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cowardstiel · 10 months
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i think it should be mandatory that everyone watch The Social Dilemma at least once every six months
#dear everyone saying that tumblr doesn't have an algorithm: yes it does oh my GOD.#i see people say this so often irt twitter and reddit migration#just because tumblr has a different feed system to facebook/inta/twitter doesn't mean the only things you see are exactly what you want#free of influence or coercion#simplest example is tumblr suggesting users and tags for u to follow. what do you think is informing its suggestions?#how does it know which blogs are similar? it's not by fucking chance#please i know we all clown on what a mess this website is and how poorly it delivers ads but let's not forget that that's a choice they mak#if tumblr wanted to deliver ads in the way other social media sites do they could. but it's part of the image they've created for themselve#hence why they feel they can offer a paid subscription to remove ads that has an off switch so u can still see their weird crazy zany ads#because they know how much we love to clown on their shit ads. they know users will screenshot and share ads if they're weird enough#and they want you to. they're not so incompetent that they can't get us classy ads lol. this is their brand. let's not forget that!#anyway this is all triggered by me sending someone (hi bunni <3) a post of misha collin's sfx make up in gotham knights that popped up as a#recommended post despite me never having watched it or searched for it etc. what triggered that post appearing was me searching/tagging spn#a couple times recently. and of course misha collins and spn are frequently cross tagged. anyway since then i have been bombarded with that#godforsaken show constantly on my dash#sorry to gotham knights enjoyers i get the appeal and i am a dc simp but it's just not for me ig#if u read all this i love u im kissing you sloppystyle and or giving u a firm and warm handshake and or a friendly nod like we're walking#past each other on a beautiful day <3#my post
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quietblissxx · 2 years
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chaddicus · 6 months
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one negative to tumblr only having following & mutuals, & not tumblr friends, is bc it doesn't work to make a post about something something tumblr foes. and facebook isn't ready for that joke :/
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nanabrainrot · 9 months
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Perversion, Immersion [Pervert!Roman Roy]
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Roman Roy discovers the magic of deepfakes, filtering through more and more images of you. He’s lucky you’re an entertainer at heart.
Warning! This piece is NSFW! It contains a dominating female reader and a perverted Roman. Dub-con due to nonconsensual use of her face in deepfake pornography. Praise kink, humiliation kink, and mixed signals.
WC: 1599
Part I | You are reading Part II | Part III
Part II
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The industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for mankind. The advancement of technology served as a grim reminder that Roman would not be increasing in his addiction and obscenity since you had found out about it: the existence of deepfakes had only exacerbated this progression in depravity. Masturbation is natural, occurring in all facets of life where self-pleasure can set off dopamine receptors; the problem in humanity is the structure of manufactured morality. Ignorance is bliss reigns true but the lingering feeling of adrenaline as his camera roll started to become full of the public images of you.
LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, your youth had led you to being tech savvy and your beauty had led you to indulging in regularly posting pictures of yourself. Classy, but suggestive. Most photos of you were perfectly posed, half-lidded eyes and a little grin but not too big. Feeding them into the websites provided him this constant pleasure: your face projected on the porn star.
Enough angles fed made it seamless. It was no longer the porn star’s face, but yours. The mouth ajar and knit brows but the voice - the voice was too far off. It was maddening. What did you sound like moaning? Not that he would likely ever be able to get that comical assembly of moans and grunts that were restricted to the world of porn for the sake of theatrics. And everyday the collection grows, the number of porn stars with a body like yours are not in short supply. The amateur videos really add to the authenticity of it as he downloads it to his phone, sending the file in his emails before trying to delete the evidence. Or not. You really didn’t seem give a damn that he was basically fantasizing about you.
You don’t seem bothered now too.
“What’re you staring at like that for?”
His skin goes cold, pores erupting into goosebumps and hairs standing on end. No fear, just adrenaline.
It’s you.
Your face edited with that stupid website. Face covered in a load of cum as you looked up at the camera with lips wrapped around the bulbous tip of a dick. Silence.
Quiet. Stillness.
Until the first noise rips out of you: a real authentic snorting laugh. You stumble back with your head back - like a hyena - snorting and trying to breathe as tears well from the lack of air as you wheeze at Roman fumbling over his words and trying to rectify the frozen screen yet again. A vein pulses in his head as he starts to randomly pound buttons and mutter a string of curses at the frozen screen before you regain your composure with a grin.
“You’re a photoshop pro, Roman? Or did you master it to beat it to this pic of me?” you scoff smiling as you leaned back against the wall.
