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honeytonedhottie · 3 months

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starting a video diary⋆.ೃ࿔*:･☁️

the concept of a video diary is the same as a normal diary, except your filming instead of writing. think of vlogging, its basically the same thing. video diaries are SO much fun to have, video diaries ;

help u to romanticize ur life

give you something to do (simply a fun project that u can try)

make memories that u can go back to and reminisce on

ESTABLISHING THEME ;

whats the theme of ur video diary gonna be? mine is pink ofc! but ur theme doesn't have to be a color. it can also be an aesthetic, whatever u want basically. its YOUR video diary, its your art.

WHAT TO FILM ;

film important dates in ur life such as graduation, first date or simply just days that ur doing something fun with ur friends. my video diary is mostly from school and what my high school years are like.

WHAT I LIKE TO DO ;

as a super talkative person, a lot of my video diary entries are just me yapping about whatever flies into my mind. sometimes i'll jot down a couple things i wanna talk about (like my own personal podcast 🎀) but most of the time i just do it freely and its lots of fun to see how my mind wanders sometimes

get ready with me's are so FUN to do omg. i see them ALL over my tiktok and i've grown to love watching them. if u like watching them then you'll probably like making them too. u dont have to post ur video diary or anything btw, a video diary is something personal, its a DIARY after all.

talk about what songs you're listening to these days, what shows ur watching etc

FOOD FOR THOUGHT -> formulate and talk about ur own opinions on difficult topics and whats going on in the world

and what i do the most...

i talk SO much about my crushes 💀 and i admit, that some of the stuff i say is a bit "unhinged" but im just a girl at the end of the day, its fun to look back on how i used to talk or who i used to like

basically all the fun about a video diary is to DO AND SAY WHATEVER U WANT its supposed to be FUN. i hope u enjoy ur video diary ✨

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pastel-charm-14 · 2 months

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how to romanticize your life - a series - post 2 - romanticizing school

soo many people see school as something to avoid, as a chore. but we as individuals have the power to change the way we view school. it's an opportunity for growth, discovery, and personal development. so without further ado: here are a couple tips to help you romanticize school!!

have a positive mindset. in order to study effectively, you need to put aside the negative connotations you have with school and studying and replace them with positive connotations. write out a cons list and then counteract each negative with a positive. for example: con - school is very time consuming | pro - it teaches you time management skills.

create a peaceful and cozy school morning routine. drink some water, watch something funny, use the bathroom, brush your teeth, do your makeup, listen to some nice music, pick out a cute outfit, do your hair, have some matcha.

i also like to say affirmations in the mornings like "i love school" or "i'm amazing at school" to help get me into that positive mindset i was talking about earlier.

make a to-do list. part of romanticizing is not stressing. if you prepare for your day in advance, you can worry less and enjoy more.

really explore your school campus. find all the little nooks and crannys, and don't miss out on anything your school has to offer. for example, i found a little covered picnic table over by the greenhouses at my school that i love to sit at. cute places to study and hang out make school so much more enjoyable.

appreciate being a student. there is so much community and everyone is working toward to common goal to really figure out who they want to be and what they're going to do. it sounds dramatic, but it's true. so i advise you to embrace student life. attend events, plays, games, join clubs, and study with your friends. so go to that football game, participate in spirit days, and enjoy being a student to its fullest potential!

materials are also a huge part of school. you don't have to spend big bucks, but these are some basic things that have helped me:

-cute planners/notebooks, sticky notes -> for goals/organization, writing down something quick, although take physical notes as well!

-books -> gives you something to do, i like romance and educational books

-ipad -> helps with notes/studying, customize it to make it cute, add widgets, and keep in mind that it's all about the vibes

dress to impress. wear cute outfits. treat school as a fashion show. i know dressing up and feeling confident has really enhanced my school experience. some of my favorite things to wear are preppy cardigans, nice jeans, skirts, high knee boots, long sleeve turtlenecks, and just tons of cute tops. layering is very important to me as well. you can also add jewelry to help elevate your style a lil bit.

have a space that you dedicate to only studying. i have a desk in my room that i use, and it has improved my study habits, my grades, and my discipline. it makes studying/schoolwork so much more enjoyable. it always good to keep in mind that your environment impacts tons of other aspects of your life too. make your space your own and personalize it. some potential spots could also be coffee shops or the library, whatever works for you.

