I once had a guy tell me that all I needed was a good fuck and I’d forget about my girlfriend. When I told him that I’d never willingly have sex with him, he told me he didn’t want me willingly.
I once had a guy tell me it was hot that I’m bi. He then held me down and “asked” me to sleep with him. When I didn’t say no, he penetrated me. When he finished, he asked if I still thought I liked girls, because if I did he “had all night to fix that.” We were dating at the time.
some people on tumblr are really like "of course i love female characters! which is why i ship this girlboss and malewife. men get pegged by powerful woman! i'm calling this m/f ship yuri. this canonically male character is a woman to me but not in a transfem way and i'm not exploring it further. yeah i love lesbians uhhh i'll headcanon background character #9 as a lesbian because she doesn't get in the way of my ship. lol ew why do you ship blorba and blorbette together when blorbette is canonically married to a man? no i don't actually have a favorite female character because all fictional women are poorly written!"
NAH THAT PERSON(the one in the screenshot)ALSO TRASHED ON HCING FEM CHARACTERS AS LESBIANS BC THEY HATE MEN AND CHARACTERS AS TRANSFEM EGGS CAUSE THEY'RE SUPER FEMININE TOO💀✋🏼
Things that alot of this 'community' says and defends as "so queer actually™" when its just straight up lesbophobia:
(lesbians feel free to add to this and share other bullshit youve heard from this beloved 'community')
being a lesbian is just about having a stronger preference for/attraction to women than other genders
lesbian just means queer attraction to women. its not and never was exclusive
you can be a bi/pan/mspec lesbian because lesbianism isnt exclusive
lesbians can have exceptions
trans men can identify as lesbians because they have 'history/experience of womanhood' or they have the 'right hardware down there'
trans men can identify as lesbians because the line between butches and trans men is 'blurred' or 'overlaps'
lesbians used to have sex with men all the time
sometimes a lesbian will want to have sex with a man and they can and should and it doesnt make them less lesbian. action doesnt mean attraction.
asexuals can have sex without having sexual attraction so lesbians can do the same
everyone's a little bisexual
a lesbian hating men is biphobic and misandrist
a lesbian being les4les is biphobic
lesbianism is so restrictive
lesbianism is fluid
men are going to be predatory to lesbians anyway so it doesnt matter
lesbians centering hating men as essential to their sexuality is misandrist and exclusionary
lesbians talking about liking pussy is terf rhetoric
lesbians are so predatory and aggressive
lesbians are like men
lesbians are terfs and radfems
lesbians are mean and rude
lesbians who use he/him pronouns and/or are gnc are actually trans men. especially if theyre butch/stud lesbians
butch and stud lesbians are just like men
butch means masculine and femme means feminine
butches are the man in the relationship and femmes are the woman in the relationship
butches and femmes are replicating & reinforcing patriarchy and heterosexual gender roles
the futch scale is a real thing guys fr
lesbianism is inherently bioessentialist
lesbians are genital fetishists for liking pussy
bonus
this cis, white, heterosexual blonde woman in a heterosexual romantic relationship with a cis, white heterosexual man is the most lesbian lesbian to ever lesbian and that time she wore khaki slacks was the single most butch thing ever to butch 😉
femme lesbians' femininity is unique and beautiful and refreshing and claiming that it conforms to heteronormativite gender roles discredits it so much. it's not a performance of femininity catering to men and it's insane to even claim that. it's a complex, nuanced identity that reclaims feminity in a way that it doesn't conform to heteronormativity. it's genuinely so sad to see people not understanding the label and misconstruing what it means
With people on Twitter basically calling any character, or sometimes real person who they like (Kylo Ren, Tony Stark, Billy Eilish, Joe Biden) “femme-coded”, let’s talk about some characters who actually are “femme-coded”
With people on Twitter basically calling any character, or sometimes real person who they like (Kylo Ren, Tony Stark, Billy Eilish, Joe Biden) “femme-coded”, let’s talk about some characters who actually are “femme-coded”
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