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f0rthel0ve0fw0men · 7 months

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as bi week comes to an end, I wanna make a few more reminders to everyone and all bisexuals reading this.

you are still bisexual if you have a male leaning preference

you are still bisexual if you have a female leaning preference

you are still bisexual if your preference goes outside the binary

you are still bisexual if you don't have a preference

you are still bisexual if you're single

you are still bisexual if you have no desire to date

you are still bisexual if you're in a same sex relationship

you are still bisexual if you're in a different sex relationship

you are still bisexual if you're in a monogamous relationship

you are still bisexual if you're in an open relationship

you do not have to pick a side

you are not "promiscuous" or "confused"

you're not "50% gay" or "50% straight" you're 100% you and 100% bi 200% perfect!

you define what bisexuality looks like for you! Bisexuality is a spectrum and varies for different people. And that's ok!

Lastly,

bisexual people don't need to "pick a side"

bisexual people aren't "confused" or "whores"

bisexual people aren't more likely to "cheat on their partner(s)"

bisexual people more than likely don't wanna be part of your orgy :/

bisexual people aren't "pretending"

bisexual women aren't straight

bisexual men aren't gay

bisexual people have been here, are here, and will always be here! You can't get rid of us! 🥰

remember you are valid 10000% no matter what people say. Keep shining!

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#bisexaul #bisexual week #bisexual relatable #bisexual men #bisexual people #you are valid #valid #bisexuality #bisexuality is valid #bi women are valid #bi men are valid #bi peoplr are valid #lgbtq mspec #lgbtq #lgbtq community

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viablecanvas · 1 year

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As a bi lady, I think bi masculine-presenting people are super fucking hot. Plus it’s awesome to be with other bis and just pointing at every beautiful person and drooling over them together.

And yeah ok maybeeeee I wanna date other bis so we can also have sex with other people of any gender but that’s not BECAUSE I’m bi.

It’s because I’m a horny slut.

There’s a difference.

#bi #bisexual #lgbtq #bi men are valid #bi people are hot #all people are hot #why is everyone so hot

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repressedqueen · 19 days

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okay, our boy has impeccable taste in men....

#OOF #i don't know how anyone in their right mind would say Lou is ugly #he is simply older?#(and we all know buck has some valid daddy issues)#plus he looks great today as well #anyway Buck has great taste and i know he will be beautifully man handled by this big strong man #lou ferrigno jr #tommy kinard #buck x tommy #bucktommy #911 #911 abc #bi buck #edit/clarification: I NEVER WANTED TO EMPLY A 39 YEAR OLD MAN IS OLD. MIDDLE AGED MEN ARE NOT UGLY.#people (regardless of gender) can be hot at any age!#and Lou in particular is definitely hot at 39 as i am sure he will be at 49 and probably 59 etc

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hellomynameisbisexual · 1 year

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REPOST: 🗣️ bisexual men, LISTEN UP

Your sexuality is your greatest power. It's a blessing not a curse to be bi

For many years I carried self hatred, but isn't it funny how what you deem as your greatest 'weakness' is in fact your greatest strength?

when I stopped looking for acceptance from other people, I gained the most important thing acceptance from myself. Bro, accepting yourself and being confident in who you are is attractive af, others will see your light shining and come over to bask in in

TRUST ME.

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hoolay-boobs · 8 months

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“What do you mean there’s still so much biphobia in fan spaces? Bisexuals are like some of the most popular characters!”

Yeah, and they either get treated like this:

Or like this:

