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#dan and phil#daniel howell#amazingphil#phil lester#extra points for dnp tag hehe#my edits#We Are In A Relationship#5:00#dystopia daily#dd 8
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*shows you art of me and Jason Todd together because I love him so much (I’m delusional thinking I’d even have a chance with him)*
I wish to love him every day and night, I want to be there for him and hold him…RAHHHH
To note, I haven’t drawn in like a couple weeks because I haven’t had the motivation. But I’m happy with how this is turning out.
(Also if anyone wants to rp with me, me using my OC and you being a DC character…talk to me. I’m like, deprived of people into DC comics and shit bro. Only if you’re 18+ though, alright? Lmao)
#i am so down bad#i need him#jason todd#dc comics#dcu#dc universe#me x Jason Todd#red hood#batman#i love Jason Todd#Jason Todd x me#red hood x me#self insert#we are in a relationship#I’m delusional#literate roleplay#roleplay#oc roleplay#i love writing#art#self insert art#digital art#my art#my artwork
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If you think it is impossible for dan and phil to be in a queerplatonic relationship, please take some time to learn about what a qpr actually is (or just unfollow me).
Things to know:
you don't need to be aro or ace (or on either spectrum) to be in a qpr
anyone can be in a qpr regardless of gender, sexuality, or orientation
a qpr is defined by whoever is in it
Liking/enjoying sex or romance is not the same thing as feeling that type of attraction (ace people can have sex, aro people can be in romantic relationships)
Actions are not inherently romantic. They can be interpreted as such depending on the relationship between people, but ultimately, the romantic aspect of an action is due to a person's interpretation or intentions
Amatonormativity is the assumption that everybody prospers in an exclusive romantic relationship.
To undo amatonormativity, you've got to understand that no type of relationship is superior to another. Romance is not "more" than friendship, unless defined as such by an individual.
Queerplatonic is whatever the fuck you want it to be. Sex, marriage, kids, living together, none of those, some of those, all of those, whatever. Depends on the people. It is the "do whatever you want forever" option. Romantic relationships can be like this, but the idea is that they come with societal norms that we are expected to follow — qprs, until amatonormativity is uncommon, are an escape from that.
The fact that you might not want a queerplatonic relationship does not mean no one else does. That's like saying you don't want to be in a heterosexual relationship, so how could anyone else want one?
On the topic of Dan and Phil specifically:
I am not claiming to know if they are or aren't in xyz kind of relationship. That's the whole point
One of the main messages of "We are in a relationship" is that you don't know everything, even if you do truly know a lot.
You cannot know something about someone's relationship until they tell you, just as you cannot know someone's sexuality or gender until they come out to you.
Again, I am not suggesting that they are in either a qpr or a romantic relationship. I am clarifying that we do not know for sure. We can be 99% sure (I personally would not have that kind of confidence in my knowledge of strangers' relationships lol), but you can never know til they tell you.
Even then, they could be lying or leaving out parts of the truth (rightfully so). You don't have the right to that information, which I'm sure most of us agree on
Them respectively liking sex does not mean they fuck. Honestly, it's none of our business what they do, but there are other ways to have sex than with the person you're living with. Arrangements can be made. Again, they very well could. Not really our business though
The "hints" that DnP may be dropping could be real. They could be exactly what a lot of people think they are. It could also be DnP fucking with you, they could also just... not be hints. They're just people. They aren't characters being written for your consumption. The thing about hints is that they aren't explicit and therefore could be misleading, especially when so many people want hints (confirmation bias)
The whole point is!!!!!! we don't know!!!!!! it's fine to think they're cute and ship them but to pretend to know them well enough is crossing a line. Write your fanfic, make your fanart, but please stop pushing the idea onto other people that you either Know they're fucking + in a romantic relationship or you're just an idiot. 'Cause the world is not that simple, there are not just two answers. You're hurting aspec people with some of the rhetoric you use, so let's try to unlearn some stuff
Final disclaimer: if DnP ever come out and clarify that they are in a romantic relationship, spill all the beans, etc then that's cool, whatever! But I won't claim to have "known" that information before they gave it to me, just like I never claimed to have "known" someone was gay before they came out. It's disrespectful
#dan and phil#daniel howell#phil lester#amazingphil#phan#dnp#queerplatonic#qpr#queerplatonic relationship#qpp#alterous attraction#we are in a relationship#some of you watched ''we are in a relationship'' and said ''wow yeah the way we acted in 2012 was bad. we couldn't possibly do anything#wrong now though''
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it feels like getting a heartrate that high just from seeing a video title should be considered exercise, maybe dan and phil are good for my health lmao
better than cardio!
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“i finally feel like we’re in a position of refreshing honesty, acceptance, respect (mostly) and just vibing, just some immaculate vibes tbh. all it took was for everyone to get six years older and mortified of their past, half the population realising they were queer the whole time and thousands of pounds of therapy, oh well we got here!!”