“No - just, you fuckin’ uh - this is a chick who just kind of, um - oh my god, y’know what? Fuck is your issue it’s just a pic as a joke and you literally fell for it -“
“A joke? Me sucking dick is a funny joke?” you snort, struggling to hold back a laugh as the vein pulsed in his head harder.
“Hysterical. You don’t get comedy and it’s not even you - just some uh chick who looks like you. You think you’re only chick who looks like that in the world?”
“Roman, I don’t have any nudes out there. Camera shy,” you start, drawing closer to him with little clicks of your heels, “and that ‘chick’ has the mole near my eye.”
He glances back at the screen before immediately drawing back to whip back and view your face - over and over. He looked like he’d break his neck like that.
“What? If you wanna see me suck dick you can just ask me.” His face simultaneously drains of blood and flushes all at once, dick confused if it should get hard or stay shy and soft in his trousers.
“What?”
“What do you mean what? I know you heard me,” you drawl, “do you not want me to suck it?”
“I do! I mean, uh,” he coughs leaning back to look cool and collected, “I do… but not, um, today. Y’know, I like to test the waters? I’m a verbal guy you just keep that chatting and it’ll be your dick audition. Since you’re literally craving it if you’re offering like that -“
“Then take out your dick.”
Quiet.
“I don’t uh - want you to watch me,” he choked, “talk to me, c’mon, start that dirty shit since you’re so horny like that-“
“Take out your dick. You stupid or something? Why do I need to walk you through unzipping and taking your dick out?” You rolled your eyes but seemed to oblige, walking toward the door where your phone was on a table by. Back to him, you leaned over - round ass taunting him in the tight fabric of your skirt. Garters on display.
“I’m not even gonna look at you, since you wanna be a baby about it… probably don’t wanna see your nasty dick,” you scoff and start scrolling through your phone as your knees lightly shifted weight to weight to make your ass move a bit. It’s enough to spark the little shame that he loved to make him start palming himself through the trousers.
“Tch, you stroking your dick to my ass? Good,”
Hard breaths. Harsh huffs. Fiddling with the flesh to reach orgasm at a sight. Because you couldn’t be bothered to let him touch you. Too good to be soiled by a disgusting, sorry man like himself.
“You wish you could touch me, don’t you?”
A huff.
“Yeah…”
“Don’t even fuckin’ try. You’ve been a creep,” you huff, “stuffing pics of me into some website to jack off to.” Your ass taunted him, probably fleshy under the tight pencil skirt. Untouched by him, undeserving of touching it.
“Say it. Say you’re a creep,” you scoff.
Breath hitching, the way you play him like a fiddle, has the veins of his cock throbbing and his balls tightening uncomfortably. If he came too fast, you’d laugh. If he didn’t come at all, he’s a brick with a dick. Takes too long to cum? Roman can’t cum off a pretty broad and you could scoot off and tell everyone Roman’s as close to gay as an old Rome orgy. The way you suddenly stand straight has him anxious - reeling at fast movements and change as he always had.
You turn on your heel, that stone face meeting his eyes. The statuesque positioning only serves to make him reel more internally, softening just a little at the way your face returning to its natural stoic expression; he was starting to miss that coy girlish giggle you did when you saw his screen frozen again in the grim series of misfortunes called his life.
He gets hard again as you draw closer, slow strides and the sound of your kitten heels scraping the floor as you come closer with your hands fiddling with the buttons of your professional workwear that always screamed “office minx” with the way the buttons were always a little spread and trying to free your tits from its confines.
“You’re cute. Do me a favor since I’m being so nice to a creep like you,” you coo sweetly like glazing your malicious half-hearted words in icing to make it palatable. If you’d called him a simmering piece of dog shit and stepped on his balls, he’d probably harden the same anyway.
Two pieces of clothing sit on his desk, ragdolled by gravity and no longer clinging to the owner but still reeking of your perfume. Something halfway between girlish and womanly, it has a floral note that Roman breathes in clearly from where he is now: suckling at your tit.
Your eyes closed, soft huffs of minty breath from those puffy peppermints on your desk, cooing and petting his head like a puppy. Those nails scratching at the back of his neck; it’s a gentle movement that leaves him reeling, leaves his cock twitching and balls tightening drawing closer and closer and closer -
“Good boy, good boy… not so creepy, you’re so good… you can cum, baby boy,” you coo.
The sensation is different. Used to his ejaculations being spurred by the feeling of being talked down to, when he spills to you pressing soft kisses to his hairline it feels too close to intimacy.
