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fuckingwhateverdude · 2 months

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2.27.24

#does anyone understand this at all #my writing #my writing tag #poetry #original poem #spilled ink #vent writing #fathers and daughters #nostalgic #toxic nostalgia #memory #on memory #lists #list poem #blackout poem #blackout poetry #childhood nostalgia

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cohlumbo · 2 months

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fathers & daughters, staying & leaving

true detective unreleased pilot script / mister-crow via tumblr / forgotten flickr / anne carson / hanif abdurraqib / disco elysium / niceaf via tumblr / true detective (2014) / ex-libris-blog via tumblr / eula bliss / laura sassi / + bonus: this deleted scene

#this better be something because i took 844 hours of government-granted writing hours to track the sources on these #the marty pinterest board i made in a fugue state stays providing ROI #true detective #marty hart #rust cohle #webweaving #web weave #fathers and daughters #h #🌀

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atopvisenyashill · 1 month

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The thing that is so amazing for me about Doran is that he is essentially the FIRST father we get in this series (we are like FOUR THOUSAND PAGES IN AT THIS POINT BTW) who realizes he has allowed his own faults to harm the trust his daughter has placed in him and then takes responsibility for how he has hurt her. Doran is livid with Arianne until she finally makes the comment about believing he is set to disinherit her and give Dorne to Quentyn and then his anger completely deflates, and he says very clearly to her, “Dorne will be yours. You have my word on that, if my word still has any meaning for you.”

“IF MY WORD STILL HAS ANY MEANING FOR YOU.”

He doesn’t try to put the blame back on her after this, and in fact he puts the breaks on the conversation, making it clear that the problem here was his lack of communication and not Arianne's mistrust. And more than that, just this tiny little acknowledgment that he’s done her wrong is enough for Arianne to completely forgive him! All she needed in the end was a simple acknowledgement that he was being unfair. The moment she gets it she is determined to be her father’s dutiful daughter all over again, even after years of resentment and mistrust. It is, ultimately, i think all most of the daughters who clash with their fathers need in the end and that really only Arianne is lucky enough to receive; a simple acknowledgement that he is the one who messed up, and that she was right to be wary of him. And that little acknowledgement is all either of them needs to face whatever comes next -

“Go swiftly, go safely, be my eyes and ears and voice… but most of all, take care.” “I will, Father.” She did not shed a tear. Arianne Martell was a princess of Dorne, and Dornishmen did not waste water lightly. It was a near thing, though. It was not her father’s kisses nor his hoarse words that made her eyes glisten, but the effort that brought him to his feet, his legs trembling under him, his joints swollen and inflamed with gout. Standing was an act of love. Standing was an act of faith. He believes in me. I will not fail him.

Doran makes the effort to try. He is not perfect but at least he tries for Arianne and it gives Arianne the confidence to pick herself up and try again as well.

#arianne nymeros martell #doran nymeros martell #fathers and daughters #rani liveblogs asoiaf #valyrianscrolls #i hope they both don't die but even if they do like....this is a good place to leave their relationship

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jenjen4280 · 4 days

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It’s lesbian visibility week. In general, I haven’t been very visible lately on this blog because my Dad died (fuck cancer).

Warning: Long post. TLDR - my Dad was a great Dad and a good man.

Prior to that, I was spending a lot of time with him and Mom, helping as best I could. And afterwards, spending time with Mom getting everything done that needs done.

The Hot Wife has been at home, keeping everything going there and providing a lot of love and support.

My Dad was from the Silent Generation (the one before the Boomers). Unlike most people his age, he never stopped learning, growing, and adapting to the changing times. He believed in equity and justice not because he was “woke,” but because it is the right thing to do and he participated in civil rights protests in the 60s.

He taught me how to throw a ball and was always up for a game of catch.

He shared his love of folk music, classical music, science fiction, existentialism, art, and weird cult/art house/foreign films with me.

When I came out, he apologized for the times when he and Mom told me to act more like a girl, while encouraging me to be myself and grow up as a tomboy. He would buy fireworks for me and martial art supplies so my bff and I could terrorize the neighborhood in our ninja suits every summer night and a few other nights too.

