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Two people with the exact same brand of ADHD and shared intense hyperfixation clicked too hard, 100 dead, thousands injured, 3 million new timelines unlocked, a single starting line of conversation ending in 400 new novel length messages sent and one month between reply times
#adhd#audhd maybe#met a new mutual and we're on such the same page telepathically we spiralled into overwhelming convo length in so much excitement from both#ends we have scared each other off i think#because we so easily could talk to each other and fly inro tangents that the messages grew and grew and i simultaneously love them and find#myself unable to wrangle them because they are self sustaining convos beautiful and thriving the way mint thrives!#you know??#god they bring me joy but also i need to be in full focus mode for hours to respond#they're so brilliant we bounce off of and expand on each other's thoughts effortlessly we are so the same we cannot be contained!!#girl help!
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Anyone else use to feel way more mature than other kids the same age but now feel like they just...not? I still don't do anything people my age do but now it's seem more childish, i feel like i'm late all the time and when i'm with people my own age it's like being a kid at an adults table...
#neurodivergent#ADHD#autism ? still not shure#audhd maybe#idk at this point#different#yk that quote#i know how it feels to be different#yeah?#well it's on repeat in my head whenever i hangout with them#there is only two people that don't make me feel that way#one is autistic so#and it use to be three#my sister#but she just said something to me that made me realise she's growing up and i'm not#so#yeah#autism#autistic
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No one talks about this benefit of neurodivergency enough: I know my DIY electrical work is sound cause I can't hear the light anymore.
#the light on my landing however still requires looking at because sometimes it makes a sound#actually neurodivergent#actually adhd#audhd maybe
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hi i’m here to autism post my qualifications include:
autism
the tism
asd
fatherhood to 11 cats
adhd
i can do a little dance
that’s it please like and subscribe
#my main is for posting art. my alt? who knows. maybe we break it down#lowkey but not lowkey looking for support#what are the tags u kids use#autism#actually autistic#audhd#actually audhd#adhd#actually adhd
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Am I the only one that feels like NTs HATE saying 'I don't know.'
You will not believe the amount of times I'll ask a basic objective question about a situation and they'll give me an answer, only for later the answer to be completely wrong. And then when I ask them why they would give me wrong information - they say 'I just guessed.'
I didn't ask you for your guess. I asked for the information. If you didn't have the information don't just GUESS. Say 'I don't know.'
I feel like NT don't realize that WRONG information is worse than no information.
If I want to know when an event will end and you say '5pm' - I'm going to be mentally prepared for 5pm. And if it DOESN'T end then, not only will I be out of energy, but I'll be irritated and confused because I'm in an unfamiliar situation with NO INFORMATION
Had you just told me 'I don't know what time it ends' instead of GUESSING 5, then I would've prepared for the worse. But now I have to literally rearrange everything in my head and talk myself down from meltdown cause I was given inaccurate information and also I thought I was going home.
But they act instead like saying I don't know is a moral failure.
My father used to yell at me all the time to not say 'I don't know.'
He'd always demand I figure it out and come up with SOMETHING no matter how uninformed or vague and that's how you have NTs walking around feeling like it's a crime to admit they simply don't know something
and instead they'll just shamble something together and hope that's good enough regardless of whether in the information is actually helpful or correct.
IT'S SO ANNOYING. JUST SAY YOU DON'T KNOW.
Stop guessing and giving me WRONG information because it only makes the situation worse and more confusing. Say you don't KNOW. It's FINE.