And intimacy was debilitating.
The spent on his hands is warm and he is naming 4 things he can touch as just: cum, cum, cum, and cum. You slip back on your bra and button-up (a tad more wrinkled than it was earlier) and the wafting scent of your perfume is contaminated by the musk of his cologne.
Your eyes are stone again and your face unchanged. Mellowed with time and that time was only seconds. The sweet sugar of your voice spills through his hands like sand and he wishes it was more solid, like a horse wanting a sugar cube after a subpar trick. You stink of him as you mutter goodnight, grabbing the bag and leaving once you had your fill, and your silhouette lost in the hallway as his office door clanks shut.
The only evidence that you were here at all is the bit of chapstick, strawberry and $3 and generic, still sticky on his hairline.
The taste of sugar depletes and his mouth feels dry. Can tomorrow come any quicker? Any quicker than him?
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THANKS FOR READINGGH FOLLOW FOR PART 3 THIS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE POSTED AT NOON ON THE DOT BUT HAD TO BE POSTED LATER BC MY WIFI BLEW OUT NO ONE GET MAD 😭
EDIT 9/9/23: PART 3 IS UP N LINKED THANK YOU MY FELLOW AMERICANS
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omniwhore · 1 year
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Ways to trick yourself to Go Outside
@thelostones-world asked about some ways to battle the AuDHD urge to stay in cave tm nd get the delicious outdoor stimulation
I decided to do a full blown post in hopes that it might help others, so here’s a few suggestions for
when you don’t wanna go out but know it would make you feel better
- ✨splish splosh water on face✨
In effort to feel less dissociated nd foggy and more in touch with your body and needs, I recommend something that helps me come back into my body - go to the bathroom and splash your face with cold/room temperature water.
Additionally you can put on a skin cream or moisturizer to further ground yourself nd reconnect with feeling physically present in your body.
This should help you feel more ready to spring into action!
- 🌤️open window sniff the air🌤️
One way to trick myself into being excited abt leaving the apartment nd going outside is to open a window and just,,, stare outside, feel the sunshine or the wind on your skin, smell the fresh air, listen to the hum nd sounds that are suddenly that much closer....
It helps me remember the good feeling of being outside and feeling so happy and stimulated and grounded. Then I just remind myself that more of this is only a couple steps away!
- 👚prepare an outfit in advance👚
Another way to trick yourself into being more amenable to leaving the house is to take time the day prior to prepare the outfit you’ll wear.
Aim for whatever you’d like to prioritize - comfort/safety, your favorite style that you want to show off, something you've been waiting for an excuse to wear, or something that reminds you of the location you want to visit.
(ie. goblincore outfit for a walk in the park, cottagecore outfit for a farmer's market, academia outfit for a library visit or a café study/art/reading session etc.)
Having an outfit already put together that you can just slip into gives your brain less opportunities to chicken out - and can help you get hyped up for whatever you're about to go do!
- 🌸gamify your outings🌸
Give yourself a mission (instead of writing down "go for a walk" in your planner, write "go on foot to {location} and back" or "walk outside for {n} minutes" or "collect 5 fallen leaves").
Boom! Now your brain won't get overwhelmed by ohmygod there’s so many things I could be doing what about we just abandon it altogether???
You have a mission to focus on. And when you're done, it's up to you whether you wanna keep going or whether you wanna head back home. For me, even a 10 or 15 min walk can make a big difference if I haven't been out for days.
- 📒plan things ahead of time📒
I always found meticulous planning vry comforting for my autistic side. It makes it significantly easier to psych myself up for something involving leaving the house if I let myself know that it's happening at least three days in advance.
Think about sitting down with a planner or a plain notebook, or your phone calendar (so handy! can include pings, map routes, and any additional info u might need to complete the mission!) and brainstorming some activities you'd like to do outdoors!
- 💚make plans with others💚
Hanging out with your friends in person if you can is a great way to make yourself show up, and is generally super good for your brain!
Idk about you, but if I told a friend I’m gonna be there at 5, I am gonna be there at god damned 5!!!
- 🎟️purchase tickets for events🎟️
Check facebook, reddit or whatever neighborhood (online) space you can come by for free or affordable events in your area!
Whether the goal is to be around people nd feel less anxious/alienated, or to just feed your brain some delicious stimulation at the museum or a pop up market, purchasing a ticket for an event can hold you more accountable to show up!
