some thoughts about astarion because i'm tired of the internet reducing him to one thing
when bg3 came out in early access, astarion was always seen as the extremely flirty, confident guy who enjoyed sex (or so we thought) and spoke about it like it was his favourite thing. he was also kinda marketed as the āsexy vampireā, so you can understand why many people saw him that way based on the little amount of content we had. even while playing act 1 and act 2, many players still might think of him like that because he does have a very charismatic personality and he asks to sleep with you very early on, so it just automatically makes you think heās genuinely happy doing that and being totally serious.
BUT!!!!!!! we end up finding out later on thatās NOT the case and it was all part of a plan to seduce us in order for him to gain protection. he opens up about his past and his trauma and how he was forced to use his body to lure people back to cazador. he struggles with intimacy and relationships in general because of this. thatās why i really hope that people stop reducing him to āhot sexy vampire that loves flirting and having sex with everyoneā when that is not who he is, heās literally traumatised because of sex due to being forced into it and heās slowly trying to heal. heās also so much more than just āthe hot vampireā, ya know? if you actually put in the effort to get to know him, you will see who he truly is underneath and he has many loveable traits to appreciate.
you may not see the āsoftā side of him very often because he hides it, but itās there!! one thing i noticed that really stood out to me was that when i gave food to an orphan in act 3 and he approved. back when you first met him, he probably wouldāve done the opposite or had no reaction at all. i also saw a clip of someone trying to romance karlach and astarion and he literally told tav to choose karlach over him because he can see that karlach loves her. he said normally an arrangement would work for him but after everything karlach has been through, he doesnāt want to get in the way or see her hurt. letting tav go is also hard for him as well but he still thought about someone else. he couldāve whined or been possessive or jealous but he didnāt do that at all. where are all those people who reduce astarion to āthe guy that flirts and sleeps with everyoneā now? seriously. thatās not what he does, and when he was forced into it by cazador, he was trying to survive, he didnāt do it for his own pleasure. itās not a āhotā personality trait of his, itās literally trauma. and because he did it so much, he got used to it, and that resulted in him disassociating and feeling empty.
apparently if you ask him to join you and sleep with the drows at the brothel (something i will never make him do in my playthroughs), he only says yes because he struggles to say no. but he disassociates. and if youāre in a high approval relationship with him and he loves you, he will feel safe enough to express his feelings and say heās not comfortable. this happens before you fight cazador. iām not sure if he gives the same response after, but either way, if he joins in, he will always disassociate and itās not something he wants to do despite what he may say.
that being said, itās obviously still okay to appreciate his beauty and attractiveness, because he is very beautiful. he appreciates it and even likes being called beautiful. calling him āhotā and āsexyā isnāt a bad thing either, we know he can be and i'm sure he knows it too! itās just annoying when people act like thatās ALL he is and they donāt even mention anything else about his character. the love scenes are beautifully done too (i personally prefer the second one after youāve stopped him from doing the ritual, because thatās the one where he decided he truly wanted it and felt safe and comfortable because he genuinely loves you), and i actually wouldāve been fine if they didnāt have any scenes like that at all because itās totally understandable and valid if he didnāt feel comfortable, but i just hope that people donāt take things too far and over-sexualise him just because of how he appeared to be in the first half of the game and the way heās often marketed on social media. and yes i know heās fictional and nothing on the internet is going to hurt his feelings!!!! itās more about the fact that he canonically has sexual trauma and many people still say really disturbing stuff even AFTER they find out about that, and it just makes me uncomfortable to think that people are okay with treating someone like a sexual object especially when they've said they're traumatised and it makes them uncomfortable. idk if this makes sense š
but yeah he doesn't want to flirt and sleep with everyone as i've seen people claim. and if in an alternate universe he did, and he did it on his OWN terms, and the other people he had relationships with enjoyed it too, then good for them! absolutely nothing wrong with that if there's consent, respect and honesty. however, that's not the case with what happened with astarion, because 1. he was forced into using his body WHEN HE DID NOT WANT TO and 2. he misled people and lured them to a miserable fate. it's so horrible and devastating for everyone involved. sex was never something fun for him, and it certainly isn't a "personality trait" of his. it was a survival tactic. he was forced to. he didnāt want to.