“Biphobia isn’t real” neither are your braincells

#bisexuals deserve better #biphobia tw #biphobia #bisexual #bisexuality #listen not to post this rancid post on bi visibility month but part of bi visibility month is venting about biphobia and that’s okay #long tags #bisexual characters are constantly branded as either gay/lesbian or straight because bisexuality is constantly branded as never good enough #yes harlivy are sometimes fetishized by men who want to get off on seeing girls smooch. yes sometimes these men are the writers of dc #no they do not make up 100% of harlivy content. no gross men drooling over harlivy doesn’t immediately make harlivy straight #harlivy have had queer female writers before. a huge portion of their fanbase are queer girls #just because they are occasionally festished doesn’t mean that they aren’t good bi rep #I see where this person is coming from but no. bc REAL BI WOMEN get festishized by men and that won’t make their sexuality any less valid #would you tell these real girls that they’re actually straight since ‘sapphicness isn’t sapphicness once it’s taken advantage of by men’?#glimmer lesbian content makes me sad bc it’s not even like interpreting harlivy or korrasami as lesbians assuming all wlw is solely lesbian #but also erasing her entire romance with bow. degrading it down to comphet and ignoring bow #like I can at least understand mistakening poison ivy for a lesbian but glimmer?? glimmer??!#biphobic #biphobic tw #bisexual hardships #korrasami #harlivy #glimbow #bi #fucking essay in the tags

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funma25 · 10 days

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I could fix you💔❤️‍🩹😂🏳️‍⚧️

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lovelyheartclover · 4 months

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Why is it ALWAYS the nonlesbians that dont care enough to educate themselves on why the "bi lesbian" lable is problematic or just support the lable???

Just saw a post (op will not be named, PLEASE DO NOT ATTACK THEM) saying that the whole 'bi lesbian' discourse doesn't matter because regardless if someone is bi, lesbian, or both, they are queer and that we should stop being angry at how people choose to label themselves as.

Gee sherlock I donno, maybe im upset because the label that person chose to identify as is ACTUALLY PROBLEMATIC AND HARMFUL TO BOTH THE LESBIAN AND BI COMMUNITY!????

YOU CALLING YOURSELF A 'BI LESBIAN' IS SAYING THAT LESBIANS CAN LIKE MEN IN ANY COMPACITY, WHICH BTW IS NOT TRUE. LESBIANS HAVE AND WILL NEVER LIKE OR INCLUDE MEN.

LEAVE US ALONE.

The post's tag btw ⬇️

#its always the people that are like everything is valid 🥺🥺#little do they know that that is actually MORE HARMFUL THAN GOOD LIKE WTF???#no....just no....#why are people so obsessed with trying to make lesbians love men or include men into the lable!????#yall disgust me wtf #yall are weird for wanting a lesbian to be into men bruh #Clover's text #important psa #important reminders #'bi lesbian'#'bi lesbians'#bi lesbians dni #lesbophobia #lesbian issues

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heartbelongs2zouis · 22 days

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i’m so happy with bi-buck and the representation, however, the way some buddie shippers are suddenly so disloyal is rubbing me the wrong way! And I don’t mean the people that don’t mind tommy, and feel like it’s good for buck to have his own journey, and then finding his way to his one and true love eddie—i mean the people that are suddenly so okay with bucktommy being endgame or “they all have two hands” uhm no? It’s supposed to be buck and eddie. Or is it just that literally any guy is okay?? Because quite frankly then, what was the point of hating every girlfriend buck ever had? Bisexual means liking both, so that just seems a bit hypocritical to me…

#buddie #look i hate to be bringing negativity #and i really don’t mind tommy i think he’s great for buck right now #but i think he’s even better for buddie #and i don’t mind him being buck’s firsts i just don’t want him being his last #also as a bi woman i don’t want people not validating my sexuality because i’ve only dated men #also what’s with people changing with the wind?#when suddenly every door is opening for buddie you decide to settle for any dude?#nah bro i’m annoyed

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princessefemmelesbian · 9 months

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Well would you look at this. 😵‍💫 Because obviously if you dare say anything as wild and controversial as “lesbians don’t like men, please stop using a label that hurts us and tries to force men into our identity” you’re a raging terf radfem transmisogynist. Because obviously ONLY trans women use the bi lesbian label and it’s not like there are transfem lesbians who are rightfully against the label as well or anything and it’s not like terfs use the label to refer to cis lesbians who date trans women and why can’t you just let people identify as how they want of course lesbians like men stop the infighting already if you disagree with me that lesbians can like men then surely that’s because you’re an exclusionist gatekeeper who hates trans women.