make a pinterest board to motivate yourself. this could include study-with-me's, study tips, just general inspiration, or things to do with your main area of study or your major if you're a uni student. this helps you think about "huh, that could be me".

bonus tips:

absorb study content/vlogs

have a good-vibes playlist

in case ya missed the intro post:

stay tuned…

#romanticizing school #romantizing life #romanitcize #romaniticization #romanticise everything #romanticize #romanticism #school #students #study motivation #studyspo #study aesthetic #studying #student #studyblr #pastel dreamer✨

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harryforguccy · 9 months

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I’m not doing well

#i literally told myself last night I will buy it in the morning #this shoe goes for 500-700 online 😭#genuinely have never been so fucking upset #i need to stop romaniticizing my life with clothing items before i purchase them

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mikaikaika · 2 months

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I AM SO GLAD SOMEBODY ELSE IS AS NORMAL AS I AM ABOUT THE ACCIDENTAL THEMES RIGHT NOW!!!!

-miscellaneoussmp

I KNOW I KNOW. I am such a big fan of accidental themes and motifs in stories and everything surrounding the yesterday's events was just filled with accidental poeticism to me.

The Protocol being set up to boot up once Tubbo (The Creator™) has ceased existing aka has potentially faced destruction - the complete opposite. Creation being pulled out because Tubbo died to Richarlyson - a child of the Goddess of Creation. When Creation comes to confront Richarlyson, they are greeted by Mike who is currently half-possessed by the Goddess of Creation herself which was a complete coincidence. Her suggesting that if Creation can't express themself - they should instead draw art to express it aka create something. And all of it happening cause of Creation not understanding the unobtainability of items as someone who has canonically said that they hail from Tubchunk aka the land of create.

Just the themes and symbolism of repetition words but everytime they appear they mean something different. The religious aspect of it. The romaniticisms of the duality of scientific knowledge (like Frankestein had). All of it is just 🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼

#Mika mumbles back #Qsmp #Creation #Accidental themes #Tubbo #Mine

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maddygoesthemiles · 11 months

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I’ve been feeling super disconnected with my body lately. I’ve also been having a lot of random pains and back pain.

My goal this summer is to reconnect with my body. I was looking at old pictures and, romaniticization of the past and of a smaller body aside, I think I was happier. I felt more in control and I was in less physical pain.

Some goals:

Start a running plan and stick with it!

Gym every weekday, just like during the school year

Meditate for 5 (or more) minutes daily

Eat lots of fruit!

Get my pool key fixed so I can spend more time outside

Find a therapist

#personal fitblr #queer fitblr #summer goals

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alwaysonthemend · 5 months

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Hi Dee, I have read What it Means to say I Love You in the past 24 hours for like about 5 times and still has tears in my eyes. I know the question about negative comments on Jake's weight has been brought up over and over again (and perhaps too many times in my opinion) but I would like to personally thank you for writing this fic because how much it means to me.

I have been struggling with an eating disorder for the past three years, it is a secret that I kept even from my closest family. I am not officially diagnosed so that often left me feeling invalid. Because of school and my anxiety, things have been extra hard recently. I can't bear looking at myself in the mirror and hates taking showers when I have to touch and face my own body. As horrible as it sounds, I don't know who I am without my ED. Recently I've been asked to introduce myself and I have a hard time coming up with answers, I found that I have nothing much to tell, my ED is probably the biggest thing that defines me but that is something I can never tell anyone.

Reading this fic makes me cry because I just wish there'd be someone who will tell me it's ok like y/n does to Jake, and I know that there's no one beside myself. A fic obviously isn't going to change me instantly, but during the few minutes that I was reading it, I somehow feel healed and hopeful.