obviously when he becomes more comfortable, then it's totally understandable to get excited when he flirts and shows physical affection. he can be so charming, funny, sweet and romantic and i love that. itās so beautiful to see him heal, genuinely find comfort in someone for the first time and experience intimacy that he feels ready and comfortable for. he deserves to love and be loved on his own terms instead of being forced. but again, he is so much more than the guy we were introduced to at the beginning. the internet just sees one thing and sticks with it but i really hope people start to actually appreciate him for who he is and the complexity of his character.
aaaaand i just had to leave this here <3
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Does Gojo successfully get Y/N pregnant in that one fic where their son walks in on them?šš If so, what's his reaction?
HMMMš actually i donāt plan him to have more kids buuuut for the sake of headcanonā
the love of his life is carrying his second child? heāll be over the moon! he'll smother you with kisses and just gets softš„ŗ
"i love you," he said in the softest whisper on your marital bed, and you could've sworn his eyes got a little glassy though he wouldn't admit it. "much, much more than you can ever imagine."
your first pregnancy was quite rough, with you being sick quite often. knowing that, this time gojo will pamper you even more and provide you with the best of everything. while he's away quite often when duty calls, he teaches your son to help you, but also always reminds him to immediately call him should you be having a rough time again because everything else be damnedāhe'll come back asap if you need him.
despite the obvious excitement, he is also worried about various things; you giving birth (the last time being quite traumatic for him), his second child inheriting his limitless again, how he is going to give his kids the best childhood while juggling his horrid job... the list goes on.
but with you by his side, he knows that everything will be alright.
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#19.3 Unravel
It had been some time since Agni felt this nervous. Not even talking with Jinsung Ha recently had made him feel like this. He fiddled with the mask on his hand as he waited for Grace to come back. He had thought hard on how to deliver the news, but he knew that no matter how he phrased it, Grace would be upset. Velt nuzzled under his palm and Agni gave her a few pats, before deciding that she would be better inside her bowl in his lighthouse, just in case the shinsu acted up around Grace after he received the news.
Grace came back wearing the comfiest shirt and shorts Agni knew Grace liked to wear on lazy days. He joined him on the floor, and they ate dinner together. Agni always finished last, so while waiting for him to finish his meal, Grace told him about his day with Bam. Grace was intrigued by how much his way of thinking had changed, and how glad he was to be able to be by Bam's side when he was having a bad day. It reminded Agni of the hidden floor, when Grace faced his sworn enemy.
They left the used bowls on the coffee table and went to brush their teeth. Afterwards, they turned off the light and went upstairs to sit on their bed. Grace's curious gaze never left him, and Agni curled his feet nervously.
Grace was the one who broke the silence. "Soā¦what is it?"
Agni's breath hitched. This was the part he dreaded most. "I talked with the crocodile earlier. Did you know that he could manipulate stone already?"
"Huh." Grace needed a few seconds to let the information sink in. "Didn't Rak learn it on the Hell train? How does he know it?"
"Turns out our crocodile also traveled back to the past like us. He found the young crocodile and taught him."
"What?!" Grace gasped, wide eyed. "That means our Rak isā!!"
"He's dead." Agni quickly snuffed out that hope. They had been in delusion for long enough; it was time that they faced the bitter truth. "He suffered a fatal injury from the explosion. He couldn't have lasted long without proper help." Agni omitted the actual cause for Rak's death, but still kept his words true. "I'm sorry."
"ā¦Oh." Grace looked lost, just like Agni was. His lips parted a little, but they closed before any sound escaped.
Agni gently squeezed Grace's hand, encouraging and comforting as he let the silence stretch on, giving Grace some time to process the information.
"Agniā¦" Grace whispered, "do you think Hatz and Isuā¦?"