(Again recommend sitting down and planning at least 3 days ahead as to not have a meltdown abt the stress of figuring out the logistics)
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hillbillyoracle · 21 days
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The Algorithm is AI Art
Last year, I used DALL-E to create a series of images for a digital tarot card deck I was making for my personal use. When I shared some of those images here on my blog, I got a massive amount of push back and even threats in my inbox. I'm still putting my thoughts together on that experience but it did make me realize that most people don't seem to realize they're supporting the AI art they hate so much - to the tune of millions and even billions of dollars per year depending on the platform - almost everyday through the algorithms they use.
So if you genuinely hate AI art, I'm here to tell you that you've got to do what you can to get rid of and not use the algorithms in your life. That kind of support is more materially complicit with AI's intrusion on art than someone making a few images for themself ever could be.
Yes It's Possible
For many platforms, especially when they're accessed on desktop, it is possible to greatly reduce your contact with the algorithm. I use browser extensions to cut out the AI curated feeds on YouTube, Facebook, and Reddit. I mostly use Instagram on desktop to answer messages.
I generally do not use Instagram, Facebook, and other apps that do not allow users to control their feed on mobile. I know Instagram is mobile only - when I use it on mobile, I download it, upload what I want, then delete the app again.
I am considering cutting these out entirely again once this phase of my experiment for a zine I'm writing is over because honestly, they're not worth it, but that's a different post...
I also really recommend either making a separate email account or getting ruthlessly organized in your current one, so that you can sign up for artist's newsletters and other forms of human centered curation. RSS readers like Feedly can also be a good alternative.
The point here isn't perfection - the point is doing what you can. Not because it will change companies - but because it's better for you and the artists you care about.
Why?
Algorithms in these spaces determine who's work gets shown and more importantly - who gets paid enough to continue making their art.
AI has consistently been shown to reproduce and even exaggerate biases already present in society. This video by Ann Reardon of How to Cook That talks about YouTube's lack of transparency about the potential for a sexist bias in YouTube's algorithm and shows that in the top views at least, there's a clear slant toward male creators. The only woman in the top 10 does not show her face in her videos - unlike most of the men in the top 10. This discrepancy is even larger the further down the list you go.
Who gets shown is who gets paid enough to keep making their content/art. Less pay means people can afford to put out less content/art and can't scale - meaning less diversity in content/art.
What art gets shown influences what inspires new art and content to be made. You are seeing art directly shaped by AI everyday - and more than that - by continuing to click on what it serves up to you, you support it.
This AI influence on real world art has become so normalized that people consider it as natural a force of nature as wind. It's not. This was designed - and it can be redesigned.
I want to be careful not to overstate the influence of a click either - your clicking on something you choose is not a form of activism. Your clicks cannot retrain the algorithm at scale. A lot of people have the misconception that you can train "your" algorithm but what the algorithm on your feeds is doing is actually comparing your clicks to it's database of similar user profiles and their behaviors to decide what to suggest to you. Your clicks don't retrain the AI as a whole, they just match you with a different user type.
The real reason I think those concerned about AI in art need to find ways to take control of their feeds is because it ensures you're able to support a diverse array of creators through your views and it ensures that what you're taking your inspiration from isn't what the AI decides is worthy of attention.
I realize there are those who are reading this who either might not have been old enough to remember or even weren't born when YouTube basically took your Subscriptions off the front page. It used to be they would pop up at the top of the front page. Then it got knocked down on the front page. When it got shoved into it's own sidebar link and then that link progressively minimized through redesigns - there was actually an outcry about it.
People warned that this would lead to a watering down effect, where smaller channels didn't get the chance to grow like already established ones would. Creators of marginalized identities saw their views drop dramatically. Similar things happened when Facebook and Instagram fully took away a user's ability to have a chronological feed (this was possible in the early days). I know of more than a few creators who fully had to step away from their work because of the change over. I miss their art.
And then the outcry petered out. The companies didn't lose users over it so nothing changed. Eventually people got used to it and the protests went away. These companies now know they're "too big to fail" and can ignore user outcry until people acclimate the new normal that serves them. This normal serves them because it does actually increase engagement and keeps you on the platform for longer - which means less time spent on your own creative activities, yet another way they impact what art gets made.
TL;DR: if you hate AI's impact on artists and their employment opportunities, take control of your feeds. Make your own. Choose what you click. Take back your time and make more art.
