tisthegender
Gender? I hardly know her
genderfluid aroace, she/him. This was initially a blog to figure out my gender, but I've got that all discovered now.
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Here's how genderfluid goes:
1. Feel masc and finally buy a binder "just to try it. Still cis tho ✌️"
2. Start to doubt if you're actually genderfluid.
3. Binder gets here on the most fem day you've had all week.
4. Uhhhhh
5. Oh wait this is actually pretty nice.
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This exactly. And allowing things to change but still be respected, and not invalidating any prior identities, would make exploration and coming out far simpler because it'd be more like (and while I understand that this is wildly different) changing what style you wear to see what best suits you. It doesn't have to and sometimes won't change, but it still can, and that doesn't mean that you DIDN'T have that style at one point, it just means you don't have that style now.
I think the place we've gone wrong in society is when change became something to be ashamed of.
Why fight for rights by saying we are 'born this way' or 'like that forever'?
We deserve to live, and it shouldn't matter if gender is learned because it doesn't change that gender identity should be respected.
it shouldn't matter if sexuality is born from trauma, or is innate for a person, it's okay anyways.
we are the way we are, regardless of how we came to be.
If we don't start trying to change the mindset of truth being unchanging and stone solid, then every time we have to fight for rights, we're gonna have to repeat same shit.
Like that we're not changing the world but instead cutting ourselves to fit the societys mold of acceptable.
Trying to make ourselves marketable.
Our world shouldn't be a place where identity is valid only when it can be priced and sold.
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My gender ranges from Sarah Connor from Terminator 2 to some uwu soft boy who tries to be more manly than he actually is.
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YES
My favorite response to "what gender are you?" Is "eh, kinda."
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Got called all of the main 3 pronouns today. The usual she/her, got "they" from a lady at work who's been starting to use more gender neutral language since an enby started working in her department, and a friend accidentally called me "he."
(None of these people know that I go by anything more than she/her muahaha)
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So apparently, this is a stream in the Netherlands. I am so happy Wikipedia led me here :). It's a gender fluid!
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I should probably add that there is something very badass and powerful about being yourself. Being yourself despite society's norms, being yourself even if it does fall under what people expect you to be, being yourself anywhere in between. Confidence in who you are (obviously as long as it's not hurting anyone or yourself) is the most badass thing you can be.
Me (woman): I'm so cool and badass. Such a tomboy but still very much a woman who can embrace both femininity and masculinity without it diminishing me being a girl!!
Me (agender/demiboy): wait but--how am I supposed to be a stereotype-breaking girlboss if I'm not a girl!?
#badassery has no gender#but I still definitely get this. Being a badass woman feels so powerful#but there's also something powerful about being genderqueer#because like. You're already defying the tropes you were given#gender#lgbtqia#genderfluid#genderflux#trans#lgbt#agender#doesn't mean you're not badass if you're closeted. y'all are just as valid
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My favorite response to "what gender are you?" Is "eh, kinda."
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Me (woman): I'm so cool and badass. Such a tomboy but still very much a woman who can embrace both femininity and masculinity without it diminishing me being a girl!!
Me (agender/demiboy): wait but--how am I supposed to be a stereotype-breaking girlboss if I'm not a girl!?
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Heyyyy I came out to my mom as genderfluid!!! Her reaction: "mhm. Well, we'll support you no matter what you are. You do you. " I kinda downplayed it and said that I'm basically good as is (as a girl), and I knew that I'd get support from anyone in my family anyway, but still, that was a very chill reaction. She's still fairly anti-label and says that people should just live how they want without labels, which is fair, but hey, supportive parents :D
#gender#genderfluid#lgbtqia#genderflux#trans#lgbt#coming out#queer#i already came out as ace like 2 years ago with no issue#so idk why i was crazy nervous to come out this time
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[ * this funny comment I found in a trans meme comp ]
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Me, waiting for a good time to come out as agender:
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the struggle of loving having boobs but wanting a flat chest at the same time
#binding for the vibes#ive gotta keep reminding my boobs that i still appreciate them but they're not going with the outfit as well as flat does#I like them but sometimes flat chest is just an aesthetic
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Ah yes, the classic "Wow, I've been thinking I could be genderfluid/flux for over a year and identifying with it in phases? Must be a phase, definitely cis and not just identifying with my agab for a day or two right now."
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Me: okay! I'm gonna make a slideshow to come out since this might be more confusing to my parents than me being ace. I'm definitely confident in this, so it'll be ~easy~
The Slideshow: So I don't want to make a big deal out of this, but-- you know, slideshow. Essentially, my gender changes a little sometimes. It's not too dramatic or anything!! I just, uh, nevermind.
Me: Well then... maybe I'll fix that in editing.
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Or the far more realistic response: "uhhh, uh, well, for sexuality it's 'no,' and for gender it's 'kinda'"
Person: *asks about my gender and sexuality*
Me: oh boy here we go *pulls a comically large whiteboard out of my nonexistent pocket because woman jeans* sit down, lemme explain.
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Person: *asks about my gender and sexuality*
Me: oh boy here we go *pulls a comically large whiteboard out of my nonexistent pocket because woman jeans* sit down, lemme explain.
#gender#lgbtqia#genderfluid#genderflux#trans#aroace#asexual#aro#aromantic asexual#this didn't actually happen#lgbt#girlflux
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