Agni bit his lip and avoided his gaze, as the nightmare of that day replayed in his mind. He witnessed Hatz get his arms ripped off when trying to protect him. He could still recall the clang of a sword hitting the floor, and Hatz's suppressed scream that gnawed deep at his guilt. He witnessed Isu get beheaded after being taken hostage, the memory of warm blood painting them both still vivid like it happened yesterday.Ā
Agni refused to acknowledge their possible deaths, because it felt like a nightmare that one day he could hopefully wake up from. He avoided the topic when Grace brought it up, so he wouldn't have to say it aloud and make it real. He had been so hard on himself, because he couldn't get rid of the feeling that he had failed Grace and everyone else involved.
Agni knew this had to change if he wanted to live better, now that they had gotten a second chance. So he swallowed down the lump in his throat that had built up over the years and asked mostly to himself; "What are the odds of their survival?"
"There's always a chanceā"
"Grace." Agni looked him straight in the eye. "They were already severely injured before the explosion hit."
Grace fell silent and went still.
Agni felt a pang of guilt upon witnessing Grace's reaction. "Sorry. I didn't mean to snap." Agni fiddled with his hands. He realized that he didn't know how much Grace knew of what happened. "My scarā¦do you know how I got it?"
"Iā¦was told it was from the family heads' battle." Grace looked thoughtful. Agni knew he was trying to be careful with his words. "A stray attack?"
"It could have been worse." The memory of the scorching heat on his skin felt like it had only happened yesterday. He passed out right when he was about to heal Isu, and only found out later that he also lost sweetfish at that time. The days he spent recovering from the burn, to withstand the excruciating pain every second he was conscious, and finally coming to terms that it'd be a permanent scar, was one of the turning points that had changed him forever. Were Grace not there to care for him, he might have ended up destroying himself even more.
Agni hadn't realized he had his left hand clawing on his cheek until Grace pried his hand off and frowned, "You're doing it again."
"Maybe I should wear the maskā¦" Agni muttered to himself. After all, Grace gave it to him less so he could hide the scar but more to prevent him from unconsciously hurting himself. The only time he could safely take it off was when Grace was around.
Agni bit his lip nervously when Grace didn't reply. He no longer had the courage to look Grace in the eye that spoke so much concern, so he leaned close and rested his head on Grace's chest. "Rak, Isu, Hatz and Hwaryun were trying to get me out of that damned place. But we were caught while escaping, andā¦it was a bloodbath. I wasā¦too occupied to react to the incoming heat. Rak shielded us from the explosion. And when I woke upā¦"
"They werenāt with you," Grace finished it for him after Agni trailed off a moment too long.
Agni nodded dazedly, "I've been telling myself that they're still alive, after a blow that could kill rankers. Butā¦who am I kidding? I was lucky enough to survive with just this littleā" Agni vaguely pointed to himselfā "inconvenience."
Agni felt a hand gripping his arm, and he pulled away to see Grace looking at him with a pained expression. His eyes were glossy and his lips were pulled into a thin line. Trusting his instinct, Agni reached out to gently trace and cup Grace's cheek with his free hand.
"I'm sorry," Agni muttered. "I'm sorry, for not telling you sooner."
Agni silently witnessed tears that streamed down on his love's face. It was a bitter sight that Agni wished he'd never have to see again, that he had tried to avoid for so long by not telling him. He pulled Grace in and held him close to his chest, as if Agni was trying to gather his own crumbled heart back together.
Grace mumbled their late best friends' names as he held onto him tighter, shaking from each breath he took between sniffles.
Agni felt his own eyes sting with unshed tears. He remembered the years he spent climbing the tower together with his old team. Despite their banter being his source of headaches, Agni knew he too had come to acknowledge them as his cherished friends. Only when they were gone did Agni realize how much he'd miss having them around. Seeing the younger them didn't exactly close the gaping hole in his heart, but at least the emptiness was more filled.
Agni squeezed Grace tighter. "We have their younger selves with us now. We will protect them better this time."
Grace only nodded and sank further into his embrace. And Agni planted kisses on his hair, relishing the thought that after everything he had gone through, Grace was still a constant in his life. As long as he had him, everything would be okay.
When Grace started shaking again, Agni caressed his hair and hummed a comfort song they had known by heart. Still, it didn't make falling asleep any easier for Agni, especially not after admitting that his nightmare was very much real. However, as he had been through griefā¦this, too, would pass.