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I currently have 3 Wyandotte hens purchased from the feed store 3 years ago (I think Murdoch's stocks Cackle chicks). I read that their laying rate should taper off as they age, but they haven't seemed to slow down and still lay 1 egg a day. Could this be because I live in a colder northern state and they get a longer break? I'd estimate they stop laying for about 16-20 weeks depending on the weather. Also, how can I go about finding a good breeder in my area for future birds? Your blogs has definitely got me wanting a more... humane source of chicks.
I would suggest posting that your looking for them on facebook. You can also check out the livestock conservancy and see if any the breeders that are breeding them. Wyandotte actually graduated from being endangered in 2016 so they aren't a priority anymore but you still might find some in the breeder directory. Also try looking at the breed clubs as well.
To get you started here is a fb group for wyandotte breeders you should check out
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As for the egg production the Hatchery Wyandottes I raised were very productive, even in the winter but they typically didn't lay daily as they got older I believe. Usually dual purpose breeds like them don't lay daily and really shouldn't due to their size- it puts a strain on their heart. One of the wyandottes I raised (her name was sweet pea) she died randomly one day at her home due to a heart attack. Apparently she was just walking down her coop ramp all normal then fell over dead 😱 so watch out for that.
Do keep in mind that a chicken has a finite amount of eggs in her body, so she will eventually slow down but due to being a heritage breed they tend to live longer so they will lay longer.
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Really liked your sissy ideas! Do you have some more?
i do yes.
1. Rename yourself. for sissies its always best to have a useless stripper name. something that ends with and i. something that has no meaning and is feminine. like Kiki, Chastitti, Candi, Trixi, and things like that. reinforcing that name by infusing it in your life. order things on this name when online shopping, doodle it with hearts and butterflies, just anything to reinforce your sissy name.
2. make a mantra for yourself, record it, play it while you sleep or do any work. let the mantra play on your earphones but dont pay attention to it. let it be a background voice. if coming in your own voice, it will reinforce your sissy identity. plus letting the mantra be a background noise that is constantly feeding your brain will make it stick to your subconscious. especially when asleep.
3. Makeup!! even with gender equality rising (about time it happened) up, makeup is still widely known as a feminine trait. wear lipsticks, lipgloss, a little blush. do all things seperately. at times only gloss, only lipstick, sometimes only blush. highlighters are the best. especially when you're outside the house. let people see you with makeup.
4. start modifying your hobbies and likes. start looking for heels instead of sneakers. gowns and dresses instead of suits and shirts, nail art instead of cars and bikes. disengage yourself with anything that affirms masculinity.
5. glitter! ✨✨✨ start making things glittery and sparkly in pinks and purples. nice soft pastel colours with sparkles. your laptop cover, mousepad, phone cover, some room decoration, your phone wallpaper. glitter and pink is considered extremely feminine. the shinier the better.
6. Manicures and Pedicures. nothing screams feminine as well manicured nails. sparkly nailpaints, long nails.
7. sissi porn. follow sissies on tumblr, Instagram, Facebook, youtube. watch at least one or 2 hour of sissy inspiration videos, of sissies who are living a happy feminized lives.
8. interaction. theres no point in going through this alone. find people you can talk to. sissies who are living this life 24/7, people who like sissies, like to sissify others and so on. you feel more comfortable and encouraged when you know you're not alone and when people talk about your likes positively. build more connections that affirm your sissy side.
9. pretty common but edge. the more sexually frustrated you are, the more suggestible you get. with the amount of edging posts you might see here, it might not sound as a big deal. but the constant sexual frustration keeps your mind clouded by horniness and before you know it, you're doing things you might have not done before confidently, hornily and desperately. edging works wonders to keep you sexually easy.
Please Beware That These Steps Are For Long Term And Permanent Personality Changes.
These steps heighten your sissy persona in a full time behaviour. dont do this if you're just looking for an hour of fun every once a while. only follow this if you want to be a long term sissy or a permanent sissy. follow at your own risk. these methods are all tried and tested on my slave @kikithecumdump that i sissified.
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asexualbookbird · 8 months
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i am. so tired. of this internet. i go on facebook and the first five posts are
Post From Page I Don't Follow
ad
suggested page thats pretending not to be an ad
reels from people i dont know
suggested post based on my activity
WHERE ARE FRIENDS POSTS? WHO KNOWS!
im fine with blazed posts in my tumblr feed, theyre whatever. but i hate when theyre nsfw (yes i report them every time). tumblr has been putting posts from people i follow, not in the general feed, but in the for you feed, which is also full of posts i very much do not care about
they also have a full page ad thats annoying and up until recently would just start making sound whenever i was scrolling and i couldn't turn it off
twitter had an ad every four posts and put things in my feed i didnt care about
my favorite mobile puzzle game just updated and it now has ads on the puzzle screen and two ads after every puzzle
my fucking email has ads in it
im so tired of this i want adblock for everything everywhere all at once
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genderisareligion · 2 months
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12ft.io isn't working for me if anyone knows of any other paywall removal sites but I get the morning newsletter so I got this summary:
"A door to abuse
The evidence that smartphones damage children’s mental health has continued to grow in recent years.
