Here’s to syskids who do big jobs!

We know you are so strong in all that you do, even when it’s tough! Hopefully you’re able to still have some fun and take it easy every now and then! We are so proud of you, and we know your system is too! Thanks for reading, and take care!

(Image ID:) A pale orange userbox with a cluster of multicolored flowers for the userbox image. The border and text are both dark orange, and the text reads “all plurals can interact with this post!” (End ID.)

*pulls all of our syskids in for a collective group hug*

[ Sysmeds, anti-nontraumagenic, anti-tulpa, proship DNI ]

babbling at your carer, big eyes watching their every move while passionately talking about your favorite cartoons. your carer taking you into their arms to listen to you babble and giggling at how cute u r !!

Please remember to try and take care of yourselves little ones, You deserve to be happy and taken care of, your little body's need to eat so they can run around and play, you're safe with me I pinky promise, have a little gold star for being such a good kiddo ⭐⭐ I love you little ones <3/platonic ,stay safe and kiss your stuffies for me -🌳🌻🌹

(Sfw interactions only)

Hey there! I put together a fun green agere outfit board!! I hope everyone enjoys!!

- Max 🐛

Recovery is possible!

Hello everyone! This is a new blog focusing on recovery as a regressor and/or as a system with young parts.

What you expect to see here includes:

Activities

Advice

Positivity

Relaxing images and videos

If a promo is at all possible it would be appreciated @bunnelbaby @nostalgiaplayroom and anyone else who can!

Positivity post for alters who “should” be scary based on their source, their species, their role, or anything else

Whether you actually are scary, or you’re just unfairly seen that way

Whether you front a lot or only in emergencies

Whatever your age is

Whether the reason you formed is traumatic or not

You deserve to exist and enjoy life!

Sincerely: a system who’s host is a persecutor and a black eyed child, but also a syskid who loves helping people (his formation is a long story lol. TLDR he’s an OC fictive-)

Saving a Bad Situation

If you ever have a day/outing/conversation that just isnt going the way you want it to, everything just feels icky and wrong, and youre starting to think absolutely nothing can salvage it, consider Starting It Over! Not everything is going to perfectly all the time, but if you feel like you're losing control of a situation this play-pretend strategy can help you get back on course! Here are some ways we've used Starting Over to help get things back on the right track:

We were having quite a yucky morning - We woke up because of a bad dream, our morning tea wasn't made right, we forgot to eat breakfast until we were way too hungry, and we found out the plans for the day had changed drastically. It felt like the whole day was going to be miserable. So we Started Over! We got back into bed and set an alarm for 5 or 10 or 15 minutes, then closed our eyes and just laid under the covers hugging a stuffie until our "reset period" was over. We could pretend that the change of plans had been made the night before and so that was now just the plan for the day "like always", we remade our "first" cup of tea, reminded ourself to put toast on, and that bad dream was from "yesterday" morning!

Through neither person's intention, an important conversation was miscommunicated or misinterpreted, or a little bit of both. We both were long past upset and neither of us wanted to snap at each other. So, I said that I'd Like to Start the Conversation Over. We hung up our call, we both took a deep breath, and used our own mistakes, and our now better understanding of the other person's thoughts and needs to work through the conversation more carefully and considerately. We started the call over, greeted each other just like we hadn't talked at all that day, pretend that the previous talk never happened, but still had a productive and positive talk

I really wanted to play video games with Mama, and Mama really wanted to play video games with me! So, understandably, she moved rooms to the computer that has her games on it. I wasn't sure on how to communicate beforehand that I wasn't ready to change rooms, so the quick change with no transition period made me feel jostled and upset. So i said "I'm almost ready to go to the computer" and put in censored text that i would like to play pretend for a few minutes. We both pretended that we were still in bed and when i felt comfortable enough said that i was ready to "go" to the new room, covered my eyes for a few moments as we "went to the new room" and then took a few minutes to get adjusted. Physically we stayed sitting at the computer the whole time because there are a number of stairs in between, but it still gave me the effect of that transition period i needed

This is something mainly used with the littles or on days where emotional regulation is more challenging, but that doesn't mean that its little or autistic exclusive; everyone needs to hit the reset button sometimes! No, not everything in life is going to go exactly how we want it to, and we all need to be able to adapt to things out of our control, but that doesn't mean something "small" has to ruin your day, or that you can't take a breather before giving something a second go!

This is just something we've found helpful for us and been using more often lately to keep issues from snowballing out of control, and has also been a good exercise for us to better communicate our needs and feelings. It's a lot easier to say I Need To Start Over than trying to work through articulating emotions while upset. Its easier (and usually more protective, for us) to explain how we felt and what we felt went wrong once we're calmer. No, this probably wont work for everyone, we used to find it too hard to play pretend, but since getting back in touch with our imagination its become much easier, but its an extra tool you might want to add to your emotional and communication toolboxes and consider trying out!

