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#tw lowkey transphobia ?
0ffbeatqueer · 5 months
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I'm too lazy to retype everything
But basically my parents sat me down and informed me that they knew I was taking T and that I can't do that while under their roof and if I were to continue, they would stop all financial support (me living in their house, me going to my private school). Even if I stop taking T (which I kind of have to now that they literally came into my room sometime today and TOOK it - aside from a bottle i had stashed in a different place that contains about 2 doses but no new needles so idk what to do with that), if I don't "start acting like part of the family", they'll require rent.
I don't feel okay to stay here but I have no where to go and I'm just not doing well idk
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oathtorn · 7 months
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// I think Minthara would be blinking slowly at confirmation that you can have no gender. Or all of them. Of just a few. Or a changing one. Like she's genuinely intrigued by a concept she didn't think existed in her own culture.
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spilled-ink-n-blood · 8 months
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cw: yet another trans + dysphoria rant nothing new
i always feel bad for preferring trans men over cis men. sometimes i feel like i’m fetishizing other trans people (which i feel can be a thing) but it’s not even that. i don’t even want them for sexual pleasure (although i wouldn’t mind it at all) i just simply find myself being pulled to them more than cis men.
i feel like as trans people we should be allowed to sexualize our own trans bodies and view trans people as sexy. we sadly will never escape the fetishism of chasers. i will say we should be careful because i feel like we could fall into something like that, but it’s a little different ya know what i mean? every trans person feels different about their body so i really don’t speak for everyone. but i really shouldn’t feel bad for being romantically attracted to and sexually attracted to transmen as a fellow transman. when i’m with cis men it just feels like something is off or something is missing which led me to having sexuality crisis number 192737282728272782277227.
i don’t know what it is but cis men just don’t do it for me genuinely, i know there are good cis men out there y’all are just hard to find. i’m not sure if any other trans person feels this way, i personally do. i’m not the only person who’s had bad experiences with cis men close friends of mine had. again, for lack of better words, i hate how this is an experience that “AFAB” people have had. it genuinely feels invalidating to my identity and it causes me a lot of dysphoria.
(i mean idk CAN trans people fetishize other trans people? i’d actually like to hear from other trans people if that is a thing bc if it is i’ll stop myself from doing something like that however i will always prefer t4t)
EDIT: also, i would like to point out that t4t does have it ups and downs. i have had a mediocre experience having sex with another trans dude. so like we shouldn’t put trans people on a pedestal just like we shouldn’t put queers on a pedestal bc we are not a monolith.
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friendlyfaded · 2 years
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My dad: going on about how being trans is a mental illness
Me, trans:
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bonschai · 2 years
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why do i have to be in such a wildly terfy country I'm going to kmsssssss
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jaytoons7 · 1 year
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Time to ramble about Martin Strickland, AKA the bastard man!
Oddly enough, I actually have a lot of ideas for him. He's scum, But he's very fun to write for!
TWs: Abuse (Both psychological and physical), Transphobia, Sexism, Murder, Mentions of a car crash This man might as well be a walking content warning
General Info:
The Stricklands weren't always evil rich bastards. Martin's grandparents moved to the US from Ireland, Made a fortune, And got corrupted by capitalism. It stuck for future generations.
His parents were definitely not good people either. Martin just took that shittiness to the next level as he grew up.
He's cishet.
He's both transphobic and lowkey sexist.
The Past:
He went to college to study business. There he met two people, Aria Meadows and Jayden Foxglove (Jay's birth parent. Note: He used he/him and she/her pronouns).
The three became an odd friend group, Although it definitely felt like Martin was third wheeling Aria and Jayden's friendship.
Years went by and the three grew distant once college ended. Martin inherited both his family's wealth and manor. He eventually got married with only the idea of having future heirs in mind.
Once his youngest child was a year old, News went around about a pendant with unnatural abilities. He was determined to get his hands on it.
What he didn't expect was for Aria to already be there. She was on a mission to get the pendant as well. But she also learned about the Strickland's greedy desires and Martin's willingness to keep that family greed alive. She would not let someone with that much darkness in his heart get his hands on this power.
That's when Martin no longer saw Aria as an old friend, But as a threat to his power. So he killed her, Effectively destroying any good he had left in him.
Out of nowhere, Jayden suddenly attacked him. She wasn't a Music Dragon like Aria, But he went with her on this mission due to being friends with her. Out of pure grief and rage, Jayden left the scars on Martin's face.
Martin did manage to get the pendant, But left in a weakened state. Shortly after that, Jayden mysteriously disappeared, With her child being found by James and Hollie Benson.