Feelings of loneliness and sadness began rising more than a decade ago, around the same time that smartphones and then social media became ubiquitous. The amount of time that teenagers spend socializing in person has declined on the same timeline. So has the number of hours they sleep.
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There is still much that researchers don’t understand about digital technology, and some smartphone use is clearly necessary and healthy. But the notion that smartphones are beneficial or harmless to mental health on the whole — an argument that technology executives sometimes make — looks much weaker than it once did.
Two of my colleagues, Jennifer Valentino-DeVries and Michael H. Keller, have published a new investigation into an extreme example of the problems that social media can cause for children. Their article examines Instagram accounts that parents operate for their young daughters, often in the hope of turning the girls into influencers or models. Many of these accounts have attracted a following from men who acknowledge on other platforms that they are sexually attracted to children.
As Jennifer and Michael write:
Thousands of accounts examined by The Times offer disturbing insights into how social media is reshaping childhood, especially for girls, with direct parental encouragement and involvement. Some parents are the driving force behind the sale of photos, exclusive chat sessions and even the girls’ worn leotards and cheer outfits to mostly unknown followers. The most devoted customers spend thousands of dollars nurturing the underage relationships. …
Interacting with the men opens the door to abuse. Some flatter, bully and blackmail girls and their parents to get racier and racier images. The Times monitored separate exchanges on Telegram, the messaging app, where men openly fantasize about sexually abusing the children they follow on Instagram and extol the platform for making the images so readily available.
Obviously, many parents post photos of their young children in harmless ways — so that family and friends can stay updated. But Jennifer and Michael’s article avoided focusing on these instances by examining only accounts that had at least 500 followers and posted multiple images of children in form-fitting or revealing attire.
Takeaways
Among the article’s key points:
Some children charge monthly subscriptions to their images and earn six-figure incomes.
“With the wisdom and knowledge I have now, if I could go back, I definitely wouldn’t do it,” one parent said. “I’ve been stupidly, naïvely, feeding a pack of monsters, and the regret is huge.”
The Times found men who used children’s Instagram pages to satisfy their fantasies and who exchanged information about parents considered receptive to selling “private sets” of images.
An internal study at Meta — the parent company of Facebook and Instagram, run by Mark Zuckerberg — found that 500,000 child Instagram accounts had “inappropriate” interactions every day, court records show.
Meta failed to act even after receiving multiple reports from parents of worrisome behavior. Instead, the company sometimes restricted parents who tried to block many followers. Former Meta employees described the company as overwhelmed by the problem despite having known about it for years.
A Meta spokesman disputed the suggestion that the company’s safety and security efforts were underfunded, saying that 40,000 employees worked on them. He also said that Meta reported more suspected child abuse imagery to the authorities each year than any other company.
“The Bible says, ‘The wealth of the wicked is laid up for the righteous,’” said the owner of a small clothing company who features young influencers in his online marketing. “So sometimes you got to use the things of this world to get you to where you need to be, as long as it’s not harming anybody.”
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the9mm · 2 months
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The Ever-Increasing Hostility of Social Media to Artists
Originally posted on my blog!
Have you noticed? There’s a chill in the air. With rising systems in place like “AI art” and image generation that seems to be creating a hostile environment for artists on the internet, as well as social media platforms that prioritize and reward creating “content” to game algorithms and have your posts be seen by the very people who have already chosen to follow you, there’s also a rising sense of hostility in general towards artists.
What do I mean? There is seldom a week that passes where I am doing my best to work with what’s available to me, and I am treated poorly by other users, or even moderators/administrators of social media circles. How many times have you posted something and heard the following?
“Pay for your ad!”
“#ad”
“This is just an ad.”
“Self-promotion is not allowed here.”
“Advertising is not allowed here.”
“You can’t mention that you made this/you sell it/it’s available to buy. You can’t include links back to any of your social media accounts or your website. You should not even have your username in your watermark.”
No credit, only content!!
