Crap, I might not be as much of a binary woman as I thought I was

Explaining My Labels And Pronouns/Full List Of My Labels (Cuz I Can)

I use GenderFluid GenderFlux Non-Binary TransGuy as my main gender label, because it’s simpler and allows me to have as much flexibility with the labels that I experience, and has no set limits for how I experience what, what I experience, and etc.

Here is the full list of Genders I experience that fall under the GenderFluid/Flux-ness of me:

TransGuy Non-Binary Non-Binary Man - A gender that is both 100% non-binary and 100% man at the same time. Masc Non-Binary - A gender that is both 100% non-binary and 100% masculine at the same time. Demiboy - A gender that is described as feeling partially male. Boycreature - A xenogender that is described as being a boy in a creature way or being a boy and a creature. Agender - A gender that is described as being genderless, without gender, having no gender, and/or feeling like gender is irrelevant to them. Blankgender - A gender that is described as feeling like someone’s gender cannot be described, but is a blank space that is confusing. Quoigender - A gender that is described as not knowing how to describe their gender, not knowing what gender is and therefore being confused on what they are, and/or not wanting to define their gender. Fairygender - A xenogender that is described as feeling their gender is like fairies or has a strong connection to fairies. Offboy - A gender that is described as feeling closely represented by a masculine gender, but is not said gender. Enboy - A gender that is described as feeling either like a masculine-aligned non-binary person, or like a boy and a non-binary person. Paraboy - A gender where one is paragender, and also has a connection to masculine and/or masculine-aligned identities. One’s masculine identity will take up 51%-99% of one’s gender, while the remaining can be any other gender or combination of genders. Genderqueer - A gender that is closely related to non-binary, and basically means being out of the binary, whether in gender or in expression, or both. Bigender - A gender that means being two genders at once. Trigender - A gender that means being three genders at once. Demimasculine - A gender where one feels partly masculine and partly another gender. Demimasc - A gender where one feels partially masculine/like a man, and also feels like they’re outside the binary. Libragender - A gender where one feels agender, but has a particular connection to another gender. Libramasculine - A gender where one feels agender, but has a connection to masculinity. Bigenderflux - A gender that means being two genders at once, and those two genders flux in how much you feel them. Trigenderflux - A gender that means being three genders at once, and those three genders flux in how much you feel them. Polygender - A gender that means being multiple genders at once. Polygenderflux - A gender that means being multiple genders at once, and those genders fluxing in how much you feel them. Nonboyic - A gender that feels masculine, but not exactly male. Like they’re outside of the binary, but close to it. Gendergender - A gender described as knowing you’re feeling a gender, but not being able to describe it/not knowing what it is other than a gender. Wolfboy - A gender described as being a boy and connected to wolves and wolves nature. Or being masculine and connected to wolves and wolves nature.

I will probably add to this as I find more and more labels for what I experience.

Now, onto explaining my Asexual Labels:

Myrsexual - An ace-spec identity where one experiences multiple ace-spec identities. These identities could be experienced fluctuating rapidly or all at the same time. (Mine are experienced at the same time.)

Labels that are felt within that label:

Neuroasexual - An ace-spec identity where one may experience sexual attraction or want to participate in sexual actions, but is scared of, repulsed by, or averse to, because they’re neurodivergent, mentally ill, or neuroatypical.

Nebulasexual - An ace-spec identity where one cannot tell if they experience sexual attraction or not, due to neurodivergence or intrusive thoughts/urges/images.

Merosexual - An ace-spec identity/term where one is repulsed by/averse to some sexual actions, but comfy with some others.

Placiosexual - An ace-spec identity/term where one is comfortable with performing sexual actions on someone else, but repulsed by/averse to/uncomfortable with someone else performing sexual actions on them. Placiosexual people may be sex-repulsed or sex-indifferent when it comes to someone performing sexual actions on them. This can be caused by having dysphoria or similar discomforts about one’s body, but it does not have to be.

Dreadsexual - An ace-spec identity where one fluctuates between not experiencing sexual attraction to experiencing sexual attraction, but whenever the sexual attraction is felt, it is accompanied by a strong feeling of dread or anxiety.

Here is my full pronoun sets and examples of how to use them:

He/Him/His/Himself - “He waved hello.” “This seat is his.” “He talked to himself.” “Say hello to him.”

It/Its/Itself - “It waved hello.” “This seat is it’s.” “It talked to itself.” “Say hello to it.”