Finding solace and some degree of reconciliation from a reader insert fic that addresses the body insecurity of the other? sounds a bit weird, right? but somehow that's exactly what this fic do to me. I know there are many fics about one of the boys comforting reader about their body image issues but few of them speaks to me. At least speaking for myself, when you have an ED, you both crave attention and reject help: you want people to comment on you losing a few pounds and looking skinny but absolutely hate when they express their worry and say sh*t like "please eat for me". However, the way you handle the issue in the topic is full of love, accurate on the bodily experience of the insecurity and fully about self-autonomy and body positivity. I tend to romaniticize my ED and it has become my comfort zone, it is hard to realize the ugly reality when you are neck-deep in the sh*t yourself, but it is different when you see it on others. Hence why I feel so empowered by this fic. I have always been in Jake's lane and knowing that body insecurity is something that have probably affected him and knowing how much it can hurt makes me wonder perhaps I could change. And that makes this fic feels extra endearing and personal to me. The way it is addressed through "I love you" makes me think that just maybe, I can try using that love on myself as well. Things obviously won't change over night, but now at least I have found a new, positive spot to dwell on during the hard times.

I love the way you addresses the boy's insecurity, (like in Mini Fic), what you are doing is amazing. I have always believed in the power of words, and this message you want to tell your readers is very meaningful. You have helped me in ways that you don't even know. You are a very talented writer, if this is what you are passionate about, please hold onto this power.

Sorry this is long and disturbing. I'm glad if you even read it through. Sincerely, thank you.

my sweet, sweet anon. as much as i call myself a writer, finding the right words to answer this has been difficult.

to start, i want to say thank you. thank you for sending this ask and thank you for being so open and honest. though i obviously don't know who you are, please know that wherever, whoever you may be... you inspire me and i am so very thankful for you.

"what it means to say i love you" is one of those fics that though i love it dearly, i was so very nervous to post it. struggling with body image and weight is scary and can be isolating. and that fic was my way of expressing those feelings in a way that hopefully helps other people feel less alone.

i know that when im struggling with insecurity, i ache for someone to say something - to comfort me, to tell me it's okay, to tell me that they love me. and yet at the same time, im terrified for anyone to know how im really feeling. and as silly as it may seem to others, reading and writing fics that address these feelings can make that burden just a little bit lighter... just a little bit easier. they're my way of reminding myself that i deserve to be loved and that each of my readers does as well. so i am so very glad that it has been as meaningful to others as it is to me.

i have found some of my closest friends through greta van fleet and i have found a community that i love to be a part of. jake has always been a comfort to me and my love for him has helped me find others who feel the same. and anon, just as jake is loved by so many of us, so are you.

truly though, this ask made me speechless in the best way. im sitting here trying to articulate all the emotions that im feeling but i just don't think that i can. all i can say, anon, is this: thank you, im proud of you, and i love you very much. you are NOT alone.

knowing that at least one person out there found meaning in a fic that i wrote makes it all more than worth it.

and i hope everyone who follows me knows that i am always here for each and every one of you and i consider myself so very blessed to have you all.

and to those reading this, no matter who you are, no matter what you struggle with, no matter the sadness, the insecurity, the hurt, the struggles that you have gone through, no matter what you have had to face - alone or otherwise... you DESERVE comfort, you DESERVE to be seen, and you DESERVE to be loved. and i love you. each and every one of you.

and my dearest anon,

i don't know who you are. i don't know what you look like. i may never see you laugh. i may never get to cry with you or get drunk with you, or see you smile, or ever speak with you directly.

but i love you and i am proud of you.

#dee answers

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alrightsnaps · 2 years

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whose... romaniticizing alicents situation?? i havent see this anywhere - reddit, youtube, here. some are downplaying how bad it is and stuck in a hate-book-alicent mentality but ive yet to see, since sunday, anyone acting like shes in a good place

It was some comments about Rhaenyra not being "deserving" of the throne because she hasn't sacrificed as much as Alicent has, being a brat etc. that rubbed me wrong. I sympathize a lot with Alicent and I know she had no say in any of this, but I don't think Rhaenyra refusing to be shoehorned into the same oppressive gender role should be framed as a bad thing.

I'm actually hoping the show takes it a step further and has Rhaenyra advocate for change once she becomes Queen rather than treating her own case as the exception to the rule as it happens in the book.

#hotd asks #rhaenyra targaryen

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the-lit-in-literature · 2 years

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whoever is writing my life like a shakespearean tragedy pls stop. you have amazing skills but for the love of god pls stop.