#ro rants#neurotypicals communicate clearly challenge#today on: actually NT are the ones with empty and illogical communication patterns#I refuse to believe I'M the disordered one when they're the ones acting on no logic whatsoever#stop trying to protect your ego and just Be Normal and tell me what I need to know#'Autistics are bad at communication cause they're too blunt and rude-'#or maybe.. you just have no idea how to speak clearly#neurodivergent#actually autistic#autism#audhd#neurodivergency#neurodiversity#actually audhd#actually autism#actually adhd#autistic
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guys. guys. guys, guys
to my fellow neurodivergents
have you heard of.. goblin tools ?
i checked it out last night and hOLY SHit it is my newest favorite website ever.
you can separate tasks into steps, list all the ingredients you have and it’ll create a simple recipe for you, change the tone of the message you’re trying to convey (to ensure minimal offense to the NT you’re conversing with,) and like.. 4 other cool things, i think.
please please please check it out it’s the best
#adhd#autism#actually autistic#actually adhd#audhd#neurodivergent#neurodiverse stuff#rottmnt#maybe this is super popular and everyone else already#knows about it and i’m just now finding it#in which case i would look very dumb
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FRIENDLY REMINDER THAT YOU ARE NOT TOO MUCH!
If anyone tells you, that you are too much: They are wrong. You are NOT too much. Really.
Some people might not appreciate your vibe.
Some people might feel weirded out by your actions.
Some people might feel overwhelmed when around you.
Some people might not understand you
These people are valid in their feelings.
BUT! That does not make you too much. Not at all.
Don't be less for anyone!
#the number of times I have been called too much#I really can't count anymore...#maybe you need to surround yourself with other people. That's okay too. You will find people that think you are not too much.#neurodivergent#adhd#autism#mental health#audhd#autistic#neurodiversity#bpd#neurodivergence
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Of all the heartbreak contained within “Doctor Bashir, I presume?” I think this is the most heartbreaking thing to me:
- “You don't know. You've never had a child. You don't know what it's like to watch your son. To watch him fall a little further behind every day. You know he's trying, but something's holding him back. You don't know what it's like to stay up every night worrying that maybe it's your fault. Maybe you did something wrong during the pregnancy, maybe you weren't careful enough, or maybe there's something wrong with you. Maybe you passed on a genetic defect without even knowing it.”
Because, while it may be true they weren’t ashamed of young Jules, it still stands that the genetic resequencing was about them. About Amsha and Richard, and not about Julian. They made him illegal, and they say it’s Julian’s own good, but even here, it becomes about them and their feelings. It’s not about doing the right thing for Julian, it’s about setting their minds at ease. It’s about fixing something they believe is wrong with him.
Not even when they’re trying to say they did this for Julian, is it about Julian.
#maybe it’s just the undiagnosed AuDHD#but it makes me ache#they made him illegal to settle their own fears#anyway#I’m gonna go cry now#ds9#julian bashir#doctor bashir I presume
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I love it when bitches make nico di angelo disabled and a little bit transgender
#pjo#nico di angelo#percy jackson#hoo#riordanverse#audhd nico di angelo#nico di angelo and his extreme amount of gender#will solace#pjoverse#solangelo#trans nico di angelo#transgender#trans#he/they nico di angelo#or even better#...#maybe even....#they/them nico di angelo..#they/them nico with he/him reserved for only a couple people he truly trusts to use them
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Executive Dysfunction is bad because of missed assignments and appointments and bills and all that, obviously.
But Executive Dysfunction is also bad because literally all I want in the entire world right now is to drink my ice tea and smoke my weed but I keep not doing that, because the frontal lobe of my brain has been replaced by the Doldrums from The Phantom Tollbooth
#the phantom tollbooth#shitpost#shitposting#neurodivergent#neurodivergent memes#executive dysfunction#actually autistic#adhd#audhd#this is gonna be very funny for the six of you who remember this movie#that was also i think maybe a book
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Why do I so disproportionately show my excitement for things. Like for example:
My mom got me these super cool bedsheets with woodland critters on them as a gift and I’m genuinely super excited about them!! My outward response was just: “aw those are really cute. I am very excited about them.” 😐
then something little happens like I ate/drank something that tasted good and my response is stimming and smiling a bunch even though I’m not like. overjoyed about it or anything.