They/Them/Their/Themself - “They waved hello.” “This seat is their’s.” “They talked to themself.” “Say hello to them.”

Xe/Xem/Xir/Xemself - “Xe waved hello.” “This seat is xir’s.” “Xe talked to xemself.” “Say hello to xem.” (Pronunciation: Xe = Zai, Xem = Zem, Xir = Zer, and Xemself = Zemself.)

Ne/Nim/Nis/Nimself - “Ne waved hello.” “This seat is nis.” “Ne talked to nimself.” “Say hello to nim.” (Pronunciation: Ne = Nee, Nim = how you pronounce him but with an N at the beginning instead, Nis = how you pronounce his but with an N at the beginning instead, Nimself = how you pronounce himself but with an N at the beginning instead.)

Love/Loves/Loveself - “Love waved hello.” “This seat is love’s.” “Love talked to loveself.” “Say hello to love.”

Star/Stars/Starself - “Star waved hello.” “This seat is star’s.” “Star talked to starself.” “Say hello to star.”

Wolf/Wolfs/Wolfself - “Wolf waved hello.” “This seat is wolf’s.” “Wolf talked to wolfself.” “Say hello to wolf.”

+ Any/All Neopronouns (emojiself and nounself pronouns included and welcome!)

Terms I’m Comfortable With:

Masculine Terms - i.e. boy/man, brother, king, etc.

Neutral Terms - i.e. person, sibling, ruler, etc.

Fae Terms - i.e. fae, a fae, etc.

Thing Terms - i.e. that, thing, etc.

Critter Terms - i.e. critter, a critter, creature, a creature, etc.

Dragon Terms - i.e. dragon, a dragon, etc.

Hylian Terms - i.e. hylian, a hylian, etc.

Wolf Terms - i.e. a wolf, wolf, etc.

Here are my attraction labels and what they mean:

Omnigayalterous - Being both omnialterous and gay/homoalterous. My reasoning being that I used the gay/homoalterous label for so long it has become a part of me and my identity, and I feel a part of that community, but I have figured out I am also omnialterous. I mostly just like to say I’m gay, but I experience alterous attraction towards all genders and any preferences I have can be gender-based.

Omniqueerplatonic - There are two definitions; One is that you feel queerplatonic attraction towards all genders, but have a preference based on gender. Or two, you feel queerplatonic attraction towards all gender, but how you define the queerplatonic attraction/relationship is based on gender. (I experience it the second way.)

Panexteramo - Feeling exteramo attraction towards all genders, and any preferences you do have has nothing to do with gender ever.

Pansensual - Feeling sensual attraction towards all genders, and any preferences you do have has nothing to do with gender ever.

Panaesthetic - Feeling aesthetic attraction towards all genders, and any preferences you do have has nothing to do with gender ever.

Explaining those attractions:

Alterous Attraction - An attraction that is described as being in between platonic and romantic. Also, involves wanting a emotional connection with the person you’re feeling the alterous attraction for.

Queerplatonic Attraction - An attraction that is described as being whatever the fuck you want it to be. Being an attraction that is outside the norms. Having a queerplatonic relationship is to have a relationship that is outside any norms for relationships or any other names for relationships. Also, may or may not come along with wanting an emotional bond/connection with someone.

Exteramo Attraction - An attraction that is neither platonic nor romantic, nor anything in between them. It is outside of all of it.

Sensual Attraction - An attraction that is described as having the want to hug/touch/kiss/etc., without it being romantic or platonic or anything in particular, and without it being sexual.

Aesthetic Attraction - An attraction that is described as basically finding people pretty. The appreciation of someone’s looks, without being attracted to them sexually, romantically, or otherwise. Just finding someone aesthetically pleasing.

My other label:

Ambiamorous - Being comfortable with both monogamous relationships and polyamorous relationships. Ambiamorous is sometimes abbreviated to “Ambi”. Some Ambi people can have a preference. (I do not.)

