Babes there are hard days but everyday has purpose and is good fundamentally for your growth. but I’m moving forward not backwards. Whatever the pace it’s forward! (I prefer fast if I can haha but slow is at times needed) I’m in therapy . I still can’t believe it😍😍

Goodness gracious!!! Losing weight past my weight plateau the last week has been so difficult. I think it’s alll the studying I’ve been doing honestly and juggling of life. I tend to eat when I’m stressed or bored, etc.. lol smh. But tomorrow is a very important day for me, so I’ll focus on that more tomorrow (my eating that is, I’m not doing bad but yeah I could do better).. I receive all beneficial good prayers. Amen!! Also I’m watching buying Beverly hills, it’s good thus far. And man oh man I’m missing a lot of that previous working girl life , phew!!! Aka, when you go into that lifestyle you just learn ALOT about how men operate. So yeah, It’s honestly also hard navigating it all. God will show me what to do, and I pray I listen!🙏🏾 I will essentially take what I learned and move forward. I think I may have just entered truly into my boss babe / spoiled wife era. Aka making my money leg*lly / dating good marriage minded Godly men, and just being intentional in it all. Rich and financially well off men are still my type they just have to come with more than money to court me. Also in therapy now and it’s going good so far. I’m not perfect but I’m trying. ✨😘

Goooood afternoon. It’s a work from home day for me today and I’m feeling great!! Was eating more junk food than usual but still managed to not gain weight 🙏🏾 amen! But eating junk has made me constipated - so I’m paying in other ways not eating right. Lol. So today we are continuing my goals again pertaining to attaining my dream body! My dream body is going to be a reality for me this year!

Side note also, I’ve already lost about 23lbs since last year July. I’m so proud of myself 🫶🏾! So now comes time for me to put in the more work to be a lighter me. I plan to lose 10-16 lbs and see how I feel. Then if I want to do more I will and if not I won’t. I’m very excited though! When I reach 16 lbs I will be in the normal BMI. So that’s my long term goal, short term is 5 lbs then 10lbs then 16lbs.

Wishing you all a fabulous day! 🩷

—VRB

Let’s chat.. i am a black woman and I recently found out about ‘divesting’ from YouTube and that was the nail that broke the camels back for me. I’ve been getting so many signs saying leave SW FULLY from God.. I was fighting too hard to be handed a luxury life (that is not actually luxury) and not working for it for myself, righteously. Honestly… why are so much of us trying to sell p*ssy instead of getting ahead in life by doing the hard work that won’t leave our soul feeling rotten…?

So, I’ve accepted SW as a phase in my life. My Holy Spirit has been wanting me to stop but my body/flesh did not want to let go of it. I need to believe that God can solve my problems and have the highest faith in Him only, and serve no other gods.

Be careful who you bring around you also, friends can lead you into that lifestyle and it happens quickly. Around age 21 when I let superficial friends that only care about designers, men, etc… get around me and essentially corrupt my mind. Be careful because you can easily get sucked into that life of shallowness and do things you should not to keep up with the shallowness. It happened to me, led me to spend above my income and in turn, it led me to thinking money, rich men,luxury trips and dates, drinks, etc… can validate me. Then came me turning to older white men since I live in a city where the men with money are generally white. Even if marriage wasn’t the goal for me most times with them , it is truly embarrassing to be so strung out/in the sunken place (lol) that I thought being with a 70,60,50+ year old white man (especially in public) is okay. (I’m in my 20s!!!) I even at one point thought marriage was in the picture with them… lol. I was about to allow myself to enter that mindset when I know that’s not what I want. I know for a fact that I deserve better.

The lifestyle of the sugar baby, sw'er, whatever, I've been invested in for so long and I am just tired of faking that it is .. idk the word . Tired of faking that it is “all that”. Idk the word .. but you get my point (maybe). And I’m not saying it was an entirely horrible experience… but at the end of it all you don’t gain much. (What is it to gain the whole world and lose your soul.) and I feel God never let me get fully invested (face out) either like He kept me protected. My Holy Spirit had me understand through the whole journey that this is not forever and to not let my mistakes linger for life that I actually start to embrace the mistakes.

