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decolonize-the-left · 8 months

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I've noticed a rise in radfems/TERFs in feminism tags and more specifically trying to rebrand as The Real Feminism or True Feminism since it's "for the girlies" or whatever.

I am begging you all to help me bury them.

Because as a teen who grew up during the peak of exclusionary "bi/pan/aces aren't vaild" and "kill all men" era where the concept of misandry THRIVED I'm telling you this feels extremely similar.

And radfem/terf ideology got mainstream from those sentiments being so popular and so easy to tap into. It was framed as being righteous since men were oppressors.

"Women are good and men are just mean oppressors! Look at everything they've done!" is such a common sentiment in those circles.

It also completely lacks critical feminist thought.

And we're STILL dealing with the affects of it over a decade later.

.....So let's talk about JKR since she's currently the Figurehead and favorite of the movement that's trying to rewrite feminist history.

It's 2023. It's a year before a US election where Project 2025 and Trump would happily create a road for trans and queer folks to be imprisoned if not worse.

Which is I'm sure why JKR has been photographed and interacting with multiple members from The Heritage Foundation, people whove spoken for them, and people who attended theyre meetings. She even enjoyed watching Magdalen, who who she credits for becoming a TERF.

But do you know who Magdalen is? Or what else she was saying? What about any of the other people in the photo? Do you know the scope of what JKR was internalizing and how bad it was? Do you know she has ties to conservative anti-abortion groups?

Do you know what The Heritage Foundation? Probably not and they're the worst so let me tell you why it's such a huge red flag for her and other so-called TERFs and radfems to be associated with them.

Because I can tell you right now she heard a lot of things from those people and there is no fucking way in hell that it was just about queer people or just some sex-specific concerns. And it wasn't just passive bigotry.

Anyone who doesn't conform to the idea of a white, straight nuclear family (re: single mothers, leftists, immigrants, gay couples, etc) is made out to be an enemy of the state.

Anyone they can justify as a "national threat." Yes, they call us all a national threat on their site, their book, and the pamphlets they pass out to politicians. The details are listed on their website including the Mandate For Leadership which is their instruction guide for the next president.

I'm not exaggerating when I say it calls for genocide, prison camps, and eugenic cleansing.

Several people in that photo don't even support abortion, a basic women's rights that JKR claims to care about deeply.

JKR was consuming white supremacist dogma under the guise of feminism.

And she's not willing to admit or correct it which is where the problem lies. She won't even admit to herself that she was fooled or that it's bad or hypocritical.

My concern is that she is not the only person who's fallen for it and there are more everyday.

So it's very important to me y'all learn how to filter out what Actual Feminism is in this age where literal fascism is attempting to take its place.

Firstly,

Real, actual feminism will be welcoming to EVERYONE

Because the patriarchy doesn't only affect women or cis people or white women and it's an insult to every previous feminist icon to say otherwise.

Feminists have been fighting for decades to unite people under the concept that Patriarchy is a system that will be brought down with allyship and solidarity.

They've been fighting so hard and so long to prove that everyone deserves the same rights as men.

That women are just as capable as men and shouldn't be stopped from entering fields of study and sports dominated by men. They've been fighting to prove that women are just as capable and smart as any man is, that men would benefit from it dismantling patriarchy too.

Women fought side by side with the queer community to get Roe v Wade passed in 1973. You know why? Because despite what radfems and TERFs will tell you trans women benefit from protecting and standing up for bodily autonomy.

Do not let bigots tear drive a wedge between two groups that experience gender based oppression and would benefit from the same exact rights.

We have changed history together and they're terrified we'll do it again.

A screenshot from the largest feminist organization active right now, The National Organization of Women.

Notice how the T is included. They even posted this video two years ago when LGBT and specifically trans rights started really coming under attack in 2022.

Trans women are women.

Trans men are men.

ALL women deserve rights.

Every gender deserves equality and fairness.

And feminism is for all of us or it is for none of us.

Because nobody deserves to be treated the way patriarchy treats us.

#feminism #feminist #equality #gender #trans rights are womens rights are human rights #trans rights #womens rights #human rights #intersectional feminism #solidarity #leftist

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astraltrickster · 9 months

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Since the wave of mass site migrations there is one REALLY worrisome trend I've been noticing: the number of radfem posts I've been seeing ending up on my dash, reblogged unknowingly by people who think they're just base-level feminist statements, has all but gone back to c.2014 levels. Everything seems good on a surface level, but I spot one dogwhistle, or something strikes me as being a little too absolutist, and I check into that...and sure enough, the road leads back to terf city.

So here's a quick PSA:

Please be careful with your Feminism 101 sources.

