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order was determined by me peeking into ao3 and looking at the relationship tags
#ultrakill#polls#YES im aware that due to which blog im using. that one of these answers may be biased#but i DONT want to put this poll on main and i really have no other fitting blogs#theres more ships i could put here but i only have 12 options!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#i have honestly been wondering this question for a while
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im gonna start a fight; and, at the same time, i need you to take this in the most good-faith way possible, but:
videos that involve body-checking and intentionally (and uncritically) show a mealplan of an unhealthy number of calories are just a revamped version of pro-ana food diaries.
and yeah, i know there's arguments. i address some of them under the cut. but at the end of the day, we're just coming back to romanticizing mental illness; we've just found a better platform for it.
this is already something we've done. we knew it was wrong and tried to stop it. and tbh. it just wasn't enough.
there are people who argue "well, what if you have an eating disorder, you can't help it if you don't eat!" except that as someone with an ED; we are not infants. we know what we're doing. part of having an ED is that you are like, maybe too self-aware. even if we can't help our own food choices, we don't need to fucking romanticize the disorder - something we've been warning you about since 2013. there are hours of setup, filming, and editing that go into these videos. they do not happen to fall into place randomly. there is a reason they are pieced together to be beautiful, bright, inspiring.
there's this woman who pretty much only posts daily plans under a normal amount of calories, and everyone defends her saying but it's better than nothing! and i'm like. except she opens those with images of her showing off her body and provides no context in the video or caption that suggests that she believes what she's doing is unhealthy. she has hundreds of thousands of followers on a platform designed for young kids and teens. i refuse to believe that by accident her content just happens to be cheery advice on "healthy" versions of starving.
for any other symptom of mental illness, we would be incredibly enraged by this kind of placid acceptance of a "tips and tricks" fast-start guide. imagine if people posted pink & pretty videos saying "best places to cut yourself" as if it was a fucking storytime. we, as a society, are so fucking fatphobic that we would rather accept blatantly harmful displays of self harm than admit that we are obsessed with a hyper-thin body type.
i am not suggesting someone never talks about their disorder. i talk about mine. actually, it's a plot point in my book.
here's the difference: i recognize it's a fucking mental illness. i am very careful to never mention a specific weight, eating pattern, or calorie plan. i always make sure to position it as something that ruined my fucking life. i do not put cheery music in the background and hearts and sparkles over my worst moments. i do not film it in bright light. i do not start each passage with an image of a thin body followed by "here's how to look like her."
eating disorders should not be framed as aspirational. and the problem is that society worships the "after" image, so long as you don't get too sick. there is a reason so many people who quit being "influencers" will later admit - i wasn't eating well that whole time; an obsession with food was completely destroying my life.
we let any uncredited, uncertified person write the most backwards, fucked up shit about how to get the body you desire! because the underlying, secret belief is: well, at least they're thin! and the real thing that fucking gets me each time - they make fucking money off of it. their irresponsibility and societal harm literally pays off for them.
"why do you care so much." "don't like it don't look." "so what if people experiment with new ways of thinking of food?"
thank you for asking. we're about to get extremely personal. it's because when i was 18 i discovered "thinspiration"/"thinspo." and it absolutely influenced, shaped, and codified my pre-existing eating disorder. i went from having some troubling habits and traits to being incredibly unwell within what felt like a matter of days. there were actual pages designed to train me on how to have an ED correctly. it was all so suddenly easy. i was sick; and the nature of the illness meant - i wanted to be sicker.
it takes an average of 7 years for a person to fully recover. i know this personally - even now, 10 years from the worst of it, i still fucking struggle. i am so much happier now and i eat what i want and i literally don't think about food at all (19 year old me would shudder) and yet - i still fucking know the calories of plain toast with butter.
an eating disorder is one of the deadliest types of mental illness. over 1 in 4 people with an ED will attempt suicide.
and i'm sorry. i just do not see the exchange rate of "high rate of engagement" versus "the value of a human life."
#and there's something else in there about like ....#tbh once i got over something like 1k followers#i stopped being specific about my ED for a REASON.#yes on ur personal locked blog that u use like a diary go ahead etc#but we are OBVIOUSLY not talking about that. we're talking about the sheer NUMBER of people i could be talking about#in that one paragraph. that you and i probably were thinking about 2 different influencers#bc they get to say that they're just posting FITNESS and if it's FITNESS it's OKAY and im like#jesus christ lord almighty#every person in recovery from an ED: this is incredibly dangerous holy shit do you know how much this would have triggered me#each of these ppl: how dare you!!!!!!!!! i am only harming those who WANT to engage with my content!!!!!#their followers: leave them alone !!! they can't help that they make an hours-long choice to frame their disorder as if it was#fucking cottagecore !!!!#like girlie this person needs THERAPY#again! i didn't even have that large of a following before i IMMEDIATELY deleted any specific mention of calories food etc#bc i recognize responsibility and i didnt EVER want to even ACCIDENTALLY encourage this#and im not even GETTING PAID FOR THIS!!!#aND THEY ARE!!!#something something something they know this content makes them money#they don't give a SHIT about u babe
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Phil and Pink 🩷🩷
#was this mainly just so I could gif Phil in that pink jacket#yes#yes it was#I want that jacket#It is also to fit with the colour of my blog#does anyone have any other colour ideas that I could do#I love doing this#maybe i'll just redo some other colours I have done but just different fits#i'm also debating doing a dan version of these#dan and phil#dnp#danandphil#amazingphil#phil lester#my gifs#dnp gifs#phil colour
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wait wait wait i cant believe i forgot to post this
this is a call to to all people who are both fans of HC and WH, if you are one of them i fucking love you
#noel levine#henrietta warhol#hello charlotte#i know this is a bit of a dead meme but#for anyone who doesn't know it's “draw your two comfort characters as this”#anri is my namesake and noel is the one who has taken over my entire head so it fits#also: anri would buly the fuck out of noel#noel would get bullied by a teenager and cry#i think noel and charles have a lot in common actually but thats for another day#sorry to all the non hc fans on this blog#also yes#he IS that much taller than her#bisexuals#they both have The Bang(tm)#drawings
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"Ah, there you are."
