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I made a post about my anniversary on Facebook.
It was really nothing special or particularly detailed. Literally just a picture from our wedding and a 2-sentence caption saying how great my husband is in very general and pretty cliche terms (great husband, father, and human being, I’m so lucky).
A woman I never knew very well, who I have not seen in 5.5 years or spoken to in as long, and who has literally never reached out to me just to talk or anything, took the time to send me a MULTI-PARAGRAPH MESSAGE about how I should be more thoughtful towards other people and only tell my husband how great he is privately to his face. Why? Because she has had ups and downs in her own 5-year 4-child marriage, and this morning she had a fight with her husband, so when she saw my status it was extremely hurtful and she can’t stop sobbing and can’t focus or go about her day. She suggested I should only use Facebook for “kiruv and Torah” from now on.
Woman that is. That is so clearly a YOU problem I can’t even. If you can’t comprehend that a cheery post on one’s anniversary does not mean the person has never had a disagreement with their spouse, if you think no one is ever allowed to mark a special occasion where other people can see it because maybe you and your spouse argued today, that is a YOU problem and you should probably get off social media for your own health. It’s not like I’m constantly posting every single time my husband does something nice for me about the specific thing he did and reminding the Internet every other day about how awesome he is. I literally post about him like ONCE A YEAR. This year I’m gonna get really wild and make it twice to congratulate him on his white coat ceremony. If “I’ve been married X years and I like my husband” in public once a year is enough to send you into a day-long spiral, you should absolutely address that, but from YOUR side, not the person who you can just unfollow or even block on social media if their infrequent content is that triggering for you (especially considering you’ve never bothered to keep in touch otherwise, it’s not like you’d be missing anything!). Don’t blame me for your inability to understand that social media is just part of the picture of someone’s life or for your shalom bayis problems.
Why the f am I dealing with this at 4am (cuz I’m up nursing and when this girl messaged me for the first time in 5.5 years I was expecting something actually nice and not an essay on how I ruined her day by making a generic happy post, so I opened it)
#and yes she did for some reason feel the need to specify how many kids she has#which is SO ironic in context#like what if I wished I had more than 2 kids by now did you consider that#I don’t but it’s besides the point#you can’t be upset at someone for sharing good things about their life#and then share totally superfluous good things about your own#I could ALMOST see this if I wrote something like#‘he buys me flowers every single day and we have never had a fight ever and he makes 10 billion dollars and also does all the housework’#but even then just unfollow holy crap!#also my Facebook has never been for just ‘kiruv and Torah’ so idk why it took her this long to get upset about it#oh right because this isn’t actually about me it’s about her#also also do you really think the things I’d tell my husband about our relationship are that generic!#obviously we also had a personal conversation about our anniversary and it was a lot more detailed#I did not tell the world what was meant for his ears
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I've been neglecting this blog a lot (sorry) but I wanted to come and say how I think it's really funny how the whole reason I started this blog was becuase I was shamed for liking rpf lmao.
Literally a person (who at the time I considered a good friend) told me how liking rpf was just so irredeemable that they didn't even want people to know that we were friends. They unfollowed me and told me not to interact with them, not even liking their posts, bc I reblogged one (1) K.rii7y post on main. And I just ??? Fucking took that?? They made me feel like such a bad person and I was like "you know, they're right" and made a side blog so shamefully indulge in it so their image wouldn't be sullied by my existence.
What a load of crap that was.
Despite how long they knew me and how, prior to that, they knew I was a "good person", the moment I did one thing they found unacceptable they were willing to throw me away - and I just accepted that!! I literally bent to their every word just to stay friends with them!! Like holy shit!!
Obviously now I'm no longer friends with them, and despite the rocky start I really do adore this blog and everyone who follows and interacts with me on here. Y'all (especially the pr1 community, this is mostly thanks to you guys) have helped me so much more than you could ever realize over the last few months. I'm really hoping that once this depression streak pulls up I can come back with more stuff for you guys, but until then take my sappy message 🥺😭💕 love yall so much
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really super hate it when I get irrationally angry about cutesy positive things
usually happens when I'm unemployed like this
but holy crap I unfollowed a creator I've followed for YEARS bc of their ADHD content
they didn't do anything wrong per se, their content just seems increasingly tone deaf and impractical.
Fig. A: "sometimes I have a downward spiral... like right now in this video and for whatever reason I'm going to keep it in the video because that won't waste anyone's time or make it painful at all"
OR
Fig. B: "I will now cuddle with this puppy while I tell you it's okay to read YA novels or buy yourself any little fidget toy your heart desires even if they're for kids or teens. Don't be embarrassed! If it works for you, it works for you!"
People with ADHD have trouble holding down a job. I know, I was just fired from one for executive functioning issues, lack of memory and follow through. Do you know what that means? We have trouble paying our bills and rent. We have to try to plan ahead so we don't grocery shop hungry and blow more money than we meant to.
This means that some of us don't have money for pets, fidget toys, or YA novels. We can't waste time watching someone else spiral or space out - it's a little too close to home.
We're not embarrassed about what helps us. We literally just don't have money to blow. We're trying to survive.
I sincerely hope the content does help someone, but man is it not helping me right now.
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Holy crap I thought I was already following you and I even swear I’ve said that before. The last part may be a fake memory implemented by my migraine but anyway. Booping has highlighted just how many people I thought I was following and wasn’t. Corrected.
You were following me at one point, I just figured tumblr had you unfollow me or something, no big deal. But damn booping was very fun and enlightning!
