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How are you investing 🍬 or extra money? I started trying to learn about stock investments during the panorama. I lost just under $5k playing around with crypto 😭 but I learned (and still learning) a lot about financial management. I recently moved $10k from my HY savings account to a CD. I was dating a finance guy and he told me to open up a CD because it’s a higher interest rate and he matched my initial deposit 🥰 There’s so much to learn but it’s much better than letting money sit & collect dust! I’ve been wanting to hop on live & share my experiences with sugar investments 🤔

Let’s chat.. i am a black woman and I recently found out about ‘divesting’ from YouTube and that was the nail that broke the camels back for me. I’ve been getting so many signs saying leave SW FULLY from God.. I was fighting too hard to be handed a luxury life (that is not actually luxury) and not working for it for myself, righteously. Honestly… why are so much of us trying to sell p*ssy instead of getting ahead in life by doing the hard work that won’t leave our soul feeling rotten…?

So, I’ve accepted SW as a phase in my life. My Holy Spirit has been wanting me to stop but my body/flesh did not want to let go of it. I need to believe that God can solve my problems and have the highest faith in Him only, and serve no other gods.

Be careful who you bring around you also, friends can lead you into that lifestyle and it happens quickly. Around age 21 when I let superficial friends that only care about designers, men, etc… get around me and essentially corrupt my mind. Be careful because you can easily get sucked into that life of shallowness and do things you should not to keep up with the shallowness. It happened to me, led me to spend above my income and in turn, it led me to thinking money, rich men,luxury trips and dates, drinks, etc… can validate me. Then came me turning to older white men since I live in a city where the men with money are generally white. Even if marriage wasn’t the goal for me most times with them , it is truly embarrassing to be so strung out/in the sunken place (lol) that I thought being with a 70,60,50+ year old white man (especially in public) is okay. (I’m in my 20s!!!) I even at one point thought marriage was in the picture with them… lol. I was about to allow myself to enter that mindset when I know that’s not what I want. I know for a fact that I deserve better.

The lifestyle of the sugar baby, sw'er, whatever, I've been invested in for so long and I am just tired of faking that it is .. idk the word . Tired of faking that it is “all that”. Idk the word .. but you get my point (maybe). And I’m not saying it was an entirely horrible experience… but at the end of it all you don’t gain much. (What is it to gain the whole world and lose your soul.) and I feel God never let me get fully invested (face out) either like He kept me protected. My Holy Spirit had me understand through the whole journey that this is not forever and to not let my mistakes linger for life that I actually start to embrace the mistakes.

But thinking back to it all, what was it for? Because I could have put all that time into a more l*gal and profitable business that I am actually proud of , but I chose not to… I chose the “easy” way out which was not so easy especially when the income is sporadic. Maybe it was the thrill. It was like a high. A drug almost. This is a lot to unpack babes.. The devil wanted me to give even more than I gave to that lifestyle and I gave a lot… but nothing God cannot return.

Anyway, babes, I have so much on my mind but I am choosing to work on businesses, study/figure out how to pass my exams, take trips, learn the righteous way I can live my life, travel, lean on God always and just being at peace. I am so at peace right now it's amazing. I am okay with my past because without it i would not come to this realization and I am thankful for the Grace of God that his kindness led me here. So, ladies, the summary is, work for what you want that is beneficial for your Holy Spirit. I am no longer in sw and will continue to write updates here and there! <3

And yes I still very much am a Very Rich B*tchh😘

-VRB

blonde, blue eyes, pale- maybe scandinavian idk

My beautiful amazing awesome girlfriend bought me my dreamie!!!!!! An incredible pink crystal baby!

Here she is when we went to pick up her up (local pickup)! The couple that sold her to us were very sweet and were happy she was going to a loving home! They even brought batteries to show us that she works. I did a small tummy/back/light censor test and she works flawlessly!!

I’ve only ever seen these online, and all with blue/gray or green eyes. Both my girlfriend and I have a soft spot for the brown eyed furbs so it was miracle that this sweet gal had them!

Brought her home, washed/combed/fluffed the pelt! Look at her smile! 💕

Please welcome my girlfriend and I’s very first daughter together, and the newest addition to my ever growing family:

Sugar Cookie!

on a real note..

link: be chill about it. rhett: prof, if i have to be honest...

Met a potential at a steakhouse bar while free styling with a gf and this is what an hour with him got me the following day, aka yesterday. Really hoping it blossoms into a great sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship. I met him as myself (no fake name). and myself is open now to being a heaux. Honestly. I’m happy about it. In 2024 I want to embrace being elegantly unfiltered. I want to do me wholeheartedly, and not be scared about being judged for wanting an ultimate luxury life. I’m not being scared about money in 2024. I was like that before I think but now I’m stepping back into the old me but better. God, keep me safe on my journey and happy. 2024 is the year I became debt free and I got more goodness than I imagined! Amen!🙏🏾🩷💋💎💰💎💵

-Very Rich B.

I’m back

Having surplus money feels so good! Investing in myself feels so good! Being right with my family feels so good! Being right with God feels so good!! Life is good!🙏🏾🤲🏾🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷+💰💰💰💰💰💰

+3k last night👏🏾👏🏾🤲🏾💰🩷🩷😍🙏🏾 from the gentleman I met while freestyling that gave me 1k last time.☺️🤩🤗🤗🤗🍾 🥂