See, terfs and their close relatives KNOW we don't like them here, so they don't tend to lead with their well-known hatred of trans women. On top of that, there is a problem with a subset of radfems on this site who purport to be trans-inclusive - i.e., they openly support trans women...but DESPISE trans men (often more than they hate cis men, because of the whole "joining the enemy"/"gender traitor" myth pushed by terfs) or any nonbinary person who aligns partially with manhood or masculinity, especially if they're AMAB (they often think they can "save" - i.e., conversion-therapy - the AFAB ones).

Therefore, on a single-post level, it is very, VERY hard to tell the difference between a basic feminist statement that, yeah, patriarchy exists and that means there are lots of awful double-standards around gender where women broadly get the shorter end of the stick and these standards AFFECT every individual in a society and that's something we should work to change, and a statement that these things are absolute and inevitable, either because Biology or because those double-standards are too deeply ingrained to EVER overcome without giving up and starting over from scratch (whichever is convenient), and the only solution is hardline female wombyn-born-wombyn separatism or at LEAST excluding trans people from public life for, at best, making it too hard to tell who's ~safe~. In fact, sometimes on that single-post basis, they could potentially even be identical - though less frequently than many people thought in the heyday of "OP was a terf so I stole this post but anyway all men are walking rape threats and need to accept that any reasonable person will always hate and fear them on sight".

So what can you, random newbie, do to avoid unwittingly passing one of these messages on without turning into some kind of horrible "feminism is cancer" chud?

Well, one of the easiest ways is the Shinigami Eyes browser extension, but I personally don't like to rely on it because 1) you can't use it on every platform (sorry mobile app likers), 2) in my experience it's somewhat common for "trans-inclusive" radfems to be flagged as safe because someone saw their positivity for trans women but not their hatred for trans men, and 3) I just don't like to promote the use of browser extensions as a substitute for learning what radfem rhetoric is and why it is, in fact, anything but feminist; it is very beneficial to terfs if the ONLY thing you know of their rhetoric is "they hate trans women".

The hard but better way is to actually familiarize yourself with what to look out for. Here is an inexhaustive list:

Category 0: Tags to add to your blacklist

Your blacklist filters out posts with the blacklisted tags in the reblog you're seeing, OR in the root post. Therefore, if a radfem post that looks like it's just base-level feminism does breach containment somehow and end up on your dash through someone else, it will still get caught if it's tagged with any of these:

Terfsafe

Radblr

Radfem

Terfs/radfems do interact/do touch/please interact/please touch, etc

Category 1: Terf-ese and dogwhistles

Some of these, especially those near the top of the list, are immediate telltale signs. Others are less certain, but they should at least raise some eyebrows.

"Gender critical" - literally a synonym for terf just used to make the ideology sound more legitimate; they often claim that terf is a slur

"TIM/TIF" - "Trans-identified male/female", a way to delegitimize trans identities

"Febfem" - female-exclusive bisexual woman; a bisexual woman who rejects her attraction to men; essentially a modern term for "political lesbian" (a group which claimed that lesbianism is not a sexual orientation that some people just Have, but a political choice to reject men)

"Butch flight" - the claim that trans men are butch lesbians transitioning to escape lesbophobia and gain male privilege

"Adult human female" - this very simplified dictionary definition of "woman" is something of a rallying cry

"Let girls be tomboys/butch" - some people say this in response to old repressive gender roles in things like dress codes, or even people holding trans women to a higher standard of femininity than cis women, but if that is not explicitly the context it's very likely that this means "stop the evil plastic surgery racket from force-transing every little girl who even looks at a truck, which they're TOTALLY doing"

The inverse, while less common (terfs tend to be very open about not wanting men to be feminine in any way because of "deception" and "false security"), is also one to look out for - sometimes it's a statement against binarism and gender essentialism, sometimes it's basically an assertion of the Blanchard "feminine homosexual man vs. autogynephilic man" model of what a trans woman is

"Compulsory heterosexuality/comphet" - an aspect of heteronormativity whereby it's common, especially for younger people, to try to force themselves to experience heterosexual attraction when they don't. Useful as it may seem, the term was coined by radfems. Most people who are not terfs or other radfems who want to discuss it will discuss it under the umbrellas of heteronormativity and amatonormativity

Hogwarts houses - this is a sneaky one; far from everyone who read those books or even enjoyed them is a terf, but since JKR's full-tilt descent into fascism via the gateway of transphobia, terfs HAVE been using this as a way to seek out their own and mark themselves as safe; let this also serve as a reminder that if you are NOT a terf PLEASE REMOVE THIS FROM YOUR BIO; it WILL both draw them to you AND cause you to be immediately distrusted by anyone else, saying "I DO NOT CONDONE THE VIEWS OF JKR" will not help because terfs can and do lie about that too in communities where they have to stay crypto, at best you're granting them plausible deniability

