maybe he put them up there on purpose, who knows), rub your back when you ask for it, do the laundry even though you offered to do it; he’s always been a man of action, and you don’t see that changing any time in the future. He also does subtle things like filling your car tank with petrol when he knows it’s low on fuel and stocks up on the beverage he knows you love.
Bokuto, Tendō, Atsumu, Iwaizumi, Aran, Kinoshita, Lev, Futakuchi, Kyōtani, Washio
Gifts His gifts never seem to run out. Sometimes you wonder how he even finds all these things, but you love and cherish everything he has ever bought you. Even the pair of socks with cheesy, cliche quotes on them; you wore them as soon as they were washed. His gifts are usually sentimental, if not beautiful or useful, such as bouquets of flowers, little pastries he saw you eyeing from a nearby pastry, new earphones when you dropped them on the floor ONE time and they broke, or anything he finds that reminds him of you. Over time you have a little treasure trove of your trinkets and gifts, that always make you smile when you see/use them.
Akaashi, Yahaba, Konoha, Tanaka, Kai, Semi, Yaku, Goshiki, Koganegawa, Haruki 
Quality time He always makes time for you. Even when life gets hectic or your schedules aren’t aligning perfectly, he does his absolute best to see you. With every meet up or date, he makes sure things run as smoothly as they can, so he can be there in the moment with you. Sometimes, he doesn’t say anything, you just bask in the comfortable silence together, enjoying each other’s company. A few times he has cancelled big plans because you desperately needed him, and you know he will always come to see you when you ask. All of his time with you he calls precious and you both can’t resist having each other’s company.
Kageyama, Hanamaki, Tsukishima, Sakusa, Ennoshita, Ushijima, Kindachi, Kunimi
Physical touch His love is physical and present. Brushing hair out of your face, hugging you from behind or kisses on your neck, he does his best to keep close to you in all the ways he can. You savour every touch from him, basking in his presence. You know he’s not always around, but when you are together, you become near inseparable. His touch always lingers around you, and for the times he’s gone for longer periods of time, he always makes it up to you, through wordless, intimate contact.
Osamu, Hinata, Sugawara, Kuroo, Matsukawa, Nishinoya, Terushima, Suna, Akiteru
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sabiraclouds · 1 year
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I'm doing the love languages ​​of my characters in my tmnt au, specifically of the turtles. And April is here as a test subject (ㅅ˙³˙)♡
Leo's love language: physical touch
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Raph's love language: words of affirmation
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Mikey and Donnie are coming soon ✧٩(ˊωˋ*)و✧
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hope-i-dont-choke · 1 year
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Thinking about how Buck in canon read the 5 love languages book
and how Eddie grew up taking care of his family and then literally served in the military
and yet Buck is the one who’s love language is acts of service
and how Buck grew up talked down to and touch starved to the point that he used sex as a coping mechanism and became fixated on what other people have to say about him
and yet Eddie’s love languages are word of affirmation and physical touch
so yeah they complete each other
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sundroppaladin · 1 year
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not sure if someone has already come up with it
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bylertruth3r · 1 year
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Byler as love languages
physical touch
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gift giving
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words of affirmation
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quality time 
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acts of service 
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laidee-flegman · 2 months
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The Five Love Languages explained video
I suppose I should start sharing my videos over here too. We'll start with a tamer one with the 5 love languages explained!
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I must warn though if you decide to venture into other videos, they can get a little spicy!
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shynerdwantscuddles · 10 months
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Took the love language test!
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vaiyamagic · 2 months
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You know (having not read the book, just articles and quizzes online) something I don't understand about the love languages thing: is it about getting love or showing love?
They all explain it like it's just one big thing, but the way I show love isn't the same way I like to be shown love.
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manikas-whims · 2 years
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do you take requests? if you do then pls: VinMary + 5 love languages 🥺
i do accept requests once in a while. also this request idea is really good. So lets do this using a little from canon material and some headcanons..
Vin Jin & Mary Kim + The 5 Love Languages
#1: Words of Affirmation
As I stated in my other post that Mary is the only person I've seen canonically encourage Vin Jin to go without his glasses.
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She affirms that he looks just fine without them and that there's nothing to feel so self-conscious about his eyes.
And thats how Mary is— openly states what she feels. She thinks his eyes are just fine? She tells him. Similarly, if it comes down to complimenting him genuinely, she would do it and it would be so direct that Vin might end up being flustered and laugh it off like an idiot because we can see (panel below) how hard it is for him to mask his joy whenever he receives a compliment.
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In the same way, seeing how shallow people can be, I believe Mary must've been ostracised and mocked due to her weight and physique by the other girls in middle school back in Cheonliang. And Vin Jin was most likely the first person to treat her normally and befriend her amidst all this mistreatment.
