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pymanderprosthetics · 6 months

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#pymander #non binary #ftm products #ftm prosthesis #transmasc #ftmpacker #transgender #ftm packer #female to male #ftm #FTM GUIDE #ftm underwear #ftm jockstrap #gay ftm men #trans men #gay trans men #bottom surgery

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uncanny-tranny · 10 months

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Quick tip: If a trans passing guide is focused on thinness, whiteness, or getting rid of anything about yourself that is "too clockable" (regardless of if that thing about yourself makes you happy), maybe it isn't worth fretting about, since it is clearly coming from a homogenized idea of what passing looks like

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #dysphoria tw #for me it's a red flag when those guides assume you're thin and white or at least strive to be/be like that #(coming from a thin white person who was like that pre/post transition)#like for me i also don't like when people almost blame trans people when they don't pass or like... they've Failed Being Trans #i'm begging young trans people to not be swept up in the idea that passing is being thin and white and pretty #and that if you're fat/not white/not conventionally attractive you might as well admit you've Failed at Being Trans #because all that is a load of shit #while trans people owe NOBODY passing you also aren't prevented from passing because you aren't the 'cookie-cutter' expectation

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queerlyraging · 4 months

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i have recently been able to start using trans tape as a substitute to binders for binding (my ribs are CHEERING) and i've realized that as many tips and guides i've seen about using binders, i haven't seen nearly as much when it comes to using tape. as a newbie to the whole trans tape thing, i want to ask people who have been doing it longer.... what are your best tips and tricks or general advice when it comes to using trans tape?

#transgender #lgbt #transmasc #ftm #nonbinary #queer #trans #trans tape tips #you can comment tag or reblog with ur advice idc im going to be compiling it anyways somehow as a little guide

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goodpvppy · 2 months

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being told when and when not to touch myself by my owner has really been making me into an even more desperate puppy than normal 😵‍💫 i used to touch myself to sleep and now i have to wait for him for days and the second he says anything i am panting and whining, practically drooling at his knees and he loves every second of it

#hornyposting #pet pl4y #ftm nsft #mlm kink #mlm nsft #mlm puppy #p3t play #pet pl@y #dumb puppy #puppy sub #bd/sm pet #breeding pet #petpl4y #nsft puppy #ftm puppy #bd/sm puppy #puppy barks #he’s working right now but im home alone and i wish i could be riding my big toy but he’s not here to guide me and whines whines

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emotboyswag · 2 months

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The bittersweet nature of "passing" as a trans person

I have no regrets in my transition except this one thing which i find it hard to express bcs i dont wanna sound ungrateful for being a passing trans person.

my disclaimer to this post is: it is hard to be a non passing trans person and non passing trans people are far more vulnerable than passing trans people. Also passing is not every trans persons goal. Although it is one of my goals in my transition im not saying "i have it now i regret it" im just gonna say kinda like. a sadder side to passing.

pre T i would say i passed like 60% of the time to cis ppl and when i wasnt seen as a dude theyd always either ask my pronouns or like ask my gender (i live in a pretty liberal place). i was quite rarely out and out just misgendered like maybe 5% of the time in the basically 7 years i lived as a pre T trans person (not including ppl who misgendered me on purpose) but i was sooo clocky to trans people like i am a v socially awkward guy but i found it easy to make trans friends when i met trans people irl when i was pre T bcs they mostly knew and we kinda were drawn together.

Im now a year and 8 months on T and i love passing i pass genuinely 100% of the time even when im not binding (and i have a larger chest that im very dysphoric about) and i have a cis passing voice. I often have a lot of like. not imposter syndrome about it but i have bad dysphoria and often assume im not gonna pass when i do or assume i look more like a girl than i do. Also im 5'3 and have kinda long hair (not long but i used to have it super short and now its a bit longer) but im just seen as a cis guy. so like i am not pretending i dont love passing it makes my life soo much easier and lessened my dysphoria.

What i will say is i miss the immediate kinship of meeting another trans person or being in the same room as another trans person and both knowing ur trans or becoming friends bcs ur trans or automatically having someone to pair up w in a group of strangers bcs u both know ur trans. Also on nights out i miss meeting new ppl and just talking to each other about being trans bcs we automatically recognise each other. like i miss the solidarity u feel as a trans person when u seen another one rather than trans ppl assuming im cis and me actively making an effort to mention im trans around new trans ppl. also i miss that trans ppl used to feel automatically safe around me whereas now i know bcs im perceived as a cis man sometimes they feel on edge. idk its just bittersweet i think <3

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non-un-topo · 6 months

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Thoughts at the bar this Friday. I also started reading Pageboy, and although it sometimes hits close to home, it's giving me some good gender-affirming feelings. Elliot Page and I have a roughly 2-inch height difference.

