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chronicsymptomsyndrome · 5 months

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“Treat others how you want to be treated” is a cute sentiment but such awful real life advice that has gotten me into endless predicaments. Neurotypicals do not want to be treated how I want to be treated.

Turns out that among all eight billion of us, there are a few different sets of values and preferences and neurotypes. Turns out not everyone wants to be treated the same ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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necrofleshgoat · 5 months

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Me saying that ablebodied and/or neurotypicals people forcing disabled and/or neurodiverse people outside in hot summer temperatures is bad:

The ablebodied and/or neurotypicals in the comments: BUT BUT BUUUUT!!

This isn't about you guys!! This is about disabled people. Fuck off and let us speak, go outside and enjoy that lovely sun of yours 😋

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#casual post turning into a heated debate in the comments check #neurotypicals be like #ablebodied bullshit #actually disabled #actually autistic #disabled #cripplepunk #disability #ableism #autipunk

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riotclitshave · 5 months

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#Therapy #actually autistic #Neurotypicals be like #it's not that hard

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thegabofriel · 1 year

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Do neurotypical people have conversations in their head?

like for instance id sit here thinking

“Should we go to the park”

“idk 1 its kinda hot”

“ik 2 but we have to do something!”

“we could just play games-”

“we do that all the time-”

“but im tired!”

“no you are not.”

“uuuuuuuh”

“lets go” and then i pull myself up then part of me throws me back to the bed, and this goes on until one part of me gives.

do nt people just go like

“I should go to the park but its kinda hot, I could play some games instead but I should go”

do they refer to themselves as we or I?

#neurotypicals be like #autism #what are they

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aesrot · 1 year

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can't believe my sister doesn't have hyperfixations bro, wdym some people don't obsess over one single thing for months/years??? where do u get your happy chemicals from, bitch, tell me your secrets

#neurotypicals be like #she's so self controlled over ger interests wtf man #and she's ELEVEN #and im TWENTY TWO #aaaa???#her*#lua talks

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morsobaby · 2 years

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Parents will literally ask you "Would you do x?" and then scream cry and violently piss themselves when you say no. If it's a fucking order, just order me. "Well it's mature and adult-like to ask politely, it's not right to order other adults around" okay, I declined politely. I am an adult who you can't, by your logic, rightfully order around. If you intend to order me around, at least have the honesty to just fucking do it instead of playing these stupid fucking mindgames over whether I ""want to"" or ""Could"" do these things

#My thoughts #Neurotypicals be like #actuallynd

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blanketforcas · 8 months

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i think what saves me from a lot of discourse is that i'm simply Not Reading All That

#sometimes that means i miss really good posts unfortunately #until every now & then i get an extra neurotypical braincell for like 10 min and i read a good post #jk i'm still in denial about possibly having adhd

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queerasflux · 9 months

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man I wish people understood how much it sucks ass to be neurodivergent and trying to find the middle ground where people like/tolerate you. like, I'm either "boring" (trying to wait my turn in conversations, holding space for other people, taking a back seat to let others get some spotlight) or "too much" (too loud/talking too much, getting excited to share, trying to participate in group conversations/activities). No one really talks about how much of being neurodivergent is just sort of trying to make yourself palatable.

I feel like so much of my life has been spent trying to find this effortless sort of middle ground everyone else seems to automatically already know, and I'm always swinging too far one way or the other. I'm lucky to have neurodivergent friends who grok me, but goddamn I wish that I could just like, exist without the constant background script in my brain that's like "you're being too loud. You're not talking enough. you're being self-centered. you're being boring. you're wrong, you're wrong, you're wrong." I feel like I'm back in high school trying to make friends but stuck as the eternal "weird kid"

it's just... lonely and sucks bad.

#I'm fine #just had a sort of blegh night with some people I'm playing dnd with #not a big deal but man the way I interact with neurodivergent people vs neurotypical people is like speaking two languages #except I'm only fluent in one of them and keep accidentally insulting people in the other #I'm just trying to make friends irl #flux's bullshuit #neurodivergent #autism #adhd #audhd #audhd things #audhd problems

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inkskinned · 2 years

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fucking hate it when the stuff everybody says "actually works" does actually work.

hate exercising and realizing i've let go of a lot of anxiety and anger because i've overturned my fight-or-flight response.

hate eating right and eating enough and eating 3 times a day and realizing i'm less anxious and i have more energy

hate journaling in my stupid notebook with my stupid bic ballpoint and realizing that i've actually started healing about something once i'm able to externalize it

hate forgiving myself hate complimenting myself more often hate treating myself with kindness hate taking a gratitude inventory hate having patience hate talking to myself gently

hate turning my little face up to the sun and taking deep breaths and looking at nature and grounding myself and realizing that i feel less burdened and more hopeful, more actually-here, that i am able to see the good sides of myself more clearly, that i am able to see not only how far i have to grow - but also how much growth i have already done & how much of my life i truly fill with light and laughter and love

horrible horrible horrible. hate it but i'm gonna do it tho

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starplatinumnun · 2 years

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can you infodump to me? (i love you) is this overwhelming? (i love you) is this the right texture? (i love you) is it ok to touch you? (i love you) do you want the subtitles on? (i love you) do you want to go somewhere less noisy? (i love you)

#actuallyautistic #autism #autistic #this is about what love feels like to me as an autistic person with neurotypical family and friends #you are more than welcome to add your own experiences!#red instead #autism acceptance #neurodivergent #my writing

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glfry · 6 months

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Can we agree that the "Thats two things" line from Mike was autistic as shit