#this is probably more information than any of you wanted to know about me but. now you know đ
The Arrangement // Mafia!Lando x Reader Pt. 2
Part 1 can be found here
Summary: Your engagement party is underway and Lando has a surprise up his sleeve
WC: 2k
No descriptions of reader's physical appearance
Warnings: Lando being extremely soft?? Arranged marriage AU, terrible parents
Author's note: I'm kind of obsessed with the way this turned out. Happy reading everyone đ§Ą
Exactly one week later you found yourself the center of attention at the lavish engagement party your family and the Norris clan planned. The night dragged on at a snailâs pace as you made your rounds talking to dozens of people you didnât know but had to invite for your familiesâ sake. What surprised you was how little of your fiancĂ© youâd seen thus far. The two of you had barely spoken except for sharing a hug and exchanging pleasantries for the nosy onlookers that filled the grand space. Even though your interaction was brief, Lando didnât miss the chance to compliment your choice of outfit for the occasion.
âAny particular reason why you arenât wearing the dress I picked for you? You know, the one your father and I spent thousands of dollars on.â Leave it to your mother to make her biggest priority her desires instead of yours even on a night that was supposedly about you. You sighed as your mother tugged you close to her leaning in and whispering while maintaining a smile for the guests. âWe donât want the Norris family getting the wrong idea about you and pulling the plug on all this. You know your father and I will never forgive you if you ruin this for us.âÂ
You beckoned over a passing waiter and downed a flute of expensive champagne in one gulp. âWell my future husband had nothing but good things to say about my choice of dress.â
You could feel your motherâs energy shift at this new information. Of course sheâd be satiated as long as nothing got in the way of her scheming. âWell in that case, good choice.âÂ
Your rolled your eyes and put space between yourself and your mother, seeking out the company of people whoâd actually care about you. Your friend Hannah was more than happy to oblige your need for camaraderie. It wasnât long before the rest of your girl friends joined in on the gathering.Â
Your friend Elisa joined the group next. She couldnât help but laugh as she shared the juicy intel she was clearly holding in. âYour boyfriend is outside,â she wiggled her eyebrows at you. Well now you definitely had the attention of the your entire bridal party.Â
There was a sly smirk on your face as you put your glass to your lips. âWhich one?â
A series of laughs erupted among you all as you wondered which of your flings would be stupid enough to show up here of all places, especially with the threat of crossing paths with Lando and his men. Probably Charles. No, definitely Charles.Â
The new knowledge gave you an added layer of confidence you planned to carry throughout the night. Even though youâd spent the week effectively ended things with all the men in your contacts it was still nice to know they were having trouble letting go of you. Besides the Ferrari Pista, you wondered what other luxury cars lingered outside the venue hoping to act as your getaway car.Â
It wasnât long before your father approached you all, reminding you this was an engagement party. Your engagement party, not some girlsâ night out. You couldnât be bothered to talk back so you simply obliged, quickly finding yourself sharing conversations with everyone from your future in-laws to other prominent members of the lucrative world you and Lando belonged to. The most serene moment of the night came when you sat with your grandmother. She was the person you were closest to in this world so the solace she provided you was no surprise.Â
You rested your head on her shoulder and closed your eyes thankful for her proximity. âMy little angel is all grown up now.âÂ
âAnd yet I still feel like a child with everyone making all my decisions for meâŠâ
Your grandmother chuckled, ready to scold you. âMaybe youâve forgotten but I was in your shoes once. You know your grandfather and I came together this exact same way.â You groaned hating the fact that she was right. A lecture was definitely coming your way.Â
âDo you think I loved your grandfather?â
âOf course.â
âAnd do you think he loved me?â
âOf course he did! More than anything.â Anyone whoâd ever spent time with your grandparents was well aware of the deeply genuine love shared between them.Â
âIt didnât happen overnight but we learned to love each other. I know you are about as stubborn as they come but I want you to listen to me. If the two of you are open with one another you never know what may be in store. Then maybe when youâre my age youâll be the one giving your granddaughter advice from your own love story.âÂ
Her words hung heavy in your mind. There wasnât a chance to respond before a recognizable form approached the secluded area you and your grandma inhabited. You tried not to stare as he sauntered over, his well tailored suit giving him an appearance nearly as illegal as his family business.Â
âLadies, I hope Iâm not interrupting,â Lando began standing in front of you both. Your grandmother swatted your knee underneath the table knowing it was all she could do to keep a sly remark from leaving your lips.Â
âNo need to apologize, honey.â Your grandmother reached out, giving Landoâs hand a gentle squeeze.Â
âNana, would it be possible for me to steal your granddaughter for a moment.â Did he just call your grandmother âNana'? The sweet smile gracing her face was enough to show that Landoâs charm had unmatchable reach.Â
âIt wonât be long before sheâs all yours and Iâm the one asking for time with her.â Although her tone was lighthearted you knew there was merit to her words.Â
Lando was quick to quell your grandmotherâs concern, assuring sheâd be welcome as often and whenever she pleased once the two of you started your life together. Lando pulled your grandmother in for a hug that honestly made your heart swell. Maybe he wasnât as cold as youâd written him off to be. He laced his fingers through yours, his authoritative grip dragging you through the crowd of guests who couldnât help but ogle the golden couple of the night.Â
âWhere the hell are you taking me?â You questioned as Lando pulled you out of the venue and into the night air. He gave a nod to his men that littered the lawn letting them know the two of you would be needing privacy.Â