#lesbian #anti-bi lesbian #trans women #lesbophobia #the raging hatred for lesbians on this site is getting to an all-time high tall will stop at NOTHING to gaslight us and make us out to be #hateful terf bitches for our sexuality #how many times are we going to do this same old song and dance #no i will not calm down i will be taken seriously #you CANNOT be a bi women as a lesbian idfc if you’re trans or cis #lesbians do not like men and bi women shouldn’t have to ‘oick a side’ by calling themselves lesbians #it’s absurd maddening and sad how little y’all respect us #and trans women always have a place in the lesbian community that doesn’t mean that ACTUAL MEN DO #shit #trying to frame this as ‘well you must be a terf if you are against bi lesbians’ is a shitty move and you’re not being original or clever #go fuck yourself #trans lesbians exist and are valid and the bi lesbian label hurts them just like it hurts cis lesbians if anything it hurts them more so #and i will block ANYONE who supports bi lesbians it doesn’t matter if they’re a trans woman a cis woman a trans man non-binary etc idfc #stop trying to frame this as exclusionary radfem rhetoric #bi lesbian as a term DOES support corrective rape idgas what lesbophobes like you want to say about it #that’s all goodbye #sorry but this got me mad you do not get to use transmisogyny as a clutch to spout blatant ass lesbophobia #i’m so tired of this shit #blocklist #op

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twatbir · 2 months

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a lot of yous are getting very comfortable treating jean as ʼnot as queerʼ — despite being a confirmed bi character by nora herself — for only potentially being canon with renee at some point instead of jeremy lol what is that about ..?

#fool #this is mostly aimed at twitter users #aftg #jean moreau #bi men arent gay. bi men arent straight either. theyre bi. U don't have to ship them with men for their ʼfandom queer cardʼ to stay valid #addendum: noraʼs self-published so all of these characters are literally her OCs that we're sharing in a sand-box lol it wouldn't be cool #for someone to say ʼactually you're wrongʼ about YOUR OCs just bc you shared them in a public space so it's not fine to do the same for nora #a la ʼthis is why we can't trust nora with her own charactersʼ bullshit over on twt #that's all tar-tar x

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best-enemies · 21 days

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I've reached season 5 on my CSI rewatch and I'm a few episodes past "Swap Meet", where a woman is murdered after attending a swing party with other couples from the neighbourhood. Near the end of the episode there's a moment that made me jump from my seat:

(Grissom walks up to Sara and takes the seat next to her. He's holding two cups. He hands her a cup of tea.)

[INT. POLICE DEPARTMENT - BRASS' OFFICE]

Erin Brady: Everybody fantasizes about other people. (She glances at Grissom.)

Even you, Mr. Grissom. A neighbor, a friend ... girl at the office.

[INT. POLICE DEPARTMENT - HALLWAY]

(The door opens. Paul Brady walks out of the hallway. Erin Brady walks out into the hallway. Sara is sitting in the hallway chair watching them. She watches as they meet and kiss.)

(Grissom walks up to Sara and takes the seat next to her. He's holding two culps. He hands her a cup of tea.)

LIKE!!!!!!!

Right after Erin ends her sentence with 'girl at the office', the first time Sara and Grissom meet again, he brings her tea. This might be an innocent interaction but to me it seemed like a nod to this relationship they have where both are into each other, know about the other's feelings, but can't/won't do anything about it (although Sara has kind of given Grissom an ultimatum). I don't know if it was intentional - I'm guessing it is, because I picked it up immediately. I might or might not have squealed in delight.