Referring to men and women as "males" and "females"

Usernames referencing "female" reproductive anatomy - may be a good sign if they're attached to trans-positive modifiers like "boy" or "they", but a username like "divine-vagina" or "ovariesofpower" (note these are theoretical usernames, not ones I've encountered in the wild; if someone does have one of those usernames and isn't a radfem I'm deeply sorry) is probably a terf

Hatred of makeup and plastic surgery - look, no one likes the beauty industry, no one is going to dispute that beauty standards are a nightmare, but this is frequently a smokescreen for hating gender confirmation or anything that helps with the "deception" inherent to transness; be ESPECIALLY wary of anyone talking about "TikTok plastic surgeons trying to sell their services to impressionable teenage girls", this usually translates to "gender confirmation surgeons telling young transmascs that there are options for them", and remember that you either believe in bodily autonomy or you don't, there is no third option

Category 2: Ideological concepts to look out for

This is some of the beginnings of crossing the line from feminism to radfem bullshit - if the rest of the post seems cool but starts heading in these directions, don't assume it's hyperbole; get it as far away from you as possible.

Patriarchy, men-oppressing-women, is THE root system of injustice from which all others spawn. Some will acknowledge that other factors may intersect, but will still claim that they are lesser. Bringing up the long history of white women getting men of color, especially Black men, killed via weaponized fragility and false claims of sexual violence, is just a series of flukes and pointing it out to refute this notion that men vs. women outranks all other inequalities is just whataboutism.

Because patriarchy is so far-reaching, it affects every individual, and because it trumps all other axes of oppression, this means that in every interaction between any man and any woman, the man will be the one with more power.

Men, due to socialization, biology, or both, are categorically incapable of recognizing women as full people. This is not only a broad pattern, but an inevitable fact, true of every individual man, no matter how hard anyone tries to change it.

There is a singular Universal Female Experience. According to terfs, this is an external force; trans women don't have this socialization experience, therefore they can never truly know what it's like to be a woman. According to tirfs, it is internal; trans men process their experiences internally as men from birth to death and therefore have no claim to truly understand any experience of misogyny directed at them.

The experience of being a woman is, first and foremost, suffering. It is therefore to be expected that a certain subset of people would transition to try to escape it - but it's the wrong answer, and this practice of either self-destruction or betrayal must be stopped at all costs. Anyone who wants in on the miserable experience that is womanhood, on the other hand, is at best insensitively looking at a burning building and going "wow, that looks so warm!", blissfully but cruelly unaware of the misery of the situation, and at worst is lying to satisfy a fetish.

Women are categorically incapable of abusing men, because patriarchy outranks all, down to the individual level. Some may also say that this is true because of biological differences in physical strength. (Very feminist, isn't it, to say "the strongest woman is still weaker than the weakest man and nothing can ever change that"?)

There is, fundamentally, no difference between a person with some subconscious misogyny problems and an incel mass shooter; both will abuse women, and therefore both must be treated as threats.

Because the power differential between men and women is so great, a woman cannot TRULY meaningfully consent to sex with a man; all sex between a man and a woman is rape.

Because rape is such a common trauma among women, the very existence of men - or penises, for that matter, even fully clothed ones - in a space where a woman doesn't expect them is traumatic and itself tantamount to rape.

Lesbians don't just have their own unique flavor of oppression experience like any other queer subgroup; they are in fact THE most uniquely oppressed and vulnerable of all, because being a lesbian is first and foremost not about attraction to women, but rejection of men (recall the ties to political lesbianism). Some radfems will embrace contradictory labels or slightly varied personal definitions for other queer subgroups - but if you're anything but a Kinsey 6 who would never even consider making an exception, and 100% a binary woman, you CAN'T identify as a lesbian. You cannot identify as a lesbian if you wouldn't dump your partner or try to conversion-therapy "her" if "she" came out as transmasc. To a tirf, you cannot identify as a lesbian if you're on the butch-transmasc cusp, if they're willing to admit such a cusp exists in the first place. To terfs, you cannot identify as a lesbian if you would ever date a trans woman, let alone if you ever have.

Again, this is far from being an exhaustive list, but it covers most of the most common things that set off my own alarm bells. Additions are more than welcome.

Remember, the danger of letting radfem posts slide because they seem okay on the surface is twofold: one, you're directing more people to their blogs and exposing them to more people they may then target, and two, when those concepts that cross the line bleed out into your gender theory, the result is bad for you and everyone around you.

#internet culture #internet safety #serious tag #internet bullshittery warning #tumblr culture

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vexingwoman · 2 months

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I'm radfem adjacent, and primarily consume "whump" for a lot of the reasons already detailed here. For me personally I find a lot of catharsis in this kind of content, but I admit a large part of it is probably my brain being rotted by fanfiction.

