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helloyarra · 2 days
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Some girls be dating wrong men and then traumatising tf outta other girls😭
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helloyarra · 2 days
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helloyarra · 2 days
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Whoever claiming bad things for you. May it get reversed to them.
All the good things are coming your way. Don't worry, You are protected by this universe ❤️🧿
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helloyarra · 6 days
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Being committed to a person who can’t love you properly is one of the hardest feelings to shake
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helloyarra · 12 days
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helloyarra · 15 days
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I agree with 100% of this. Do read it till the end!
Stop obsessing over him…
While it might seem fun to fantasise about a man, to think about him non-stop, to imagine your life together what you’re actually doing is sending a very strong signal to the universe that energetically ‘I come second’. While this might extreme, hear me out... Your thoughts are no longer your own because you are thinking about him. You can’t focus on you because you are thinking about him. All of a sudden everything is about him. You wake up, you take a shower. Lost in the fantasy...He might be a man you’re talking to, dating, fucking, whatever the case my be. Obsessing over a man in thought is never something you should get comfortable with, giving your precious energy away to moments that will ….most likely never happen. And what for? What about thinking about you. Your dreams, passions? The vision for your day? You only have so much mental capacity each day. And getting lost in the fantasy is not the answer.
Create no fantasy of him. This is your lesson. Press pause. Literally press fucking pause. Eject the tape. Throw it out the window. This is YOUR movie. You get to take centre stage. You no longer have to play second to mentally overthinking men. 
Start choosing you. But you have to choose you in thought first and foremost. You can’t come second in thought. Your thinking has to be on you, about you. You can’t come second mentally because a man who is not your man is taking centre stage in your mind. Your thinking space is prime real estate. It needs YOU. YOU need to own that domain. Not think it’s cute to imagine the future, get all giddy and love sick. No. No no no. Bring it back to you. Your job now is to remain focused on you. That is it. Remain focused of you. Let go. Just let go. 
Is this message clear enough for you. Do you understand now how harmful it is to make a man first priority in your mind? 
Give yourself some grace. Clean your room and get back to you. Focusing on you. Energising you. It’s a process, but the shift can be instant..all of a sudden one day you just say no. No to allowing a man to take up the domain for my mind. And just like that you can switch off that light in your mind that gets excited to overthink a man. Say no. Pray. Ask for a miracle. Call on angels. This is truly serious because focusing on you, and remaining in your centre is how you win in this life. 
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helloyarra · 2 months
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" I'm straight forward"
That doesn't mean you can disrespect the other person and cross their boundaries again and again. And expect them not to judge you.
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helloyarra · 3 months
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Some people do shitty things to you then blame you for choosing them. As if we were given some kind of terms and conditions before becoming their friend. They will not fail you to regret your decisions everytime you give them a chance.
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helloyarra · 3 months
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Thinking of you..
May be you are just afraid
to dance with me
That is why
you run away everytime, i see
I kept on swaying along with the wind
With all my sorrows and joy
As i watched another girl
dancing with my boy
You want me
But don't wanna be with me
You fear that our steps won't match
And our rythms
will be different when we will catch
He was a like a butterfly
Beautiful, curious and
A little bit shy
Sometimes he doesn't get along
But carries a lot of dreams in his eyes
And I know my heart is dumb
Despite every wounds
It will look up to you
That's why I have to keep it numb
~Yarra
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helloyarra · 3 months
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It felt like we were close yet so far away from each other. This wall of these bricks of untold emotions went really high. And I completely lost myself during that entire process of holding them for so long. I am sorry I couldn't take it anymore back then.
Wish you could have seen into my eyes back then. How hurting it was to watch me feeling lost. Emotions should feel free to share so that one can communicate properly. It doesn't mean you didn't love me, surely you did.
But she was so madly in love with you that she even forgot about herself. only if you could see that she wasn't her anymore. she was drowning in her own crippling emotions...
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helloyarra · 3 months
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All it told me, that alcohol was just an excuse for his abuse.
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helloyarra · 3 months
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I don't understand the idea of casual flirting. They both talk like they are in love, emotionally connected. But they do not commit. Do not have any tags as couples. And I know, one of them always ends up falling in love. And later they break their own hearts.
it is better to be clear about each other from the beginning. So it won't be an emotional manipulation later.
Talk about it, talk about the bond. Make sure you both are on the same page. And if they do not match or respect your decisions in anyway. Then you know which way to show your door ;)
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helloyarra · 3 months
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Promise yourself to Never allow them (people who drain you or subtly make you feel low energetic) after 8pm!
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helloyarra · 4 months
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helloyarra · 4 months
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You aren’t broken or wrong if you miss someone who hurt you. It’s okay to miss someone and not want them in your life anymore. Feelings are complicated.
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helloyarra · 4 months
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All I want to say, You are here for a reason. You have come this far. Please don't give up okay 🌻✨
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helloyarra · 4 months
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Don't fake love when it's night,
Don't make love when she is high..
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