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Wow. You clearly have no idea how to talk to someone nicely or treat people with respect. Maybe pay attention to other people’s feelings before you shit on them for no reason. I don’t look and research your blog, I just search Timothée Chalamet smut tag and your fics come up so I thought I would request something. Jeez. you didn’t have to go crazy on me like that. Seriously get off your high horse please. And you cant block anon you have no idea who I am. Another reason why you shouldn’t just come for people like that, you have no idea what I’m dealing with or what’s going on in my life. Notice how nobody liked that response, cuz it was down right aggressive. Blocking people for sending in a request?? I literally did nothing wrong. Holy crap. Unfollowed you. What a shame. Treat people with kindness. 🫶🏼
#timotheechalametsmut #tpwk
Jfc, the entitlement.
It’s possible to block people on anon, btw. That is a thing you can do.
No, you shouldn’t be sending requests willy nilly, anon. People work hard on their writing. They put their heart and soul into their writing. You didn’t need to search my blog. You could’ve just looked at any one of my fics and known that my blog wasn’t the one to send this request to. Maybe I should put something up on my masterlist that says I don’t take requests or write x reader fics, but from my perspective, you didn’t come in treating me with kindness. On the contrary, you a) sent a request to someone who doesn’t take them, thereby disregarding the rules of their blog, and b) sent a copypasta. Both of these things are very disrespectful to both me as a person and the work I put into my fics.
Did I overreact? Probably. But saying you didn’t do anything wrong is inaccurate. Copy and pasting a request into a bunch of random blogs isn’t cool. I think I was fairly kind about it, to be honest. I didn’t insult you or anything or the sort. I simply said that I don’t take requests or write x reader fics, and because I’ve gotten this format of requests before, I figured chances were good this wasn’t a first offense, and if I got another, I think it would be reasonable to block the person (and yes, you can block someone, even when they’re on anon). As a writer, I find it very insulting to just disregard what I write like that. I can only speak for myself, but it hurt my feelings to have what I work hard on disregarded that way.
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I've been seeing a lot of new people around Hermitblr lately (and on this blog specifically), and it just occurred to me that some of you might not know just how many brilliant and talented Hermitcraft fans there are to follow! So, I've created this not-at-all-exhaustive list of blogs run by people who I respect and admire SO much for their creations and their good vibes. If you haven't already, go follow them! They are amazing, you won't regret it. (Also, feel free to reblog and add on to the list!)
@mleemwyvern - Fantastic AUs, fics, and art, especially centered around Team ZIT and special powers/weird game mechanics
@sleepyrinas - Creator of the False and Grian detective AU!! Amazing art and writing for that, go check it out you won't regret it
@betweenlands - Legendary. Co-author of the expansive and multiple-year-long 77-2 project, among other great fics and AUs. Occasional art, constant vaguely unsettling chaos! (In the BEST way possible)
@slimetek - Hermitcraft stimboards, all-around fun, and a writing production quality and sheer volume of words that will blow your mind. Check out any one of their fics, they are AMAZING.
@theres-an-impulstor-among-us - Perfectly selected clips, and more than enough expertly-crafted minifics to have you reading all the way into the morning
@impulstor - Amazing art for Hermitcraft and 3rd Life, and high-quality hilarious Hermit Among Us night liveblogging!
@hermette-historian - An absolute must-follow for any new Hermitcraft fan, especially ones who are interested in learning about the server's journey to the place where it is now. Witty and extremely dedicated commentary on Hermitcraft history, written so there's not a boring moment to be found!
@bat-connoisseur - Art that pops with colour in the best ways, and fics that do exactly the same!
@fluffy-papaya - A steady stream of expressive and fun sketches and comics, especially of Team ZIT!
@eexer-watches-hermitcraft - Really interesting and observant comments, quotes, and ideas about Hermitcraft in general, plus a good amount of Etho (no such thing as too much Etho!)
@12u3ie - The #1 place to experience the Joe Hills Difference is a Joe Hills stream. The #2 place to experience the Joe Hills Difference is Twelve's blog! Resident Joe expert, owner of some excellent and extensive OC lore, and overall certified nice person to be around.
@/joehills - Joe Hills
@netherite-sword - Hermitblr royalty as far as I'm concerned! The nicest tags and answers to asks this side of just about anywhere, and art and writing that are way way better than she'd ever admit. (Ooooo you want to follow Dawn Netheritesword so bad go go go -)
@plcklesontheseafloor - AMAZING Hermitcraft art, and also creates MC content of his own on YouTube! The style of both is just so soothing and amazing, you won't regret checking it out
@chaggle - THE ART. THE ART. I have no way of accurately describing just how good this Hermitcraft art is, you'll just have to go see for yourself, but I promise you it is GLORIOUS
@thatreallyminecraftsmygender - Zaph, another Hermitblr must-follow! Activity varies, but extremely cool analysis and general chill vibes can always been found here.
@stormjay0 - Very good and often hilarious Hermitcraft art, as well as a thriving MC YouTube channel! A very cool creator and person overall! (And also someone who still draws for season 6 and 7, if you're like me and not done thinking about that yet At All)
@redwinterrises - Amazing fic and regular (very good!!) text posts! A steady stream of 3rd Life and Hermitcraft content. I know almost everyone on this list is a must-follow in my books but...really, must-follow!
@ambered-glazed-sheep - Author of some of my favorite Hermitcraft fics, and owner of an art style I continue to be VERY jealous of. Plenty of Xisuma content! (Edit: HOW COULD I FORGET AMBER'S YOUTUBE she's an amazing Minecraft content creator too please go check her out!)
(I am certainly going to think of more that I've forgotten later, so I am 100% going to reblog at some point to add on to this!)