The light of the full moon was the only thing illuminating your faces as Lando finally spoke.Â
âDid you think about our chat from the other night?â Just ripped the bandage right off.Â
You knew exactly which aspect of your talk he wanted answers for but you werenât going to give in that easily.Â
âYes actually,â you tilted your head at him. âPretty hard to forget you accosting me in my motherâs garden and shoving your tongue down my throat.âÂ
âAccosted,â Lando scoffed in disbelief. âI did not accost you into doing anything. In fact, I recall you being a pretty involved participant in the entire ordeal.âÂ
âHmm, whatever helps you sleep at night,â you conceded, hating the enjoyment he felt at rehashing your last link.Â
âBut seriously, what did you decide?âÂ
You took a deep breath and closed your eyes before you began. You were going to have to admit you were giving into Lando and his proposal. âI gave it some thought.â You but your lip and found yourself picking at your nails feeling more awkward than ever. âIâm in. Letâs give it a try.âÂ
Landoâs eyes were the size of saucers. Your words had clearly caught him off guard. Of course heâs spent the last seven days hoping heâd win you over but he never expected your turn around to come so quickly.Â
âAre- are you serious?â You couldnât ignore the hopeful glimmer in his eyes as he scanned your face praying to God this wasnât another one of your jokes. Knowing that youâd caught him off guard was enough to make this all worth it.Â
âYep, Iâm in. Donât make me say it again or I might change my mind.â Lando nodded seriously willing to do whatever you said at this point.Â
You stretched your hand out towards your fiancĂ© for a handshake. âBest business deal youâve ever made, huh?â
Lando ignored your offer of a handshake, instead opting to lace his fingers with yours. âI was hoping this would be more pleasure than business.â His eyes were bore into yours, hoping to get a rise out of you. His thumb brushed softly against your knuckles.Â
âIâve got something for you. Canât have you thinking I donât live up to my word.â You were going to question what he was on about but then Lando did something you didnât expect. Your gaze was fixed on him as he lowered himself to one knee before you. He took your hand in his as you started back at him bewildered. Was he really doing this?
âYou and I know this situation is far from conventional but that doesnât mean I respect it or you any less.â Lando reached into his jacket to reveal a dark velvet box. His thumb moved to open it as your breath caught in your lungs. Your full name rolled off his lips easily as he revealed the most beautiful ring youâd ever seen. âSince weâre actually doing this I donât want to skip out on any steps. I know how you feel about all this but the fact that weâre both willing to try must mean something.â
He spoke your name in a dreamy way as his gorgeous eyes fixed on you. âWill you marry me?âÂ
Your eyes closed and your throat felt dry as your brain began to comprehend that Lando wasnât the man youâd always assumed him to be. If your gut feeling was right, you couldnât have been more wrong about the man your family was selling you off to.Â
âI mean technically I donât really have a choice,â you trialed off with a playful tone. What the hell. âYes Lando, Iâll marry you.âÂ
Lando couldnât contain his excitement as he sprung forward pulling you into a passionate kiss. You could feel the smile on his lips as the intimate moment deepened. You were the one to to pull away first, your hands gently pushing against his chest.Â
âNot that I didnât enjoy the kiss or anything but can I have my ring?âÂ
Lando patted his pockets looking for the ring before he found the small box cast aside in the grass. He was so engrossed in you that he couldnât focus on anything else. An honest smile spread over your face as you looked at the ring heâd slipped onto your finger. He listened. Like really listened. The ring was better than you ever could have imagined, the gold band perfectly encasing a large, elegant Dutch marquise stone. You were in a trance as you admired your engagement ring.Â
âAlright I should probably get you back inside before people start asking questions.â Just as before you found yourself being draped in Landoâs suit jacket, the scent of rich cologne on his lapels causing feelings youâd rather ignore to stir in your stomach. âWouldnât want your parents thinking I was out here ruining your innocence.â
Your eyebrows raised at his words. âWhat the hell makes you think Iâm innocent?â A smirk was plastered across your face as your fiancĂ© guided you back towards the venue. âLando, thereâs so much you have to learn about me.â
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Future Rottmnt boys ïżŒx pregnant fem reader (the big reveal) (1.1)
(No apocalypse )ïżŒ
(info: this will be split into three parts/3 different story parts each part can still be separated into different upload times but those will be titled as either 1.2, 2.3 and so on)
(Background information: you have been married to the turtles for about three years now, but they had to go on a month long mission and you were home alone and during that time you started feeling nauseous like really nauseous, April goes to the pharmacy to grab nausea pills for you but she comes back with more than just that)
There nicknames for you are, from Donnie(honeybee) from Raph (sugarplum) from Leo (Mi amor) from Mikey (puppy)
You were hanging out with April in the layer while the boys were on the month long mission stopping some bad guy, you two were talking about something when all of a sudden you started feeling nauseous again and quickly put your hand to your mouth and ran to the bathroom, you luckily didnât throw up this time but  you were starting to get concerned.
April ran in after you and after seeing you nearly throw up she offered to go to the pharmacy to get you some medicine, you agreed and She quickly ran off.
While she was at the pharmacy she Asked one of the employees if they have any specific medicine they recommend, April says to the pharmacist â my friend has been having weird bursts of nausea along with a few other symptoms that Iâm not 100% sure of yet but they told me that weird things have been happening to themâ, the girl behind the counter looks at April and then said she has something in mind and probably knows what is going on, she hands April a bag and tells her your friend will only need these things, I put in some extra just in case.
