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Keep the lights on or put food in the fridge? Help us not have to decide.
Our last two paychecks lined up real bad with the holidays and got massively delayed in depositing. You know what didn't get delayed at all? Any of our bills drafting out of the bank! 🙃
So thanks to "fuck you for being poor" overdraft fees for bills that should have been covered, we lost nearly $500 to overdraft fees.
That's our grocery budget for the entire month, much less just this two week pay period, and it's left us short on utilities. 3 out of 4 of us have doctor appointments this month and prescriptions that need refilled.
We're kinda screwed. It's especially upsetting on top of everything else because I'd done a lot of very careful and tight budgeting before the New Year, and I had a sliver of hope in me that we might be able to at least get through a few months of 2024 without having to beg for help. All that's being helping me cope with this situation is the reminder that I've done my best and capitalism actively wants to punish me for existing.
If you'd like to help four disabled trans people stay warm and fed, it would means the world to me. If you have nothing to give, please reblog this post to give us a wider net.
[email protected]/chaosqueer
v3nmo: @chaosqueer
c@shapp: @chaosqueer
#2024 has not been off to a great start#i'd probably also be coping with all of this *a little bit better* if i hadn't been oFF MY hORMONES FOR THE LAST TWO MONTHS 🙃🙃🙃#but that's a different rant#donations needed#donations#grocery help#groceries#community aid#crowdfunding#signal boost
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Emergency help, money needed please!
I need at least $100 so I can buy groceries because everything is so fuckin expensive for no good reason. I am extremely desperate because I'm literally getting hungrier by the minute and the local food pantry has been closed due to weather.
I'm accepting money on cashapp since currently that is the only way for me to be able to immediately spend the money.
I've been jobless for over a year and currently my partners are also jobless, though not for a lack of trying. We've been consistently applying to jobs for the past three months, but no one can hire us because the state was apparently hacked sometime last year which has prevented potential employers from running background checks, and nobody around here will hire without one so we're completely fucked.
#money help#donations#i hate doing this#grocery help#joblessness#help#this causes me so much anxiety#i'm hungry
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Tw: Death
Signal boost to get the word out, sorry in advance: @asunnycoffee @nellie-dritz-official @diana-malik @somvold @mikaila-orchard @dominijoyce @lightning-blast-replies @baelkor @bflixdotto @socially-anxious-wizard @noodlekittyrambles @thehollyone @pyrabluearts @opinionatedaccount @reesethedndencantolover @k9ok @omniri-photonia
Okay so um, my mom died, and I don't know what to do, we don't have the funds or resources for any sort of sendoff, nor do we have rent or food, if anyone can give anything to help I'd greatly appreciate it.
#tumblerose talks#tw: death#I... don't know what else to do rn#paypal#fundraiser#rent help#funeral help#grocery help
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I really hate having to ask for help, but it seems to be my only option right now.
I lost my job at the beginning of last month due to Covid, but I’ve been struggling for a few months before then due to my hysterectomy and a previous hospitalization.
I have a new job now, but I don’t start until the 5th of February. So right now, I have no source of income at all and won’t until I get my first check in February. I am behind on all of my bills and payments, I don’t have money for gas to get back and forth to work when I do start my job, and I have no money to pay for groceries or food to keep myself fed. My car payment is so far behind that the dealership is seriously considering repossession. My wife is working, but only part time and she has bills of her own that she too has to pay.
I would be incredibly grateful if anyone could help out with anything at all. I know things are going to start looking up within the next few weeks, but getting there is going to be rough.
If anyone could help in anyway at all, that would be amazing. Thank you to everyone who is able to help or share this post. I appreciate all of you!
I am also able to draw pretty well, so if there’s anything you’d like commissioned, let me know and I can draw something for you in exchange for your help.
My cashapp is $ChoniHayes
My Venmo is @Cthulhucandy
My PayPal is @ChoniWheeler
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Hey. I’m so sorry to be asking this, but I have virtually no food in the house and have three people that need to be fed. If anyone is willing to cashapp me any money to help pay for food, it would be super appreciated.