Yes, I just realized that almost all of these entries has at least one exclamation point...but hey, they really deserve it! Please go check them out, you won't regret it.
#I ALMOST DIRECTLY TAGGED MR JOSEPH BENEDICT HILLS IN THIS POST HOLY CRAP -#that took me so long to realize and fix it hElp#right. right. this is fine. i am calm. no heart attacks here.#(also sorry everyone else for the tag but you are all very cool and make good content)#i put joe in there mostly just for the 'HUH??' factor but yes. in case anyone was wondering. that is the actual joe hills#anyway! i may or may not have hit a spooky number recently followers-wise#so what i really want to say is 'go follow these people instead of me' lol#there are so many people out there who have been creating for way longer than me and make ABSOLUTELY QUALITY stuff#and are just generally amazing people#who for some reason get less credit than they really should even though their whole deal is spectacular#I'm just kinda sitting here doing things that make me happy and for some reason people keep showing up#and it would be an absolute shame not to point those people at some amazing creative minds who deserve so much appreciation#unfollow me! go follow them! /hj#this post is also VERY rebloggable if you so choose :D#have a great day everyone!#(okay on a re-read of those tags i should probably clarify that I'm not self-depricating here at all)#(I'm having a great time and loving what I make but I'm also just a person enjoying a thing i like y'know?)#(all of us are i think)#(and some people enjoy a thing they like by making absolutely stunning stuff in response to it and you deserve to know#about those people!!)#that's it that's all go forth and enjoy things :)#OH ALSO i keep making edits to this but! if you feel like you should be on this post and you're not it's because YOU SHOULD BE#I'm a derp and i forget things so i am going to reblog this later with more but! feel free to relentlessly self promote in reblogs#chances are I'll see your reblog and go OH THAT PERSON YEAH and remember i meant to add you anyway!
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holy crap people are being so bizarrely nasty towards you in the notes of the post on cutting filler, I'm so sorry. how in the world did we get to the point where people feel so entitled they think they're in the right for cursing out someone for uh...*checks notes* not psychically tailoring a public writing advice blog specifically to their personal needs? and how do you not block all of them because i would have blocked every jerk in those notes tbh
Thank you so much for looking out for me!!! <3333
Being honest, I haven't checked the notes of that post in a long, long time because it really hurts my feelings haha, so I assume the shitstorm has just been brewing to an astronomical level.
I feel like a lot of people don't understand that I am one person running this blog, and that my advice is what has personally worked for me.
I don't look up answers to questions to see what they should be, because that's how you get a hundred writing blogs all saying the same thing. I use my own experience and try to help those who reach out, even if it's not the conventional way or the way everyone agrees with.
The problem with my post about filler was that people who did not need that advice were stepping in to argue. My post was for mostly for myself and for other people who wanted suggestions to help cut their word count, but everyone treated it as though I were standing on a throne and forcing them to cut certain words or else they were a bad writer.
You guys want to hear a confession? I have never, ever made a nasty comment on a post in my entire life. Never. I scroll past posts I don't like and block/unfollow people who consistently post things I'm uncomfortable with, because I'm an adult who doesn't turn on others the moment my identity is hidden by a screen.
I suggest you all should try doing the same, and live your life without so much anger and negativity. I promise it'll make your online experience so much better.
I started this blog to help people, and I will continue to help people even if there are roadblocks. I will be spreading positivity and love, always. <33
#maddytalks#controversy#writing#writing tips#writing advice#hate comments#addressing hate comments#writers#writeblr#booklr
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You’re not wrong about you being able to draw what you want, but holy crap, your attitude on this is astounding. I don’t think it’s that hard to just say, “yes, they’re adults.”
You’re acting as if it’s such a hard thing to do and overreacting. I’m an adult, I write aged up characters, but I don’t think it’s necessary to get all worked up over someone asking if they’re aged up.
Before you go off, yes I know where the unfollow and block button are lol. I very well will be using these, but I thought I should point out that the way you react to things matter. People can be concerned about adults drawing underage kids inappropriately and also be concerned about real life things. Not sure why they can’t. People just want to stop the normalization of sexualizing underage characters, which you were NOT doing (I clearly understand this), but it’s not a crime for people to ask.
Your drawing isn’t the problem here—it’s your attitude and your responses. I know making this anon is probably hopeless, but in the hopes that maybe you’ll see where some of your followers come from, I just thought I would point out the real problem. I wish you the very best. You are extremely talented and I’ve enjoyed your art thus far, so thank you for sharing ❤️
this is the last thing im gonna answer regarding this:
I don’t think it’s that hard to just say, “yes, they’re adults.”
Of course it's not. I said "I mean i guess" because I already saw this stupid discussion coming, people twisting my words and blowing it way out of proportion. sigh
What I meant to say was that wether or not I make their respective ages clear, the drawing is gonna stay the fucking same. It's the perception of it that people have (and that I'm not responsible for) that actually makes that difference. It's subjective. I drew them thinking about aged up characters and thought it was a given, until i got that first ask.
People can be concerned about adults drawing underage kids inappropriately and also be concerned about real life things.
Indeed, but I have absolutely no bussiness having that discussion with someone who's not even supposed to be on this platform. The thing is that I've seen this kind of discourse happen so many times, I already know what kind of person is on the other side and what they think they are defending. And it's funny how they're usually more concerned with pointing an accusatory finger towards adult content creators making content for other adults than they are about real, breathing, human victims of sexualization/abuse. It's self righteous and quite fucking ridiculous, considering we're not talking about real people here. All I did was draw. I didn't hurt anybody.
well, except maybe this person who got really butthurt over it
I’m an adult, I write aged up characters, but I don’t think it’s necessary to get all worked up over someone asking if they’re aged up.