“there is a difference between being honest with what you tell people and whether you tell people everything, you can have boundaries and integrity. somehow i feel like that ‘dan and phil finally tell the truth’ somehow got there, very extremely at the same time.”
this part of the video in particular is gonna live in my mind for a long time, i just love him so much
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idk abt u but i rly appreciate my parasocial relationship w daniel howell
shoutout to him
#daniel howell#danisnotonfire#danisnotonfire gif#banana gif#gif#emo#remembering dans emo era#danisnotemo#emo aesthetic#not to be parasocial#parasocial relationships#healthy parasocial relationships#we are in a relationship#dystopia daily
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forgot to like a dan howell dystopia daily vid I really liked abt parasocial relationships bc I saw in the corner of the screen a vid thumbnail in all caps saying WE GOT PUPPIES with little fluffy babies and I immediately squealed like a 12yr old like omg puppies!! and clicked it. just want y'all to know if there aren't actually puppies in this vid I will be devastated. YouTube clickbait has given me trust issues lol (<- serious)
#dan howell#dystopia daily#we are in a relationship#i think thats the vid name#we got puppies vid#2mins in no puppies yet will udpate soon#posts only i car abt lol
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Characters dynamic that’s like “ they’re not in a romantic relationship but they definitely love each other with all their heart and fucking soul”
#the dynamic we love#i breathe this shit#yes the is qpr#looking at you sonadow#aroace#aromantic#asexual#ace spec#aro spec#aromantic spectrum#asexual spectrum#qpr#queerplatonic relationship#qpr things#character dynamics
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Sunny day
#one piece#monkey d luffy#brook#brook one piece#soul king brook#luffy#sun god nika#gear 5 luffy#gear 5#we need more appreciation of luffys relationship with brook
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She accidentally called her teacher “mom” again 😔
#my art#fanart#strawberridraws#the owl house#toh#the owl house fanart#toh fanart#amity blight#lilith clawthorne#toh s3e3#I love love love them sm#mentor student relationship I wish we got more of ‼️
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words, Daniel (affectionate)
#daniel howell#danielhowell#dystopia daily#my edits#We Are In A Relationship#6:48#dd 8#striped shirt and text over it is a pain to one's eyes
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in internet posts it is easy to cut them out of your life. they are hurting you! they aren't listening to you!
they held your hair back. they lent you lipstick. they held your hand at the train station and got you home safe. they rounded on your bully, got loud, said get fucked, spitting-mad in your defense.
they also cut the hair off again. told you that you should really think twice before wearing something like that. took you for granted. took your insecurities and threw them in your face again.
you know logically it should be easy. all the internet advice comments always read it will feel better. like an equation - if a person is rotten, you just remove them. you pull the tooth that's hurting.
but it was never a big flare-up moment. you don't live in a sitcom. they never tried to take your boyfriend or steal from your apartment. they showed up to birthdays and they wrote songs about you and bring you water without you asking. once you found out they carry an emergency inhaler for you, even though you haven't had an asthma attack in years - just in case.
where is the line? people fuck up. sometimes they fuck up badly. sometimes people have raw personalities, like a powerline, and being around them is dangerous. addicting. sometimes they can't help themselves, but you know they're trying. sometimes they are just rough-around-the-edges. sometimes they don't even realize how they sounded when they said that. sometimes it's just - you've both loved each other for so long now, the way this thing hurts goes back to the root.
and that's the fucked up part. you have pushed your fingers against the sweetheart of memory. things these days are electric, tense, harrowing. they didn't used to be. there were a lot of good days in there. sometimes you want to just close your eyes and say can this be over yet? do we still need to be fighting?
doing that would give up any chance you get of getting an apology, but you don't always know that you need an apology, you love them. once they flaked on your birthday party. once they told you to get over it, people are always dying. they also let you crash on their couch for a week after the breakup, handfeeding you when you were so sad you couldn't eat. they are also judgmental about everything, occasionally react to banal statements with an attitude that is weird and fiery. they also love you like a lighthouse sometimes, so strong they cut the storm like lightning.
but the problem is that you might be storm. you might be the thing that needs breaking. what if you are two forces who are desperately, horribly drawn to each other, shaped by the other person's passions, and both good for each other and bad in equal measure.
what if you're both just people, and you're no saint neither.
just cut them off! swallowing the saltwater, you catch yourself in the mirror. you've been shaking more than usual. there's an ache in you that is oblique, loud, impossible to soothe. is this what it looks like? when life is "easier"?
your mouth will always have a hole, is the thing, if you remove the tooth.
#spilled ink#warm up#writeblr#this is about someone specific but feel free to blorbo on main.#tbh this is familial for me so that is an element but it's also about childhood best friends#and probably about ur enemies to lovers blorbo#(but i want to specifically say if ur partner is like this. not necessarily a good partnership lol.)#(the dynamics at play in familial/friend relationships feel equally important and in some ways are HARDER to escape.#bc we can see that this is a potentially toxic romantic foundation.#but in family ? ...... it's toxic and it doesn't stop u from loving them. bc u always have.#and i think that makes it harder. by a lot. which is what this is referencing).#but genuinely and really truly forever feel free to tag ur potentially toxic enemies to lovers on this and all my poetry#here i'll do one for u - adora & catra :x
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Everything out of this girl's mouth is gold
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same love starting my day with a heartrate if 160
good to know we're alive because our hearts are trying to beat their way out of our chests
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1. that man is my parasocial bestie always and forever he literally saved my life and i may have only spoken to him for 40 seconds but we’re irls now /j
2. hearing him talk about/reference all the shit this fandom put him (and phil) through makes me feel things, i’m so glad he’s at a point where he can joke about it/about their relationship and to hear him say he feels that he has a (mostly) healthy relationship with the fans now .. yeah i love this man
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hey guys do the allos know that they can have qprs too? like do they know that being alloromantic doesn't mean they can't choose to be in a qpr anyway? because qprs aren't "romance-lite" for aros, they're an entirely separate kind of relationship that anyone can have. you can do this with fictional characters too. you can put characters that aren't aroace or are even canonically dating in qprs with each other just because you think that would be a cool way to play with their dynamic. it's actually very cool and you totally should.
#i don't think they know this guys#we should tell them#milo talks sometimes#aromantic#arospec#aroace#alloromantic#qpr pride#qpr positivity#qpr stuff#qpr#queerplatonic#queer community#queer#alterous relationship#alterous attraction
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