Cashapp: $MonoSys
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i refuse to believe that boycotting is hard. my favourite thing in the world is ordering maccies after a late night at work/a concert/getting drunk. yes i do miss it sometimes. but the other night i ordered from a small place near my house instead and it was the most orgasmic burger i've ever had in my life. i very rarely say this but fucking suck it up people are DEAD
#ramble#also only 0.29 delivery instead of 3.99#and chilli cheese bites#i swear to god the best food you'll ever eat while drunk is from the tiny shithole that's open until 4am#if you're refusing to do literally the smallest thing you can do to help then i have questions#it's FOOD. you'll survive#it's not even NECESSARY food#if it was like a chain grocery place and you don't have access to anything else then i would understand#but it's just NOT#make your own coffee for the love of god#when there is NOTHING you can do to stop this fucking tragedy. and let's be honest there isn't a lot normal people can do#and people say to you 'do this insignificant thing just to show that you even CARE'#and you DON'T do that???? what is actually wrong with you#also i've been worried about this since my last post about sbucks but this is Not an attack on the people who WORK at the boycotted places#because it is an absolute privilege to be able to leave your job and immediately find a new one
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no, but really, we need to talk about the casual objectification that has become the fallback discourse of the internet: if you're pretty and dressed nicely, you're a slut. and if you're even vaguely outside of their body standard, you're fucking disgusting.
too-frequently, people position sex workers as being "the problem". they sneer you're addicted to pornography, you don't know what a real woman looks like. but real women are in pornography. the real bodies on display are not the issue here: the issue is that other people feel extremely confident when commenting on someone's physique.
2000's super-thin is slowly worming its way back into the public ideal. recently i saw someone get told to "go for a run", despite the fact she was on the thinner side of average. not that it would ever be appropriate to say that: but it's kind of like sticker shock when you see it. people think that is fat? holy shit. do they just have no idea about things?
but what are you going to do about it? that's the problem, right. because chances are - you're a normal person. we can say normalize carrying fat on your body, but we are not the billion-dollar diet industry. we are not the billion-dollar fashion industry. we are just, like. people. who are trying to make content on the internet, without being treated shittily.
as someone who has been on both sides of things: you are treated better when you are thin and pretty. this is statistically correct. i am not saying that you cannot be bullied for being thin; i'm saying there are objective institutional biases against certain bodytypes. there are videos of men and women who lost weight all saying: i now know for a fact exactly how much worse you're treated. in the comments, some asshole inevitably says something akin to you deserved to be dehumanized when you were fat.
which means that ... the easiest thing to do is be pretty and thin. it is the path of least resistance, because of course it is, because any time you post a picture of yourself without a thigh gap, someone immediately comments something like you need to try a diet.
the other half is also dehumanizing though, huh, just in a different way. when i put on makeup and nice clothes, i am told i slept my way to the top as a professional. do you know how many women in STEM have told me they purposefully dress to "unimpress" because they already struggle to be taken seriously and if they're ever considered pretty - it for some reason takes away from their authority.
so they make it seem like it's your fault. you, existing in a body - it's your fault! if you didn't want shitty comments, don't have a body. they position us against each other like chess pieces; vying for male attention we don't even need.
and i can be an authority on this unless you think i'm fat and unattractive. when i am pretty and thin, i'm an activist. when i am just a normal person who makes a good point: i am immediately dismissed. nobody fucking believes you if you're not seen as attractive. you literally lose value. you cease to exist.
but the whole time, it feels like - is anyone actually grounded the fuck in reality? the line of "pretty and thin" keeps shifting. nobody seems to understand what "a normal weight" even looks like, because it's not something that exists - you cannot tell a person's health by looking at their body. even if you think you could tell that, even if you're sure a person is dangerously overweight - people are not your dolls. they do not need to be dressed up or displayed properly to soothe your aesthetics. you aren't concerned for them, you're stealing their agency. you don't get to say if they're "allowed" to take pictures and post them on the internet - you don't get to tell them how to exist.
people hide behind "the obesity epidemic" without any actual qualifications. they crow things about "normalizing unhealthiness".
but it's bullshit. i have visible abs. there is a pair of parallel lines on my body, even when i'm relaxed; where my obliques meet my abdominal wall. i am proud of this because it means i'm strong, because i overcame an eating disorder only to be ripped as fuck. it is genetic and physical luck that i even get any definition, i'm pleased as punch.
but it does mean that my abdominal wall sticks out a little bit. the other day i posted a video of myself dancing, and, for a moment, my shirt slipped. you could see a little bit of my stomach. i was cartwheeling to the floor. moments before this, i'd had my foot over my head.
