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#i am the ultimate queer
Every Musical I've Ever Watched In Order:
Hamilton
Heathers
Be More Chill
SIX
Dear Evan Hanson
Beetlejuice
Newsies
The Guy Who Didn't Like Musicals
Percy Jackson: The Lightning Thief Musical
Waitress
Ride The Cyclone
Give me more. Now.
Hand 'em over.
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uncanny-tranny · 2 years
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What to say to somebody if they have a queer identity you "don't agree with":
Nothing
No, literally. Nothing.
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bromantically · 8 months
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the point of slur reclamation is not to take away its status as a slur, but to take its power from the hands of oppressors and put it into our own. i do not reclaim words like fag because my goal is to normalize it and get rid of its status as a slur, i reclaim it because im making it mine now. im taking it so the power over it is in my hands, im taking their weapons from them and i dont intend to give them back
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angel-archivist · 8 months
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It's so interesting and so exceedingly frustrating how agab is being utilized now within the queer community as a way to isolate and sort nonbinary and genderqueer folks into binary boxes that determine their moral purity levels, and their authority to do and write and exist.
The way nonbinary writers are being put under accusation of fetishizing gay men while their AGAB is continually brought up in a way that feels like queer-space-approved misgendering.
The way feminist circles that are supposedly trans-inclusive will use the word AFAB in a way that implicitly but intentionally isolates nonbinary people who aren't AFAB from joining. It's for women*.
The way the language is already flawed and leaves out intersex folks from the conversations while focusing on a binary of sex that isn't truthful.
The constant obsessing over whether someone is AFAB or AMAB and whether or not that gives them the privilege to join, do, write, or be present in certain spaces really really concerns me. How are we supposed to dismantle a binary system of gender if we can't even move past forcibly assigning and focusing on people's genders assigned at birth?
#and yes i understand! that agab language can in some circumstances be helpful in inclusive language and in the medical world but ultimately#is misgendering and unnecessary it should be up to the person to disclose their agab not an expectation of them to give up freely#I think that inclusive language shouldnt be misgendering in nature and agab as far as i can tell should only be used in select discussions#and certainly not as a way to frame a nonbinary writer as a “biological woman” but in a way where the queer community will nod along and sa#“oh they have a point” because you used the word AFAB instead#honestly afab is the term i see used most frequently and most harmfully towards other nonbinary people who don't identify w the label#to exclude trans women and amab nonbinary people#to frame nonbinary people as “still women” because of their assigned gender at birth#also i understand its not as simple as “not using” these terms bc they still serve a purpose and are important#but as they leave the queer community and as they enter the hands of cis queer people they become weapons#i wish i could like manifest my thoughts super clearly but i really cant bc its a difficult situation#its just another example of misogyny and bio-essentialism creeping into the queer community#because the patriarchy impacts all things including our discussions of trans oppression and gender we need to stop viewing it#as a strict binary of male female and oh sometimes we'll mention nonbinary people but we're all afab and amabs at the end of the day <3#like flames literal flames#if you wanna like chip into the conversation just shoot me an ask or respond to the post i'd love to hear other peoples perspectives#im not infalliable so if i said anything you view as incorrect especially in regards to intersex folks and how you all would like to be#included in these discussions as im not intersex but am aware of how agab is a subject that leans into the idea of a binary of sex#so yeah rant over <3#retro.bullshit#rant
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paellegere · 3 months
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"their relationship is romantic" "their relationship is familial" "their relationship is platonic" you're thinking too narrow. their relationship goes beyond labels. the family is inherently queer. their platonic love is romantic. the erotic is familial. each one is the other and the other is them
#.txt#i've gotten to the point of relationship anarchy where i no longer understand the obsession with labeling relationships#there's a post floating around like 'it doesn't matter if you view them as romantic or platonic the point is that they love each other'#and i get the message. however may i propose that distinctions such as that don't even have to matter. consider#bold claim probably. but whatever i didn't have the choice to think about love in a normative way and as a consequence i have thoughts#of course i am thinking about wincest but it applies everywhere. jopzier even#jopson views crozier as a surrogate parent but in an inherently queer way. does that mean he want to fuck his mom? probably not#but the fixation and need for redemption turns the traditionally familial relationship into something far more#do you understand#once you leave the normative behind labels become useless#do sam and dean love each other romantically or platonically or familially? consider: it doesn't matter. there are no words to describe it#their love is queer in the sense that it extends beyond normativity. society holds no sway over them. they are ungovernable#i find it ultimately unhelpful to discuss fiction in normative terms when the characters themselves exist outside of normative society#shows like supernatural and the terror are perfect examples. sam and dean were never normal and franklin crew left normal behind#the arctic doesn't care if you fuck your mom. the impala doesn't care if you kiss your brother#this isn't really about anything i just saw that post the other day and i was like. why doesn't this Hit for me. well this is why#however it IS helpful to discuss fiction set within normative society in relation to normativity. it's relevant!#most stories are not however set within the bounds of normativity. that's kinda the whole point of a lot of fiction#baby i explore relationship anarchy in ways that you couldn't even imagine#<-tldr#i have a tendency to write essays in the notes every time i post something. sorry about that. it feels safer here and i am skittish
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saturnisfallingdown · 2 months
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a big part of the queer online kid to queer online young adult progression for me was losing all interest in labels. not in a distasteful way!! just. losing interest .....
