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theambitiouswoman · 9 months

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Types of relationships that look like love but are not:

Infatuation: This is an intense emotional or sexual attraction to someone that can give the illusion of love. However, infatuation is often based on idealized perceptions rather than a deep emotional connection.

Codependency: Codependent relationships involve one person excessively relying on another for emotional or physical needs. This dependency can mimic love, but it is rooted in the need for validation, control, or a sense of purpose.

Unrequited love: This refers to a situation where one person has romantic feelings for another, but those feelings are not reciprocated. It may involve one-sided affection, longing, or an obsession with someone who does not feel the same way.

Limerence: Limerence is an intense and obsessive form of attraction characterized by intrusive thoughts, longing for reciprocation, and an idealized image of the other person. It can feel like love, but it often lacks a genuine emotional connection.

Conditional love: In relationships based on conditional love, affection and care are only given when certain conditions or expectations are met. This type of relationship lacks unconditional acceptance and can be manipulative or controlling.

Trauma bond: A trauma bond forms when two individuals share intense emotional experiences, often negative or abusive. Despite the harmful dynamics, there may be a strong attachment due to the shared trauma, leading to a mistaken perception of love.

Transactional relationships: These relationships are based on mutual benefit or convenience rather than genuine emotional connection. Partners may stay together for financial security, social status, or other practical reasons, rather than genuine love and affection.

Manipulative relationships: Manipulative relationships involve one person exerting control and power over the other through emotional manipulation, coercion, or gaslighting. The manipulator may feign love and affection to gain control or exploit their partner's vulnerabilities.

Fantasy relationships: In fantasy relationships, one or both partners create an idealized version of the other person, often based on unrealistic expectations or fantasies. The relationship may lack a true emotional connection, as it is based on the person's fantasy rather than the reality of who their partner is.

One-sided relationships: These relationships are characterized by an imbalance of effort, care, or emotional investment. One person may consistently give more while the other takes without reciprocation. It can create an illusion of love, but it lacks equality and mutual respect.

Love addiction: Love addiction refers to a compulsive or obsessive pattern of seeking out relationships and being dependent on the euphoric feeling of being in love. It can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships, as the person seeks constant validation and excitement without addressing underlying emotional issues.

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femmefatalevibe · 8 months

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Femme Fatale Guide: Must-Watch TED Talks On Female Sexuality

"Confidence and joy are the keys to a great sex life" by Emily Nagoski (required watch for everyone, especially women/AFAB)

"Reclaiming Female Sexual Desire" by Pamela Joy

"Good Sex Isn't About Knowing What You're Doing" by Sarah Byrden

"Cliteracy" by Sophia Wallace

"Joy of masturbation" by Julie Gaia Poupětová

"Shame, sex, and silence" by Dr. Faith Harper

"The Vagina Whisperer" by Tami Lynn Kent

"Women's Sexuality Isn't 'Complicated'" by Sarah Barmak

"The virginity fraud" by Nina Dølvik Brochmann & Ellen Støkken Dahl

"Why We All Lose When We Talk About Virginity" by Shelby Hadden

"Making sex normal" by Debby Herbenick

"Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity" by Grace Wetzel

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amandacross304 · 10 months

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ashleyfableblack · 8 months

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queerism1969 · 2 years

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laidee-flegman · 6 months

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Journaling prompts for Sexual awakening

1. Sexual Awakening: Describe your first memories of discovering your own sexuality. What was it like, and how have your feelings evolved over time?

2. Sexual Identity: Write about your sexual identity and orientation. How do you define yourself in terms of your sexual preferences?

3. Relationship with Your Body: Explore your relationship with your body and how it has evolved in the context of your sex life.

4. Favourite Sexual Experiences: Reflect on your most memorable and enjoyable sexual experiences. What made them special?

5. Fantasies and Desires: Share any sexual fantasies or desires you have, whether they are unfulfilled or something you've explored.

6. Communication with Partners: Discuss the importance of open and honest communication with your sexual partners. How do you express your needs and desires?

7. Sexual Boundaries: Explore your sexual boundaries and limits. How do you establish and communicate them in your relationships?

8. Consent and Respect: Write about the significance of consent and respect in your sexual encounters. How do you ensure everyone's comfort and boundaries are honoured?

9. Intimacy and Emotional Connection: Discuss the role of emotional intimacy in your sex life. How does it enhance your experiences?

10. Sexual Well-Being: Describe the practices and routines that contribute to your sexual well-being, including self-care and sexual health.

11. Challenges and Growth: Share any challenges or difficulties you've faced in your sex life and how you've grown from those experiences.

12. Sexual Education and Resources: List books, websites, or resources that have helped you expand your knowledge and understanding of sexuality.

13. Sexual Confidence and Self-Esteem: Reflect on how your sexual confidence and self-esteem have evolved throughout your life.

14. Body Image and Sexuality: Explore how body image and self-perception affect your sexual self-esteem and interactions.

15. Educational Experiences: Write about any experiences of sexual education, whether formal or informal, that have been influential in your sex life.