A lot of it is self fulfilling prophecy. It's simply way too difficult for me to see a woman character being hurt or tortured, and seeing a man under the same situation is in both parts a kind of revenge or catharsis for my own suffering. And if I desire to see this dynamic, there are truckloads of fanfiction and doujin about this specific topic, sometimes even with a happy ending. Someone else proposed that seeing your favorite character that vulnerable is appealing, which I think holds true for me as well. I think so many women are primarily drawn to gay male fiction because of internalized misogyny, but primarily in the sense it is difficult to see oneself in a sexual fantasy. Projecting or inserting myself into a female character requires so much internal observation of the self. It completely changes the dynamic in my mind, so it is so much easier to just insert a male character that I can project onto as the victim. With a female character I'm asking myself all these questions. Am I as attractive as her? Would the character I'm interacting with in this scenario ever be attracted to me? Would the sexual fantasy proceed in the same way if the other character perceived me as female? It is too painful to think about these things, so I just default to a comfortable impossible yaoi fantasy.

I find female fandom space fascinating, because it is the only part of the internet men have never had any interest in colonizing. So it's an almost clear mirror of how women feel in a hypersexualized society. There are certainly women who sexualize real gay men, but a fictional man is not a man. A fictional gay man is not a gay man. Lines on a screen will always be a projection. As long as women exist in a society where they are told constantly they could be raped, when all real life porn is men getting off to random women being raped, a lot of women will naturally turn that fear into a fantasy that can take the edge off of this constant, looming fear.

Very interesting. You touched on a sentiment I’ve had for a long time, which is that male characters get to be viewed as human first and male second, but female characters are viewed as female first and human second. For example, when a male character is emotional and vulnerable, it’s viewed as a consequence of his individual self. But when a female character is emotional and vulnerable, it’s viewed only as a consequence of her being female. I can definitely understand the feeling that envisioning yourself as a male character is much easier and requires less self-awareness or internal observation.

Honestly, it’s fascinating that you’re interested in the victimization of male characters, at least partly, as vicarious revenge for misogyny. It almost comes across as though you hate these male characters. However, as I mention here, most women in these communities are extremely vocal about loving, caring for, and adoring the male characters whose anguish they romanticize.

Overall, I’m learning that the radical feminist community has very differing opinions on this matter. You and many others have expressed the opinion that whump consumers are interested in male victims because female victims are too real and horrifying to read about. However, myself and others are of the opposite opinion, which is that whump consumers are interested in male victims because there is a lack of compassion for female victims—meaning, female anguish is only recognized for the horrifying tragedy that it is when imposed onto a male character.

@misandry-is-justified articulated this view nicely: “when a woman is victimized its to titillate the (male) audience, but when a man is victimized it is treated rightfully as a horrific and traumatizing incident […] this is why whump so often uses a male victim, because only then is trauma and violence treated as it should and only then is the victim truly treated as a victim.”

#radical feminism #radblr #misogny #sexism #whump community #whump #answered asks

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lesjasmine · 1 month

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I stand with all lesbians. That includes white lesbians. Why am I making this statement? I'm honestly too lazy to specify the details that inspired me to write this post but I can share a couple reasons why. First, I noticed any interactions I have with people who dislike the term "gold star lesbian," try and detract from the conversation by treating me like I'm a white person that comes from privilege. This has manifested itself by comments including "gold star lesbians are like the KKK/nazis/aryan." Most of these extremist comments come from TRAs and troons. However, there have been problematic comments from radfems toward myself and other woc gsl. These comments include "gsl promote violence," "gsl are racist," or the famous one "gsl are misogynistic." In the case of radfems they say this expecting that they're talking to a white lesbian. I know that's the case because I've had a radfem cry about racism and when I set them straight that the person they're talking to is not white and indeed a woc, they denied denied denied. Screenshots of this incident are somewhere in my blog. This is one case I shared but I've also witnessed something similar elsewhere. Maybe this is going to be controversial but I stand by ALL actual lesbians. I'd never discredit the homophobia and misogyny they deal with just because they're white and supposedly more 'privileged.' I don't necessarily agree with that last part either. Most lesbians I've talked to come from poor to low-middle class families. Irregardless of race, many have been targets for bullies and hate because they're homosexual. Being a lesbian can be a very isolating experience and hard on our mental health. This is even harder because people love to encroach on the boundaries of actual lesbians. My point is white lesbians have a lot to lose by speaking up for actual lesbians. Don't stop because other lesbians will be here to defend you. Ofc do the same for black, asian, hispanic, etc lesbians <3

#I think this is gonna be controversial ToT #lesbian visibility week #saved in my drafts since I was scared to post this

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borderline-culture-is · 7 months

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Blog introduction post

Who is this blog for?