But thinking back to it all, what was it for? Because I could have put all that time into a more l*gal and profitable business that I am actually proud of , but I chose not to… I chose the “easy” way out which was not so easy especially when the income is sporadic. Maybe it was the thrill. It was like a high. A drug almost. This is a lot to unpack babes.. The devil wanted me to give even more than I gave to that lifestyle and I gave a lot… but nothing God cannot return.

Anyway, babes, I have so much on my mind but I am choosing to work on businesses, study/figure out how to pass my exams, take trips, learn the righteous way I can live my life, travel, lean on God always and just being at peace. I am so at peace right now it's amazing. I am okay with my past because without it i would not come to this realization and I am thankful for the Grace of God that his kindness led me here. So, ladies, the summary is, work for what you want that is beneficial for your Holy Spirit. I am no longer in sw and will continue to write updates here and there! <3

And yes I still very much am a Very Rich B*tchh😘

-VRB

Someone liked this post so it made me remember and yes we are no longer friends. She ghosted me essentially and I love myself enough to know this was the “good riddens” I needed. I really should have a podcast in the ways girls have been bat shit crazy with me. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Been feeling more and more content with just having enough AKA being content with what I have 💖 the math be mathing today . why? Because I’m happy. My presence. My being is priceless. I’m working towards my goals and realizing nothing comes easy in life. But my spirit is so bright I feel I have so much. That cones easier to me. And I do. Gratitude is always the answer, and I have a of off that.

I’m distancing myself from one of my “closest” friends. I literally feel this girl can harm me. She’s envious and hates me for it, but benefits from being my friend. I’ve been avoiding it / pushing it under the rug, but not anymore. And not going into detail but just not a good person / someone I want around me. I truly feel she can harm me. Honestly... What kind of person am I to be so nice that I would feel someone can harm me / even do extreme bad things to me but still let them near me? That has to be some trauma response of some sort. Frfr. But not anymore, God help me 🙏🏾 protect me and my loved ones. In Jesus mighty name I pray. Amen!

Ate so much today. This is why I don’t do weed lol tomorrow we are on a smoothie all day and back to calorie counting. Also I was home all day . I was calorie counting for fun while stuffing my face lol

Living with parents really f*ck with your mental health at times. Honestly. And your parents getting older in many ways and on diff medications doesn’t help either. It’s Especially hard for the children raised in America by immigrant parents. Honestly. Always having to walk in egg shells for me leads to me snapping, especially when I came home drunk and said horrible things I regretted. And apologized profusely for. But I’m just saying that it’s hard as an adult and almost in your 30s to live with your parents. That’s all I’m trying to say. You just can’t really live as an adult unless you just say ‘screw it’ and do what you want. But then they end up resenting you and being passive aggressive etc… and also I end up feeling guilty asf after a certain point due to the disapproval. it’s hard. I know my parents love me, I’m just venting. Anyway, I’m going to get a therapist this month , it’s in my to do list and I may just end up using better help. I got a referral from my doctor but it just seems like a lot of work. Is $249 a month for therapy worth it? Have you all used better help? Honestly I don’t trust telling my raw and uncut, pure truthful feelings to a stranger. Honestly, been burned so many times by women and men that don’t want the best for me. World is too small and I don’t trust easily. I’ll try if out for sure though, therapy..lol. I have God and He will increase my discernment and faith. Mwah.🫶🏾💤 ✨.

Soo hello my loves :) always keep your roster, it has to be kept lol no matter if one falls off, get anothaaa. Period lol. That’s what I’m doing. This month will be better than my last, period🙏🏾✨💰✨🩷.

The one I went on a date with (I haven’t gave an update on him to you all) but we went on 2 platonic dates with some French kissing and dinner involved. In between he’s a nutty one lol lives his paycheck like he has 10 million in the bank. Lol. He likes to “dominate”. He’s been on bumble for years lol anyway, whatever.. he would Venmo me in between dates and gave me total 2.25k. He is being non responsive slowly lol I think his job doesn’t pay enough for how he spoils me BUT besides the point. He is being MIA, and I liked the random Venmo’s haha. I’m like -.- we were supposed to get together Saturday lol

so I sent him a txt today we will see if he responds. If he doesn’t then ik it’s done haha. My main dude is still here but we haven’t booked on another date. We typically see 2-3x a month. That’s the new baseline lol but he did say before we both go on our vacations that we will see again. Anyway haha all good!