#siggy draws #meself #i may be 5'2 but around my friends i am still 'dad'. and although being the sober one this friday was boring and isolating at times -#- it also allowed me to protect my friends and my partner. to look out for them and get them water.#to hold my partner's glasses while they moshed. to hook my friends' arms under mine and guide them away from traffic.#i had a gastroscopy in the morning so my throat and stomach were pretty sore and i couldn't sing or talk much. couldn't drink or smoke.#so i was just this sort of sweet little quiet guy and my partner and friends kept swarming me with kisses and words of affection.#''as an experiment'' i'd asked them all to refer to me as he/him for the night and they hugged me so tightly #and it didn't feel weird #my clothes are still too big. my face is still too feminine. i'm the size of a middle-schooler. but around them i'm 'dad' and 'dude'#thinking of hitting up a clothing swap because i can't afford new clothes or shoes. i'm also looking into some ftm-specific support groups #transgender #gender euphoria #genderfluid #honestly idek #trans butch maybe? i love my children (friends) but i will kill them for forever saying i'm a twink

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yourdoll--yours · 7 months

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I need someone to guide me how to touch myself properly, to tell me how I should do it and where I should do it. Which places to tease which places to just give in. To feel it all. What noises to make.

#just treat me as if I'm absolutely stupid and guide me through it please.#subposting #ftm sub #trans sub

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17yearcicada · 6 months

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glad to know this is a universal experience

#this is from a guide on ftm crossdressing/trans men from i think the 80s?#lots of interesting history in it. but this part made me laugh #.txt

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urpuppybro · 2 days

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do any older trans men want a very inexperienced 20 year old who’s very pliable ….

#ftm nsft #fauxcest #ftm puppy #t4t cnc #t4t nsft #please dm me #ftm dom #need an older guy to guide me so bad

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citrine-elephant · 3 months

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i hate doing my t injections, but god it's so fuckin worth it

see; idk if i poked a tendon or just freaked out but i tensed up momentarily after it went in and my leg involuntarily kicked-

#tw needles #hrt stuff #transmasc #ftm #reminds me when i got a rabies shot and the lady poked me a certain way that made my leg kick #accident cuz of where the bite was #it didn't hurt until i tensed (today's shot)#i might ask about different options of doing my t #it's stressful each time im about to do it but it goes quick so #i always get worried about air bubbles or hitting a vein or #it is okay please don't let my posts freak you out!#do research + look at guides #it puts me at ease to know where those veins and shit are #and that tiny bubbles aren't a problem #you need more than that to have problems please don't worry <3 #knowledge lessens anxiety #my problem is mostly fear of pain

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talisidekick · 1 year

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Why Signs Showing Safe Binding for Children/Teens Is A Good Thing

Yes, this is going to stir some TERF's, gender criticals, rad-fems, and other transphobes into a bit of a frothing and angry mess, but good, because it needs to be said.

First off, no one is trying to tell your cisgender kid to bind. Signs that give steps for careful binding for under age teens or children just entering puberty aren't for cisgender kids.

What they are is informational posters for transgender and questioning kids that do bind and may be looking at binding products without a lot of information because of a lack of social support from their family or community. To re-state: No-one wants to encourage your cisgender kid to try binding.

Ideally, the solution that is the best is puberty blockers until the child or teenager has had time to consider how they feel about life. Puberty blockers are harmless, and allow any person on them to either pursue HRT at a later date (when they can sufficiently make an informed decision themself, or get approval earlier after lengthy psychological evaluation), or resume natural puberty later on in life. Whichever the individual lands on. Base point of this paragraph: easy access to transgender medical care via informed consent is necessary and the best solution, not bureaucratic hoops.

However, since many countries, and parts of other countries have decided the high rate of suicide amongst transgender and queer kids is an acceptable loss for the 'protection of cisgender children' in a situation (or situations) where cisgender children have never been at any sizeable risk, many transgender children and adults will take up the practice of binding. Why? Because they've been given no other option either by family, society, or due to a financial barrier.