It’s like the more emotion I feel about something, the less I convey it outwardly if that makes sense? Luckily by now everyone close to me understands my mannerisms, which I’m grateful for, but people who don’t know me well do sometimes misinterpret. Idk I guess I’m just wondering if anyone else relates
#I’m also curious if this is maybe an adhd or autism thing#I’ve been diagnosed adhd over a decade now but only in recent years have discovered I’m most likely autistic too#scriv lore#adhd#autism#neurodivergent#audhd
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GOOD LORD i have not been able to think about anything else but Fig's undying devotion to her friends since last night's episode. I wonder if she's actually going to persue the paladin stuff, and if she does I wonder if they're going to make her a custom oath??? i know mechanically, oath of devotion is pretty versatile, but ALSO it would be so cool to find something that's so Fig. the way you could combine the warlock "relationships & agreements" stuff to an oath.... her love for her friends is so powerful :(
#there's something about fig faeth that can be so personal#maybe i'll make a less jumbled post about this later#fig faeth i love you with my entire heart#im so excited to see what's in store for her#not to mention her generational curse 💀#fig faeth#dimension 20#fantasy high#fig and kristen are so fucking relatable this season#they're honestly everything to me#although tbh id be kind of sad to see the bard side of her go :(#jack of all trades is so good for her. bardic inspiration is so real. & i just really love a good gnarly punk rock bard#i know whatever happens is gonna be good though#very excited for next episode#fig and kristen are sooooooooo audhd coded#u can pry them from my cold dead hands
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The adhd urge to post every chapter immediately after writing it vs the autism urge to wait until the entire fanfic is finished and has pictures to go along with it before even mentioning it exists
#on the bright side I’m having fun#haven’t written properly in so long#gonna try and get maybe 5-6 chapters written before publishing?#depending on how long they take#cause I wanna at least get the first few chapters out before season 3#but I also want to like. wait until I have everything written before publishing#and also I want to publish what I have written now immedeitly#thank god I can share it with my friends I dragged into proofreading for me otherwise I’d be going insane LMAO#audhd is wild cause sometimes the symptoms contradict t eachother so much#that they cancel eachother out and you just can’t do anything#hilda#netflix hilda#hilda netflix#hilda the series#fanfic#textpost#Sadie thinkin
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“do the hardest task first”
no. just… no.
hot take: this doesn’t work for people with adhd (in my experience/from what i’ve heard from other people with adhd in my life). i recommend doing the easy/moderately difficult stuff first, that way you can convince yourself that it’s all going to be this easy and undemanding. then hyper-focus will kick in because your brain is like, “yeah, we can do this, we’ve got this.” then, before you know it, you’ve completed both the easy tasks and the hard tasks while hyperfocusing.
like, on a serious note, it’s always been easier for me to convince myself to get the most difficult tasks done when i’m already working/in the working frame of mind, not when i’m laying in bed or sitting on the couch, mindlessly scrolling through stuff on my phone, and struggling to start at all.
if the choice comes down to you not starting at all or starting with the easiest task first (which, for me, it often does), always, always pick starting with the easiest task first. sometimes you need a small victory, a little bit of an accomplishment, to give you the courage to take on bigger challenges.
#adhd#audhd#in my experience… ‘study tips’ or ‘time management tips’ from neurotypical people will almost never work for us#they don’t conceptualize time the same way we do#they don’t look at challenges the same way we do#it’s okay to take bits and pieces of their advice#ya know… whatever parts of it work for you#but don’t think that you have to use all the strategies and programs that they do to be successful#because you don’t#all that fake business soft skills/mental health guru/grind mindset stuff is total bullshit#pick strategies that speak to/work for you#it’s okay to fail at things and to have to try again#it’s okay to make mistakes and not get shit done sometimes#sometimes you need a fucking break#it’s okay to start with the easy stuff first and just ease your way into being productive#it’s okay to hyperfocus and work for hours on end sometimes#if it’s hard for you to take breaks when you’re studying and you feel like you learn better if you stay in that hyperfocused zone#than just go until the hyperfocus wears off#then take a break… eat… nourish your body… take care of yourself… and come back later#maybe later is later on that day#maybe later is tomorrow#either way is completely fine#do what works best for you#work with your neurodivergent brain… no against it#pol’s diary <3
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Random question, but who do you think was worse: Reagan, Thatcher or Brian Mulroney? The three conservative leaders of the 80s. Personally, I think Reagan was the worst of the three. And I think Mulroney was the best. Let me explain:
I think Mulroney was best. Because while Mulroney seems to have had some very bad domestic policies, at least he didn't get us involved in any major wars (as far as I'm aware), and he also opposed apartheid. So his foreign policy was at least not as bad as it could have been, which gets him the top spot.
