#im a walking red flag
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hello tumblr oomfs
i made a kinlist n thought itd be fun to share it
please make fun of me as you see fit.
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You are so beautiful and I would be lucky if you even considered falling in love with me
Sorry the person you're trying to reach is currently experiencing repulsion towards anything having to do with love. They have been traumatized, sent to the grippy sock place and had a shit time.
But the fact that you're simping that hard is adorable tho 🥰🫶
#im actually crazy so it's a blessing for you#pls dont#i bite#and by bite i mean have the most irregular emotions and rage you can imagine#im a walking red flag#wewoo wewoo 🚨#asks
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Are you into red flags and long nights?
Definitely 💗
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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People be like “these are the top things I consider to be red flags in others” and then just list mental illness symptoms, effects of trauma, or neurodivergent traits
#ryan.txt#bpd#borderline personality disorder#mental health#mental illness#neurodivergent#I’m fucking tired I’m fucking tired IM FUCKING TIRED#yassss I’m a walking red flag I don’t care anymore leave me alone
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THE NEWEST LDR CHAPTER OH MY GOOOOOODDDDDF
#i can’t even verbalize my thoughts rn#IM KISSING SUN IDC IDC#he’s a little shit and i love him#he may be a walking red flag but red is my favorite color#and obviously moon isn’t the only one with memory issues right??#RIGHT??????#love how fucking pissed he was at the end oh my god#love their rivalry tbh#banger writing as always btw i will never get over how perfectly described everything is <3#love death and rollerskates
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i joke, don’t i, about my dog-coded heart. i love you like a dog, i grin, and they hear devotion and loyalty and desperation for love
i love you like a dog, and that’s cute because i’m affectionate and i’m on your side and i want to be close, all the time
but i love you like a dog, and that’s everything turned up to eleven because i’m at a party on saturday night when you call me and tell me someone hurt you. there’s calm in a crisis but no sanity—just worry and the need to protect you. i sit at the foot of your hospital bed and find the girl on facebook and tell her if she ever comes near you again i will put her in the ground myself
i love you like a dog, and i sleep on the floor of your room when we get home. i walk you to class and i glare at everyone who looks at you with anything other than kindness and i pick you up from work when your boss won’t stop staring at your bare arms
i love you like a dog, and i get an email from the university regarding my behavioural issues. you can’t threaten another student, they say. but other students can tell their classmates to kill themselves? i ask. they only reply with a date for a disciplinary hearing
i love you like a dog, and you don’t come with me. you ask if i really said those things to her. of course i did. you say maybe you will go stay at your dad’s for christmas after all
i love you like a dog, and you’re realising i’m not a good one. you come home; i’m there at the door. i love you like a dog, and you’re realising that means codependence and possessiveness and doing anything for you at the cost of everything and everyone else
i love you like a dog, and this is not what you signed up for. there’s only so much training can do: i am so good at pretending i will follow every basic command, at pretending i will behave in a way that’s acceptable
do you even know the difference between good and bad? you ask me one night, halfway to tears in the kitchen when i’m standing between you and the door, begging you don’t go see her. how is what she said to me any different from what you said to her?
and i think maybe i don’t know the difference between good and bad, only what the difference means to you. i know which behaviours performed gets me a smile and a pat, and i know which has you desperate to escape my attempt to be your shadow, nose bumping your heels with every step you take away
i don’t know the difference between good and bad, i only know how to love you. but i love you like a dog, and that’s not the way you want to be loved, because keeping you safe and keeping you warm shouldn’t ever come at the price of suffocating under my heart and apologising to your colleagues for my bad manners and stubborn presence
i love you like a dog, and maybe that would be okay if i was a dog who listened. i love you like a dog and maybe that would be okay if i didn’t have a temper. i love you like a dog and maybe that would be okay if i was a dog who knew you’re coming home when you leave
but instructions and implorations mean very little when my right and wrong is all in context of your well-being, and i am capable of both bark and bite, and you stopped coming home altogether
i love you like a dog, and it’s exhausting for you. you’re not the bad guy; you gave me a home and loved me and let me love you. you didn’t ask for a problem pet—you wanted a friend to share a house with. someone to text from the grocery store, someone to make breakfast with on sundays, someone to cover late rent
i still joke about loving like a dog. i think i’m better, these days, at pretending i know where good and bad lie. pretending i care, because you care. and maybe that’s not a pretence, then. i do care because you care. i just don’t know if my love will ever stop taking priority over morality. i’ll pretend. i’ve only lost one person since you, so maybe that’s growth
you look happy in your photos. you have a cat; that made me laugh. i’m not going to click accept on the request, because i don’t think i know how to love you any different than i did six years ago. but—and you might never know this—i’m always going to love you anyway. we may have bled out, quick and messy euthanasia of the life we built, but i love you like a dog, and that shit’s unkillable
#hello. girl i haven’t spoken to in six years sent me an instagram follow request and i had a million feelings and memories about it#this sure is revealing huh! being a walking talking red flag is only a part time job these days#there are many years of therapy and medication under my belt im a champ at dbt now#ive just spent all day feeling kind of insane#n#i love you like a dog#might as well plonk this in that tag
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writing bakugou x reader is always
me: excited to test out kats' complex character against a litany of scenarios
kirishima: the healthier, happier, man of my dreams, derailing the entire plot
#pom.chat#writing kiri as bkg's best friend it always a crapshoot bc by the end it just doesnt make any sense why y/n would ever pick kats over him#im not a compelling enough writer lmao#like- 'oh who ever shall i pick? the walking red flag or the man with no flaws?' smh#bakugou x reader#oh GOD#i always forget#bakugo x reader#UGHK#kirishima x reader#😋#technically
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I have basically no art to post so why not flex my media drawer
#im kind of obsessed with the way that everything fits in perfectly#the inherent eroticism in sliding a dvd out and putting back in so everything is flush#i bought 5 new dvds yesterday and i just have to haphazardly put them on top#also pretty much all of these are second hand save for some more recent movies#i also have 7 cds stuck on my wall because theyre my pride and joys and red flags for people who walk into my room#save me physical media#jake speaks into the void
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#girlblogging#schizoposting#female manipulator#mentally unhinged#girl interupted syndrome#the feminine urge#absolutely deranged#narcissistic personality disorder#delusional#dissociation#lana del rey#walking red flag#did#male manipulator#im so tired
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Just got on the tour bus x On our way to Europe buzzing to play for you, let's smash it x love MK
lol this is hilarious Matt and Amanda crying about meeting her the Grammys and her just casually commenting on Miles’ post🤣🤣 (aside from following the other)
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She´s back !!!