February 2024 will be better than my January 2024! In Jesus name!!! Amen!! 🙏🏾✨💰💰thank You God!!❤️🎆🙏🏾✨yes!! 🥂

Till next time babes xoxo

—VRB

Okay, over ate 2 days in a row. what’s up with you VRB? Are you stressed? Anxious? Self sabotaging?

Please, just take it easy and also eat things that keep you full! Mwah! Xoxo! (And weigh yourself tomorrow, please and thanks lol)

Next day: 1/31/24: okay not a huge set back, still okay at wise. All good ! Woohoo!! Let’s get it xoxo

+💰💰💰💰💰💰💰 baby 💋 🫶🏾💜✨🥂🥂🥂

Good evening babes! Wow. So grateful, God always comes through for me. Must trust Him more.

Being a sugar baby and heaux has earned ~$9850USD as of the last 5weeks. And the month is not over yet. By end of the month I will hit 10k. To be honest, I’ve hit 10k and should just own it and not be so numerically precise. BITCH, I MADE $10,000 in 5 weeks baby!!!! I’m rich baby!!!! The momentum continues for me this 2024 and onward!! February, it’s a +20000USD MONTH FOR MYSELF, in Jesus name!!! Amen!🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾🩷💜 thank You God!!!

Now babes the thing that plagues my mind constantly is my board exam. I do need to study, I have not yet. . . Babes, why is that?? I have started my business stuff though. Aka, making the product but I must make more time for it as it’s important to me. I’m in too many things?? But I guess I realize now, I make time for making money and finding a rich husband and sugar daddy because financial freedom and the rich wife life is goals and important to me. So maybe that’s how I should see it and study harder so I can get financial freedom quicker and have a more peaceful life. Having college degree and passing my board exam is important to me and I love letting the men I date know I am educated (when I need too / even asked). I really should study more as it will also get me out of this job I’m in now (it has much incompetent people). And it’s so far from my home and just is a no. Passing my board exam, it will bring me more ease in life.

But yes darlings, as I continue my journey in being a rich bitch, a full time civviee worker, daughter, sister, friend, and a full time student (board exams studying), I will continue to keep you all updated on my progress + successes.

—with love, xoxo VRB

Having surplus money feels so good! Investing in myself feels so good! Being right with my family feels so good! Being right with God feels so good!! Life is good!🙏🏾🤲🏾🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷+💰💰💰💰💰💰

+3k last night👏🏾👏🏾🤲🏾💰🩷🩷😍🙏🏾 from the gentleman I met while freestyling that gave me 1k last time.☺️🤩🤗🤗🤗🍾 🥂

Been shedding lbs like a Barbie 🤗 the journey continues xoxo

This is actually crazy haha I looked back at my calories and it’s like close to 2000 calories daily or above! Bish wtf haha I thought you’re trying to get skinny lol

Bought some things for my business a few days ago :) feeling good about it. Also bought a cute pink notebook on Amazon, pastel highlights and pens for studying sessions! 📚 I must make studying “fun/appelaing” to me if I’m going to pass my board exams. Babes, send me all the good energy on this exam. I’ve failed it twice already. 🥹 Also cleared out my closet a few days ago of items I rarely wear, or clothing I just outgrown. It feels good, I just need to give them away now. I would really like to give them to a woman’s shelter. I’ll look into it, if possible. I have a few gentlemen wanting to take me out/meet me from Hinge and BB. (Went out with one say lol he’s a nut already smh. But we’ll see) We’ll see how it goes. Good news for me always!🙏🏾✨🎆 Lastly I have a date with the guy that gave me the money after meeting him once. He says he wants to get to know me better as well lol after badgering me for nudes (I send a modest one) so we has dinner Friday, it went well. I was so drunk lol I fell asleep on him in the hotel room. LOL. I wish he brought more money though like $1000 for dinner and play time was just not enough for me. I was too drunk to make that clear unfortunately lol and I did fall asleep LOL anyway, better outcome next time for me. My account will be funded. Fully loaded! Amen!!!! Thank You God!!

This is actually crazy haha I looked back at my calories and it’s like close to 2000 calories daily or above! Bish wtf haha I thought you’re trying to get skinny lol

Ahhhhh ate so much over weekend . Actually just today haha stomach still feels flat but back to work tomorrow on my 2024 diet to skinny. Mwah ‘