16. Solo Exploration: Share your experiences of self-pleasure and how they have contributed to your understanding of your own body and desires.

17. Sexual Adventures: Discuss any sexual adventures or experiences that pushed your boundaries or took you out of your comfort zone.

18. Supportive Partners: Acknowledge and appreciate partners who have been supportive and understanding in your sexual journey.

19. Sexual Health and Safety: Write about the importance of sexual health and safety, including discussions about STIs, contraception, and protection.

20. Cultural and Societal Influences: Reflect on how cultural and societal norms have influenced your perceptions of sex and sexuality.

21. Gender and Sexual Expression: Explore the connection between your gender identity and your sexual expression and experiences.

22. Advice for Others: If you could offer advice to someone looking to enhance their sex life, what insights would you share?

23. Sexual Celebrations: Write a positive affirmation or statement celebrating your sexual experiences and the importance of sexual well-being.

24. Intimacy and Relationships: Discuss the role of sex in building and maintaining intimacy within your romantic relationships.

25. Looking to the Future: Share your hopes, aspirations, and goals for your future sex life and sexual well-being.

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theambitiouswoman · 2 months

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💗 A Healthy Relationship Should:

Boost your confidence

Encourage you to achieve your goals

Elevate your happiness

Bring you peace

Provide stability & security

Cultivate experiences

Nurture emotional and physical intimacy

Inspire you to take care of yourself

Enhance your life

💗 A Healthy Relationship Should Not:

Undermine your self esteem

Hinder your independence

Limit your growth

Create stress

Promote jealousy

Neglect your needs

Isolate you

Manipulate or guilt you

Be overly dependent

Ignore boundaries

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femmefatalevibe · 9 months

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Femme Fatale Guide: A Beginner's Guide To Embracing Your Sexuality

A high-level guide for women/vulva owners reclaiming their bodies from patriarchy and/or purity culture and any AMAB individuals who want to learn more about how to support/pleasure their AFAB partners. Hope this helps xx

Let go of any shame: Desiring sexual pleasure and gratification is a primal urge. It's part of human biology (for most of us, at least), so begin deconstructing this shame/validating your needs. Mental blocks are going to be the number one thing that stops you from enjoying yourself or "getting there" once you figure out the basics for your body

Get a mirror and learn about your own anatomy: A roadmap is always helpful for directions – for yourself or to help guide/instruct a partner

Give yourself alone time to explore and experiment: See what feels good, even better, and not so much. Be patient and realize you deserve this indulgence. It is a private, not a shameful, practice

Introduce toys and sensory enhancers, if desired: Vibrators, CBD, arousal gels, sensual music/films, etc.

Read and learn more about female sexuality: I highly recommend Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski and She Comes First by Ian Kerner (also give them to a partner if you have one currently or in the future to read, honestly). Jessica Valenti's books are also incredible to help understand the social constructions surrounding female sexuality and owning it as a woman in a patriarchal society. Indulge in spicy books and ethically-made porn for some more steamy ideas/fantasies to explore

Communicate openly with any (prospective) partners about sex and your sexual boundaries: Share about your comfortability, preferences, things you want to try, etc. Don't be shy to speak up or help redirect. Being kind doesn't mean having to be a doormat. Consider all partnered sexual experiences as an act of sharing and exchanging pleasure, not as a means of control or coercion

For my in-depth guide/tons of recommendations, check out How To Embrace Your Sexuality Playbook in the hyperlink (Post+).

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venicemayberry · 1 year

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amandacross304 · 4 months

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asshatproductions · 4 months

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I feel like we should normalize the idea that you can want to have sex for different reasons each time, like

sometimes I just want to be an object of desire

sometimes I want to indulge myself in someone's physical features

sometimes I want to give pleasure

sometimes I just want to lie down and let someone pleasure me

and we should normalize that these things do not have to (and are most likely not going to) come from the same person.

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loweffortartist · 1 year

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TRUE LOVE PARTS 1 & 2

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cupidastrology · 1 year

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Hello!!! Hope all is well! Just wanted to ask about what would Groom asteroid in retrograde mean. Thank you

let's talk about asteroid groom in ℞.

asteroid groom direct in the birth chart may show that the potential "one" in your life may be very forward and clear in regards to who is best for you, mainly in regards to marital commitments and complete fulfillments with that person.

when asteroid groom is in a ℞ motion, you may find that your "one" is hard to find or hard to decipher. you may feel or think in a confused state or become uncomfortable with the idea of commitment or even someone wanting to commit to you in a marriage form. you may see marriage or the groom aspect as uncomfortable or in a way that is not titled "normal" to anyone.

you're not the follower type with marriage. you may become engaged with someone that is unexpected, follows marital traditions different, and sees marriage in a completely different way.

overall, marriage is a different world for you with asteroid groom in ℞. it is more internal, slow paced, and indifferent than the rest or when the asteroid is in a direct motion. it is not loud, overly expressive, and open in any form. marriage or your groom may come into your life in private or sneak your way without you knowing. a complete surprise.

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