April takes the bag and quickly pays and quickly says thank you to the pharmacist for her help.
While she was on her way back she looked into the bag to see what the pharmacist gave to her.
She came back and found you in the bathroom, turns out you did throw up a little bit, April quickly handed the bag and you look inside, and you see three pregnancy tests, and you were shocked, you think to yourself that this is definitely a possibility but you werenât sure.
you told April that you would like her  to wait outside, she goes outside and then you decide to take one of the pregnancy tests, you do what is required and see that it is positive, you canât believe what you are seeing So decide to take it again, and again itâs positive you are still shocked and want to make certain that this is true So you  take the third one and once again itâs positive, you break down in tears, you canât believe this after so long and despite everything you have a baby .
You call April back into the bathroom and show her all three positive pregnancy tests, she squeals in joy and says oh my gosh Iâm going to be a aunt.
She hugs you tightly and congratulates you.
After a while you and  April go back to the living room and discuss how you can tell the boys, you would really like to surprise them, and April says that it  is a great idea,
You to get ready to go shopping because you two want to get everything ready for when the boys come back even though you still have about two weeks, you  were   to excited and wanted to get everything ready now,
(1.2 )
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Hmmm, any headcanons for twst boys in nebula college? Saw your drawing of Lilia in the Dragon house and it opened up a whole avenue of possibilities for me :3
Omg Anon!! Yeah, this is exactly what happened to us when I was drawing it, well not this exact sketch, but the one similar to that. The realisation that Nebula College is already thought out enough to have a crossover of sorts really hits hard lol So ironically, we did end up discussing which houses the twst characters would be in. And now youâve given us the opportunity to share those thoughts, so thank you so much for your ask and for your interest <3
For those who donât know: Nebula College is a project that Katsu writes (and I illustrate)! Katsu also wrote a post about the cast of Nebula College in NRC a couple of months ago, so itâs only fair to link it in this post >:3 Also, here is the description of all the houses and what they represent.
Riddle â the Dragon house; itâs debatable whether Riddleâs love for discipline and rules is something that is natural to him and not just his trauma lol but he would fit perfectly there: âorganised, yet impulsive and loudâ sounds like the most Riddle thing ever. He would be great at patrolling the school, plus he is technically a sporty boy.
Ace â the Snake house; the other option was the Unicorn house, and he would really prefer the latter because he would be super excited to be surrounded by rich and dazzling senpais spoiling him for being such an adorable charmer. The boy can dream all he wants, but he is destined to be a Snake because of his slyness and opportunism.
Deuce â the Dragon house, and he would probably be so honored. He would always do his best during the patrols⊠And also think about how being surrounded by reliable and organised people should be a good influence on him.
Trey â the Snake house; Katsu made two notes about him: the first one âasshole/knave I mean snakeâ, and the second one is âheâs a boa snake wearing glassesâ. I think it describes Trey perfectly: he really is like a large calm and collected boa (the image of a boa snake in glasses is related to some of the cartoons we used to watch as kids lol), but at the same time the man is a liar and a hypocrite, he would fit right in with those fake bitches lol Even though he would probably consider himself a Dragon.
Cater â the Snake house; he is similar to Ace in a way, and I can picture him trying to befriend some of the Unicorns and maybe even succeeding at that, but ultimately he is kind of a poser. He is very good at communicating, but he is even better at knowing things about other people.
Leona â the Unicorn house; he is a prince, so itâs kind of a given. Falena probably graduated from this house as well, so Leona thinks that him being there is kind of a joke; itâs obvious that they people compare them all the time⊠but hey, at least the Unicorn colours look good on him.
Ruggie â the Snake house, this one is easy lol He also probably hangs out close to the Unicorns (this isnât how Snakes usually act, itâs just the NRC Snakes are fucking leeches I guess), but thatâs because he runs errands for Leona, to whom itâs much easier to talk to Ruggie than to fellow Unicorns.
Jack â the Dragon house; he would probably have a good time there surrounded by those who arenât just as sporty as him, but also as responsible and earnest. Damn, Deuce would be his dormmate instead of Aceâs đł
The Octa-Trio are from the Snake house;  there are some meta reasons for that, but also itâs just pretty obvious come on look at these lying bitches lol They are everything a Snake should be: smart, cunning, sociable when necessary, great at making connections and getting information, theyâre also good at business and stuff. Azul would probably advocate for connecting with other dorms more though, and Jade would be intrigued by others too. Floyd probably doesnât really care which dorm he is in, but donât get fooled: he is one terrifying and dangerous snakeâŠ
Kalim â the Unicorn house! Nothing to add here, he is just there. People think he is a good-for-nothing princely type, but he is actually surprisingly good at communication. He is probably well-liked by everyone there.
Jamil â the Snake house, at least until Kalim enrolls and somehow Jamil gets transferred to the Unicorn house for some reason. He would hate it though because he really felt at home surrounded by Snakes, and now⊠now he is surrounded by Kalim-adjacent people who are amused by the fact that Kalim managed to get his servant to live at his dormâŠ.
Vil â the Unicorn house; he has very strong charisma and amazing leadership skills, he is also charming and stubborn at the same time. He probably wasnât necessarily expecting to end up there, but he fits in perfectly. But he is kind of a Dragon at heart when it comes to discipline and stuff⊠similarly to how there are some similarities between Pomefiore and Savanaclaw.
