Not being negative but how certain are we that Natalia is not the couch buck has been searching for since the premiere that Oliver says he will realize what his couch is in the finale.
Hey Nonnie
There are a lot of reasons why we know Natalia isn't the right couch.
To start with, the show has very carefully been connecting the Diaz boys to the couch metaphor right from the start of the season (its a metaphor that actually goes back all the way to season 2 but I'm focusing on this season) Chris is the one to make the comment about Bucks lack of couch - the whole scene revolves around it - the not having something, the wanting to pick the right one for himself.
Then there is the couch he ends up with - its not one he's picked for himself - its one his mother has picked for him. the connection of this new couch to his parents is important - we get several pointed remarks about Buck being a miracle or being born to save others from Margaret. But we also see this new couch is uncomfortable and Buck doesn't fit on it - its not the right couch. This couch is Natalia - she describes him as a miracle and that was deliberate - it links her to the couch through using the same words as Margaret. Not only that but Buck didn't pick Natalia himself - she asked him out - the show has been emphasising Bucks need to choose not be chosen so here we have another moment when Buck isn't the one making the choice - further linking Natalia to the couch metaphor. The new couch might look the part in his loft, but its superficial - the reality is it's uncomfortable and it's too small. Natalia might look good on paper, but in reality its not right - uncomfortable and small can be exchanged out with awkward and ill fitting or even narrow minded by this i mean she doesn't know buck beyond that surface level - and its likely she never really will - because she is fascinated by his cheating death rather than him as an actual person - her mind is narrowed in on that one thing about him.
Then we have the Diaz's couch - the one Buck is comfortable on, the one he fell asleep on in milliseconds. The show has been very loud about ensuring the Diaz couch is part of the metaphor - they continued it on in 6x15 with Chris fast asleep on the couch in a similar position to Buck and with a gap on either side of him - a space for Eddie and an empty space on the other side where Buck fell asleep a couple of episodes prior. they made sure to have Eddie enter the room in a similar way - the camera angles etc were the same - the path Eddie trod was the same - his retreat to the kitchen - the same.
Its also important to note that Oliver actually said that he Couch metaphor would play out until Bucks final scenes rather than him realising what his couch is. its an important distinction to make because while I fully expect it to play out that we see Buck over at the Diaz house and on that couch again, we don't have the full context and we don't know that that means Buck knows fully that the Diaz couch is actually the couch he wants. It might be just as much about him acknoweldging that is current couch isn't what he wants, getting rid of it and taking the Diaz boys to help him pick a new couch and we'll see all ofthem sitting on that one at the end of the season- in Bucks loft - the only place we've seen the Buckley-Diaz's all together this season.
Because while the Diaz couch might be the final destination for Buck, there is no evidence to say that is exactly where we will end up at the end of this season. Buck choosing to buy himself a new couch (with Eddie) is in some ways a more meaningful metaphor for him. Oliver has talked about Buck needing his partner to meet him where he is at and Buck and Eddie aren't going to jump straight in to moving in with each other when they do get together. Showing us Buck getting to choose a new couch with the Diaz boys says much more about him being met where he is at than Buck ending up on their couch ever could because Buck isn't really ready for that and he isn't going to be by the end of the season. Plus in my own personal view the idea of Buck getting to bring his couch with him when he and the Diaz boys do move in together - them having two couches is much more interesting and meaningful as a symbol of them growing and accommodating each other and a symbol of their combined sitting room being more a space to share with others - to welcome guests - than either of them currently have.
I hope this answers your question Nonnie - the couch metaphor is one of my favourites and it really has so many different potential final outcomes for this season so I may be way off base with where we end up with Buck and his couch but I just don't see the show speed running this last bit when they've spent so much time and care getting Buddie to where they are. Remember it has taken Eddie over a season to get to where he is in acknowledging his feelings (even if not verbally) and Bucks trauma lies deeper than even Eddies - different in nature and I think Buck will make huge steps fairly quickly once he can actually get properly started, but he's been stalling at the moment. The show wouldn't give the depth it has to Eddie without giving Buck a similar level of care - I'm not saying its going to take another season to get them together, just that its not going to happen in the 3 episodes we have left in season 6. Season 7 has always been my timeline and I'm still confident in that being the case!
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The couch issue.
When Christopher mentions the missing couch Buck goes on a small self discovery spiral and learns that maybe, a leap of faith is the best next step.