Family and Business:
Martin had three biological children (Lynnette, Marianne, and Scottie), All AFAB. But he wanted a man and only a man to inherit his wealth. So he took in Benz Rodriguez (Belongs to @capturecharlesau).
Benz was considered the favorite child out of the four. Scottie on the other hand was considered the "black sheep" of the family.
Scottie could not keep up with Martin's impossible standards. While his abuse towards them started out verbal and emotional when they were a kid, They quickly became more physical as Scottie became a teenager once he learned they were nonbinary.
While Martin mostly used his ring hand, He also used wooden rulers when he was feeling extra ruthless...
Speaking of ruthless, He did many morally bankrupt things to keep his wealth growing, As well as to keep people quiet. Blackmail, Extortion, Even murder. Nothing was too low for him.
He likely talked to people like Vivian Arc (Belongs to @bluetorchsky) and Mr. Allwork (Belongs to @capturecharlesau) at least a few times because rich people business and all that.
Once Scottie was 17, They finally had enough of the abuse and ran away from home. Benz left shortly after to create his own path separate from his father.
Martin's Fate:
During the events of Shifted Timeline, Scottie tells Hazel Juniper about the Stricklands to avoid her writing about the Toppats. This was enough to cause an investigation.
Martin's horrid acts were exposed and he was ruined. His wife divorced him, Not because she was any better, But because she only married him for his wealth and she didn't want to get involved in his scandal.
Lynnette and Marianne also left home to go find both Benz and Scottie.
Martin was left with nobody and everybody now knew what he did. The last time he was seen, Was when he was found dead in his crashed car. After investigation, It was revealed that his brakes were cut. It was not an accident...
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peterfankoffski · 1 year
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excuses
More trans Pete because I can. Lowkey a vent but. Eh.
TW: implied transphobia, implied emotional abuse, use of queer as a slur
Surely they weren’t being actively malicious. Surely his parents didn’t mean him when they’d talk about “those queers” silently, as though the existence of anyone not a cisgender heterosexual was a dirty thing he didn’t need to ask about. And when he’d cut his hair or dress as boyishly as he wanted, surely they didn’t look at him and sincerely think, “oh, yes, the tomboy phase, this will be outgrown eventually.”
And maybe when his mom had been more open to change, if not even only slightly, that hadn’t been the tipping point for why his parents always seemed to argue about him and what would be best. And maybe she did give a fuck, she was awful at showing it, but at least she’d been the least bit respectful when Pete tried to come out. The first time.
Maybe they weren’t trying to ignore the truth. Maybe they just needed Pete to explain himself a few times, how their only daughter simply never was, and their younger son was so desperate to be seen, if they’d give him that chance.
And maybe, just maybe, when they’d always promise that love was unconditional, they meant it, and if he explained it all again, they’d fully accept him, and he wouldn’t have to hold his breath and feel nauseous every time the topic seemed to appear on the news.
Maybe they weren’t entirely entitled and ignorant. Maybe his parents would listen and learn and understand eventually.
…oh, who was he kidding?
They’d barely have him any looks in forever, and when they did it was never the kind of acknowledgment he wanted. He didn’t have to put up with this.
Eighth grade was going to begin in two months, and hey, new year, new him, right? He could give something new, something he knew would be better and secretly wanted for years, a try.
Pete picked up his phone and stared at his contacts list as he took a deep breath. He exhaled, and clicked on the name he needed. The phone rang twice, and then the other line picked up.
“Hey, Pete. Didja need something?”
“Hi, Ted,” Pete said. “I was wondering…if it’s not too much trouble, do you think I could move in with you?”
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skylilac · 3 years
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diversity win! some kid at school i dont know anything about said enby rights
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a saga:
after posting a few photos i took wearing merch i got for christmas, i got this reply, which made me a bit uncomfy, if only because i have never talked to this person before in my life
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[image id: a tweet from @/ThirstyLoL2 sent in reply to @/octopus_defence and @/GeminiTayMC reading: “cute” with an emoji of a smiling face surrounded by hearts]
i sent it to a few friends, all who i would be okay with giving me this kind of response (many of whom had said similar things when i sent said photos, even) just to kinda verify if i was overreacting or not. everyone (bar pancake, who was readying pitchforks already lmao) agreed that it was weird and not great, but overall innocuous and probably harmless.
out of curiosity and boredom, i ended up scrolling through this guy’s twitter, mainly to see if i could figure out how they found my post. they had 6 tweets/replies, and by scrolling back to their earliest post (circa november this year) i saw this gem:
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[image id: a tweet from @/ThirstyLoL2 in reply to other users reading: “Emery’s I agree the game is trash but you have a trans flag so stfu mkay lmao”]
their only earlier faults had been that they were creepy and a fortnite player (the latter not even too bad), but this was... not good. for reference, I am a nonbinary individual who also identifies more broadly as trans.
all this to say that—despite the best wishes of my rational friends (and on the encouragement of my more excitable ones)—i replied.