Rook â the Dragon house; his demeanor is a bit off, but honestly Rook could pull off being at every single House successfully, and his demeanor would always be off lol Now this is someone who loves patrolling. When itâs his shift, some students probably make a mistake of assuming that if they canât see the patrolling guy then he isnât there. But Rook is always watchingâŠ
Epel â Iâll quote Katsu on that one: âEpel is an idiot. The Dragon house, his dream came trueâ lol He shouldnât get too happy about getting into the sportiest and âmanliestâ of dorms though because they are super serious about discipline, and no one is going to allow him to look like a hooligan. Brush your hair, Epel.
Idia â the Raven house- WOW, IS THIS OUR FIRST RAVEN? DANG so much for Night Raven College lol but yeah, Idia is definitely a Raven, and this is the only dorm he would survive in: heâs introverted, but very knowledgeable, perceptive and honestly surprisingly good at reading people for someone who hides from them all the time.
Ortho â the Unicorn house; he probably wanted to join Idia just so they could be together, but he is such an obvious charismatic leader when he wants to be. Considering that this is likely human!Ortho, he would also work as a kid from the Shroud family... Idia and him could be a great example of the Unicorn + Raven alliance.
Lilia â the Dragon house; there are some meta-reasons for that as well, but even without that, Lilia is very organisation-oriented, and he would be very comfortable in a structure that is the Dragon house. He is a great leader, but a different kind of leader, a war general, if you will.
Sebek â the Dragon house; pretty self-explanatory, look at this boy.
Silver â the Dragon house, but a Unicorn at heart. Sometimes it feels like he is in the wrong place, but itâs absolutely not because of how he acts: he does everything he is supposed to very diligently and tries very hard to be an honorable Dragon student. Itâs just that if he stands near the Unicorns it just feels⊠right somehow.
Malleus â technically he should be in the Unicorn house, but he we couldnât decide: he is kind of a mix of Unicorns and Ravens lol He has a lot of charisma and he is a good leader when he needs to be, and he sure as hell knows how to persuade people, but the overall vibes and architecture of the Raven house + their attitude is very close to himâŠ
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Links, why started, and why abandoned:
Rengoku+Akaza Sitcom: It was very silly and rereading it still makes me laugh. I've had passing ideas here and there and have made two separate attempts to continue it, but I haven't captured the same flow. Kyojuro's efforts to get me fired as the lead writer and keep this sitcom canceled have so far panned out.
Low-Key Married AU: When I look at the notes sometimes I am like, "wow, this must be my most popular AU, but it is such a mess and I feel so bad for people trying to follow it." I got as far as The Nezuko Incident, but it was already super long, and rather than being engaging it felt more like it was just trying to give chronology to this AU.
ZenNezu Angst (no link): I was in such an indulgent, angsty mood when I wrote it, and I wrote myself into an angsty hole. It was whump with an intended happy ending but by the time I went back to it I was not in as whumpy of a mood and I had forgotten how I was going to build up to the intended happy ending and found it meh. Also, I am embarrassed by how whumpy it is and even considered publishing under a different name.
Raw Sword Production: I want so badly for the fandom to appreciate the intricacies of Japanese sword production, which is why I put it into fiction format in the first place with Teppi being the vehicle through which readers can learn a complicated but fascinating process. I wound up learning a lot more since publishing that, and wanted to fix some details, as well as make it clearer with more illustrations, and add on the full process of smithing (instead of glossing over it in the conclusion and focusing most of the smelting). Got to about the point of polishing (one of the last steps), felt overwhelmed by the amount of illustration it would benefit from to be clear, and lost confidence feeling that even with all that effort, there probably would not be many people who read all the way to the end.
Filler Arc w/ Character Beats: I still really like the ideas, have had ideas for how to expand it to a proper flow and make a solid story out of it, it had a very cute start, but I lost steam. I want Ufotable to make it instead and just let me direct. EDIT: So far it doesn't seem this one is going to win the poll, so I reread what 5577 words I had, and gosh dang it, it was cute. So I have posted it.
Again, zero promises of any of these projects getting more attention, even if they win the poll. But knowing what people would enjoy reading might provide more inspiration.
EDIT: Guys, if you want "other," ya gotta tell me which one! Also, if you want more than one, feel free to say so too. Again, the point is to see if I can work up the inspiration to finish.
If.
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Not culture, but q genuine question I really need an answer to: folks is it okay to self-dx and not wish a professional diagnosis but still consider you have NPD and say that to people? I have read multiple descriptions of NPD from trusted sources for and by pwNPD, I match enough criteria (I think, I'll redo that questionnaire again) to be considered pwNPD and I really relate to a lot of experiences and struggles of other pwNPD and NPD ruins my life <3 /silly
But I don't want to get a professional diagnosis because... What will it give me? I'll just waste money on an old man saying I'm narcissistic in the most codescending tone ever, a paper and eh that's it. I already know I'm narcissistic, the paper will only give me "I am not a faker" rights (I'm actually debating faking having a diagnosis to not look fake) and won't give me any other rights at all, if I go to therapy it's more likely that I'll just go to learn how to cope with my symptoms and life in general better and not to prove that I'm autistic or narcissistic
So uh. Should I get a diagnosis? Do I have to get a diagnosis to not be considered a faker and bad for the community? Should I lie about having a professional diagnosis during discourses?