So back to: why are these signs good? Because it means those binding who are unaware of the long term effects of it can be informed ideally bind a little more safely in a situation where it's their only option to be themselves. It's not propaganda for cisgender children or adults to be turned or fooled into being transgender, but rather to stop trans children and adults from causing extreme long term damage to themselves. Ideally, the best solution is to eliminate the need to bind at all; by providing sufficient medical care for a documented issue with literally decades of study behind it, and a satisfaction rate (99%~) higher than that of knee surgery (85%~); a practice that despite the amount of surgery's performed that end up leaving dissatisfaction in the resulting situation of the patient, no one seems to have a single issue about.

But I can already hear the argument coming of "what about those cisgender few that DO end up thinking they're transgender but aren't, that would bind or try transitioning?" And I'll give you three answers to that:

What about the transgender adults and children that commit suicide when sufficient medical and social care isn't provided? Are their lives worth less?

This also isn't a question that actually supports NOT having transgender care or information on it publicly available, but one that supports having more knowledge and psychological study being done on transgender care, the overlap of other medical conditions, and the easy access and publication of that information for the education of children and adults. Why? So adults, parents, and their children can understand more about transition and transgender peoples situation and make informed decisions with the aid of well trained and knowledgeable medical professionals who are supportive in helping the child make the right decision for them.

The number of cisgender folk that do unfortunately get lead to believe they are transgender and attempt transition is exceptionally small, and can be further reduced with the accurate publication and easy access to education on transition, transgender experiences, and possibly overlapping medical conditions as discussed in answer two (2) above. This doesn't mean stricter psychological requirements, but rather, more easily obtainable factual public information.

The end point to this: binding posters help transgender kids and adults reduce the level of harm to themselves in situations where the ideal options aren't available to them/have been deliberately removed to harm them.

If you are against these kinds of posters, that means you're for the deliberate harm of transgender and queer children and adults, not the protection of cisgender people.

You're just out to cause harm, and if you dislike that fact, perhaps consider what you could be doing instead to HELP without harming other people in the process.

Every person on earth is capable of good, but the line between doing good by causing evil for others, and doing good for all is a thin one. Make sure you're on the right side of it. Always double check. Transgender people need help being themselves, and ideally if we can eliminate any chance of cisgender folk thinking they too might be transgender, that's the goal. But one should never be at the cost of anothers life. Cisgender people aren't 'first' and transgender 'second', we're equal, we're all just people. Denying transgender people the care they need causes deaths. Lets all do better. Let us make sure transgender adults can live long productive lives in society as their true selves, and transgender children can make it past graduation.

Bind safely. The signs are there to help.

#suicide mention #tw suicide #trans #transgender #ftm #transmasculine #transmasc #trans positivity #2slgbtqia+#lgbtqia+#lgbtq+#lgbt+#binding #safe binding #protect trans kids #trans lives matter #trans rights are human rights #if you have a better binding guide please link it in the comments #queer

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goodpvppy · 2 months

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let me worship your very core; your skin, your bones, the words that leave your beautiful lips, the heart that brings me warmth, the way the world is reflected in your beautiful eyes… let me worship you as you are. bring you pleasure and make you lose sight of everything except of the now for this moment.

#puppy barks #hornyposting #body worship #praise k!nk #ftm nsft #mlm kink #mlm nsft #let me love you as you deserve.#if you cry then i will kiss those away. if you fall mute then let me kiss the words into you. if you lose sight then let me guide you.#if you fall let me carry you. if you stumble let me hold you. if you smile let me smile with you.

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ahalliance · 1 year

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stanford university had a gender clinic/transgender research and health program from the 70s onwards . stanford is in california . hills valley is in california . doc brown has ties to caltech and no doubt other californian universities . marty mcfly is a trans . do you see my vision here

#i need to fucking. go to bed #i swear i didn’t spend the past five hours researching trans history just for the fic brain to switch on #but the info is in my brain now . i shall use it how i please i guess #the first ‘guide to being ftm’ came out in 1985 so doc buys marty it for Christmas #my vision is fucking flawless #jay rambles #bfu.txt

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needydarls · 4 months

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I just want someone to tell me of how much of a whore and slut I am. degrade and humiliate me while you guide me to touch myself. Thinking about that makes me so ughhh