a guy slid into my DMs. a row of vomiting emojis prefaced: you should really lose some weight before you think about dancing.
i stared at it for a long time. there was a time when i would have been triggered by this, where it would have encouraged me to starve myself. i would have ignored the fact i'm flexible, agile, good at jumping: i would have lost the weight for a stranger's passing comment. i would have found myself and my body fucking disgusting.
and for what? to please what? because why? so that he can exist in this world without an unchallenged eyeball? what would my self-hatred even accomplish? usually i write paragraphs. obviously. on this particular occasion, in this body i've been at war with for ages: i just felt exhausted.
it shouldn't be even worth saying. it shouldn't be hard to explain. all of this emotional turmoil when he cannot even comprehend the most basic truth: i am not an object on display for him.
#spilled ink#writeblr#warm up#like if im getting fatshamed. babe......... wake up#is there fat on my body? yes :)#btw this behavior wouldn't be okay even if I WAS overweight!!! that is my point!!!#it is both that people have no idea what weight is supposed to look like#and even if they DID... they do not seem to understand that PEOPLE ARE NOT DOLLS#YOU DO NOT GET TO TELL THEM HOW TO EXIST#if you respond anything akin to ''but raquel there IS an obesity epidemic''#you're blocked and reported.#go fucking DONATE TO A FOOD BANK THEN. volunteer in a food desert. start a free fitness program#GO GET A DEGREE AS A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL AND PRACTICE IN NUTRITION IN UNDERPRIVILEDGED LOCATIONS#FIGURE OUT HOW TO LOWER FOOD COSTS. FIGURE OUT HOW TO NORMALIZE AND STANDARDIZE#ACCESS TO FARM-FRESH FOOD. PROVIDE ACTUAL FREE ACCESS TO OUTSIDE ACTIVITIES#FIGURE OUT HOW TO TEACH PEOPLE HEALTHY CHOICE MAKING WHILE ALSO LOWERING THE COST OF MEALS.#THE AVERAGE GROCERY BILL OF THE AMERICAN CITIZEN HAS QUADRUPILED IN THE LAST YEAR.#SHUT. THE FUCK. UP!!!!!!!!!#you don't want to help these people!!!!!#you want to bully them but still feel like a good person!#you want to be justified in your hatred of an entire CLASS of people!!!#you don't give a fuck about how it makes them feel!!!!#you care ONLY about whether or not YOU get to VIRTUE SIGNAL that YOURE so thin and pretty!!!!#it is BECAUSE of people like you#and the fact you tolerate fatphobia - BECAUSE of that normalization. that men like the one who called me fat#feel like they can get away with it.#bc there's a line for you where you WOULD be okay with it. where if i WASNT thin you'd be okay with it.#which means the line can always be pushed in a certain direction. and it's always going to appeal to male aesthetics.#''well you didn't deserve it'' maybe fucking NOBODY does babe. maybe we should just all agree not to comment on ppls bodies!!
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4 Disabled Queers Need Groceries
i hate this i hate this i hate this i hate this i hate this
it's been a hot minute since i had to make one of these posts, so i'm really hoping that means it's just That Time Of Year when everyone is struggling and that things will even back out soon.
my household is a week out from payday and there's nothing in our cabinets/fridge except a loaf of bread, a 1/4 of a gallon of milk, a small bag of rice, and some cheese slices. when that paycheck drops, almost every cent of it is going to need to go towards our rent (which is about to be increased by another $80) and our phone bill (and all four of us are absolutely REQUIRED to have our phones for work). i've been scraping the back of the cabinets to throw together poverty meals for the last four days and i'm out of options.
i've also been off my HRT for almost a month because my local clinic fucked me over again. i have a telehealth appointment scheduled with planned parenthood on the 29th, where i'm hoping i'll finally be able to have my RX filled consistently, but right now I'm not sure how i'm going to pay for that appointment.
i know we're going into december and everyone is stressed out and broke around the holidays, but it would mean the world to me if folks could help us out a little. my links are listed below. if you don't have anything to spare, i completely understand, but i would massively appreciate it if you would reblog this post to get it in front of more eyes.