looking for the hottest vintage shops
#16/02/2024#miles kane#holy shit !!!!!#im this 🤏🏽 close to dressing up in like Ken’s fur coat for the gig now 😅#blonde head is back#at a complete loss like the vibrant green and blue and the bleached blonde 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽Jesus#Miles Ken#<- y’know Ken with like his blonde hair in the movie#would be sick if that were just a base color and hes gonna start dying it all shades of crazy (the italian flag; RED; pink; blue...)#crispy king#we’ve got our own Eminem#love how everyone’s like mate it’s fuckin YELLOW#I refuse to believe it is it’s just the lightning (please let it be just the lighting) cuz blond is great yellow uhmm not so much 😅#imagine he wouldn’t have posted anything and just walked on stage in Utrecht with the new hair -> mass hysteria I’m telling you#or if the cheetah print coats ain’t enough anymore he could just dye his hair cheetah print
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As forever comes closer, hope the world will spin slower
#ashton irwin#5sos#5sosedit#my edit#ai#hey god its me#i dont care hes a walking red flag parade I love red#i am forever changed#i also wanna be her#this is a lot#but i volunteer as tribute#googles how to get Ashton Irwin to look at me like this#this man would ruin my life but i would let him#i dont care#im gonna shut up#enjoy
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The experience
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trying to speedrun presenting as every red flag ever because clearly you're not getting the hint that i dont Want you so instead i'm going to very clearly show you why i'm a bad evil toxic person and why you should maintain a comfortable distance from me even with your mental issues and attachment problems
#I AM A RED FLAG LISTEN LISTEN IM BAD EVIL WRONG#LOOK IM ASKING YOU TO DO BAD THINGS#LOOK IM IGNORING YOUR PAIN UNTIL ITS CONVENIENT FOR ME#PLEASE IM TRYING SO HARD TO BE A WALKING RED FLAG#WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? WHY DO YOU CLING EVEN HARDER TO A WALKING RED FLAG???#WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK#red flags
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Did -
Did you just give me Fyodor?? Do I laugh or do I cry,help??? I personally don't see it although, I have noticed that the man has a preference for goofy/silly people. (Happy ENFP noises)
Also, fun fact! In canon, his favorite kind of people are those who have a good complexion, which I do. Huzzah for good genes!
Although I personally hc that he won't talk to you unless you're pretty 💀💀💀 It's so funny and petty, c'mon nowwww
As for height, I'm average, around 170 cm or 5'7. I can't remember how tall he is though.
Did you just give me Fyodor?? Do I laugh or do I cry,help??? I personally don't see it although, I have noticed that the man has a preference for goofy/silly people. (Happy ENFP noises)
I don't know either 😭😭😭 but absolutely on the goofy/silly people, he isn't with Nikolai without a reason lmao. Maybe you're not as "goofy/silly" but he'd still like your enthusiasm /srs
[*sits down* I'm 5'3... I probably cannot reach this man...-]
I'm still damn sure that you'd pull him. Can't change my mind, I'm sure you're someone who he'd think is worthy of his time 😤 whether that's a blessing or a curse, I'm afraid I still don't know
#dynamics are fun to ponder over— imsosorrydazaibutconside—#nah im gonna get tortured like koyo am i#it's just fun to imagine someone bubbly who actually has amazing instincts on people and the walking red flag (whoops-) interacting. that#probably sounds weird-#never forgetting how when I first saw fyodor use his ability in the anime I went “ah. the yan potential.” HAHAHAH#[[haha oh sht i forgot where I stopped in the manga I just remember vampires and crying over chuuya how tf do i pick the story up again-]]
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lmao just imagining this scene is too funny
#everyone : stay away from him he's a walking red flag meanwhile xie lian : yeah red looks good on him#they both are so whipped for each other IM LOVING IT#xie lian#hualian#tgcf
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