He forgot.

yeah finding out that ned fulmer cheated on his wife is thoroughly upsetting but if it was any other try guy in his place i would simply have to end it all 

I have lost every male friendship I've ever had once they realized I was not interested in them romantically. No matter how long the friendship lasted, no matter how close we were, the minute sex is off the table, they cut me off like our friendship meant nothing.

you know what's the most common experience of growing up as a girl? being made fun of. right since the moment you start having your own interests and preferences, people start making fun of you. it could be about something as small as the way you sit to bigger decisions like your career etc. I'm not even exaggerating but literally everything you do is a potential roast. i remember people would make fun of me because i liked to take selfies. i wasn't even taking too many but just the fact that i liked to take photos of myself was funny to people who were close to me. i got laughed at for working out cuz..."working out on a yoga mat is not actual workout" apparently. people literally don't let a single thing slide. your fashion sense, your hobbies, your music taste, your diet, your art, your opinions, the way you carry yourself, your daily routine, your social media presence and literally everything about your personality can and will be made fun of. growing up as a girl means having so much rage inside you. "oh you like taylor swift? ew that's so basic." "you dyed your hair blue? you think you're so edgy lol" "you like F1? name 5 drivers." "you have a best friend? i bet they will leave you." what makes me even more mad is that boys get praised about the same fucking things that you get made fun of. if he likes remote control cars then awww he's gonna be a racer someday let's buy him more. if he likes watching nat geo then wow he's so smart he has a bright future ahead. if he doesn't eat junk food then damn he's so health conscious i wish everyone could be like him. but god forbid a girl tries to be her authentic self she'll get crucified for it. and it's not even random bullies who do this, everyone including your parents, siblings, relatives, teachers, partners, coworkers, and everyone else will pick on you at some point. and then people wonder why most women don't know 'their worth' and get stuck in toxic relationships. i wonder why... and then if you stick up for women you get called a crazy feminist bitch while men sticking up for other men is just 'honoring the bro code'.

Spent 100 hours on a BG3 gameplay, romancing Astarion. I bought the game TO ROMANCE HIM. Made decisions I knew would sway his opinions. REJECTED GALE FOR HIM, just to finally get to Baulders Gate and him reject me. And I don't have any saves to go back and fix it. I'm legit mad at him and I can't stand to look at his face rn

i just found the "male having a huge fetish on radical feminists" side of the internet and... huh. i wish i hadn't. i was feeling a bit better when i didn't know that there's a group of males out there fetishizing us hard because we're "strong headed women that would make perfect femdoms (for them/other women, and in this case they'd just love to watch) / that would be fun to tame". like they love the idea of fucking us/hurting us because of course they do, they see women standing up for themselves and not being afraid of being controversial, and perfectly understanding their bullshit, so of course they want to degrade us and use us as sex toys

if i truly have some hatred for a man i will flirt with him because i love everything i hate, and hate everything i love 🎀💌

y'all I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me and every time my bsf gives me new details it keeps getting worse (somehow)😛 so you can either expect radio silence for a month or the most gut wrenching, psychosis inducing, depressing, tragic, dreadful angst ever.

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Men would rather traumatize the people around them than get help

That your Sex are Naturally Tyrannical is a Truth so thoroughly established as to admit of no dispute, but such of you as wish to be happy willingly give up the harsh title of Master for the more tender and endearing one of Friend. Why then, not put it out of the power of the vicious and the Lawless to use us with cruelty and indignity with impunity. Men of Sense in all Ages abhor those customs which treat us only as the vassals of your Sex. Regard us then as Beings placed by providence under your protection and in immitation of the Supreem Being make use of that power only for our happiness.

-Letter from Abigail Adams to John Adams, qtd. in Alice S. Rossi, The Feminist Papers: From Adams to de Beauvoir

HAVE YOU LEARNED NOTHING, YOUNG MAN?!?!?!

who was gonna tell me that heartbreak actually hurts this bad omg

“I am, but she ain’t through with me” is a crazy response to “you said you were done w that harlot”