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Original comic by @cupcakelogic
I find this absolutely wild. Social media, built on the backs of artists – now turned “content creators” because people only stop to look at works you’ve spent hours making for mere seconds – has turned into such an impossible minefield of where you can’t hope to make any sort of headway in your efforts to grow your following or find new clients/buyers for your works. Social media as a whole, including groups, subs, etc will take your works, of course, as long as you never mention anything offsite, anything that could indicate that the work could be used for anything except a three second dopamine hit as people scroll their mindless feeds. You must constantly and consistently be playing a game of cutting your own marketing efforts off at the knees (or gaming the system and toeing the line for getting your links back out there) for the barest of scraps when they do come.
A post goes most viral on Imgur after posting consistently for months, or possibly even years? Well, you’ve only got about 24 hours to make the most of it. Edit your post and drop a link to where someone could support you. And then watch the comments roll in about how it’s an ad, and how you shouldn’t be doing that. A post gets upvoted a bunch on Reddit and lots of commenters are asking where they can support you? Sorry, against the rules to say it. You’ll get banned if you mention at all where people can send money for your cool thing.
Want to add a link to your crowdfunding campaign, Patreon, shop, or something else on one of the big social medias like Facebook/Instagram? Better make sure you turn it into a Zodiac killer-esque puzzle when you mention it by name that your followers then have to decode in order to find out where to support you easily, because if you post a link to anything outside of that social network – sometimes even just any link at all – you’ve guaranteed no one will see your post.
Censoring everything
On top of all of these hoops, there’s also the hoop of censorship. If the automated moderators at Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, or Bluesky decide there’s a penis in your artwork, well guess what. There’s a penis in it. Somewhere! The algorithm says so. Banned, banned for life. People have had posts taken down, been shadow banned, and even been suspended for posting things that are not even vaguely sexually suggestive in any manner and appealing or getting reinstated can be extremely difficult, time consuming, and sometimes outright impossible.
But that doesn’t even begin to even broach the topic of the way art is being systematically nice-ified for an audience it’s probably not ever going to reach: “what if my child sees this?”
Nipples (mostly just female), genitals, buttocks, and even too-much skin are swiftly slapped with filter labels (if the social media platform is generous) and hidden from view, or immediately taken down, despite the fact that every single human owns these body parts. What if my child sees this? Well, you should probably explain to them that other humans have butts too instead of forcing people to censor asscracks with smiley faces and stickers.
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Moving the goalposts
I recently watched a friend battle with moderators on Reddit. She had been posting her artwork there for years. Her artwork also includes other artist’s work in the final piece, and she always credits those pieces as any good artist should. Well, a subreddit said no, she cannot mention those people and give due credit, as that’s advertising/promotion (to them). She asked if she could put their name on the watermark to give them credit, and was told no. To continue posting without giving credit to the other people responsible for parts of your work would obviously not be right or ideal, but what choice has she been given? New moderators/administrators come in and change their minds on a whim about when and where credit can be posted. The moderators/admins of this subreddit simply answered “no” and gave no other alternatives. How helpful is that?
A special place in hell
Even worse are the people who slice off artist’s signatures and watermarks, then share/repost the work without the artist’s credit (and do not tag or credit the artist in any way in any other form). If there’s a hell, I hope people who do this land directly in it. Right beside the people who simply must share an artwork, but can’t take the five seconds to TinEye or reverse Google Image Search it, and simply say “credit to the artist!” While we’re at it, people who think crediting an artist in the comments of a post because it looks “cleaner” or whatever reason they have can also get on the express hell elevator too (if you don’t know, comments don’t follow along with shares, so the credit being there is meaningless).
Oh, and make sure your stuff doesn’t look too professional, because if it does, it’s no longer artwork – it’s merch. And anything mentioning merch is now advertising. I have consistently discovered that by “downgrading” the presentation of my works (such as photoshopping them onto less-than-ideal photos where I’m holding it in hand, or it’s amidst a mess, something like that) I can reliably garner more likes, more comments, more shares, more upvotes, more engagement. The less polished I make it, even though I need those polished works for my website or my shop, the better it performs, because if it’s too nice looking, it’s merch, and an artist shouldn’t be making merch.
What’s next?
So what do we do here? Social media wants our art. Social media needs our art. Visual platforms like Instagram and TikTok were built on all of our hard work, propagating it with cool and interesting things constantly and consistently. Take away all of the interesting things, and what’s left on social media? Nothing. Nothing but “AI art” vomit and screenshots from Bluesky, Twitter, and Tumblr extorting people way funnier than us, that is.