✦ Reminders for non-ageres! ☁

🌈 Being age regressed doesn't turn us into different people, it doesn't literally change our intelligence or emotions.

☔ Don't assume things like the reasons why people regress, what age they regress to, etc, since all agere is different!

🌈 Just because people regress to baby/toddler ages doesn't mean they want to be babied! Make sure you know someone's boundaries before doing things like that.

☔ All ageres aren't just boys or girls. If someone identifies as something else when they are big, it's likely they still identify as it even when regressed. Also, always make sure to use the right pronouns, even when someone is regressed!

🌈 Ageres an be any age, not just babies! Some people age regress to preteen ages for example, and it's still just as valid!

☔ Not all ageres like childish stuff. Some are not into bright colours, fluffy blankets, cartoon characters and more, kids like that still exist.

🌈 Real agere is 100% sfw. Any nfsw or kid unsafe agere is disgusting, and most ageres only want child safe interactions!

☔ Petre and agere are separate things with separate communities, and should be treated as such, everyone if there is some overlap or some people identify with both!

🌈 And finally, you don't have to be neurodivergant, have trauma, be part of a system, etc, to be an agere. Regressing just for comfort or healing your inner child is still very valid.

☁ Have a safe regression kids!

Shout out to syskids of all ages who do more of the hard and heavy work (trauma holders, persecutors, gatekeepers, etc)

Shout out to the headmates/alters who feel like they're little kids but they have adult bodies, doing the same things as above.

You're doing great and I'm proud of you! - Mod Phantom

[ No syscourse/discourse etc, you will be blocked ]

Here’s to all the syskid trauma holders!

To the little or young headmates who were traumatized or who hold on to trauma memories:

✨ We know you went through so much, and it’s not fair that you were hurt by others around you or people who were supposed to take care of you. It’s okay to be upset about what happened. It’s okay to cry, or to feel sad, lost, angry, lonely, or scared. These feelings are natural and you’re not bad or wrong for feeling them! ✨

🧸 If you can’t talk about what happened to you or share your memories with anyone else, be it a therapist, loved one, or another headmate, that’s okay. You should never ever feel pressured to do things you don’t want to do, and that includes opening up about the memories you hold on to! You’re allowed to take your time, breathe, and process things at your own pace. 🧸

💖 If you do want to talk about your painful memories, we hope you can find a safe space to do so with a person you trust and are comfortable with. You deserve to have agency in your own healing journey, and that means getting to make decisions about when and how to talk about your trauma! 💖

🐶 We hope that you can find comfort and happiness in your lives, even if it’s only sometimes! It’s easy for kids who were hurt a lot or traumatized to feel like they never got the chance to have a childhood. We want to let you know that it’s never too late to enjoy being a kid! We hope your future is filled with toys, plushies, stickers, coloring books, fun games, pillow forts, tasty snacks, and playing pretend! 🐶

🍓 Please remember that you are so loved, cherished, and valued by those around you. And remember that the pain you experienced and have to hold onto is not your fault in any way! We promise, you are not to blame for the way others treated you, even if sometimes it feels that way. 🍓

🌈 We hope you can keep your chin up, distract yourself with something fun if you need to, and find comfort in your loved ones. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this (or listen if an older headmate is helping you). Know that we care about you, we’re rooting for you, and we’re wishing you the very best in all that you do! 🌈

How are you doing today little one?

💜ARDEN IS POSTING💜

All of the littles are too anxious to ask, but they’d like to make friends. So, any syskids/system littles, age regressors, or age dreamers who see this post—please interact!! /nf /gen

[This post is no longer actively requesting friends. -nicolé]

okay so the agere and syskids flags are kinda bad because not all of us are cute or pastel, right? they leave a whole bunch of people out

and flags in general kind of don't work as a distinct symbol. like for like the longest time i thought it was for a regression related gender

so i purpose a new symbol

the immortal jellyfish

the immortal jellyfish turns back into a baby over and over again whenever it gets hungry or sick! it basically age regresses as a part of its life cycle!

"but it's not cute" i hear some of you say, but that's just quitter talk. consider: it looks like one of those glow fiber optic toy things

"but I couldn't make an avatar with it" are you telling me this wouldn't make a cool backdrop for like anything you want to put in front of it???

it's also very subtle, like a lot of you are secret regressors but still might want to show it off, and no one expects the immortal jelly fish

so consider for a regression symbol: the immortal jellyfish

thank you for coming to my ted talk

Ish looking for more sfw agere/petre/syskid/sfw blogs to follow!! So if chu wan be fwens feel free ta reblog or like :3 (child safe only, we are children, the bodys literally a minor)-🌼🌈☀

Sunny's Board

Dis is mine board!!

Im made it all by myself!! Bubba not help!

(Bubba helped a teeny tiny bit -ethan)