[email protected]/chaosqueer
v3nmo: @chaosqueer
c@shapp: @chaosqueer
#help with bills#groceries#assistance#donations#signal boost#grocery bills#grocery help#orignal post
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So I can't edit this to show what it is exactly, but I basically just got shamed by a Facebook "friend" for offering to share this link to get laundry supplies for my birthday. So now I'm miserable and that wasn't what I'd wanted to happen at all.
So if anyone would like to cheer me up, this is my family's Homeless Supplies list. I need as much of the laundry and disinfectant stuff as I can get. Clothes for me (or even my mom, because she still needs pants) would be a huge help, as I lost 40 pounds last year and most of my stuff is too big or it's full of holes. Food is much appreciated by all three of us.
Can't help? Reblog. Don't care/don't want to help? Don't be an asshole about it. Just ignore me or block me or whatever. But I am thankful to everyone who has helped, everyone who continues to help us, and everyone who is inspired to help. It's basically a waiting game with disability at this point for us to get housing, so all I can do is wait and hope.
But yeah. If you can help, or even just reblog, it would remind me there are good people in the world, and I sorely need that as much as I need anything on the list.
#signal boost#mutual aid#mutual aid request#urgent#direct action#community aid#amazon wishlist#please boost#please reblog#please share#please help#anything helps#help needed#donations#homeless support#groceries#laundry detergent#clothing
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I have $28 to last me the next two weeks. I am also going to be missing $136 from my next paycheck because my work is out for two days. Could someone please help me out 😭
Pypal
Vmo is negans
#chats#please help 😭 i hate this shit I have been draining my savings like crazy since my grocery card got cancelled#its so expensive to be alive
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How is the view from down there?? 🧐
Treat me ~ Tip Me ~ More of me
#Fishnet Friday#Fishnet tights#Floral fishnets#Black lace lingerie#satans knitwear#girls with piercings#alt pinup#pinup girl#pretty lingerie#cheeky#uk girl#Any tips or treats would be massively appreciated right now 💕#Thank you for the help with my groceries 🥺 I look forward to thanking you properly.
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He always has shit to say about something.
#is it normal for dads to help with groceries? mine never did so idk lmao#it should be#bakugou#bakugo#bakugou katsuki#katsuki bakugou#bakugo katsuki#katsuki bakugo#masaru bakugou#bakugou masaru#masaru bakugo#bakugo masaru#bnha#mha#my art
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summer’s end
#had a really nice weekend to round it out u kno#saw Sarah on Friday for pasta and watching reality tv#picked wildflowers on Saturday and went to the dog park and some yard sales with my sister and we had such a good time we’ve been kind of#distant lately so that was really great. and time and my bf went to a mug decorating workshop and then tried a new restaraynt and got giant#margaritas . and watched survivor#Sunday gym kicked ass + moved furniture around and helped my bf paint his bedroom#today went to work first thing then to the lake for swimming and napping in the sun then more work and more gym which also kicked ass#then groceries and making out with my bf now home laundry etc getting ready to go to bed so I can wake up early and take Winston to do some#thing before work and my first classssssss yayyyy#can u tell im tired I made so many typos and fully just used the wrong words… we painted his bathroom .#personal
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Fuuuuck. My favorite trope is "Tim Joins the Batfamily Late" and there's so few of those out there. I just love that angst or the chaos with an unsupervised Tim, one who's parents definitely died, that doesn't have the support of the batfam.
Like, no matter how you spin it, it's so interesting to see how drastically that changes things. Did Jason never die? Did Bruce heal enough before Tim could step up? Did Tim still get training with Lady Shiva? Is he a somewhat civilian? Is he a non-Bat vigilante? Does he still form YJ? Did he stay in Gotham?
The sandbox is huge, and it's such an underutilized trope.
#dc comics#dc universe#tim drake#tim drake joins the batfamily late#brain goes brr#unhinged tim drake#tim was barely held back with Batman's supervision#imagine a grown tim without any bruce supervision#tim would do some absolutely unhunged things without bruce there (worse than canon)#Tim's moral code would be nonexistent instead of the fridge grocery list he currently has#what if tim finds a baby damian and just decides to adopt him or some shit#what if tim kill luthor?#what if tim becomes a lowkey helpful supervillian mafia boss???
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ive drawn another picture of master xehanort ... Terra such a nice guy for carrying his grocery bags xD
#kh#kingdom hearts#is it tho?#master xehanort#terra kh#terra#fanart#i would take terra grocery shopping im buying him some protein bars for helping me carry stuff
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