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honeytonedhottie · 1 month

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honey's guide to spring⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🪷

i've been preparing this post for a while bcuz i LOVE spring and for this spring i just wanna embody feminine, fairy, dream-like beauty in my day-to-day this spring, and just enjoy it fully.

THE MOOD FOR SPRING : planting new seeds, fresh fruit, and bouquets of flowers. tea parties and floral prints and perfumes. green grapes, hibiscus tea and waking up early to see the sunrise.

PREPARATION FOR SPRING : stock up on your favorite fruits and teas. if u want fruits that are in season, the fruits in season during spring include strawberries, cherries, blueberries, kiwis, bananas and nectarines. my favorite spring time tea is hibiscus and i love a good matcha during all seasons but especially spring, and lastly a good citrus tea is always something that i enjoy.

if ur someone who experiences rly bad allergies during the spring make sure that u go to ur doctors for a check up, and make sure that u have everything that you'll need to combat allergies.

THE PLAYLIST : a good playlist is always essential so my spring playlist consists of : eternal sunshine - jhene aiko. はるなつあきふゆ - ichiko aoba. afterglow - luna li. pisces - yerin baek. fairy of shampoo - TXT. scenery - red velvet. hydrangea love - TXT. cool with you - newjeans. salad days - iiso. pov - ariana grande. lyricist - heize.

REFRESH : time for spring cleaning both mentally and physically. analyze what habits are nourishing u and which habits are drying you out. analyze ur space and do a deep cleaning, that way u can feel lighter both mentally and physically.

wash ur sheets, maybe even buy fresh sheets (floral printed sheets for spring ofc)

go thru ur closet and put the winter and autumn clothes towards the back and bring the spring clothes where they're more accessible and visible

deep clean ur room and clean ur house -> get onto clean-tok for some cleaning motivation cuz watching videos of people cleaning and organizing always motivates me to do so too

create new pinterest boards and delete ones that u dont use, or if u want to, create a completely new pinterest account. i've grown attached to my pinterest account so i won't delete it, but i've made lots of other accounts on separate devices

oftentimes we forget to clean what we use the most, and that buildup can cause our tools to be counterproductive, and just carry a lot of unnecessary germs so here are some things not to forget to clean and organize ;

behind ur ears

ur earbuds or headphones

ur skincare tools and devices (gua shas, face rollers)

ur phone screen

ur folders, binders, and folders

CULTIVATING CREATIVITY :

create something - do some painting, start a sketchbook, start dabbling in some poetry, maybe write a short story, cultivate an elite playlist etc etc

connecting with nature - go and get some fresh air, wake up earlier than usual to watch and enjoy the sunrise. drink different teas that you've never tried before, go to a local crystal shop if ur into that, make urself an elaborate platter of ur favorite fruits. go for a walk in the park, pick flowers and speaking of flowers, go and buy urself a pretty bouquet.

create a spring-time mood board

TENDING THE GARDEN OF THE MIND :

ofc i MUST talk about the mind in any of my posts bcuz its just so incredible. but what you think matters!! what u think manifests! the thoughts that u continue to water and entertain are what you will experience. therefore when u change ur thoughts and water the seeds of the new thought, you'll get a new flower.

its like gardening. your thought is the seed, and ur mind is the soil. when u entertain ur thoughts ur watering the seed, and you'll get a new flower, the flower is the new experience. so this spring, plant new thoughts and entertain those thoughts ✨

FUN SPRING-LIKE THINGS :

picking flowers -> buying yourself a bouquet

have a tea party by yourself or with friends (reference my tea party post if u need some inspo)

make a bracelet or anklet out of flowers

take a bath and infuse the bath with things like rose petals, rose scented bath milks etc

crystal shopping (last year i added amethyst to my crystal collection, this year i'd love to add selenite into my collection)

watch a 90's anime (i've watched sailor moon about a MILLION times and im gonna rewatch it again this year bcuz its just the girliest, best anime i've watched and is one of my favorites)

so i hope that this post sparked some ideas on ways that u can enjoy your spring girlies ✨

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pastel-charm-14 · 2 months

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how to romanticize your life - a series - post 1 - intro to romanticizing

hello lovelies! this is a lil series that i'm putting together on how to romanticize lots of different aspects of your life. i hope you like it! <3

the art of romanticizing your life.

it's about finding beauty and magic in the ordinary, turning everyday moments into something extraordinary, and infusing your life with a sense of wonder and delight.

whether it's savoring a cup of tea in the morning, taking a leisurely stroll through the park, or simply enjoying the company of loved ones, romanticizing allows you to appreciate the little things and cultivate a deeper sense of joy and gratitude.

so in this daily series we're going to dive into the concept of romanticizing and how it can add an extra special touch to all facets of your life!

stay tuned...