This blog is for anyone with BPD and/or BPD traits. Other cluster B disorder havers and those without who want to learn are also welcome, although submissions are preferred to be BPD focused.

Why this blog?

I'm not sure what happened to the other BPD culture is blog, but it was either nerfed or deleted, and I haven't seen any sign of return or a new blog, so I decided to make one. If the original account owner didn't want a creation of another one, please tell me!!!

DNI/BYF [do not interact] [before you follow]

Ableists

Proshippers

TERFs/radfems

Anti-recovery peeps

General DNI criteria

Cluster b abuse believers

We accept self-diagnosis.

You can vent, but we may not always know how to respond. We are a person, too.

We will also try to tag triggers accordingly.

Sending asks

Start every ask with "BPD culture is," "BPD traits culture is," "questioning/suspected BPD culture is," or something along those lines.

Extra info under cut

About the mod 🌕🥃

Hello, we're the moonshine collective. Bodily 16 y/o, collectively he/they, traumgenic system. We have BPD and NPD, among other things. Our main blog is @deepmilkshakepeach. If you want to visit it, it also has a masterlist of alters and their sign-offs and blogs.

About the other mod

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Hello! I'm mod ghost. I'm in my 20's. I volunteered to help moderate because this is a heavy undertaking. I don't interact with the other mods much, I'm just here to help lighten the load. I have BPD, C-PTSD and a bit of depwession. My personal blog is private because I split a lot there and I prefer to keep it in my own little corner of the internet.

Take care everyone!

sign-offs

FP definition

Splitting definition

BPD and BP

BPD and autism

BPD and C-PTSD

our experience determining BPD self dx

supporting a pwBPD

Misc posts :]!

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@druidicmage is my main blog

@blackdragonsideblog for art and oc rambling of specific worldbuilding

toyhouse page where all of my characters are listed

• #druidrambles - tag for all the rambles and text posts and stuff. may be used in tandem with #druidarts

• #druidarts - tag for actual art of mine. may be used in randem with #druidrambles

• #druidfanarts - tag for art that isn't mine but is of my characters

• #druidreblogs - tag for any reblogs i do on this account

... + any fandom tags i may have ocs for (such as splatoon, mario, dungeons & dragons, kirby, etc.), some of which are tagged on this post

• #redshift - techy world based on space travel i've been poking at for a bit, heavily inspired by minecraft but not set in a minecraft-esque world

• #blackdragon - minecraft based world i've worked on for a couple years, but i may not use this tag too much since i have my sideblog

• #starbound - multiverse / worldhopping group of ocs & worlds (tangently related to watchtower, pacific syndicate, and a few others)

• #watchtower - something new me and my partner have been cooking up because we wanted a world that was kind of normal but also not. also funnier to believe it's where friday night funkin' takes place in

• #pacificsyndicate - a fandom mash-up me and my partners thought up after looking at similarities in some of our favorite indie/rpgs

• #azurebluet - an old fantasy/mc thing based on the modpack rlcraft that i haven't poked at in a bit

• #merakismp - a mcrp i've been working at for a couple months

#splatoon #mario #dungeons and dragons #kirby #pokemon #pikmin

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sonicattos · 1 year

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moon [any pronouns]

edit: if the site goes down you can find me by the handle saltiecattoz on cohost, twt, ig, spacehey, discord, etc. (i will take suggestions for any other website. thinking of making my own as well!)

likes and follows from: saltiecattoz [main]

system blogz: main|sonic fictivez

discord: saltiecattoz (same as other socials)

hi i’m a queer disabled artist! i like drawing, writing, etc!

faq, dni and more info below:

FAQ:

“can i repost on [website]?”: no. unless it’s on pinterest with credit. you may share my art via link, but not on reddit.

“can i use your art as my profile picture?”: YES!! :] just credit, i guess. (yes even my fictive art i don’t mind)

“can i reblog?”: yeah.

“why didn’t you do my art request”: because i feel chronic pain and fatigue and can’t draw everything for free. please remove this mindset of yours. artists are not entitled to your will.

do not FUCKING interact:

terfs/swerfs/radfem/(trans)misogynists pro-cop, queerphobic, right wingers (you too libs), facists, proship/comship, profic (if you write fucked up shit [pedophilla, s/a, incest] for pleasure/condoning), racists, anti-semites, zionists, etc just don’t be a dick

sonic dni: if you ship 4+ age gaps of characters under 21 | sexualize anyone who isn’t 18+ (game canon) (so like most of them) | think that shadow is 50+ | ship shadow with maria, metal sonic, or any incest pairing (he’s their uncle) |