Thanks for advice in advance folks
heyo! from what i've seen, most of the community is pretty accepting of self-dx as a lot of us are well aware of how hard it can be to even achieve a diagnosis and the trouble that might come from it afterwards. i would probably advise against lying about having a diagnosis, but a lot of people would probably advise against disclosing wether or not you're professionally diagnosed online in general as you really don't really owe people that information in general.
like you kinda mentioned, therapy should be more about improving daily life and coping with your personal symptoms than about finding the exact professional diagnosis that explains everything, but if you fit the criteria and have done proper research, personal self-diagnosis is totally valid imo.
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suggestion do you have... any wants? like obviously you do but like? suggestion my guy my ourple boy. both the easiest and hardest to write. you need a skill to say something to move conversation along but it doesn't fit any skill in particular? about 80% of the time you can have suggestion say it and it will make sense. but like actually characterizing him... how do i define you dude... what makes your character tick... urgh. i dont get you yet. im trying to understand but you are difficult.
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My gf and I have finally decided to open our relationship after talking about it on and off for the past few years so she's guy shopping now and she already found someone she likes on a dating site and I'm so pumped for her. I feel like this:
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here's the thing about writing villains-
you're never going to get ppl to stop writing villains who want to control everything, who are evil for evils sake, who are manipulative and liars or whatever. who are just bad people who seem irredeemable- most peoples idea of a villain is whatever they fear most.
and just because there might be stereotypes about certain demographics surrounding these ideas doesnt mean they are inherently bad to have in your writing in general. the reason those stereotypes exist is because people wrongfully assume that a certain demographic is a certain way either through their own fears or from propaganda/conspiracy theories they're cooking up or have consumed-- which are all built around fear.
its normal to fear someone who wants to control everything. the problem comes in on whom you're projecting that on to and whom you think wants to do that. it's prolly not a good idea to make a villain- who wants to control the world and all of its money- jewish. its probably not a good idea to make a villain- whos a controlling manipulative abusive liar who will do everything to get their way in spite of who they hurt- someone with npd. it's probably not a good idea to make a terrorist-y type villain a muslim or of middle eastern decent. it would probably be a good idea to try to avoid adding stereotypes surrounding whichever demographic you're concerned about your character being misread as to your villain if you're already worried they're gonna be misinterpreted by uncharitable people online.
in my case, im making a vampire villain who wants to control everything. it would probably be really fuckin dumb of me if i added a bunch of jewish stereotypes to him along with that, considering theres a lot of antisemitism in how a lot of vampires in different forms of media were conceptualized and a whole ass conspiracy theory that jewish people already do control everything.
i dont think "wants to control the world" or even "secretly does control the world" is necessarily a bad place to start when creating a villain, it's all about what you do after that point. and its also all about keeping in mind different stereotypes/conspiracy theories/tropes/etc. around that idea that have harmed different people. it only becomes antisemitic if you draw the character the way antisemites draw jewish people, or add a bunch of conspiracy theory fueled ideas to the character, or add a bunch of jewish iconography around the character, or just make him in some way readibly jewish or just straight up make him jewish. the more you educate yourself on stereotypes/conspiracy theories/harmful tropes/etc. surrounding whichever demographic you're trying to avoid making your villain be misread as and actually avoid trying to make that character that way, i think the better off you'll be.
remember that those stereotypes/conspiracy theories/tropes/etc. all exist because someone wanted to make whichever demographic into a villain. those fears already exist in peoples minds, they just want a place to put them, and a lot of people will find a scapegoat to place them on to. it's not that those fears at their basic level are wrong or bad to have or wrong to use as a jumping point in your writing, it's that people sometimes project those fears on to other people, typically marginalized people, and again, for propaganda's sake or bc of their own fears of other people or whatever. if you avoid projecting those fears on to demographics targeted by said fears and thus avoid making your villain of said demographic in every way that you possibly can, the better off you'll be.
people will be uncharitable and read things in bad faith no matter what you do. if you're a creative, you already know the internet spends no time (and hardly any actual critical thought) in dismantling something they've deemed problematic, likely because they dont even like the thing they're critiquing but need to make it seem like its somehow a Moral dislike of the thing. ya gotta ignore it and have faith in at least some of the people viewing what you create to actually hear what you're trying to say. you also gotta take into consideration actual constructive criticism of what you create, because you might have a blind spot in this regard. try to avoid listening to people who seem off the bat antagonistic and demanding bc they likely dont even have a justified reason to be mad at you over if they're acting that way. if they have something they want to say to you bc they actually wanna change your mind, they're not gonna approach you apathetically, dismissively, passive aggressively, as if they know everything and are above you and are the most moral person in the room- people like that dont actually care if you change whatever it is you're doing and just want a self-justified reason to be mad at you that makes them look good for critiquing you, if they did want to change your mind they would try to approach you in the least confrontational way that that particular individual can manage.
ultimately, listen to people actually effected by these things so you know what to avoid and figure out how to not hurt them.
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2, 9 for LOK?
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2. A headcanon you weren't sure about at first but have come to like!
Ooh this one is kinda tough~ I'm generally rather removed from the fandom at large so I actually don't really know of a lot of popular headcanons out there, let alone ones I initially didn't like and came to like~ I really only ever consumed content about Baatar and Kuvira as they're my favorites, and with them I'd either like a headcanon outright, or dislike it outright.