Good for you.
Unfortunately with art it's different. Writing gives you the opportunity to clarify and define so many things that an image simply can't, cause it's debatable any way you look at it.
What you do takes a lot more time and investment from the people who consume your content, when it comes to me, people stare at it for maybe less than a minute, and if they do get invested they assume or project their own thoughts onto my art. Sometimes they're good and nice but some other times they take it as an invitation to either tell me what to do, how to do it, or question my artistic choices in general, not even giving me a chance to express what I was going for and assuming I'm a bad person.
I'm having none of that shit anymore, that's why I "get worked up" about a fucking stranger being rude. And I have every right to.
Your drawing isn’t the problem here—it’s your attitude and your responses.
Like I said before, the first ask came off as rude and condescending as fuck, as if demanding an explanation for something they think I did. They then proceeded to send me even more asks, taking for granted that I was sexualizing teenagers and saying it over and over again, and accusing me of making these kind of content with the intent of adults getting off to it??? when I did that drawing thinking about them just holding each other after sex. Just that. They're not even fucking, they're just naked, after sex. Wow what a scandalous thing.
I think that as a content creator you should understand as well as I do that we do not owe anybody our kindness, our time, or even an explanation (especially if they're not even willing to get off anon, like you). However you look at it, they were out of line. And i'm sure as fuck not gonna apologize for reacting the way i did. This whole conversation is stupid as hell.
I'm glad you enjoyed my art but I'm also glad you're unfollowing/blocking me. Have a nice life!
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Bro I haven’t even seen RvB Zero yet and already I’m tired of people treating it like it’s the spawn of satan or some shit.
Why yes, how dare a 17 Season show decide to switch things up. How dare it get a new main cast. How dare it try a different tone. How DARE.
Seriously, I was having a hard time starting the seasons after 15 because as MUCH as I love the cast, it had been OVER FIFTEEN SEASONS of them. Holy shit! Let them fucking rest!
Honestly the only thing I’m not fond of so far with what I’ve seen of RvB Zero is that it has Wash and Carolina. I’m sure they have a reason to be there, and having at least a couple “familiar characters” was likely seen as necessary to keep an audience, but. God.
Literally had to unfollow like three people because they kept hateposting abt RvB Zero being “different” and having “awful NEW writers” and all this other crap. Once RvB Zero drops for non-FIRST members, I’m gonna watch the fuck out of it. This could be just what the show needs.
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Psi episode 32 reaction let’s gooo
(And for the record I do go on a long ass tangent at the very end, discussing alternative evolution trees and speculating on crap, so if you wanted to see more from me than just screaming in caps lock about nonsense THEN YA GOT THAT HERE!)
(And yeah the speculation is LONG)
Giff me the hoarse Toei つ( ◕_◕)つ
OOO the babbies arE RUNNING AWAY FROM FANGMON!! BASTARD GOTH WOLF!!
EVOLUTION?? SURELY NOT
Did Patamon just poop
I love Megumi Han so much...... I love you.....
HERE’S THE DOGGOMON (Confession, I honestly kinda hate the term “doggo”, like there’s nothing wrong with it but it just makes me so annoyed for NO reason when I heard that word. That said, these Digimon are like, Peak Doggo for me. If you asked me to explain what a “doggo” looks like, these guys are what I’d describe) (And no, I don’t remember what these Dogs were called anymore, I forgot and can’t be bothered to look it up)
GOOO TOGEMON, KICK GOLEMON’S ASS
I love that the Gotsumon are just cheering on this boxing event
STOP HARASSING JYOU WHILE HE’S TRYING TO BATHE FOR FUCK’S SAKE
ALSO HOW IS HE STILL BATHING, IT’S BEEN AT LEAST 30 MINUTES SINCE THE LAST EPISODE IF NOT LONGER
Patamon and Lopmon are so cute, fuck
Oh god Angemon looks so fucked up, oh god, it hurts my heart
Patamon is so fucked up and tired oh god nnnooo ;__;
Seriously tho, Megumi Han’s Takeru sounds so precious that everytime Takeru speaks up I take 1000 points of cute damage
I can’t handle it, her voice is so precious
Delighted by how unbothered the doggomon is by the weight of Greymon on their back
WHOMST
OH IT’S THAT FUCKER WHOSE NAME I FORGOT
CERBERUMON! AND IT’S HUGE, HOLY FUCK
Like maaan, Cerberumon is huge (/MetalGreymon has shrunk since they first appeared)
OH FUCK Patamon was like Black Seraphimon for a while?? Oh fuck, man, yeah, fuck yeah (I wonder, if we see Black Seraphimon in Psi, will they use the Frontier!Mercuremon version or the goth version that appeared in one game? Y’all know I love Frontier and Mercuremon but I feel like that version of Black Seraphimon is super Frontier-specific so I would prefer if they used the game version)
LET’S GO, EVOLVE INTO THE HOARSE!! つ( ◕_◕)つ
YYEEEAAAHHH
PEGASMON!!
Now the implications this has for Armor Level, Digimentals, 02-Content and Alternate Evolution trees- yeah there’s a lot here, so many questions--
OH GARUDAMON SLAMMING ONTO CERBERUMON’S HEAD WAS SEXY
Man, Pegasmon is pretty... Always loved Pegasmon (and Nefertimon), they have such cool designs yo
Oh the episode just ends there, huh
Okay next episode preview (I know Tailmon finally shows up because, y’know, DigiTwitter keeps on giving us new LOVELY art and I don’t wanna unfollow because I like the art, even if it’s spoilers)
Ko-Komondo have EIGHT legs?! Spider dogs....
