kinda frustrating how we've spent the last few months acknowledging how a lot of well intentioned but guilt trippy social justice posts are like specifically designed to worm into ocd ppls brains and then now every single post abt palestine is "i dont care how bad your mental health is, i dont care how bad looking at all this makes you feel, if you don't read every single post you see on this topic in full you are a horrible person and directly contributing to their deaths. 'waaaah my mental health' well at least youre not being bombed, did you think about that??" and its like. i absolutely get where youre coming from but you dont get to complain that guilt tripping is bad then turn around and use it anyways because you think the cause youre using it for is worthwhile. like. everyone thinks the cause theyre using it for is worthwhile, thats why theyre using it. but its still a shit way to do it
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What I love most about the Harringrove fandom is that you stay in your lanes and are hella respectful.
I’ve been trying to find Jargyle content all day but the tags for Jargyle, Stancy, Ronance and otherwise are all STUFFED and CLOGGED with St4ddies who don’t know how to tag stuff properly. I’ve never needed to blacklist tags in my entire decade of tumblr - yet here we are. The St4ddies have made the Stranger Things tags unbearable.
So shout out to the Harringroves, for being the politest and most well organized people. Y’all are the best. Never change.
i mean 1. its because we’re all fairly mature and considerate people but 2. we know what its like to not be able to go into tags without seeing nothing but venom getting spewed at us and quite honestly at this point i think we deserve to go a little apeshit and start ruining tags for people but still we just sit here minding our own business
every day i wanna start problems but i dont. because im a good person. and i hate that for me but thank you lmfao
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btw ive learned something fascinating recently that people on tumblr dont know about. if someone gets something casually wrong (and theyre not being overly confident or a dick about it) instead of commenting or going into their askbox and saying "you are a dumbass and this is why i think you should die" you know that you can just say "this is wrong because of ______. ____ wrote a good article/post/study/video on this that i think you should read/watch."
one of these is significantly more productive than the other and makes it so that the person is educated and less people in the world think like that, and if they dont listen, then you can still tell them to die and that they suck because now its confirmed that they do. its a win win.
the other is just sending a note into a paper shredder because youre upset about some shit somebody didnt have any intention of meaning or even know the implications of. this inevitably alienates them from your perspective entirely because nobody wants to listen to the ideas of someone whos first thought when somebody is unknowingly ignorant is to tell them to die and that theyre fundamentally irredeemable as a human being.
hope this helps everybody. 👍
(THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO PEOPLE WHO ARE BEING ACTIVELY BIGOTED OR MALICIOUS DESPITE KNOWING THE FACTS OR PEOPLE WHO HAVE ALREADY DUG DEEP INTO THE ISSUE AND ARE RUINED BY CONFIRMATION BIAS AND THEIR DESIRE TO HATE A GROUP OF PEOPLE. KEEP SENDING THOSE PEOPLE DEATH THREATS PLEASE 👍👍)
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They really should drug me because I'm their property and I don't get to choose what goes on. Things just happen and I have to be a good girl and take it.
Just hand me something to eat or drink randomly without any instructions other than to be obedient and take it. Not knowing what's happening but doing what I'm told, obviously
Why should a toy have any options to begin with anyway?
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