He always bought boxes of candy for Mom, Seester, me, and my girlfriend on Valentine’s Day.

He randomly showed up at the Baltimore Gay Pride Festival one year (the year I wore my fav t-shirt that said “let go of my ears, I know what I’m doing”), and for many years after we went to Pride together.

We gossiped about our celebrity crushes together.

He refused to take my Mom shopping at Hobby Lobby and refused to eat at Chick-Fil-A.

He was so happy when I married the Hot Wife and he loved her too.

I didn’t know this until I cleaned out his desk - he had been donating to the Human Rights Campaign Fund for years and he had a few different clippings from magazines and downloads from the internet about how to challenge transphobes.

I didn’t just lose my Dad, we all lost an LGBTQ+ ally, a voting Democrat, and an example of non-toxic masculinity.

Good-by, Dad. Easter pizza dinner won’t be the same without you.

#butch #dyke #wlw #sogay #lesbian #queer #this is love #lgbtq #dealing with grief #grief #fathers and daughters #my dad #gone but not forgotten

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losthavenmine · 8 months

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Russell Crowe Filmography Series || Hugging

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witchmd13 · 10 months

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merlin, s03ep13 // you first, paramore // merlin, s03ep13 // jasmine r, untitled // you first, paramore // sophokles // merlin, s04ep05 // xx // merlin, s04ep13 // merlin, s05ep02 // merlin s04ep03 // succession, s04ep10.

#merlin #merlinedit #merlin bbc #merlin web weaving #merlin webweaving #morgana pendragon #uther pendragon #fathers and daughters #webweaving #**m

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nmolesofadrenaline · 6 months

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#abuse survivor #toxic family #emotional abuse #dysfunctional family #toxic parents #toxic mom #dark academia #on father #on fathers #narcissistic parents #neglectful parents #parental abuse #parental issues #bad parenting #parents #toxic dad #fathers and daughters

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uuuhshiny · 11 months

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Russell Crowe in Fathers & Daughters

#by uuuhshiny #Russell Crowe #Fathers and Daughters #uuuhshiny's gifs #RC gifs #A man looking down...#power #don't ask #position

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zepskies · 4 months

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I just saw a video of Jensen trying to eat because his daughter was jumping behind him on the chair, and it made me think of Ben.

LOL Ok @flory-alexandra I love you for sharing this with me, because truth time. 😂💗

When I was working on "Green," I saw this video of Jensen with his daughters JJ and Arrow (below).

They're all over him, covering his eyes and mouth and generally being adorable menaces, and it very much influenced how I wrote SB/Ben's daughter Lila in that BMD story. 💚

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#ask me stuff #jensen ackles #JJ ackles #arrow ackles #lovely lil family #soldier boy #soldier boy/ben #Green #dad!Ben #daughter!OC #BMD verse #soldier boy x reader #soldier boy x you #the boys #fathers and daughters #art imitates life #zepskies answers

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mirthridatism · 1 year

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Lyrics: Paris Paloma. “Labour” (2023) || Artemisia Gentileschi. Judith Slaying Holofernes (1614–1620) || Caravaggio. Judith Beheading Holofernes (1599–1602)

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space-blue · 2 days

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Yes, there's the shimmer-suit project Powder has been working on now too, and the Arcane gems that change everything. But Vi is a part of this. Leading this project. Every drop of blood, good or bad, will be on her hands.

Believe it or not, Fathers and Daughters is wrapping up!! One final chapter to go! We'll have fabulous art by Wish to wrap up the final chapter. I'm writing it now, no more delays, no more hiatus!

