I was calmly watching Fleabag when all of a sudden August's stepfather jumped out of nowhere. I screamed so hard 😅
I can't forget about YR. Not now. I get it, universe.
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Gamer we found with my mom today!! He is now at the vet he is very small!! Gremlin looking man!!!
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no, sorry, I wasn't paying attention. I was busy thinking about the middle-aged dad I saw at the store with a "no one knows I'm bisexual" shirt, and the trans woman with her small child, and the several pairs of old butch women, and the numerous straight-passing couples where one or both have pride pins, and the man who bought trans pride wine, and the really friendly fem black man, and the groups of gnc teens, and the sapphic disabled couple, and the millennial couples whose kids wear "love is love" shirts, and the 50+ year old trans people, and how they're all going about their lives and going on a normal, boring grocery run.
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I'm playing Morrowind now! It was on sale so I got it and slammed some mods on so it's more stable. Gave it a bit of a facelift too (literally, better heads mod xD) and now I am very slowly exploring the land of bugs and fungi!
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please tell us more about your cute dogs!
Resisting the urge to dump the entire photo album on my phone as the answer, so I'll show some restraint. But the two of them are Tater Tot (the larger dark brown one) and Pancake (the smaller light brown one).
Tater Tot (with too many potato related nicknames like Potato, Tato, Taters, Potato Tot, etc.) is the older, somewhat grumpy good boy. He loves to sleep in if allowed (hint: he can't now because of a certain puppy that is an early bird) and his favorite game is chasing a laser pointer or flashlight. Also he's a complete and utter slut for popcorn or a french fry.
Pancake is baby 💞 I do not how to fully express it because she is absolute baby. Snuggle bug and a bit scared of everything, but will bark at it don't you worry. The day isn't complete according to her unless she gets to nap on me for a few hours. She TALKS. Grumbles, grunts, woofs, however you want to put it, she carries on conversations with you. About once a day Alex or I will look at her and exclaim "How are you so cute!" Because, again, she baby with a big personality.
Thank you for the ask 💖 They are my precious numbskulls and I love them dearly. Definitely keep me sane.
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its crazy bc plenty of bi women I really relate to and feel like our experiences overlap vastly more than they differ but an equal amount of bi women's experiences are just very different to mine and we barely have anything more in common than I do with straight women and there's nothing wrong with that idk at what point insecure people decided to use lesbians as a yardstick for validity and if we don't pretend to relate to you, you accuse us of gatekeeping or something despite us being the smaller group. I have limited experiences in common with straight women or gay men or trans men too, but I still want them to thrive and especially to be in relationships where they're treated with respect.
there's no reason to forcibly conflate them and I feel like not only does it always fuel infighting by confining everyone in a small space and forcing them to get along, but it always leads to deciding someone isn't a Real bi woman and doesn't really experience whatever attraction they say they do because they're like annoying or unrelatable or unsympathetic to an audience of lesbians and other bi women. but we already recognised that trying to draw a line on who is enough to count and who isn't is a bad idea. wouldn't it be more productive to recognise the inherent diversity in the bi label that represents a spectrum of identities rather than a monolith. I genuinely think there's so much confusion bc we can't get our heads around the fact that one bi woman might relate more to a lesbian than to another bi woman or vice versa.
it's like weirdly essentialist to imagine that simply experiencing attraction to another woman or to a man in your head in any capacity would fundamentally alter your position in the world. we kind of get this with bi men because there are bi men who exist mostly in the straight world, bi men who largely inhabit the gay community, who move through both, who create their own bisexual circles, etc. but for some reason when it comes to bi women our collective imaginations can only come up with a quirky tradwife or basically just a lesbian. and you expect bi women and lesbians to do all the labour to work this contradiction out but I just think conception of bisexuality as a parallel identity to lesbianism or heterosexuality is always going to end up marginalising one aspect of someone's experience because it really is best conceptualised as more a wide spectrum of identities than one specific thing.
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