DAY 0 - Pin
There isn't enough of this rotting menace around so I shall take the matter into my own silly hands.
I will do my best to post art daily or every other day- unsure for how long I'll keep this going, only time will tell-
And uhm- well.. cheers for the beginning!
#fear and hunger termina#fear and hunger#fear & hunger#per'kele#f&h termina#f&h#Daily Per'kele#Yes- that last bit has nothing to do with Termina but I still thought it fitting for this clo- jester.. devil? This critter.#I always wanted to start one of these daily blogs but never could decide on a character- just look who I ended up choosing in the end#Fun fact: this pose is inspired by a lil' clown figurine I saw in a vintage shop
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Wanted to post this as its own thing; based on a post by @stamway 🔮
#miiight do a resh'an ver cuz i think the meme fits him a bit better...i wanted to draw Aephorul tho#sea of stars#sea of stars Aephorul#aephorul#meme redraw#screenshot redraw#screenshot repaint#sea of stars video game#artists on tumblr#small artist#small art account#small art blog#should i tag jaymoji.#jaymoji#yes i think i will
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> Rose: Confess to Kanaya!
Rose: I love you.
Kanaya: Y Yo Ati, Rose.
> Rose: Get swallowed by something that looks like Venom.
> Rose: Get sent to super hell!
> Kanaya: Have something very gay and homophobic happen to you.
Kanaya: ...
What an absolute diversity loss. You find yourself thinking "love loses!"
#Okay this is my highest possible effort post so far; please spread it around like it's the flu or something#I put so many hours into this like actually lmao I surprised myself with how late I stayed up#going on a content hiatus soon so I suppose that fits that I put out a high effort destiel meme & scene recreation as a last hurrah#send in requests though; i'll get around to them when I get around to them! love to see what you folks come up with!#the sprite assets are up on my main but I'll reblog them here later; not sure if I'll have a tag system or not for it yet#new supernatural & homestuck memes format dropped along with a couple of spn AU designs & beyond canon too#yes I even included a shot of super mega turbo hell; it's got a little bit of everything as it should 🔥#rosewheresheshouldntbe#kanaya maryam#rose lalonde#rosemary#homestuck#originals#hs rose#hs kanaya#spn#supernatural#destiel#dean winchester#castiel#please don't expect me to commit to the bit this hard every time because that's absolutely not realistic; I just got super into this 😂#I can't believe I designed entire new outfits around rosemary just for the bit of doing this joke; just for this little side blog#the rose outfit is just an edited version of her hs beyond canon outfit; but still! I'm happy with how she & her wife look 💜
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Some screenshots of Bad's stream from a couple days ago, totally not in his toxic ex arc rn :3... yes...
#qsmp#badboyhalo#qsmp bbh#qsmp badboyhalo#qsmp screenshots#qsmp blogging#qsmp cucurucho#qsmp surveyduo#cucuhalo#halorucho#CallMe-Q screenies#Bad is totally not in his toxic ex arc rn yes#Also... Bad's break up song being before he cheats#Fits him so well I think yes#Still in the back of my mind :D
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#Poll#Tumblr Polls#Smash or Pass#Undead#Hologram#Red Dwarf#I thought long and hard about whether he would fit on this blog and I've decided that yes he does
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I need to be sprayed. I changed Egill again and now I can't stop staring 👁️👁️
BTW LOOK AT HIS HORNS!! look at his horns oh- he's the cutest deer boy and yes I'm going to ignore the fact that he's a necromancer spore druid with questionable non-existent morals and slayer form ✌🏾
#HOW'S HE SO PRETTY#I want to hug him#!!! I wish I could#yeaaaah I don't remember if I posted him before?? but yeah it's him. my current durge and im in love with him#I wish only there were more 4c hairstyles in game because I imagine him with different hairstyle but that one is the only that fits#the amount of times I changed his hair in the game.. yeah and I still wish for different option. there's like none lmao#worst of all. HE CAN'T EVEN HAVE THE WHITE HAIR I want him to have. because there are NONE for 2nd and 3rd frame#I have a lot of hair mods in my game but there are so little options for body types. almost everything is for 1???#and like. I'm going to cry I wish it wasn't like this :'(#also yes he's been wearing the same exact outfit for the whole game. yeeeeeah I know#nonsims#bg3#idk how to tag but I'm a small personal blog so I won't bother
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Do you believe in transandrophobia
I mean, I talk at length about being a trans man and the intersections of my trans manhood and interacting in a world which often doesn't want people like me to exist, so even if I don't really call my experiences that, maybe you might? I generally support people calling their experiences with oppression how they see it, which is why some trans men say they experience misogyny and some don't. Neither are "more correct" because we almost all experience transphobia, misogyny, and everything else slightly differently.