Aaand nothing of value showed up in this preview- the Twitter did share some extra screenshots though, including this one which made me laugh outloud
Hikari has the exact opposite energy of the Obama “then perish” meme and that’s fucking hysterical to me
(Also the Twitter art did seem to confirm to me that SkullKnightmon is Tailmon)
Anyways, yeah, uh so.
What does this mean for DigiMentals in Psi’s DW? And Armor-Level?
I mean I guess most of those questions would be answered with some data from the next episode’s Encyclopedia entry but I’m an episode behind so I MUST WAIT I GUESS. That said, yeah, I will be interested if they’ll classify Armor as its own level as it’s usually considdered or if Pegasmon will be classified as an Adult-
If the latter happened then I don’t think Digimentals would even exist within this Digital World/continuity, and “Armor” Digimon would probably mostly all be just Adult level Digimon (with maybe some exceptions like Magnamon?). But if Pegasmon is still Armor, well, we shall find out eventually
That aside... When we first went into Psi, the one thing I was hoping to see arguably the most was branching evolution trees (in the same vein Zero Two had with the Digimentals in the first arc) and utilizing those alternative forms for different situations etc. And so far it has really felt like Psi wouldn’t do that all, instead sticking to the familiar evolutions we already knew and loved (except for Ofanimon because Psi says Ofanimon Rights) (OR DO THEY)
BUT THEN WE GOT THIS
Now, since Patamon’s alternative evolution here was caused by Patamon being weakened by the damage from the dark powers, so it’s likely that we won’t see all the Digimon get alternative evolutions (Agumon’s Mugendramon not included, esp. ‘cause there’s no quarantee we’ll see Agumon evolve to Mugen again (though Mille is in this story so I would be kinda shocked if we didn’t see Mugen come back but this is a whole different tangent)).
Like, by these soft rules Psi has just set for us, unless the Digimon all got drenched in Darkness and weakened by that, so much so they couldn’t evolve to other forms, then I don’t think we’ll see alternative evolution trees for them
UNLESS THEY’RE ALREADY WEAKENED and just need to be re-powered up so that they could evolve into more powerful Adult/Perfect forms! :O Though this does seem unlikely since Psi has been building up the Warrior 6 (WarGreymon and co), so unless they decided that the OG Warrior 6 wasn’t The Solution to the Milleniummon Problem and wanted to have the Digimon evolve to 6 other Ultimates instead, yeah, this whole scenario seems unlikely to me.
If Psi will be 66 episodes like we originally heard rumors of, then we are basically half-way through the series now. And my constant “worry” with this series has been how they threw all the Adult and Perfect forms at us so fast within the first 20-or-so episodes. Now indeed, we have only seen one Ultimate, we don’t have Tailmon in the party (as of episode 32, IDK how exactly she’s introduced in episode 33), and Patamon can barely evolve to Adult(?) now. So we do have at least nine evolutions to go, to get everyone to Ultimate.
Like, IDK man. To be fair, aside from HolyAngemon, Adventure had given us all the evolutions they had to offer by the end of episode 38, but also that series was also 12 episodes shorter than what Psi’s supposed to be.
Like... what I’m trying to get at is that Adventure for the most part spaced out the new forms pretty nicely to give us new evolutions to get excited about but not throwing them at us too fast (at least with the Perfects, the Devimon arc was kind of an exception). But Psi’s philosophy has been kind of different, throwing the new Digimon at us at a super high speed for the first arc or so... I’m trying to put together in my mind how plausible alternative evolution trees could be at this point in the story, with 33 episodes left?
Because either they are going to treat the remaining unseen evolutions kinda like Holy Angemon was in Adventure, or we could possibly see alternative evolutions to fill out the remaining episodes now that Pegasmon has proven alternative evolution trees plausible?
I dunno man, I have NO idea where Psi is fucking going
I am super interested in seeing how they’ll treat Patamon’s evolutions from here on out though- like will Pegasmon just be a temporary Adult form for Patamon so he can evolve to something but will regain his ability to evolve to Angemon -> HolyAngemon ->Seraphimon later on? Or will Pegasmon get its own evolution line? IDK what the Perfect could be but Ultimate could be Goddramon, right?
I am pointing this out because. Y’know.
Psi has been showing us Ofanimon in the flashbacks so far.
But we’ve only ever seen Tailmon evolve to Holydramon (Ofanimon: Falldown Mode not included).
And if Tailmon’s gone through what Patamon went through but had a more severe case (which is what “SkullKnightmon is actually Tailmon” would seem to imply to me), it does beg the question; if Patamon can’t evolve back to Seraphimon anymore, will Tailmon be able to evolve to Ofanimon either?
Will Psi actually just taunt me with Ofanimon Rights, only to give us Holydramon at the last second? Is that what they will do?
I GUESS WE’LL FIND OUT
WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU GOING PSI
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Oh I am so fucking tired. You don’t even know the level of soul exhaustion I feel.