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I saw someone else send in a sad Fuuta mother headcanon so I'll share mine!
Ok so, we know that Fuuta is 20, his mother left the family when he was really young/too young to properly remember her, him and his sister were left in their father's custody
Now the fact Fuuta and his sister were left to their father makes me feel like the mother must've had plans to date and remarry, since while there is a divorce stigma, if a person's young enough and doesn't have kids, its not actually That big a deal (kids are the biggest thing that often gets in the way of remarriage since not a lot of people are fond of the idea of raising children that aren't theirs biologically-)
Anyway,
Another thing we know: Fuuta's victim was in middle school, which in Japan is ages 12-14 (probably 13-14 since 13's the minimum age to use twitter)
If we assume his mother left when Fuuta was 5 or younger, that gives his mother over a year to remarry and have a child with someone else (especially if she already had someone in mind when she left Fuuta's dad)
And for that child to reach middle school age
Meaning there's a non-zero chance that the middle schooler Fuuta doxxed
Could've been his half sister
NOOOO why would you do this to meeeeeee ;___;
That makes a ton of sense, though, that she would leave specifically for another man she had in mind. The thing is it wouldnāt even make a difference to Fuutaās behavior -- and could actually have made him more motivated to harass her online š
Even if he spent his whole life avoiding/shunning his mother as mentioned on the other post, heād put things together the minute he started looking into Killcheroyās personal info in order to call her out. She probably did something small and harmful (nothing like the othersā unsanitary or sexual harassment cases), but his emotions flare up. He realizes his mother has started a new family and truly moved on from him. Although the thought is entirely subconscious, heās incredibly jealous and angry at this girl for taking his mother away. So in his mind, sheās labeled a villain, as bad as all the others.
And he thinks, so what if itās a little over the top? He has the right to call her out -- heās her half-brother, after all! (He doesnāt tell anyone though, because that would bring up all the crap about his mother he doesnāt want to face.) He just goes after her and feels securely justified for it. Then, once he sees what happensā¦
Or, letās just say he did go all that time without making the familial connection. He calls this random girl out for something small, and is haunted by her death. It makes that interrogation question a hundred times more painful, because the woman heās looking to for comfort probably hates him for killing her daughter. Even if she didnāt know it was him, she wouldnāt be able to offer any sympathy if he did make it out of Milgram -- sheās grieving and he would realize the whole truth.Ā If he is thrown back into his regular life post-Milgram, would his father want to reach out to the mourning woman? Would Fuuta have to look her in the eye? Would he go to the girlās funeral?
Hm, and maybe that reveal happened when he was curled up, reading about the girlās death online. Maybe he saw a picture of his mother on the news, or heard her voice in a clip, and got both nasty surprises at once.
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is there any hope in praying for a new kh4f writing piece? or are you officially retired š i beg i plead i weep i NEED a fresh ashton one-shot like my life depends on it š
Definitely not retired! I truly never meant to go this long without publishing a fic - last year was just a very weird, unbelievably difficult blur for me, the hiatus just happened and to be honest, I regret it every day.
But! Although my posting stopped, I never really stopped writing (I think my longest streak of not so much as opening a doc was about 3 months.) I've been writing much more infrequently than I'd like and with much more effort and hesitance than I'm used to (turns out going from practicing a skill every day for years to just... not doesn't do much for that skill or one's confidence š¬) but I have still been writing! Unfortunately, finishing stories hasn't been my strong suit recently and that's primarily why I haven't posted in so long. And why my WIP folder has been this stacked for the past year lol:
Some docs are just a few paragraphs long while some only need a few paragraphs to be done. I'm kind of at this weird crossroads right now where I definitely want to finish some of these fics (why let all that effort go to waste) but also I want to jump on ideas that are newer and have less baggage in my brain (it's been extremely frustrating trying to get back to where I was!). So I'm trying to navigate that while also trying to get back into the writing mindset and routine again, learning to trust my instincts again, find a way for my brain to be a comfy and fun place to hang out in again. I am determined to get there, and sooner than later this time. I feel closer than ever! And when I do, Tumblr will be the first to know. Promise. š
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