I will say, at least in the limited fan content I've consumed, there is a common idea of Baatar having gone to university in Ba Sing Se for a period of time. I've seen at least 3 folks use that in their writings for him, and while it was never something I was "unsure" about, I didn't initially include the idea in my version of him. I don't know who penned that headcanon first but I was always hesitant about being seen as "copying" anyone lol. I do like the idea though, especially with my very codependent versions of Baatar and Kuvira, some time apart like that during their "good years" would be rather interesting, since they have been in each other's lives for most of their lives, Baatar choosing to go where Kuvira can't follow- even for a short period of time, I can see her holding against him for a little while. Especially with her preexisting abandonment issues.
9. A ship that isn't your OTP but you enjoy
Once again I'm pretty singularly invested in Baatar and Kuvira but there are definitely some canon and fan ships that I like! Canon wise I'll always have a soft spot for Bolin and Opal, just because they're cute and I like the potential dynamic it creates with Baatar specifically. A lot of it is pretty contingent on my rewrite versions, but what can I say, I'm a bit of a sucker for puppy love. Lyn and Kya was an early ship I'd see in the fandom that I always was like *Kermit nodding gif* ooh yeah I like that, and I've also seen Lyn and Bumi which I also really like, but I never really delved into fan works of either admittedly. I'll confess that lately the crack ship of Baatar and Zhu Li has been on my mind, but definitely not as a positive ship in any way, more like a mutually waged psychological warfare that they aren't even trying to hide from each other kind. I don't remember what sparked the idea- I'm not usually one for crack ships as I tend to be pretty single-ship through and through, but it's been a fun dynamic to think about, especially the kinds of conversations they'd have.
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i wish my family werenât so transphobic
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Literally though what sort of parent is actually encouraging their child to be on Instagram??
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A commonly overlooked symptom of depression is anhedonia, the inability to feel joy or pleasure. The reason that it's easy to overlook is that it's easier to miss the absence of something that's not around all the time than it is to miss a symptom that causes active distress, such as feeling tired and miserable all the time.
Anhedonia is good at being a persistent undercurrent to your life. My aunt, who has major depressive disorder, related to me that she figured out that something was wrong when she looked at the daffodils she had planted blooming, and couldn't recognize the emotion that she felt when she looked at them. It had been long enough since she had felt happy that she lost the ability to recognize the emotion.
It's a particularly dangerous depressive symptom, because it robs you of the ability to feel those little spots of joy that keep a lot of people going, while not doing anything to impair your ability to function. If you don't know that this is a treatable symptom of depression, it's easy to assume that your ability to feel good is permanently broken, and decide to commit suicide because you don't want to live like that. It's not an irrational conclusion, but it is an uninformed one, and everyone deserves to have all the information when making a major decision.
This is what a lot of questionnaires are trying to look for when they ask about "loss of enjoyment". If you can't remember a loss of enjoyment because you can't remember enjoyment, then you probably have anhedonia. If you struggle to define how it is to feel "happy", "content", or "good", or how it feels when you feel those emotions, you probably have anhedonia. If you can't remember feeling any of those emotions for a week or more, you probably have anhedonia.
Symptoms commonly co-occurring with anhedonia are fatigue (often the cause), clear and thoughtful consideration of suicide, loss of desire to socialize or do activities that used to make you happy, and weight loss (due to lack of enjoyment of food).
This section is anecdotal. In what I have observed, anhedonia due to fatigue rarely responds well to depression treatment unless depression was causing the fatigue. If fatigue and anhedonia are co-occurring and are not both alleviated by depression treatment, consider other causes for the fatigue.
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Sea Cryptic! Danny AU- Pt.3
[Pt.1] [Pt.2] [Pt.4][Pt.5][Pt.6][Pt.7]
âAquaman.â Batman swept into the room, beelining straight for the suddenly apprehensive Atlantean king.
âBatman. What can I do for you?â
âPhantom. Does he pay taxes?â
âPardon?â
Batman makes a low noise that had Aquamanâs danger senses buzzing.
âDoes Phantom have to pay taxes. Towards Atlantis.â
âNoâŠ? Why?â
âHe wanted money, in exchange for⊠information, of a delicate sort,â Batman said, diplomatically avoiding the topic of Phantom bargaining for the identities of corpses in exchange for a measly $100 dollars per identity. Like a flea market dealer, that one was.
âYou encountered Phantom again?â Aquaman perked up.
âYes. Gothamâs bay is⊠polluted.â Batman paused. âWith victims. Of murder.â
The entire area quieted as heads turned towards the Dark Knight.
âYes, I am⊠distantly aware of Gothamâs waters.â By that, Aquaman gets green around the gills whenever he turns his awareness in that direction. Thereâs a reason he doesnât enter Gotham, and the Dark Knightâs ban is only half of that reason. âAh, but youâre correct. For what purpose would Phantom need mortal currency?â
âHn.â
âMaybe he needs some stuff?â Flash zipped to a stop next to Batman, feet tapping as he dug into the pile of snacks cradled in his arms. âUs mortals are always coming up with new things, maybe he wants to try some games or something?â
Batman tilted his head down, seriously considering Flashâs suggestion. âItâs plausible.â
âBarry, Barry, Barry. Heâs old as hell, right? He probably wants to try the new booze!â
âHal, my man!â Flash fist bumped Green Lantern, who came up. âYouâre back! What happened to John?â
âDunno. He got called somewhere that way,â Green Lantern waved a vague hand towards the left. âHad to deal with a politician or something from that area.â He shrugged, swinging an arm over Barryâs shoulders to put him in a headlock and stealing a chip.