After enduring the shit from the Owari // No Seraph fandom and the drama multiple people caused me by claiming I was shit for not being able to support their art while going THREE WHOLE FUCKING MONTHS without power and attending Highschool on top of the abusive shit my own sister put me through and barely having any food; While claiming I was “Too Sensitive” to follow and speak to after coming to me for kind words because “Destiny, You’re a nice person.” days before claiming my handling on emotions was too fucking weak for you. On top of this dealing with crap after visiting Chicago and how I was a disappointment because I wasn’t sexual enough for my partner at the time and then stating I was too hung up on them to be friends because their new partner was uncomfortable with me speaking to my ex and other shit I won’t get into. I don’t care if shit has been resolved, I still fucking hear it in the back of my head. “You’re too sensitive” “You’re a disappointment” (Because I wasn’t as sexual as the characters that I wrote?) “You’re a shit friend, you should support my art” WHEN I COULDN’T EVEN USE MY INTERENET OR L I G H T S FOR THAT MATTER
But now I’ve dealt with some serious dumb ass bullshit. After years of recovering from the emotional abuse and how clingy I used to be and built up trust issues I have people dropping left and right because holy fuck I’m not okay with Inc*st anymore because I realized it was a terrible thing to advocate for, fiction or not. Not to meant the resurfacing memories seeing it everywhere was causing. I made a comfy little hole with people I knew from on//s, ygo, and kh and now mxtx fandom. And you know I think I’m so angry right now because one of my close friends deals with a lot of flack just for speaking his mind. And it hella reminds me of what I went through in the on//s fandom with people unfollowing him, no longer supporting him, and talking shit behind his back along with anon hate. You fuckers are childish and I hate every single one of you.
It was really fucking peaceful in the mxtx fandom before it really hit the western fandom. I didn’t have anyone talking about inc*st every two second or abusive/toxic minor x adult couples. I happily enjoyed putting together my thoughts about Mo Xuanyu. Like I was literally the first to get my hands on his vague character.
Now the people I spoke to about Mo Xuanyu turn out to be just... assholes. I had a boat and now it’s a raft with 3-5 people in it. Dj, Kit, Rand, Fei, and Shiiro. And also me.
But everyone else has been pretty fake. Offering to help me then blocking me. Making fun of me for being too awkward. Now going after someone I know for really dumb shit and acting like he was the manipulative one. I can make my own damn decisions!
I’m tired of letting everyone walk over me. Of blaming me for being gullible or it’s my fault people are mad at me. You make me feel like shit and like I can’t be my own person. Fuck off.
#I wanna break someones arm im sorry#tmi mentioned in text#long post#rant#destiny is angry#this doesnt make sense#is all just word vomit
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I have to drop the regular routine to focus on helping people who have fled the scene of the riots. It is so bad. Minneapolis and St. Paul are war zones. Businesses are being destroyed, people have been killed, and everyone else is afraid for their lives. It's sickening. At least the ex-officer has been arrested for murder, as he should've been in the very beginning. The anger is justified, but not the violence and destruction of affordable housing buildings, pharmacies, restaurants, and other businesses owned and operated by people from various walks of life and had absolutely nothing to do with what happened to Floyd George, God rest his soul.
F the police officer that killed Floyd, F the three other police officers that stood there and did nothing, AND F everyone terrorizing cities, ruining lives, and completely dishonoring the life of a man who lived to protect innocent people from people like you!
If you are okay with this, unfollow me and stay out of my life.
Edit: Holy crap! Even homes people LIVE IN are being burned to the ground, and they’re threatening to murder more people in the residential areas!!
STOP THIS CRAP RIGHT NOW! Just STOP IT NOW!
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One thing I’ve noticed about haters is that they basically dedicate a lot of time just to spread hate, making their target’s fans sad, they often want to impose their opinion, they often misinterpret the facts, make up facts or even exaggerate on interpretation of facts, and that’s not the problem, the problem is that they want to IMPOSE their thought on people, prevent them from having fun with what they like, as if the whole world had to hate what they hate, and this is wrong, because it attacks the other’s right to like something. People have the right to hate stuff, but they cannot harm anyone else’s right with their actions (and arguments), because that way we fall into intolerance, and not just racism, sexism or homophobia, but also social exclusion against personal tastes and opinions. They also sort of invade spaces that were supposed to be fun, such as tags on Tumblr and other social media with hateful, negative and even fake posts. A good example was people blaming Benedict for Doctor Strange whitewashing, while the character in question was the Ancient One and not Stephen per se, and then they start the “Doctor Strange should be Asian” movement, with so much superficiality, because we know we can’t just change the characters’ nationality and be like “see? We’re inclusive”, because that’s just so lame. People who suffer with exclusion feel every day the problem can’t be solved with simple replacement, but with the development of good, well built characters, good stories, with cultural inclusion and all the focus the character deserves, etc. Anyway, it’s not a simple matter, and suddenly haters were blaming the entire racism of the cinema on Benedict (?) while the guy has a big importance when it comes to inclusion, donations, charity, pacifism and a lot of relevant points I won’t list here because just google it.
Anyway, haters end up carrying misinformed people into hating people who actually are doing good things out there, with great projects and charity initiatives etc. (Keanu, Capaldi, Benedict, Hiddleston...).
Also, whenever a hater comes to discuss about why the person or character you admire is the worst being in the world, they often get aggressive when you start pointing out logical arguments, they end up getting emotional and coming for the personal side and forcing some interpretations (example, a lot of doctors, actors, psychologists etc. study objects, animals and people so they can work and improve their profession, like, doctors study people with disabilities, from incapacitating ones to very light ones so they can understand the matter and work more efficiently, etc, I’ve seen people turn Benedict into a monster for observing people with autism, because he more than once had to play a role in which the character had autism. If we think about it and keep acting with such hateful attitude, we’ll end up agreeing with censorship, and autistic people wouldn’t either be characters in movies or we wouldn’t get actors working on such roles, meaning the characterization would be way more limited etc. anyway, it would be bad for culture and critique in general, there would be less representation, because even if autistic authors were called, it would make it harder in occasions where that wouldn’t be possible, movies would end up exploring that subject less, etc.), this was an example, but project this into wider areas of cinema and society in general, using your personal opinion to judge people and consider them the ultimate evil, to want to make the whole world hate that person and harming anyone who disagrees with the haters, that’s really bad!