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a-sentimental-man · 9 months
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cannot believe how yall keep talking about how good omens became an explicitly "queer show" in season 2 like all the non-binary people in season 1 didn't exist... just say you're transphobic and go. good omens has always been a queer show. just because it doesn't come under your tight definition of "queer" doesn't change that fact.
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thegirlmirage · 7 months
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My kind friends... my kissing encounter with another trans woman... my general content feeling and happiness from HRT... things are good. They were so bad for so long but they are good right now.
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linkneol091 · 10 months
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also before I’m going to sleep, with all that Miguel hype I gotta say:
I LOVE MJ I NEED TO MAKE THOUSANDS FANARTS OF HER
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She needs more appreciation fr ( also me loving her )(or pete idc)
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vintage-bentley · 2 months
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Omg the ‘ deliciously queer’ of making a gay man straight has me shaking with confused rage 😅
The homophobia that is actively celebrated in this fandom blows my mind. Yet when they get called out on their loud in you face homophobia they just call you a t*ef and that ends the discussion :/
Yup 🥲
This sort of thing is why I despise the word “queer” so much (aside from it being a slur of course). It has absolutely no meaning! It’s basically just a word that means “I like this” at this point.
I think that a lot of people in fandom have had their brains rotted by fanfiction and have come to believe that gay representation in media is as common as it is in fan fiction. So they now think there’s “too much”, and they’re bored by it. Which leads them to “queering” it (aka making it straight) because they see that as super weird and quirky, and have forgotten that 99% of media is straight and they aren’t bringing anything new to the table. And since they believe there’s too much gay representation, they don’t see anything wrong with making a gay story straight.
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eliias-bouchard · 5 months
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it does get really annoying to see all those like "pick your gender but its esoteric / nature descriptions / random / whatever" polls and know that none ofthese are even slightly going to align to my gender. like yeah its an extremely personal experience of a poorly defined concept which is influenced by my life (which in and of itself is about as complex as the fucking universe) but sometimes it gets tiring
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valravn72 · 8 months
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My favorite sense of humor is like the sense of humor of trans autistic sonic azumanga lemon demon black dresses tma mentally ill artistic gamer tech nerd web nostalgia disabled terminally online media pirating polyamorous ghost and pals cat lover tumblr user chronic pain kingdom hearts mlp video essay special interest rock collecting/eating rpgmaker-like surrealism breakcore serial experiments lain academic trauma jrpg shitposting animation enjoying doll collector xenogender having rsd pafl fan card collecting sheldon cooper hating vocaloid antipsych mad pride snapcube echolalia the grungler character design yugioh itch.io neopronoun having trendercore glitchart learning disorder deep dives disability trauma concept album fursona madoka magica interactive website bitches
Unfortunately I can’t look that up so following 196 people is the closest I can get lol
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nevermoredragon-main · 6 months
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Get that bitch a chainsaw. Bitches love chainsaws.
I am literally too busy to make anything with these right now, but since it's halloween tomorrow, I wanna share some wip designs of aki denji and power but it's a Hellsing AU. Stay safe everyone <3.
In case it wasn't clear
Power=Alucard
Denji=Seras
Aki=Integra
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kjzx · 10 days
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I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality these last few years, I'd even say sometimes obsessing to an unhealthy degree, and I think I've come in terms with the fact I almost certainly am bisexual and denying that is pretty lesbophobic and frankly dumb in many ways, and mainly cruel towards myself. Gonna be reading up on internalized biphobia and whatnot
#Turns out men around me just suck#And men that are thirsted over most of the time do too#Alright they don't meet my preferences**#No toxicity here everyone's valid#I have had my reasons to think I'm gay and I don't think I was that 'delusional' (idk a better way to say it) thinking that I am gay#But the more I move forward the more I realize I'm just lying to myself#I don't have to date men or be interested in what most people think is attractive in men to be bisexual and that's alright#I am a little disappointed in the way bisexuals are treated in certain lgbt+ spaces specifically chronically online ones#Is it cringe to admit that the thing that broke the camel's back was a fandom meta post where the author said that people in fandom#can't tolerate bi characters/HCs because the idea of a character having history is repulsive to younger fans that want there to be one and#only love interest. Or smth along these lines. That resonated with me. I have no clue why tho. I don't have much history with anyone myself#Aside from a homoerotic childhood friendship or two (celibacy sweep)#Not just that there were a lot of good points made but yeah. Fun things#I have a feeling I'll continue obsessing over this stuff#Obsession grind never ends babyyy 💯💪#It does feel nice to admit to things I like without feeling like I have some sort of reverse religious trauma#the center of it being one ultimate queer experience and if you've straighted you're condemned to be seen as a straight by gays#for all eternity#Bisexual#Bi pride#//rambles
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if-loki-was-a-fox · 13 days
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Hello, I am slowly dying from lack of Cletho. I don't suppose anyone has fic recs for them :>
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lupismaris · 25 days
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My therapists keep telling me to stop othering myself and I'm trying but it's really fuckin hard when I'm being othered
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