At the end of the day, trans liberation must happen with all of us no matter what their experience is. I've seen so much "discourse" surrounding terms like these when at the end of the day, we're still being oppressed no matter what we call our experiences. I think it's okay for people to label their experiences as they see fit, but I don't think that's the end-all-be-all. I guess my sole focal point is trans liberation before debating about what terms we have to use.
I always find asks like this to be very odd, mostly because I don't know what the context behind this is or why it's asked. If you want a more direct answer to my political or philosophical views, I really would at least like more details as to what inspired questions like these so I can clarify, expand, or discuss specific points.
#ask#anon#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#nonbinary#blog boundaries#(mostly for the last paragraph)#i think this ask is especially odd to me because i talk so often about being a trans man and what my experiences are#and also because 'believe in' is weird to me#like i follow a lot of other trans men* as well and other trans people who talk at length about trans lib and how they fit in with that#i think being able to engage with the idea that we must have each other's backs even if we aren't fond of each other is important#YES you're going to come across trans people you don't like or who use language for themselves you don't like...#...but how you treat them is more important. do you sacrifice them or do you include them in trans liberation?#are there trans people who you just don't like so you do your best to exclude them from trans liberation?#when i talk about trans liberation i don't mean that you have to like all trans people#hell *i* don't like all trans people. we're flawed and we can be plain TERRIBLE. but i don't exclude them from trans lib#not liking (and hating) people is part of the human condition 👍
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now after having this blog back and am solidifying my verses, i am in the alley of mains and exclusives.
#ofc i have a soft spot to the ogs who knew my superman since year ago 😭 you all can dm me if you fit that criteria#looking forward to new bonds w new ppl too ofc so far i been slowly working on that w ppl!#for dms i havent replied to im sorry i genuinely am excited to talk dynamic.s#but yes i love making blog canons with ppl it means sm to me and makes rping more solid to me. like a real universe#❝ 𝗢𝗢𝗖 ⁂ ꞉ [ out of character ] ¡
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tired of reading fics that use “good girl” or (BLEGH) “little girl”, where are the “clever girl” compliments cmon “clever girl” is so much hotter and a better compliment than “good girl”
#yes i see how this fits exactly with the theme of this blog#but darcy and Lizzie were on to something about that intellectual hottness#incorrect pride and prejudice quotes#pride and prejudice#the lizzie bennet diaries
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Hey Ash, how'd you get so handsome? 👉👈🥺
How did I get- ? Well, it all comes down to the genes, baby. I was born with it ;]
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#ask ash williams#ash williams#evil dead#dbd ask blog#ash vs evil dead#happy late v day... tis was a drawing for v day but i thought that it would fit here anyway x00#and yes im aware that i haven't been updating here lately.. esp on my side blogs too x/// been rly distracted with other media sooo
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@grimesucker sent 🤳 + 5 for:
ㅤbyan's family (biological, adopted, & found); feat. sol, the boyfriend (@lee-sol); lena, the older sister (@chronal-anomaly); ardaka, the parental sibling figure (@apexulansis); kit, the (sort of but not technically) younger sister (@florafound); garrett, the vaguely guardian-esque figure (@gnarledbite); & dox, the mom (@grimesucker)
#OK LOOK FIRST OF ALL DON'T GET ME WRONG: there ARE more people who byan would loosely consider family#but....... for my sanity in digging up images.... i focused on those who i've plotted with/write with the most...#and stuck to like. one muse per mun lmaoaskjfhsd#this also spans across a few verse so like... u've got 3 for modern... 1 for space orphan... 1 for fledgling... & 1 (or ig kinda 2) for uc#just!!! the people who have the most developed familial relationships w/ byan u know?#and yes shut up boyf is included in family bc it's just a necessity. i will not be apologizing.#also had to fall back on an aesthetic image i snagged off of xeno's resource blog for ardaka#but then i realized it's actually v fitting even ic bc he doesn't show up properly on camera anyway lmaooo#━━ ˟ ⊰ ✰ answered: ooc.#━━ ˟ ⊰ ✰ headcanon ⋮ danger in the fabric of this thing i made.#grimesucker#lee-sol#chronal anomaly#apexulansis#florafound#gnarledbite
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for anyone: tea or coffee
3rdL!Scott: definitely tea, coffee has a weird after taste
#Also regarding your other ask#yes i do think the songs fit them#life series#trafficblr#ask blog#milly ask#3rd life#scott smajor#lose
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