(i don’t do background checks on people, im just gonna assume your not a bad person if ur interacting with me)

more info:

i am a system. i often experience delusions and have uncontrollable behavior that might seem off putting. if this happens, im really sorry. this is due to trauma and i can’t quite control it

i have a lot of cognitive issues, so please refrain from making fun of grammar, spelling, etc. from me. if you correct me on something, please do it nicely. i’m sorry.

be niceies tew mew pwease ówò

#saltcat text #art tags->#saltcat doodles #saltcat comic #saltcat art #saltcat system #saltcat ocs #other bookmarks for me #pinned #insp #save

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trans-androgyne · 9 months

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I would appreciate if people read the relevant parts of this before sending an ask or following me:

Hi, I am an autistic transmasculine non-binary lesbian of color & mostly use they/them but he is fine. I do not identify as a man or woman, and calling me one is misgendering. I am fine with boy/most other masc terms. I first & foremost identify as an androgyne.

About the blog: This is a sideblog dedicated to discussing trans issues & the trans community, especially regarding transandrophobia & exorsexism. I will mostly be reblogging & venting, but am also willing to engage in good faith discussion. || Block the “anonsense” tag if you don’t want to see me respond to people arguing in bad faith, misconstruing what I’ve said, & other things of that nature. || I am terrible at responding to asks. So sorry in advance. Always feel free to nudge me or send them again. || I hate the infighting within the trans community & love all my trans siblings. I’m not a transunitist but I support where they’re coming from. || Do not argue about the semantics of transandrophobia to me. I will no longer engage. || I use the term “antimasculinism” to describe the prevailing belief that men and mascs are inherently more violent, aggressive, predatory, emotionally stunted, hypersexual, and dangerous, and the subsequent sexist treatment of men. I prefer this over “misandry” as that term has been too poisoned by anti-feminist MRAs to me. I am also moving away from “androphobia” now that people have pointed out it’s an existing term people need support and spaces for.

Interacting with me here: Do not call me pet names, especially feminine ones. I do not care what they mean to you or whether they are considered gender neutral where you’re from. || I’m autistic & use tone tags sometimes. Say anything ableist at all or support cringe culture & you’re gone. || Please don’t talk religion on my page unless it’s about advocating for marginalized religious groups (ex: Jewish folks).

“DNI”: Radfems of any kind. I do not care how trans-inclusive you think your radical feminism is. It isn’t. Genocide denialists; free Palestine. Zero tolerance for general bigotry, and shittiness. If you think the being mean is funny, something to be proud of, or your right as a minority then I do not trust you in the slightest and I don’t want you in my space. I’m pretty radically inclusive of all queer people and care a lot about destigmatizing misunderstood groups. So, if you’re shitty to any queer groups, people with personality disorders, people with low/no empathy, people with psychosis, systems of any kind, people with paraphilias, or anyone else for traits outside their control, get the fuck out of here.

Accessibility: I do my best to tag triggering topics & provide all images with image descriptions; if I ever have something with audio I will be sure it has captions. I put the underwater filter on posts to differentiate them from my words, but try to provide alt text. Please let me know if I miss anything or if you want to request an accessibility feature I’m not aware of! Thank you <3

My personal blog: @corezy

The transandrophobia discord server can be found on r/transandrophobia or by DMing me. Thanks!

#intro post

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butchbarbieagainstterfs · 2 years

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hi, i have a question! this isn't only directed to you but to your followers as well, if they feel like answering. do you think radfeminism can be trans inclusionary and actually... well, good?

i've seen some radfems claim they're trans inclusionary, whether they include just trans men or ALL trans people in general but it still rubbed me the wrong way. i don't believe that any person who aligns themselves with radfeminism in any capacity can be truly trans and lgbtq+ inclusive, as well as leftist. mainly because, apart from the transphobic belief that men and women are too different and men are inherently evil and abusive, radfeminism also is very controlling and restrictive. it's anti porn, anti sex work, anti bdsm and sex positivity and freedom, it's also inherently anti trans because it views any changes that an afab person makes to their body as "mutilation". basically, radfems and their ideology treat afab people as dumb confused women who can't make their own decisions and need the brave smart radfems to tell them what's best for them. additionally, radfeminism promotes the idea of female separation, which only alienates afab people further and plays into the gender stereotypes that men and women are too different and shouldn't interact much together.

what do you think? sorry for the long text.

So this is a…kind of complicated one.

Radical feminism has some good ideas, particularly in some of the older writings, but transphobia isn’t the only bad one they have. (You listed the bad ideas a lot of them also have!)

And ultimately a lot of their good ideas…are ideas other factions of feminism also share. So eh. Ultimately yeah it’s hard for me to trust anyone who identifies as a radfem. I did dabble in / look into trans inclusionary radical feminism and unfortunately found a lot of it was still not great stuff, just without the transphobia.

