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#SOMEONE PLEASE TEACH ME
apollo-not-in-space · 9 months
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The "Drawing characters in my own clothes even if my sense of fashion is deeply flawed" edition. She deserves so much more fashionable clothes but alas
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squidsarentcool · 5 months
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I hope I’m not too late to this trend lol
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raid3r-r4bbit · 10 months
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Wip ref sheet.
I got my tablet early! Trying to see if I can restore my old content, which would be nice.
Any ways, anatomy/shading study/trying to figure out how to draw tattoos.
I forgot his make up but I'm just excited to have art to post.
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dramaticpandabear · 14 days
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How the fuck do you play Caravan?!
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oo-hazel-oo · 2 years
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hey all, i just wanted to wish everyone the happiest of prides! you beautiful people inspire me and deserve to be celebrated each and every day of the year.
as someone who only recently realized that they are queer, i sometimes feel like i don’t really know how to talk about my sexuality, or talk about it in the right way. gaining that confidence is something i’m working on, but i know it will get easier with time!
even though i’m still figuring things out, i can genuinely say that ever since i’ve recognized and accepted this part of myself, i’ve never been happier. i’ve been feeling all the good feels lately, and honestly, its been amazing :)
and seeing you all share your own experiences both this week and over the past couple of years has been incredible. know that i am here to support you in any way i can!
and i can’t write all this without acknowledging the fact that i have the best partner in the world, who has not for one second stopped supporting me. they make me feel confident, happy, and every other positive adjective you could think of. i just wanted to gloat over them a little because they deserve it, even if the attention makes them cringe <3
so happy pride, especially to those still figuring things out. i love you all! ❤️🌈
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crowleying · 1 year
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I'm so embarrassing in human relationships with neurotypicals.
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"—No but like, why?" "Because you have neuroses, Barnes."
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disorganised-bagel · 21 days
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is this anything
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stilessderek · 1 month
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I will always tell you, thank you for always watching over me, STAY.
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inkskinned · 2 years
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in recent years, there's been a push in therapeutic circles to shift the language from "attention-seeking" to "connection-seeking" behavior.
i was an attention-seeker. i was the textbook example of an attention-seeker. i was a troublemaker. i would self-harm. i destroyed my own relationships. i was uncontrolled, dramatic, sensitive. i took everything personally. i had "nothing" to be depressed "about," but made a big show of how sad i was nonetheless. i was really unsafe about myself in a lot of ways.
the strange thing about that is: it meant others could ignore me. the prevailing wisdom behind knowing something is "attention seeking" is to say: well, since you want it that bad, you're not getting any. it meant i was lower-on-the-list of concern. it meant an eye-roll.
the belief was that: since i was obviously doing these things on purpose, it would be bad behavioral training if i was "rewarded" for it. it would "teach me" that i simply had to make enough fuss, and i'd finally get all that missing attention and love. no, it was better to ignore that stuff.
i was suffering. and it felt like - oh, it doesn't matter how loudly i am in pain, nobody gives a shit about if i'm living or dying.
awhile ago, i went through my journals from that time. a lot of them read the same thing. in them, i am convinced i am invisible. that nobody wants to hear me, to see me. that i could die or vanish and nobody would even notice. i didn't even want attention - not really - because it was always dismissive, mocking. nothing i ever did would be good enough to get someone to actually-worry about me.
that's a terrifying thing for me to read as an adult. that is a child who fully has no problem committing. that is a child who has no concept of feeling loved. the most basic human instinct is missing from her life.
i needed help. i didn't know how to ask for it. i was a kid. i was a kid in a bad home, and whenever i thought things couldn't get worse there - they almost always did.
and the ways i showed that - the ways i tried to deal with that - they made others dismiss me. i wasn't suffering prettily. after all, if i was really in trouble, why wouldn't i just march into the first counselor's office and ask someone to help me? i had the opportunities, right? what did i think would happen, exactly? that someone would finally stand up and do something? who even wants that kind of responsibility?
i heard connection-seeking for the first time about three months ago. my therapist mentioned it when we were talking about my history. it rang some kind of horrible bell, deep inside me. i don't know what she said in the rest of her sentence. i just started... crying.
"oh no", i said to her. "i think i just realized: i have no idea how to forgive them for minimizing the ways i was hurting."
how many other kids, though. how many other kids were out there drowning, snatching around for a lifevest, some kind of rope - how many were straight-up ignored.
how many of those kids aren't gonna get old.
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lunarxcity · 2 years
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learning how to cook or bake might just be one of the hardest but most rewarding skills there is.
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gentlebeardsbarngrill · 5 months
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Can someone please just gush with me over this gif for a moment?
The little almost embarrassed push that Taika does here, and then he and Rhys’ faces? It’s so playful and cute, and their little skips as they go back to marks. They just work so well together and I can’t stop smiling at it.
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 9 months
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Los Chicos Peleandoooooo
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fuzzysocksstuff · 1 year
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mikaikaika · 4 months
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They slayyy
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mermaidstede · 7 months
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If I could just make an observation... Do you think you talk so much because you don't wanna know how to sit with yourself?
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