Buck hadn't even realized that it was weird not to have a couch until Christopher told him and let's be honest it is weird. What kind of person doesn't have a couch? Someone who just got out of their parents house, Buck 1.0 didn't have a couch- sure the house he lived in with seven others had a couch. And after his roomate era, there was Abbys couch that first he and then Maddie crashed on but it was never his own couch. And after Abby there was Ali and her couch and then Taylor with her own couch, the only one who took it with her when she left.
So Chris pointing out he had no couch did sting, not because it meant he was failing as an adult but maybe because his couch was always attached to someone, people who left. When he told Maddie she called him delusional. Either way Buck really needed to get his shit together.
"Hen."
"Buck."
Buck walked inside sitting down on Hen's brown couch.
"What's going on Buck?"
"I need to get a new couch." He tried to sound serious not desperate, which he isn't.
"Okay and you need me because?"
"Because I don't know where to find one."
Hen looked at him, just looked and Buck felt like he was Butt naked on Hen's couch.
"Buck, obviously there is more to the couch issue, unless you want to open up to me, I will give you the address to the nearest IKEA."
Buck can't help the laugh that escapes him. Hen might be right, it's not about couches, and choosing the right one. Maybe it's about girlfriends who all came with couches and took up so much space in his life or left him behind haunting their relationship. So yeah maybe this was about his next girlfriend and not a couch.
"So?"
"I don't want to screw up my next relationship like I did with Taylor and Ali and Abby."
Hen sighs getting out if the arm chair and grabbing getting them so tea.
"So you don't. Trying to force another relationship doesn't work. Like Eddie and Ana."
"I guess but I don't want to be alone anymore."
"Well maybe thats what you need right now, to be alone. I was alone a long time before I met Eva and then Karen. It took a few tries to get where I am, you will get there too."
Buck hummed taking another sip of his green tea -which was supposed to be relaxing- sibking furher into Hens couch.
"Buck for the love of god, stop thinking So loudly." Chim tapping his shoulder, "What is on your mind."
"I am tired of being single," Buck whined, drawing out the I, "It's like the universe just stopped working. Like it's neither shouting nor whispering just quiet." He sighed against the beige colored pillow.
"There are only couples around me. And also I need a new couch."
Chim sat down next to him pushing Bucks legs from the couch.
"You still don't have a couch? It's been 4 months."
"Hen said the couch is a metaphor for a new partner."
"Yeah right and karaoke is a metaphor for love."
"For you and Maddie it is."
"Shut up."
Athena looked at him with a certain glow in her eyes, Buck didn't want to be dramatic, but this was a crucial meet up.
"Buckaroo, I'm happy to see you, how have you been? Heard that you don't have couch." She put down their coffee mugs, Buck sinking further into the armchair. "I am really at a loss here 'Thena."
Buck sighed, "I want to start a new relationship but I'm not sure if it's, the right time and worth the risk."
"Well, if you are sure, about the person than whats stopping you. I wasn't sure with Bobby and look at us now. We're happy and going strong. Sure it was work and some days it still is but the good outweighs the bad. And a leap of faith is often what we need."
Buck looked at her, and after her words he was really going to take the leap.
"Thanks Athena. Enough about me hows May?"
Buck smiled, his new couch just arrived and Eddie was on his way with Chris, dinner then movies and a few rounds of Mario Kart. Just the weekend he needs. The door opened and the familiar click of crutches echoed through his loft.
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like yes yes eddie needs to choose and buck needs to be chosen but also
Eddie needs to get over the very big trauma of losing his wife. Last time he dated someone he had literal panic attacks at the thought of her being mistaken for Chris’s mother and as much as we saw him work through in therapy we never?? really?? talked?? about?? that?? So, yeah, Eddie needs to realize that he’s at a point where he’s ready to risk his heart and give love a second chance
(and maybe realize he already did becase there already is a partner in his life who gets consistently confused for Chris’s guardian and it feels natural to him?? but he still needs to realize he’s ready for love)
And Buck needs to be ready to be in a relationship where he’s loved for who he is, where he doesn’t bend and twist to fit someone else’s expectations. And for that Buck needed to die, and needed to come back, and now he needs to process that trauma and steady himself.
(and Buck loves so quickly, so openly, so loudly, and he gives so much of himself and he wants to be loved that way, and maybe he’ll realize that he already?? is?? loved?? but he needs to let himself accept it)
so basically, it’s not only a matter of choice... eddie needs to be ready to love and buck needs to accept that he is loved if they are ever going to find each other properly together
and that, my funny little friends, is the point of their arcs were we are at right now
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