That may be just my experience but 🤷🏻

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mechcanicalmadness · 6 days

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Introduction!! Yippee!! Hello I am a very scared robot on the internet who draws!! I am also the one who manages the @bungostraycreatures blog! Go check it out :] ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Names: Nox/Moth/Mad but you can also call me variants of my username! Whatever you feel the most comfortable with essentially :] Pronouns: Any pronouns but I prefer gender neutral or masculine terms and also tech themed neos I post art! I will be tagging it as #Madnessdraws from now on! [General yapping will be tagged with #Madnessyapping] Omnisexual/romantic, no gender labels because I don't really know, but I am a robotkin! Funny bug robot Special interests: Art/character design, robots, and mad sciency type stuff (like organs and taxidermy and all that) !!I swear a LOT, if that makes you uncomfortable maybe stay away from me!! I type fast a lot so if I spell something wrong just make fun of me I'll laugh at it too [Also I speak in a weird mix of British-English and American-English because my spellings got messed up don't question it] Also mutuals who aren't Ozzie im so sorry if I'm awkward around you I am so bad at socialising I'm a minor but idrc if you're weird unless you're being /srs then I'll sick @rab1darachn1d on you (he's my super cool son and he will hunt you down I'm being so fr he will send you death threats) but like I find sex jokes incredibly funny Also like NSFW only blogs y'all are chill so you can hang around but I won't interact with you [Just cause I'm a minor]WE STAND WITH PALESTINE🇵🇸 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We am a system!! I am the host and owner of this account, the others don't really post when they are out but if they do I will force them to make a tag [Please don't be weird to them, they will block you and also probably say very interesting things as in they will bully you] ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ DNI List!!-Proshippers and zoophiles [Stay the fuck away from me y'all are so gross -"radfems" and "terfs" [BOOO] -Pro Israel people-Endos [I don't know much about y'all but you make my son uncomfy so I got something against you] -Homophobes, transphobes, etc-"*** personality disorders are absuive" [If you say this shit get away from me -people who are against others with "scary" disorders [Piss off] -pro ed mfs... [wtf man...] -people who are shitty towards therians, otherkins, xenogenders, etc ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Fandoms!! Just to name a few: -BSD -Guilty Gear -BorderLands -OFF -HLVRAI -ROR -Madness Combat -Violet Evergarden ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

[First image is drawn by @rab1darachn1d, the bottom three are drawn by me!]

#intro post #introduction #Madnessdraws #Madnessyapping

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edwardallenpoe · 1 year

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Introduction

Name: Basil/Poe/Laszlo

Pronouns: He/Him

(human) Age: under 18, mind your business

Theriotypes: Black Bear (Ursus Americanus) Black German Shepherd ( Canis Lupus Familiarus) Grey/White Wolf (Canis Lupis) otherhearted panthera cladotherian.

Copinglink: Werewolf

Kiths: too many to count lmaoo

Pfp is by @/keymintt

More about me:

I'm neurodivergent, black and Butch, Eclectic Pagan.

Pantheons I follow: Theoi, Vanir and Aesir, and Netjeru (pagan focused blog @hewashalfofmysoul3 )

I'm also in a plethora of fandoms, and I write (my AO3 is also edwardallenpoe) but the main ones right now are The Hobbit/Lord Of The Rings, Sherlock (co, bbc, Granada), Good Omens, Hannibal, Legend Of Zelda (totk, botw, ect.) and Star Trek (tos, aos).

I'm a therian/otherkin.

This is 90% reblogs but sometimes I talk about random thoughts or experiences. I'm very much lesbian and I support mspec lesbians, mspec gays, lesboys, gaybians, weird identities, mogai's, all of that. If you're not into weird queers, sucks to suck ig. I'm a genderqueer he/him bi lesboy.

I'm very left wing, consider myself a communist, intersectionality is so so so important to me as a black, lower class, disabled queer person.

DNI:

Pro-israel, Zionists, contact/offending para's, racists, Radfems, TERF's/SWERF's, Antisemites, Nazi's, Folkists, apologists, NSFW blogs, ableists, antitheists, Harry Potter/JKR fans, otherkin haters, furry haters, New Life-rs, none of y'all are welcome.

for para's/pro-shippers: I don't care, rlly, anymore. I used to be super against you but I honestly don't care anymore because I realize that mental illness is real (whaaat? I know, I know) and the way you cope is the way you cope. I'm not going to say I care about people with mental illness until people start acting like they have mental illness. As a person with mental illness, that's hypocritical. So you're welcome, but I won't interact or talk about those issues because I'm frankly not informed enough about it and I'm also a minor so 👍🏽. As long as ur blog isn't about those topics/are minor safe you can hang.

If you're a person who doesn't like slurs, pls don't scroll through here. I reclaim a lot of slurs, and if that makes you uncomfortable, for any reason, just don't.