(Didn’t feel the necessity to add my Aromantic label, because that one is pretty simple. But for those who don’t know what Aromantic means: An Aromantic person is someone who experiences little-to-no romantic attraction. Aromantic is sometimes shortened to “Aro”. I personally fall under the “no” in “little-to-no”.)

flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are dark purple, blue, cream, soft orange, and medium dark pink. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

poiagender spectrum/poiaspec: an umbrella term similar to poingender for anyone on the "pangendered"/"omnigendered"/"polygendered" spectrum. poiaspec includes all pangenders/omnigenders/polygenders, partial pangenders/omnigenders/polygenders, pan-/omni-/poly-aligned and adjacent genders, pangenderflux/omnigenderflux/polygenderflux, and genders which are in some way similar to or resemblant of pangenderness/omnigenderness/polygenderness

[pt: poiagender spectrum/poiaspec: an umbrella term similar to poingender for anyone on the "pangendered"/"omnigendered"/"polygendered" spectrum. poiaspec includes all pangenders/omnigenders/polygenders, partial pangenders/omnigenders/polygenders, pan-/omni-/poly-aligned and adjacent genders, pangenderflux/omnigenderflux/polygenderflux, and genders which are in some way similar to or resemblant of pangenderness/omnigenderness/polygenderness. end pt]

for anon! this is a viagender spectrum term for poingender, and the flag is based on the poingender flag and the other viagender spectrum flags.

tags: @radiomogai, @gender-mailman | dni link

Abinary Ambinary Pride Flag

Amabinary/nymambinary/nymamby or ambiabinary/ambiabin (ambiaphorian/abinambinary or amaphorian/ambiaby/ambiaby) [apisambinary/ambiapsgender/ambips/ambiaps]: being ambinary and abinary/aphorian.

Ambinary: experiencing both binary genders.

Abinary/aphorian: experiencing a genderness that is completely unrelated to maleness, masculinity, femaleness, or femininity, and is nowhere in between those things.

This can be for any reason. Some examples include: genderfluid, pangender/omnigender, multigender/polygender, plurigender, varsex/intersex/altersex/aldernic, GNC/PNC, system member plurality/medianity, centrigender/circa-binary, "both neither", gendervast/gendercollector, cusper/evenic, cross-aligned/cronant-aligned, liaspec/mesospec exospec/abiaspec, bonusbinary...

[ID: a rectangular flag with 5 equally-sized horizontal lines. colors in this order from top to bottom: purple, pale blue, green, red, dark red. End ID] [ID by @playmatething]

Turiagirl (A Girl Turian) : A cusper Turian, cross-aligned (girl-aligned/lunarian guy or guy-aligned/solarian girl), multigender/polygender (girlboy/boygirl), turiagender/vinciagender girl, or otherwise a girl that is gay for men.

A girl that is MLM/a Turian.

pt: Turiagirl (A Girl Turian)

originally posted by plurgai

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Polygender dysphoria is wanting to be called he/him dispite those pronouns only aligning with 1/3 of your gender identity

Dysphoric culture is!

Also, whatever works for you. Some people use pronouns that don't traditionally align with their genders at all (ex: binary trans men who use she/her) so your pronoun preferences are totally valid! Mod wishes you luck in getting people to use he/him for you!

🤍About Me🤍

Hi, I am Michi, religiously IzkurEreškigal.

I'm 29. I have a cat named Felix 🐈‍⬛.

🎓 My education since HS is dedicated to Athena Ergane. I have a B.S and M.A. My language learning is dedicated to Geštug Nisaba.

♿️ I am dyslexic, have mental illness, and am physically disabled. I've dedicated the usage of my wheelchair to Epione and Damu and the usage of my cane/crutches to Iaso. I am currently very disabled so my blog isn't exactly what I want it to be but I try.

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️I am polygender, with they/them pronouns. Queer part of my life is dedicated to Nanaya.

I am a US American 🇺🇸 living on Pennacook land. Ethnically I am a 3rd Gen Greek American 🇬🇷 and 1st Gen Dominican American 🇩🇴. I'm Mulatto I have European, African, and Native Caribbean ancestry. I have faced racism but I recognize that I will never face colorism.

🕯️I have been a pagan then polytheist for 13 years. I was formerly Christian and left it around age 14/15.

✨Random fun personality things✨

*I know many of these are unscientific and I hate Jung, but this is literally just for funsies

MBTI: ENTJ

Alignment: Lawful Neutral or Lawful Good depending on test

Friedman-Rosenman: Type A Personality

Sun Sign: Aquarius

Moon Sign: Sagittarius

Babylonian Sign: GU.LA

can you have more than one gender alignment?

of course yes. pretty sure it's called being multi-aligned. however I don't know yet a galactian term for that.

Pan wlw who’s gender isn’t 'woman’...