#series #romanticism #romanticise your life #romanticize #romanticise everything #that girl #it girl #pink #cute #romaniticization #romanticizing school #pastel dreamer✨

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primetheory · 2 years

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tbh i am tired of people having views on ikaris

#the idea that he did not value sersi or that he thinks of her as lesser is wrong. tbh #you are taking the perceptions of other characters on his personality and his actions rather than his own word #it's not that ikaris did not want sersi to be a leader he just Knew the love she had for the humans #and in the end he felt like he could do what had to be done and he knew sersi would not. because her heart is too big and kind #yeah he absolutely Did feel scorned that ajak picked someone over him #but he would have felt that way regardless of who it was #he loves her he values her he cares for her #she is the only thing he could not destroy or kill in the end < / 3 his weakness fr #they're soulmates sorry. im ready to romaniticize every toxic dynamic i see

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tendergutzz · 3 years

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Your just making the stigma worse, a lot of people want to talk about it without being judged. You also don’t know what’s going on in someone’s head. Maybe they have sought out help? There’s also a thing called treatment resistant depression.

That was abt someone who posted a gif of someone actually committing suicide but liv laff luv

#also was abt a post that went like if u dont think abt suicide as a way out constantly like a glowing exit sign i cant relate to u #like #fucking ugly honestly #thats romaniticizing suicidal ideation to me like #god gross #also theres such a difference between vent posting and like aestheticized posting about mental illness

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solongllondon · 4 years

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Noooo TS worst songs are Getaway Car and I Know Places

100 % disagree oops. I love, love, love I know Places, it has such a distinct vibe around it and it’s also a song queer kids can project onto perfectly and imo it’s one of the best songs on 1989. And I actually really enjoy getaway car I think it’s really clever and fun (except for the motel bar line. You can tell Taylor’s never been to a motel in her life. They don’t have bars fjfhdhdh)

~ send me controversial or unpopular opinions and I'll tell you if I agree or disagree 🐸 ☕️

#anon #answered #ask games #but to be fair i also dont like the bonnie and clyde comparison bc we shouldnt romaniticize those two but oh well

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thesassiestcolor · 5 years

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Any thoughts on the beehaw yorse stuff?

Oh my gooodddd okay okay okay okay from my UNDERSTANDING, beehaw is a nice western aesthetic au where they’re cowboys and/pirates and there’s some cool art and I like it - good job, I’m always down for sexy cowboy

And yorse is some weird beastiality / joke / meme based off that one weird interactive novel about the girl and the horse and all I see is people screaming about it and not what it actually is so idk you guys do what you’re doing I guess

#im here for the nice cowboy art with bandits and cattle herds and that romaniticized stuff #rwby #bumbleby #beehaw #yang xiao long #blake belladonna

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the-tempest-divine · 6 years

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Aesthetic Spirituality

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#Aesthetic Spirituality #Authenticity #Challenges #ego #Facade #fake spiritualism #false prophet #Illusions #Inspiration #internet fame #internet sensations #narcissism #Romaniticizing #Sexualizing Spirituality #Shadow #Transparency #Truth

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borderlinepatrol · 6 years

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can anyone relate? or have advice for me?

since I was 16 i said I was aro/ace but every now and then I feel I want a relationship but cant—not bc I’m aro/ace but bc I’m incapable of love (bc im damaged??)

#I always get like this when a genuinly good person starts showing interest in me #like there is no logical reason not to wamt them #i find myself liwkey playing them bc im hoping maybe i will feel something but then i never do #i romaniticize them in my head but then when they make an actual move i push them away #its like i want to be in love but dont know how #maybe its bc of my parents but i rlly cant put a finger on it #now im lying awake with a racing heart feeling aick to my stomach #personal

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