For myself, I have begun starving the social media machine. I know it’s not good for growth, or connecting with new people, or whatever, but I’ve done my time in the trenches trying to chase after the newest trend, latest thing, and pleasing the capitalist social media overlords. I’ve tried to be the jester in the Meta court, and I know plenty of other artist friends who are doing the same. Why expend effort when there’s no reward? There’s not even any clicks anymore.
Many artist friends are going back to in-person events to bolster their audience instead of trying to capture a sliver of attention on a mobile phone or computer, and honestly I’m right there beside them. This year is the first year I’ve considered starting to purchase items for a professional table set up and trialing it at some smaller, local events. I’ve also been sending a lot of applications for zines, group art shows, and other projects, as well as preparing for another crowdfunding campaign at the end of March amongst over a hundred other artists. Social media just isn’t cutting it anymore.
I am having a nice time on Bluesky and Mastodon, though. Well, until someone comes in and slathers either of them in ads, I’m sure. But for now, I guess I’ll enjoy as much of it as I can. Good things never last. Let the enshittification begin.
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thebibliosphere · 2 years
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Hey, Joy. I'm reaching out to you as sort of a longshot. If you don't have spoons to reply, or don't see this soon, I completely understand. I have a doctor's appointment in about 3 hrs 40mins (I will really understand if you don't see this or reply before then) and a friend posted a thing on Facebook today listing a variety of symptoms of POTS. I feel like I experience many of the symptoms listed. So, my question: Do you have suggestions on how I can bring this up with my primary care physician in a way that won't be instantly dismissed?
Hey! I hope I managed to see and reply to this in time.
My suggestion would be to show them the article and say you recognized a lot of symptoms in yourself and you'd like to be evaluated for POTS. This is usually done with a referral to cardiology or neurology. You could also try spoon-feeding them symptoms to see if they come to the conclusion yourself, it really depends on how approachable your doctor is.
I'd also phrase it as "I've been struggling with this for a while and have tried changing my diet and lifestyle, but it hasn't gotten better and I'd like to investigate further so I can get back to [insert productive phrase here]." A lot of doctors are more likely to help if you frame seeking a diagnosis as a means of getting back to work. Fucked up, I know, but that's the ableism built into the system.
If your doctor is not open to this kind of self-advocacy and refuses to refer you to either cardio or neuro, I would let them know you want it noted in your file why they are refusing to acknowledge your concerns and sign their name beside it so you can refer to it when you seek a second opinion. That usually makes them change their mind real quick. If they're shitty about it, that's your cue to start looking for another doctor. Easier said than done I know, but sometimes necessary.
Good luck! I hope you find the answers you need and the help.
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ichtios · 5 months
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One thing I started to really hate about facebook is that in my feed appeared more and more "suggested something". And when it was some memes groups and posts were sometimes funny it wasn't that bad. But when it started to fill my feed with posts of some people I don't know and I'm not interested in... like wtf. Meta sucks so much.
I still need to use facebook pages though, because of my business. But it doesn't require harmfull scrolling.
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jolliestlolli · 3 months
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If you've ever asked yourself why I'm such an unhinged nutcase, just keep in mind I was birthed and raised by the same woman who:
>Has unironically said that the Jews are kidnapping kids and feeding them to us via McDonalds burgers
>Believes wholeheartedly that she just casually had a heart attack while we were out at karaoke one night and she managed to reverse it with pressure points
>That very same night suggested that she just go wait in the car by herself while I do my karaoke
>Has screamed "FUCK YOU" at her small children more than once
>Kicked me out of her car for talking smack and then proceeded to hunt me down in that same car after I tried walking myself home
>Believes Autism can be cured with scalp acupuncture points
>Thinks I'm the crazy one for saying that's utter horseshit
>Posted a pic of me crying on Facebook after I was upset my favorite karaoke night got cancelled that week, and in the post was asking people to donate money to her because "Nothing makes a girl smile like cold hard cash!"
>Doesn't understand why I think she's off her fucking rocker after all of the shit above that I just described
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dunne-ias · 7 months
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Look the thing about facebook, is that I shouldn't have to hide stuff like Twilight shitposting or all the US right wing politics group that are just full of idiots.
Like, I haven't done anything to suggest I would enjoy it and it just DOES not belong on my feed.
Tumblr, this is why I come here. Because I don't want some algorithm trying to figure out what I want. I already know what I want. I followed the people who post about it, and then I followed some specific tags. Never change. Just don't.
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