But when it comes to genuinely reassuring her or complimenting her, he isn't the same as Mary. He might not be able to express how he feels about her directly because thats just not him. But he'll definitely use jokes and such to indirectly compliment her..like..
“So what if he/she made fun of your legs? You can actually kick his/her ass with them. Or crush them with your gorgeous, thick thighs.”
2: Quality Time
We see them hang out alot. So, somewhere in the middle school they grew close enough that spending time together became a natural thing for them.
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Walking to and from school together, hanging out at the local cafeteria, going to the arcades or just getting a milkshake from that new shop that opened recently, it all comes very easily to them because they enjoy spending time in each-other's company.
#3: Acts of Service
These two go way back and it seems they'd do anything for the other.
We can see in the Runaways+Hostel Arc how Vin Jin jokes about Mary's identity being stolen to sell stockings. He even tries to make light of it by saying “lets go get paid for it”
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When in reality he's furious about the entire thing and wants to immediately deal with it..
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And I'm sure Mary would do the same for him.
Aside from that, they might do the most normal stuff for one another. Like Mary bringing an extra set of glasses for him or helping him with his school work. Or Vin buying extra pads/tampons for her when he's at the local store. Or them sharing snacks. Or them staying up all night watching movies and cooking favorite dishes if the other is unable to sleep for whatever reasons.
#4: Receiving Gifts
They don't have to be literal materialistic gifts.
I think Vin would wordlessly hand over his jacket to Mary on a cold day. Or even let her steal some of his shirts. He is the type of guy who would bring chocolates for her whenever she's on her period.
Meanwhile Mary randomly buys music albums of his favorite artists to surprise him. She's also the one who is a good listener, so she gifts him her time and attention, always lets him whine and complain about how he isn't as good as Duke at rapping or how much certain J High punks annoy him.
BONUS: he sends her funny videos while she sends him tiktok dance challenges
#5: Physical Touch
I think physical touch to them is another thing that comes naturally.
From Mary putting an arm around Vin's shoulder..
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..to Vin almost patting Mary's head in front of others but catching himself at the last moment by instead placing his cap on her head.
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In a romantic sense, I think Vin Jin is the one who loves skinship more— snaking an arm around Mary's waist, randomly grabbing her hand, playing with her hair, kissing her neck or love bites, etc. She fusses about it but does enjoy the affection.
BONUS: he gives her foot massages when she's on her period
Mary doesn't initiate it often but when does, she loves to annoy him— poking him for fun, tickling him, pulling his cheek, ruffling his hair, surprise hugs or kisses, piggyback rides etc.
BONUS: she offers him judo sparring sessions
hope you like these anon..♥
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2furbabyangels · 1 year
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maebymaedayidk · 2 years
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The sixth love language is sharing.
"But that's basically quality time so really-" No!!
Sharing the burden of a task, sharing interests, sharing food, sharing clothes, sharing resources, sharing knowledge, sharing drink, sharing hobbies, sharing the remote like -
I know that the way I personally show love is acts of service.
Let me make you food. Let me buy you food. Let me clean this for you. Let me carry your things. Let me adjust your collar. Let me feed you.
(It's mostly food related, honestly. I love you, let me feed you with my love. Are you full? I'll clear your plate. I love you.)
But the way you share and communicate your love is different than how you receive it. Everyone has 2 love languages, and I'm sure there are some where they love receiving gifts as much as they give gifts but i sense (on no scientific basis, but love is not an exact science) that they are the minority.
To be balanced I think you need to be loved in a different way than how you love. Everyone needs to learn how to love themselves, and although that is a tumultuous journey, you will probably (slowly, but surely) love yourself in the way thay you show love to others.
I am learning to love myself. And so I wash my hair, I bake bread, I tidy my room, I make red wine pasta for dinner. My needs for acts of service is met (eventually).
But receiving love? I want you to share with me.
Tell me about your favourite tv show and all the characters. Who's your favourite? Who do you hate? What have you made recently? Can I see it? It's beautiful. Want to do this thing together? We work so well together. Teach me how to play your favourite game. I'll buy a copy of your favourite book, I'll bet my favourite character will be the same as yours.
Love doesn't change based on proximity.
Physical touch, gift giving, acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation at their root require physical closeness.
But sharing doesn't need proximity. I don't need to be next to you to read your favourite book, to watch your favourite show, to see your latest creation, to play your favourite game, to eat your favourite food.
The way I feel loved is to be granted access to the things that you love. It makes me feel like I am included in the list. Like I get to take my place among your favourite things. And then I get to eat them up, so I can learn more and love more.
Maybe it's because I have lived most of my life far away from my closest friends, and learned to love through the distance. But sharing is so, so important. I hate the apologies after someone goes off about their favourite thing.
I want to shake them by their shoulders and tell them:
"Haven't you heard?! This is love."
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