#csi #gsr #i'm very Normal about them btw i don't think about them 50 times per day or anything #need to talk more about these two here #because im obsessed about them in a Normal way #sara is like. my dream wife. i totally get grissom being in love with her for years and barely holding it together #i would not though #i'm 1000% sure she's bi. but the writers have been cowards so far #also she and i dress THE SAME. yes i love 2000s clothes so what #i could talk about her forever she's everything to me #and grissom. oh grissom. i also get why she's been in love with him forever #i mean what the FUCK went down in san francisco did they hook up and sex was so good it scared them #and now they have to live with that tension and they're scared of crossing that line #nah i'm guessing with these two they just REALLY clicked. like. they were an instant match and they knew it #but grissom didnt want to lose focus on work or whatever and they lived in separate states you know #but oh my god i totally get sara. grissom is such a silver fox. he's like one of the hottest old men i've ever seen in my life #you know what i 100% get tumblr sexualizing old men it's completely valid i'm in this now too #he has this LOOK. whenever he's angry at a suspect. and he looks angrily at them. i'm chewing on my keyboard just remembering it #and his smirks #AND THE WAY HE LOOKS AT SARA #im losing my mind #i love all of gil grissom but seasons 4-5 jesus fucking christ #ok enough with the sexualizing i love him as a character SO MUCH. he's absolutely fantastic #one of the things i love the most about him is that he doesn't judge people. whenever the team is confused about someone #or this persons' lifestyle #he's always trying to understand them and not judge them #like a true scientist he wants to understand the nature of things and people #and he's such a sweetheart i love him so much #like there are so many things i love about him i can't fit them all in the tags. same for sara #they're a perfect match for me

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plague-and-creatures · 4 days

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People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me

And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian

Apparently????

It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation

Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men

And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"

Literally grow up

#queer discourse #lesbian #mspec lesbian #pro mspec lesbian #sapphic #anti exclusionist #fuck exclusionists #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #lesboy #he/him lesbian #hating men is not a valid reason to invalidate others #fuck off safequeers #exclusionists need to grow tf up

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archivomeow · 1 month

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lesbians that came out as bi first are valid.

bi men are valid.

bi women who only dated men are valid.

bi asexual and aromantics are valid.

bi men who only dated women are valid.

bisexuality is valid.

#bi #bisexual #biromantic #bi ace #bi aroace #aspec #bi men #bi men positivity #bi positivity #bisexuality is valid #lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#bi pride #bi bi bi

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hellomynameisbisexual · 22 days

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The bisexual flag is a silent symphony of colors celebrating a powerful symbol of the beautiful complexity of loving across spectrums. To all my fellow bi folks: we are valid, we are loved, our love is beautiful, and our vibrant hearts are a gift to the world.

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blogalreadydoesntexist · 8 months

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'oh so changing gender is all fine and dandy but when-' bro if a cishet guy started saying he would 'change' lesbian women you would laugh at him and call him homophobic (like a normal person would do) PLEASE shut up you biphobic shitface. being mspec isnt evil, liking men and women isnt evil, lesbians do not like men, gays dont like women, etc.

being bi isnt evil, being pan isnt evil, being omni isnt evil, etc.

'listen to history-' the history of 'bi lesbian' is rooted in transphobia and terf bs, yet anyone who disagrees with you is a terf..?

it was used to belittle lesbians who'd date trans women, saying that they were actually just bi, that trans women didn't count as 'real women'

but then again, since you consider trans men ''to still be forever linked to womahood forever and ever like theyll always be a girl forever and ever im not transphobic guys im actually so much super exinclusive because i support uh corrective rape uh men fetishizing lesbians uh i mean uh we support ''anti-terfism'' (insert that shitty 'pleading face' here)'' i wouldnt put that past you.

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citrine-elephant · 4 months

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there is nothing strictly heterosexual about the way leon looks at other men, i swear

#resident evil #imagine if a line was added along the lines of #'chris is hot and all but ada'#i saw that one image of leon looking at patrick from infinite darkness and #look i'll still headcanon leon as being extremely bad at socializing either due to neurodivergency or him suffering massive trauma #as a fresh adult #flirting with mfers and not understanding why cuz he's no good with social cues #unintentionally #but i know long time fans gotta think the same thing #leon kennedy is hot as fuck and every gender across the board wants to bang him right #if my guy was a lil bi it'd be dope yknow idk #he can still be loyal to ada and casually admit men are hot yknow #yknow im just saying #dedicates his life to one woman doesn't mean he can't have a lil crush on christopher redfield #the fans have valid reasons to smack their lil dolls of leon and chris together to make em kiss #but i mean if anyone's got a strong theory of being gay it is chris hell yeah #chris = gay 100 #leon = 'straight' but someone didn't measure properly cuz that line is a bit fucked up #which is to say maybe bi cuz it feels like he's mostly into women but got a way he looks at guys sometimes yknow... yknow #i need to go take a nap man

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