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[image id: a tweet from @/octopus_defence quote retweeting the tweet in the first image in this post with a screenshot of the second image in this post and the caption “buddy, idk if you know this, but I just so happen to be trans as hell <3″]
tweet here <3
anyways pls support your blogger on twitter, i just thought it was funny how this idiot really came in and showed themself to be a fool.
(reblogs ok!!)
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thinking about a tuc au where there's no magic or anything and nod is pete's actual little sibling and once he moves away he takes nod with him because he saw how his parents reacted to his coming out and doesnt trust them with his little sibling coming out as nb SO they move to nyc together and get picked up like strays by alejandro and by extension everyone else associated with the dream team and everyone is just one big happy family
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t4tails · 3 years
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terf followers get beat with the fucking rat stick if the first post i see on your blog is about how ridiculous trans people are YOU GO TO THE THE FUCKING BASEMENT!!
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dooodle-bug · 3 years
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"Whats the point,my sibling could be dead for all I know they were the only poeple that loved me I have to family no money no nothin so whats hte point in living. After I die i'll be just be re-born a new a fresh clean slate to start with no one with ight exsepctations,no more trans and bi phobic parents..well I better get going Jean, by the way my names Caedon and If or when you meet my sibling tell them I found a way home to give some sort of hope even if it's a lie." he then tiped over
(what it's just an ordinary- OH MY GOODNESS/j Also I'm just gonna assume that the "he" at the end was you)
He fumbled before hoisting them back up and onto the balcony as he stared at them in shock and fear. What was he supposed to do? Why didn't they just let them go, it would've be easier anyways. Guilt gnawed at them from the inside out. "Look, kid- uh- Caedon," he diverted gazes despite knowing they couldn't see his eyes, "Sorry. That kinda stuff hurts. I-I mean I can't say I feel you EXACTLY, but man I bet that really hurts." They squatted down on their knees to reach eye level. "But you can't do that. You don't KNOW if they're dead or not, and if they aren't, then you just ruined THEIR lives. And y'know, it's not that hard to clean your own slate right now. I mean, after all this streamer stuff, I'm gonna-" he refrained from speaking of his plans before jerking his head and continuing, this time more emotionally, "And I can't say I don't feel for you. I-I mean my superiors already hate me for literally EVERYTHING I do, and then they put all these expectations for me and make me do all this stupid stuff, like, I THOUGHT you hated me so WHY are you-!" They paused again, sighing deeply before switching subjects. "You get the point. What I'm saying is you can't do that to yourself. It's gonna hurt more than help."
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mayonaise-mmm · 3 years
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Pov: youre me listening to my dad tell me genderfluid people are a ridiculous concept and gay kids dont deserve unicorn cupcakes
Pov part 2: you were gonna come out to him but cant risk not getting any more unicorn cupcakes (real, theyre my second favorite) (had nothing to do with the reason he said that but)
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aight so this is a lil bit of a personal one so. if you don’t wanna hear me bein sentimental,, you can skip this one lmao
so y’all know how i’m ftm trans,, i’ve been out for about a year and a half. i’ve got four living grandparents. one pair are southern church pastors/lowkey cult leaders, the other pair are missionaries (which,, yikes on all accounts.)
the southern pair are extremely home of phobic. like, conversion camp, beat-it-out-of-them homophobic. my family hasn’t been in contact with them for about four years.
the other pair are trying their very best. they’re very religious, but they’re trying to learn. i was never close to them since they were off being missionaries on a different continent (once more. yikes.)
so you can imagine how absolutely wrecked i was when i got a card in the mail for them that had No gendered words on it At All. the other pair always sign off “to our granddaughter <3<3 god loves you”,, but Missionary Grandparents avoided that entirely. and like. it’s not a lot?? but i’m -this- close to crying. they’re doin their best and i love them for it
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cuddlycryptid · 4 years
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im so scared my aunt found me on snapchat even tho it’s under “Wren” and not my deadname?? my family CANNOT know my name or that im trans???! i turned off the option to people add you from contacts, HOW did she FIND me??
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