Don't Throw Good Money After Bad: Why Leaving Can Be The Best Investment

The familiar adage, “Don’t throw good money after bad,” often transcends its financial origins, it extends to our emotional, mental, and spiritual investments too. It offers a simple yet profound lesson that applies to various aspects of life. It particularly resonates when contemplating the decision to remain in a controlling and toxic environment. In this context, the wisdom behind this saying…

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Your Vote Does Count!

I’m not an overly political person. I like to keep up on current events and know what is going on, but I tend to stay away from heated debates and partisan discussions. Instead, I prefer to focus on understanding the underlying issues, researching different perspectives, and making informed decisions based on facts and my own values. I believe that being informed about politics and current…

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The Power Of Taking Responsibly For Yourself

Few things frustrate me more than encountering people who refuse to take accountability for their actions, even when they are clearly in the wrong. In today’s society, it seems all too common for people to shift blame onto others or external factors rather than owning up to their mistakes. Through personal experience, I’ve come to realize the significance of accepting responsibility for myself…

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You Cannot Heal In The Same Toxic Environment That Made You Sick: Ten Tips To Go From Merely Surviving To Thriving

Five years ago, I was drowning in a toxic environment that suffocated my mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. The negativity and toxicity were like chains, binding me to a life of self-inflicted misery. I felt trapped and out of control! I wanted to feel better, but nothing I was doing seemed to help. I reached a breaking point and that is when I knew it was time to make a life changing…

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Assertive Kindness

In a world where kindness is often misconstrued as self-sacrifice and accommodating behavior, the importance of setting boundaries and standing up for oneself cannot be overstated. At times, societal expectations or the fear of disappointing others may tempt us to compromise our own well-being and values. However, learning to assertively define our boundaries is an essential act of self-respect…

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What Is Behind the Façade?

I few years ago I came across a quote by Ann Voskamp that truly made me pause and reflect: “Façade only end up suffocating us all, it’s only telling the truth that lets you breathe.” This quote reminds me of a verse from the Bible, John 8:32, which states, “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” This post is one of the ones I mentioned I began writing years ago, and it…

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For God Hath Not Given Us the Spirit of Fear, But The Church Definitely Has (Part 2)

If you haven’t read The Spirit of Fear Part One, please click HERE to start reading there first. Once you have read that you can come back and read Part Two. Exploring the intricate layers of fear, its origins, and its impact in a religious context required delving into both personal experiences and the communal dynamics of the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church and the community I was…

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For God Hath Not Given Us the Spirit of Fear, But The Church Definitely Has

As my time talking about my experience being part of a high-control religious group is winding down, I feel as if I have discussed many topics that have been important to my personal growth. The remaining few are the most challenging and time-consuming to articulate. The Spirit of Fear within the the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church is a topic has taken significant introspection and…

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Happy New Year 2024

As we approach the end of the year, there’s a natural sense of anticipation and excitement that comes with the prospect of a fresh start. New Year’s embodies the idea of turning a page, offering us the chance to reflect on the past and look forward to the future with optimism. It’s a time when we set new goals, make plans, and envision the possibilities that lie ahead. The excitement of new…

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Merry Christmas 2023

Sending you the merriest Christmas wishes, wrapped in love and sprinkled with joy! May your holidays be filled with the laughter, coziness, cherished traditions, and the beauty of the season. Cheers to a wonderful Christmas and a bright, happy New Year! Merry Christmas! 🎄🌟

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"My Way or the Highway!" Unchecked Authority: Lack of Pastoral Oversight For "The Man of God"

Over coffee, I recently caught up with a close friend who is still actively involved in the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) church I used to be a part of. Since I’m no longer a member, we typically avoid discussing church matters, but during our coffee outing she shared some details about things happening at the church. Despite no longer attending, yet having been a member for the majority…

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Happy Thanksgiving!

During this season of gratitude, I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt thanks for the incredible people in my life! I have so much to be thankful for! As we gather with loved ones to celebrate Thanksgiving, I am reminded of the importance of connection and the blessings that come with it.May your Thanksgiving be filled with warmth, laughter, and the simple joys that make life truly…

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Thanksgiving Sweet Potato Casserole

Every year, I look forward to Thanksgiving dinner, and it’s not just about the turkey or mashed potatoes. Even though the pies and desserts are a treat, what I eagerly look forward to eating the most is this amazing Sweet Potato Casserole! Its irresistible flavor makes Thanksgiving truly memorable. I’ve mentioned this before, but as it continues to be my top pick, I can’t resist sharing this…

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Discover the Power of Savings with Rakuten! Literally Getting Paid to Shop Online!

Stop letting your money slip through your fingers while shopping online. Rakuten is your ticket to an upgraded shopping experience. Don't miss out on the opportunity to turn your everyday purchases into extraordinary savings.

Getting Paid to Shop Online! Before Black Friday and Cyber Monday, I want to take a quick break from my usual content to tell you about a simple way to make xtra money shopping for the things that you already plan to purchase, Rakuten . **This is NOT a sponsored post. Rakuten has no idea that I am writing this.  I just love to share good deals with all of you! **This post contains referral…

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Fundamentally Enmeshed Family

For the last several months I have been talking about my experience growing up in the Independent Fundamentalists Baptist (IFB) Movement. Since leaving the IFB, I have challenged myself to learn, grow, and change. I have learned so much about myself and the world around me. I still have a long way to go, but I value the progress I’ve made. I don’t plan to continuously write about this topic…

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The Poison of Passive Aggression

The passive aggression is something I strongly dislike and strive to distance myself from. I’ve always believed in open and honest communication, and passive aggression goes against that principle. Passive aggression is like a toxic cloud that slowly seeps into relationships and interactions, causing confusion, tension, and resentment. It’s a way of expressing dissatisfaction or anger…

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