#fanfic #fathers and daughters #f&d #arcane #silco #vi #caitlyn kiramman #Sevika #arcane vi #my fic

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fuckingwhateverdude · 3 months

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@nosebleedclub / feb. #9

#compromised and finished an old draft #sigh #therapy is hard #my writing #my writing tag #poetry #original poem #nosebleedclub #nosebleed club #house of atreus #mothers and daughters #fathers and daughters #generational trauma #familial trauma #spilled ink #mental illness #vent writing #poetryblr #prompts

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nawoja · 7 months

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different shows, same characters

#dr heinz doofenshmirtz #phineas and ferb #vanessa doofenshmirtz #silco arcane #arcane #silco #jinx #jinx arcane #fathers and daughters

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atopvisenyashill · 9 months

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the chapter i’m on - asos sansa ii - is interesting bc it’s cited as an instance of sansa being cruel, classist, a bully, whatever, in her thoughts of arya but that is such a surface level reading it’s maddening to think people look at it that way.

sansa isn’t thinking “i’d much rather have margaery as a sister” she’s thinking around how much she grieves for arya, and her own guilty feelings over not seeing through joffrey quick enough. it’s really clear:

“how can i let my sister marry joffrey” she thinks as she’s crying, just seconds after thinking about arya and attempting to distance herself from hurtful memories. she’s not just scared for margaery, she is thinking of arya in margaery’s place. she is thinking of how joffrey hurt arya and how sansa had stood there and yelled at arya, not joffrey (which i don’t think is a failing of hers; a drunk 11 year old reacting badly to a wildly stressful situation is not a moral failing). she’s thinking about how she can’t stand there and do nothing again when she can save margaery the way she couldn’t save arya and all she has to do is speak up.

she’s just not saying it directly because she deals with stress by repressing her memories. she thinks around a stressful subject instead of naming it in her mind. thinking of arya and the possibility that she’s dead and the last time they spoke they were fighting, all of that is too painful, so instead she focuses on wanting to protect margaery.

then, with arya on her mind, she finally lets herself acknowledge some of her pain while she’s alone:

“sometimes there was even a girl who looked like arya” is the point of this chapter! she has sons to please willas but the little girl she imagines with him belongs to sansa and sansa alone. and in her dreams, that girl looks like the sister she’s lost. in her dreams, her entire family is reunited. in her dreams, she realized joffrey was a monster earlier and she saves arya and lady and nymeria from him and she gets to be the brave, noble lady of her songs.

the crazy thing is that this has happened before and people understood it then: ned does this constantly.

the most obvious one comes early and you can see clearly he does the exact same thing of thinking around who his thoughts have really strayed to:

“you can’t get your hands on this one, can you?” he is clearly thinking about jon. he is testing to see if robert has changed any over the years, if maybe jon isn’t in that much danger and ned had just discredited robert’s heart too much over the years. only for robert to rage about dany, justify the butchering of elia & her babies, and confirm all of ned’s worst fears are still true. jon will never be safe in westeros if his identity were to be known and ned made the right decision to lie all these years. it’s such an important scene in establishing ned’s character and the show does an equally good job of implying what ned is really thinking.

Beyond being an excellent masterclass in acting during this scene, it comes immediately after Ned has said goodbye to Jon and promised they’d speak of his mother when they reunite. There’s a clear link that we’re meant to make between the scene before and this one despite Ned steadfastedly refusing to think Lyanna or Jon’s names. It’s the same with Arya; we’re meant to link Sansa’s sudden terror for Margaery with her feelings for Arya.

With both Ned and Sansa, a lot of their true thoughts are in what they don’t think and not what they tell you they’re thinking. They lie to themselves and they lie to you and the “trap” is to recognize this and piece together how they really feel.

#valyrianscrolls #rani liveblogs asoiaf #sansa stark #ned stark #fathers and daughters #sisters #sansa x arya #getting on my soap box #the sun and moon in endless chase

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bitesgod · 2 years

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the word “father” rotted in my mouth.

the family jewels, marina / genetic portraits, ulric collette / letter to his father, franz kafka / and my father’s love was nothing next to god’s will, amatullah bourdon / i am angry because of my father, halsey / ladybird, dir. greta gerwig / connor, syml / interstellar, dir. christopher nolan / motion sickness, phoebe bridgers / forgiving our fathers, dick lourie.

#web weave #comparatives #myedit #on fathers #fathers #fathers and daughters #parental trauma #poetry #franz kafka #phoebe bridgers

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losthavenmine · 8 months

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Russell Crowe Filmography Series || Bed

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