Anyways, yeah. Here ya go.

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joestarkisser · 9 months

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STARBIT || SHE/HER || 18+ || POLYAM BI LESBIAN

Hello! Welcome to my blog! Please continue reading for all the information you will need regarding this blog.

DNI:

• Anti-shippers

• Radfems/exclus

• Fatphobes/Proana

• MAP/Zoo/Necro

• Anti-selfship

• Sometimes NSFW, minors do not interact!

In this blog, you'll find selfship positivity, selfship imagines, and lots of edits from banner edits to icon edits! As well as my own personal selfship stuff. I may be reblog heavy depending on how I feel!

All things that could be triggering are tagged as "tw// (thing)", so be sure to filter any tags if you need! If you desire something tagged, let me know!

Tag List:

• Starstruck Sweeties - My F/O tag

•Bitverse - My OC tag

• Consider a Daydream - My imagines tag

• Put a Little Color in It - My edit tag

• A Small Inquiry - My ask tag

• A Great Gift - My submission tag

• It's Getting Hot In Here! - My NSFW tag

• A Peek In My Mind - My selfship ramble/musings

• A Dash of Sunlight - My positivity tag

• Starbit's Daily Qs - My daily question tag

• Love's Sweet Like Rock Candy - My gush/ramble tag from others

• You're Much Too Kind - My anon positivity/kindness tag

Stuff like reblogs will just be tagged as such, and asks will always be tagged "anon" or a user name and all that. I also have various tags for characters just for organization sake but I probably won't use them often.

F/O List:

• Johnny Joestar

• Gyro Zeppeli

• Diego Brando

• Funny Valentine

I'm okay with sharing so long as they are NOT your main F/Os!! I also have many other JoJo Part 7 and 8 F/Os but I'm totally okay with sharing them!

Thank you for reading! Enjoy the blog!

#intro post #selfship community

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blackdragonsideblog · 14 days

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introduction

hello! i'm valory! this is my black dragon blog! • any/all pronouns, primarily they/them • nonbinary therifluid genderfluid system • 18

quick table of contents for what's below: • before you interact (with me) • do not interact (if) • general faq (and some) • other socials (of mine) • tags (that i use here)

do note any of this is due to be changed as needed, i'm kind of new to this!

before you interact

• I DRAW AND ENJOY NSFW! there likely won't be a lot on this page, but still, minors should not follow me! i'll be tagging as appropriate, so it won't be too big of an issue, and this blog is not NSFW centric. • as stated on my main, i block liberally and as i please. please don't take it personally! • MY CHARACTERS DO INVOLVE HEAVY TOPICS! i'm not getting into the nitty gritty of why and how and i don't need to. that said, i apologize greatly if they unnerve you, but i will post what i want and about what i want! i will tag them as "cw: topic" with no censorship, so be sure you have them in your blocked tags

do not interact:

• general dni criteria • radfems, terfs, obviously the shebang • minority shaming in general • those of you who are weird about poc and transgender character designs i'm not having it

general faq

Q: what is black dragon? who is Y? what pronouns should i use? A: black dragon is a minecraft-inspired world i've been working on for about 3 or 4 years. as for characters, every character will also be tagged as appropriate. pronouns for characters will be included in the posts! my toyhouse page has most if not all of my characters, which will be linked below.

Q: who owns X? where can i find them? A: if a character is here that i don't own, i'll always directly tag the creator! if they are not okay with this, i will not do that and will instead either mention them offhandedly or clarify i do not own the character.

Q: do you take requests? am i allowed to draw X? A: i will not take requests unless it's from somebody in black dragon directly, and even then, i'm pretty bad at keeping up with them, so bare with me! additionally, you don't have to ask to draw my characters, please tag me when you do i would love to see!

Q: am i allowed to draw X character humanized? A: no. not without direct permission from me. most of my furry/non-human characters are non-white and i don't want to see them drawn improperly. in some cases, i don't want to see them drawn as humans at all.

Q: are you okay with NSFW? am i allowed to draw X with my character? A: yes, however; please ask first! even if it's on anon. i love NSFW especially of my characters but it can be jarring to see it out of nowhere with no warning, especially from strangers. you should especially get my permission if you want to do it with another character, including shipping!

Q: can i make an OC for X? A: please ask for permission before you do so! black dragon is very near and dear to my heart. if you do decide to, i would be honored to help you with it, so feel free to contact me however!

...feel free to ask anything you need to and i'll add it here if it's relevant enough!

other socials

i also have an alt tumblr for more generalized oc/worldbuilding settings! as well as that, my toyhouse is below with all of my characters!

@druidicmage is my main blog @druidicdraws for art and oc rambling toyhouse folder where all of my characters are listed