-all the fem-aligned nonbinary pan wlw... -all the non-aligned nonbinary pan wlw... -all the genderfluid pan wlw... -all the bi/tri/polygender pan wlw... -all the agender pan wlw... -all the demigirl pan wlw... -all the pan wlw who choose to identify as wlw without id’ing as a ‘woman’ for whatever reason...

You are all so stunning and I love each and every one of you.

polygender alignment flags for the terms coined here! i’ll be posting the other combo terms soon.

mulomi | mulofi muloni | muloxi mulomifi | mulomini | mulofini mulomixi | mulofixi | mulonixi

Cistrans Woman Pride Flag

Cistrans Woman: integragender/integrasex/integradic or trisgender/trissex/trisadic individuals experiencing womanhood; women experiencing both cis and trans modalities.

Reasons someone can be both cis and trans: experiencing a gender that matches ones AGAB and gender(s) that does not match that AGAB (cistransgneder/transcisgender/trancisgender; multigender/polygender/plurigender; ipsoultergender/ulteripsogender; ipsogender ultergender); varsexgender (intersex (ultersex ipsosex; ulteripsosex or ipsoultersex) or altersex cissex transsex (cistranssex/transcissex)) female/mulladic or lunaradic; being cross-aligned (cis-aligned transgender or trans-aligned cisgender); evenic/cusper (intermediary in-between a cis GNC quality and a transgender identity); genderfluid (abromodal); experiencing gender dysphoria and euphoria; semitransitioning/mesotransitioning or equitransitioning/centritransitioning or detransitioning; transitioning and still identifying as ones AGAB; transine intragender; transcisen or cistransen; being a plural system (utrinquegender; conuengender or unitumgender; detragender or afficgender); cintragender or citergender.

Polygender Alignments

The Mulo(mi/fi/ni/xi) system is a system of words I created to describe being polygender, but all your genders sharing specific traits/alignments/etc. Combo words (and tagging people to get this noticed) will be under the cut.

Mulomi - Being polygender with only masculine genders

Mulofi -  Being polygender with only feminine genders

Muloni -  Being polygender with only neutral genders

Muloxi -  Being polygender with only xenic genders

Mulomifi -  Being polygender with only masculine and feminine genders

Mulomini -  Being polygender with only masculine and neutral genders

Mulofini -  Being polygender with only feminine and neutral genders

Mulomixi -  Being polygender with only masculine and xenic genders

Mulofixi -  Being polygender with only feminine and xenic genders

Mulonixi -  Being polygender with only neutral and xenic genders

Mulomifini -  Being polygender with only masculine, feminine, and neutral genders

Mulomifixi -  Being polygender with only masculine, feminine, and xenic genders

Mulominixi -  Being polygender with only masculine, neutral, and xenic genders

Mulofinixi -  Being polygender with only feminine, neutral, and xenic genders

Mulomifinixi -  Being polygender with masculine, feminine, neutral, and xenic genders

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Multigender nonbinary lesbians are so valid!!! 🥀💕🌹💗⚘💖🌸💞🌷

Whether they're genderfluid, bigender, trigender, polygender, pangender, genderflux, or any other multigender identity, THEY'RE REAL AND VALID AND DOWNRIGHT DIVINE!

why does... no one think it’s possible to be both male and female at the same time... even though nb acceptance is pretty popular...

sometimes i just think to myself “oh yeah, my gender (and lack thereof) is like 30% maverique, like 40% Weird Gendervoidy almost thingy, like 20% another weird neutral that feels also slightly maverique in a different way, then the rest are just a FUCK TON of many different neutrals/agendery things/etc that are all distinct enough i can tell theyre all there but Not distinct enough i could ever hope to give them all specific names/labels, and on top of that like 15-35% of my gender is downright just completely and utterly not there, like it was fucking cut off and it was so blatantly Not There, Not Existing at all that i didnt even notice this for years, and ON  TOP  OF  THAT it feels all kinda blurred and mushed together almost to the degree that for a hot while saying my gender was anything other than “nonspecific” made me feel very dysphoric and uncomfortable but now, as you can see by how much im specifying my foggy blob of a gender (and lack thereof), im better at handling this, but sometimes i’ll do random things that make me feel like im saying my gender is Specific and Solid and Set when it is anything but and that makes me sharply, grippingly uncomfortable”

yknow?

some multigender people use more than one alignment to describe themselves! and that’s ok!

some don’t use any alignment!

some use alignments that not many people recognize, because they are not used very often, or they combined alignment words to make one that fits them!

i hope every multigender person is able to figure out what alignment(s) or lack thereof fit them!