âHuh. Anyways, would our mortal alcohol even work on a demi-god or something?â
âWe should ask!â Hal turned towards Batman. âYou should ask if he wants to go for a drink, spooky!â
âHeâs a child.â
âHeâs been around for more than a millennia, Bats.â
âInformational gathering, right, Hal?â Flashgot out of the headlock, quickly munching on his snacks to stop Green Lantern from stealing them.
âTotally. Yup.â
ââŠFine.â
âWait, are we just gonna ignore that Gothamâs waters are full of bodies?â
âYes.â
ââ
âWhat?â Danny asked, mind half on the bags heâs dragging out of the water and the other half on the essay he has to submit in about four hours.
âGreen Lantern wanted to invite you out for a drink.â
Danny turned to the stoic Gotham knight, who had his wrist computer out to log the bodiesâ info the moment Danny gave him the information. Some of them even told Danny who murdered them, so Batman could start building cases with solid leads.
Dannyâs only twenty. Heâs not legal yet but he doesnât want to give any clues to who he is. How is he supposed toâŠ
Ah!
âCanât.â Danny shrugged. âIâm not legal. I died when I was fourteen soâŠâ Danny trailed off, speechless at the drowned puppy face Batman was giving him. What the fuck.
âAnyways, fork over my payment.â
Batman wordlessly hands him a wad of hundreds.
âWhat do you need cash for?â Batman suddenly asked.
âHuh? Isnât it obvious?â Danny tucked it in. âMaterial things, obviously. I need a blanket,â because holy shit, Gotham is damn cold this time of year. âAnyways, see you same time next week, litterer.â
âI donât litter.â
âTell that to the batarangs I found under the water,â Danny grumbled. âBut Iâll stop calling you that if you get a signature from Poison Ivy. I have a friend who loves her.â
âAn alive friend?â
âWouldnât you like to know, weatherboy?â
Danny snickered and disappeared. Heâs gotta cram that essay.
ââ
âThereâs a possibility Phantom might be homeless.â
âBatman, I mean this in the nicest way, but for the love of Atlantis, please stop giving me headaches. Itâs time like these I wish I stayed a lighthouse keeper.â
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a brief recap of what has been going on with the sonic movieverse in the past several months:
paramount has come out in public support of israel
keanu reeves, a man who has publicly rubbed elbows with none other than benjamin netanyahu, reportedly gets cast as shadow for the upcoming third movie
james marsden, the guy who plays tom, got exposed as having written a letter of support for a convicted pedophile
there's fucking??? zionist propaganda in the knuckles series???
kind of connected to the last point but adam pally, the guy who plays wade, is evidently pro-israel too
this is a complete and utter joke.
EDIT AS OF 4/30/24: if people see this version of the post, i'd really appreciate it if you reblog it instead of the other versions, as it's the most updated one with all the information that i want included. thank you :]
you know, it's been a few days since i've made this post, and some of you (not most) are staying determined in defending/justifying/giving the benefit of the doubt to keanu for that photo with netanyahu, whether it's because "it was a decade ago," "him being civil to someone he ran into at a party one time doesn't mean anything," "he's probably just silent because his pr managers won't allow him to speak up," etc. i've made my thoughts on the matter quite clear by directly responding to these people, but at this point, i'm tired of both seeing them in my notes and repeating myself, so take this as my final word on the issue.
i can't help it if you don't think the photo with netanyahu is damning, and i'm done engaging with everyone going out of their way to tell me that. i obviously disagree, especially after finding out that 1. the host of the party, arnon milchan, is a former israeli spy who has a history of developing israel's nuclear program and promoting apartheid in south africa (information that had broken out a few months prior to the party and thus would've been fresh news around the time keanu chose to attend) and 2. keanu has been caught hanging around at least two other weirdos, but if you don't find any of that to be cause for reasonable concern, then there really is nothing else i can say afaik.
with all that said, i'm beginning to realize how strange it is that these people's first instinct when seeing this post is to start debating about keanu's political stances without ever acknowledging any of the other bullet points. you guys realize that this isn't just about him, right? i know tumblr reading comprehension is known for being piss-poor, but like⊠you realize that i was trying to make a point of how there are MULTIPLE terrible things that have broken out about the people and company involved in the sonic movies, right? and yet, a lot of the people leaping to speak on keanu's behalf in my notes are completely ignoring the parts where i bring up paramount, pally, etc. all in favor of zeroing in on the singular point about keanu and making bad faith assumptions about me for holding him accountable. really makes one wonder where your priorities lie if, in a post that talks about so many other things, me accusing an a-list celebrity with, according to google, a net worth of almost $400 million is where you draw the line and apparently the only thing worth your acknowledgment.
ultimately, what i'm trying to say is that the intention of this post was just to gather up everything that i had been hearing for the past several months and put it all together in one place. there were a bunch of people who didn't know about at least one of the bullet points before seeing this post, and i'm glad that i could help inform them, that was what i was hoping to do! but as for the keanu thing, i've said pretty much all i can say for now, and i don't want to derail the original post even more than i may have already. unless something new comes up, i'm done talking about him.
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espresso [rafe cameron]
âoh he looks so cute, wrapped round my finger..â ËÊâĄÉË
pairing - rafe cameron x reader
summary - rafe doesnât do relationships, cuddling, kisses, and sweetness. strictly no commitment hookups had sufficed. that was until he met the girl at the coffee shop.
warnings - nothing rlly, just super sweet whipped rafe
Rafe was heartless. Cold. Rough. Any situation he had with girls was nothing more than thatâa situation, a fling. He had absolutely zero desire to be in anything committed.