I used some haters speech about Benedict as examples here because that’s what I’ve seen (and been attacked with) the most, because my blog is a Doctor Strange blog, anyway, but I’m talking about all the kind of haters. But understand a thing, being a hater is not the same as disliking something! Everyone has the right to dislike stuff, and people normally just stop there. People dislike something, people avoid that thing, if asked, they say they don’t like it and that’s it! People normally don’t spend hours making toxic posts about what they hate or spend hours arguing with strangers about how they should hate something! People tend to spend their time with things they like (or things they have to do), so if a hater comes to you and keeps babbling, just say you’re not interested or ignore or end the conversation, because normally these people aren’t well intentioned!
Haters normally can’t be convinced, there will ALWAYS be a reason to justify their hating, while the truth probably is that they identified with a group and feel important there. Also, haters tend to spread high expectations about people, and that’s just toxic, we can’t judge someone’s entire life by something they said or did, people commit mistakes and that’s why LAW exists, if someone commits a crime, it’s up to the system to judge them, not people! When people assume that role and start writing stuff, a lot of fake news come out, and a lot of people actually believe it, and everything becomes a big hate toxic ball that hurts tons of people who had nothing to do with anything.
We do have to criticize actions we consider evil or wrong, as well as we have to think about society and about cinema and racism etc. but we can do that with logical conversation, checking the facts in sources we can trust, we don’t have to become haters and hurt others to defend what we believe and trust every tabloid website in order to sustain our arguments, and I’m not even talking about extreme things such as racism and homophobia, I’m talking about something way more “silly” and superficial such as fandom hating, celebrity hating, ship hating etc.
To point out how it’s not normal to be a hater, let’s imagine a situation: there’s an actress or singer (etc) you like who said something really bad on TV, live, everyone saw and it’s impossible to claim it’s fake. You kind of used to like that person’s content before, but what she said really let you down, you don’t like her anymore and you’re sad. What’s your natural reaction? The reaction most people would have? Well, unfollow that person, stop reading their posts, stop listening to their music, stop recommending that person to friends, stop buying their stuff and little by little, that person would have a smaller and smaller space in your life, until you simply forget about that celebrity (they become irrelevant to you), you just avoid their stuff, you don’t even notice them anymore, you have other interests now and that’s it, things barely changed for you, you’re just indifferent. Now, what does a hater does? They create a page (or fill their social page) of stuff with hate against their target, they spend hours reading about how terrible that person is, they talk to that person’s fans to tell them they have to stop liking that celebrity, they invade all the tags of series, songs, movies (anything) the celebrity is in and spam it with negative things, such as “it’s a terrible singer” or “they should have cast another actor”, anyway, anything really negative that would induce the fans to either quit having fun or start hating the celebrity as well, and that’s just soooo sad and toxic, because spamming a safe, fun environment like that can be considered imposing and even aggressive depending of the content they’re posting, that’s why social media websites often ban accounts that spam tags or other users.
Anyway, haters who spread fake news or aggressive thoughts or accusations often forget they actually could be sued by the celebrity/singer/actor/writer they’re hating on, that’s where personal opinion differs from being a little authoritarian offensive aggressive person. I can totally say “I don’t like that singer because they did X” or because “their song is bad” or “I don’t like their style”, however, we cannot accuse people of stuff they didn’t do, things they didn’t say or even write they thought something or said something they didn’t, because then we’re invading their space, and they have the legal argument to sue you. Normally celebrities don’t lose their time suing small silly haters on social media, however, if a hater writes something offensive about them, including false accusations, they totally CAN sue the hater, or report them so their account gets closed anyway. Haters often forget that some of their actions are criminal, cyber bullying is crime, false accusations and humiliations can be interpreted as injury, and that can be serious, specially if the person being offended is going a hard phase or suffers from psychiatric disorders, the consequences could be way worse for who’s suffering the stalking.
Something that’s very common is Benedict haters taking pics of him and making photoshops making fun of his appearance (they FIND) and making fun of his name. Benedict kind of seems to be okay with that during interviews, considering a lot of his fans also do that, but still, imagine people taking pics of you, making an offensive edit and spreading it in the tags about you or tags about the things you do and like, HOLY CRAP THAT WOULD BE HELL, I WOULD HATE THAT! I WOULD SUE!
And not only the celebrity has to endure that as well as all the fans have to scroll past the sooo many hateful posts which are contributing to NOTHING at all. The only ones happy with all that are the little noisy hater communities, who keep spreading all the offensive things, being rude to people and satisfying their ego, because they often feel way superior to the people they hate (and the fans, and anyone else because they feel they have the right to impose their thoughts). Hate tags do exist, and fans normally won’t visit them because they don’t want to read hate, but even so, haters get expansive and spread all their hate to healthy tags as well, and that becomes toxic. That’s why hate posts and spams are really close in many Guidelines of social media, and such posts CAN BE REPORTED, because they kind of break the “behave online, respect people and don’t harm other people” guideline.
In conclusion, if you’re a victim of a hater(s), don’t quit what you like, just report and block the haters. If it turns into stalking, keep reporting, call the police if you feel threatened, cyber bullying is CRIME, and spamming people is considered a bad attitude on most social media. Preserve your well being! Don’t lose your time discussing with fanatic haters, they won’t listen to you. (If someone hates an actor/singer etc. because they are misinformed, they tend to be like “really? I didn’t know it was a lie. I’ll check it out” when you first tell them /or comment on how the information they’re sharing is fake. Misinformed people normally don’t want to impose their thought, normally they’re just confused or lost, and most of them won’t attack you).