Reagan was worst because both his domestic and foreign policy sucked. Reaganomics was bad for america, and his response to things like the AIDS crisis was also disastrous. And it's not like he had too good of a foreign policy either. He supported millitary coups all throughout Central and Southern America, and also there were things like Iran-Contra which probably show his bad foreign policy. Also, he tried to veto MLK Jr Day from becoming a thing. Who does that!?
So because Mulroney is best and Reagan is worst, I guess Thatcher is the one in the middle slot. She's worse than Mulroney, but better than Reagan. She had a bad domestic policy too (I think), but at least she didn't get the UK involved in as many coups and wars as the US (I think this is true). Also, at least one can say she has an interesting background. She supposedly wanted to be a chemist before going into politics. Which is interesting to me.
But either way, I wonder if anybody else has any thoughts on all this? Who do you consider worst, and who do you consider best here?
#canada#usa#uk#1980s#politics#us politics#uk politics#canada politics#leftism#maybe I should tag that?#my thoughts#I was inspired to make this#After seeing a youtube video critical of ronald reagan#i haven't seen it yet#but I might later#autism#asd#audhd#rambles
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funny story
I'm late diagnosed autistic however i use to stim A LOT as a child
but the thing is - my main stim was PLAYING WITH PEOPLE'S EARS.
Not my own. I never ever did it with my own because my own aren't the right texture. But my parents ears were, so I would reach out and flip the top part of their ear back and forth like one of those pop fidget thingies
Like DO YOU SEE IT do you see what I mean
my cartilage was too thick to do it so I would literally sit there in my parents lap with a pacifier in my mouth just fiddling with their ears staring into space
for like 15 minutes at a time.
I am an only child so my parents never questioned it they just assumed that's what babies did 😭😭😭
Adults would be like why is your baby doing that and my parents would be like 'oh ya know - im sure they have their reasons'
Family members would be like hey you should get them to stop doing that and my parents were like 'why??? it's harmless. they're literally a baby. chill.'
Meanwhile I was like six years old
And I did it for YEARS.
Theyd be like 'cut it out my ear is getting sore' so I'd stop five minutes later im like
gimmie ear.
I even remember trying it on people who didn't have the right ears for it and being like... completely disinterested in having them hold me
thinking like 'oh ur ear sucks u can put me down now 😖😒'
and honestly i love myself. that's such an autistic power move
being like not only will i stim but you will stim with me. in public. right now.
like imagine a baby with a little mandated autistic bonding ritual that I subjected all allistics to
yes I will sit quietly and play with my toys but you have to sit next to me and give me your ear
ur having a conversation? okay u can listen with one ear now gimmie the other
my mom didn't wear earrings for years. 😭😭 sorry mom
and they somehow didn't notice I was autistic until I was 25.
Assert Dominance Over Neurotypicals. Enforce Mandated Group Stimming.
#can't believe they let me get away with this#I want to do it again so bad#but like...I can't 😭😭😭#maybe I'll get married for this reason alone#actually autistic#actually autism#autism#AuDHD#adhd#actually adhd#neurodivergency#neurodiversity#neurodivergent#stimming#stims#asd#neurodivergence#neurodiverse stuff#neurodiverse#disability#disabled#actually audhd
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