To his friends, his sisters, his family, and his hookupsâhe was a mean, heartless monster. (Only tolerating Wheezie, of course.)
And he liked it that way.
No one expected anything from him, no one bored him with their feelings. It made his life so much easier not being overly concerned about the well-being of others.
But today, when Wheezie dragged Rafe to some fancy coffee shop sheâs been wanting to visit, his philosophy flew out the window.
âYeah, Iâll have the caramel latte with cold foam,â the young girl recites her order. âOh! And a chocolate croissant.â
âYeah, for sure!â I smile at her, typing her order into the till. âAnything for you?â I turn my attention to the man next to her, presumably a father or brotherâprobably brother, he seems younger.
He doesnât say anything, his gaze remaining intent on my features, like my words flew right past his ears.
âUm.. sir? Did you want anything?â
The girl next him sighs, shoving his shoulder. âStop staring at her you creep.â
His head shakes, like he was snapped out of a trance. He comes to the situation at hand, pinching the bridge of his nose âIâm sorry, that was probably creepy, my bad,â he chuckles awkwardly. The girl next to him makes a face at him, surprised by his actions.
âItâs okay,â I smile. âI zone out a lot too,â I let out a small giggle, trying to make him feel more comfortable.
He grins, âYeah, um, Iâll take a macchiato, thanks.â
âGreat, and could I get a name for the order?â
âWheââ
âRafe,â he interjects. I grin, writing his name down.
He pays for the drinks, smiling at me before going to find a table with the girl.
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âWhat was that?â Wheezie questions loudly.
âShut it, Wheeze. I was zoned out, is all.â
She blows out a puff of air, âYeah right, me and that barista could practically see the drool falling out of your mouth the second you laid eyes onââ
I kick Wheezieâs leg under the table when that same pretty barista comes by with our drinks.
âOne caramel latte with cold foam and a chocolate croissant,â She smiles sweetly, placing the pastry and sugary drink in front of Wheezie. âAnd one macchiato for Rafe.â
When my name rolls off her tongue, I swear I see stars. She says it with a sweetness Iâve never heard before. Her voice so soft and kind. As sheâs placing the drink in front of me, all I can think about it how much I wish I knew her name.
So, I incite a moment for her to tell me. âThank youâŠâ I pause, trailing off.
âOh, Y/n!â She says, surprise I asked such a question.
Y/n. So fitting. Itâs perfect.
âThatâs a pretty name,â for a pretty girl, I wish to say.
She grins, her cheeks flushing a shy pink. âThanks, if you guys need anything else, let me know!â She informs before wandering off.
Once sheâs out of ear shot, Wheezie begins. âMight as well go kiss her over the coffee beans.â
âOh, shut up, Wheeze.â
one year later
I walk through the doors of Tannyhill like I have so many times before, itâs become a second home.
âHi, sweetie.â Rose says from the living room where she sips on a glass of wine, reading a book.
âHi, Rose! Do you know whereââ
âHeâs in the gym with Topper and Kelce. Beware I hear a lot of groaning and shouting. Too much testosterone for their own good.â She jokes.
I chuckle, shaking my head as I head to the side of the house near the garage where the gym is. The blasting of rap music grows louder the closer I get along with the clanking of weights, and occasional grunts.
I open the door and see Topper and Kelce doing pull ups while Rafe bench presses. Rafe canât see me due to obviously needing to stay focused.
âHey, Y/n,â Topper greets, jumping down from the pull up bar.
Before I could ever reply with a greeting, Rafe hooks up the bench press, sitting up quickly. âY/n?â He smiles, his smile faltering when he turns back toward his friends. âAye, Kelce, turn that shit down.â
He gets up, walking toward me and pushing me out the door and back into the hallway. He closes the door behind him and his hands find their spot on my waist, a grin taking home on his lips. âHey baby.â
I smile, my cheeks flushing pink. âHi.â
âWhatâre you doing here?â He asks, his thumbs rubbing comforting circles into my skin thatâs exposed near the hemline of my shirt.
My hands run up his chest, manicured nails running along the collar of his shirt. âNothinâ⊠just missed you is all.â
âYeah?â He questions, that sly smirk on his lips. âYou missed me, baby?â
âYeah, come hang out with me? We can just stay upstairs or we can go to the beach maybe? Or go get lunch, hm?â I coo, my hands now running along his jaw, studying his every feature.
âWhatever you wanna do, my love. Just wanna spend time with you.â He leans in, his lips kissing their favorite spots along my jaw and neck. He pauses for a moment when he hears childish giggles from the other side of the door.
Topper and Kelce walk out, teasing grins on their faces. âI missed you baby,â Topper mocks. âI missed you more, come kiss me and spend time with me, please Y/n. Let me worship the ground youââ
Kelce was cut off by a rough punch to his shoulder. âOw! Shit, Rafe. Not my fault youâre whipped.â
Topper and Kelce chuckle, walking past us toward the front door. âTry that shit again and you wonât be able to walk out of here!â Rafe threatens.
âOh cmon, Rafe. They just know youâre wrapped around my finger,â I say loud enough for them to hear.
âAinât that the motherfuckinâ truth!â Topper shouts before shutting the front door behind him.
Rafe buries his head in my shoulder, âBaby, youâre just egging them on.â
I chuckle, âSorry, youâre just so cute all wrapped around my finger.â
He looks back in my eyes, a smile on his lips. âIâm whipped and Iâm proud.â
I chuckle, slapping his chest playfully as I drag him upstairs.
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