If you’re a hater, please, stop that and if you feel you need, go search psychiatric help, because what you’re doing probably is hurting someone, and hate doesn’t make good at all, not to you, not to anyone. You’re free to have your personal group where you hate on stuff together, of course, but try to be careful to not hurt people or to be toxic to others. Some stuff you hate mean the world to other people, so respect their view just like they respect yours.
Just reminding this text isn’t about extreme things such as racism, homophobia, sexism etc. this text isn’t about that. (Wanting to kill someone because of their gender or color isn’t accepted in our society, it’s crime, and I’m not talking about this here.).
That’s it. Stay away from haters, they will try to make you feel bad for not listening to them , they will accuse you of being authoritarian for blocking them, but no, you don’t have to listen to them, you don’t have to spend you time listening to their hate, you have the right to preserve yourself and ignore them, that’s why the function “block and report” exist and you have the right to use them.
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Anyone else ever hit that point with tumblr where you literally can't roll your eyes any harder at what's coming across your dash/ being passed around/ what everyone's freaking out about today?
You don't want to unfollow anyone, no one's being a bad person in this scenario, the points may even be fairly salient and sane (or not) but it's just an "holy crap I honestly can't deal with this craziness right now, I don't have the energy to participate, engage or even ignore this, I'm just already so emotionally drained I want to throw this whole issue out the window and watch as it flails uselessly in the rain, and laugh.... because that's all I've got left"
But you've also really got nowhere else to go to chill out, all your shows are too dramatic or emotional or just the wrong flavor of emotions right now, and what are you going to do? Try to relax on Facebook? So you just kind of scroll through tumblr hoping to high heaven that you'll hit a point in the scrolling where people stop taking about the issue and you can see something fun.
Or is that just me?
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To soft block, you unfollow them, then you block, and unblock them because that will make sure they are not following you (aka it makes them unfollow you). To hard block, you block again after that last step. You are great an amazing. :)
GLASSES ! — I appreciate both the information and the encouragement! I’ve been talking with my personal lord and savior @fightwing about Marie Kondo-ing my dash for my own sake... but honestly, even after all these years on tumblr, I’ve legit never soft blocked someone. I only block when I see something that exacerbates anxiety or somesuch, and never just for ease or anything like that. So I legit didn’t know exactly how it was done. I thought it was block-unblock but honestly? I just wanted to double check!
Honestly thanks for the bit you tagged onto the end! The isolation sads have been starting to get to me despite the fact that I live with my significant other and we are very busy moving house right now! You’d think I’d be too busy to start feeling mentally low, but the brain waits for no man! Sending encouragement is like... holy crap. #needed
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Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
A fan took pictures of the boys coming out of a building earlier and each one had their beard (including Ashton) and only Calum walking out solo. Doesn’t make sense for all the beards to fly out to one show that the boys aren’t even headlining unless they’re planning on doing/going somewhere else
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
On twitter under ashton KayKay video of kayshton
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
Kayshton Pr on social media
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
Hello there it’s very early in the morning and I’ve just been on Instagram and there is a picture of Ashton and kale from the recent jingle ball so here we go again with kraken being together again and so in love and millions of pictures of them holy cow here we go again it like the same thing over and over again an ex is an ex for a reason if didn’t work out the last two time it not gunna work out just leave it alone stop going back to each other sorry for the rant hope u are all doing good
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
I sent the article to the DM’s, but daily gag mail posted an article about Michael and Crystal. They mentioned Luke and Calum. Sierra wasn’t there. We all know daily gag mail would have mentioned Sierra if she was there. They also called KayKay Ashton’s girlfriend.
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
Apparently Ashton and kaykay arrived together? Just seen on Insta but in all seriousness if he’s happy then so be it but it just looks toxic why break up many times and then get back together it obviously doesn’t work ? But okay lol if he’s happy then that good :)
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
My friend told me Crystal is a talent manager and brand manager and she also works in publicity and she is KayKay PR manager. I think kayshton is 100% PR
Anonymous said to 5sosbitchfest:
Kaykay looks so unhappy in the pics of her and Ashton and he looks like he saying in his head just killer me now if this is love then I don’t know want to know what not being in love looks like
******************************************************************************************* I never for one minute believed Kraken was real when they started all this crap back in December 2018. Perhaps they were involved many years ago, but this last year? 100% PR. Whatever the “relationship” was between the 2 of them, obviously something went down just before the WWJ tour started. We were led to believe that everything was roses - they even posed for a picture in HIS/HER tour jumpsuits - right up until the tour started. Then suddenly, they both unfollowed each other, deleted pictures, removed tags, etc. She was not around at all during tour until LA. Now we’re suddenly supposed to believe that somehow all is okay? If there was a snow ball’s chance in hell that any portion of Kraken was real, why on God’s green earth do they keep going back to each other? If it didn’t work the first 2-4 times you tried it, it probably never will. Call me a pessimist if you want... BTW, Ashton and Kale still do not follow each other on IG and I’m pretty sure they don’t follow each other on Twitter as of 6:15 pm CST 12/14/19.
If you go and look at the pictures, in most of them Ashton looks miserable. Kale doesn’t look really happy either. He keeps his distance from her and kept his hand away from hers or they were tightly grasped. He is standing far closer to Calum in all of the photo ops on the red carpet.
I have no idea why TPTB decided it would be a good idea to bring Kale back into the drama but I still don’t buy any of it.
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