And if I say Eun-seong is nothing but a more pathetic version of his mother.
Like they are both fucking psychos with issues.
Have an obsession with the one they love, for his mother that's Eun-seong and for Eun-seong it's Hae-in.
Their obsession blinds them to what wrongs they do to get the affection they want because in their head the fact that they love the other makes up for it.
"[ insert terrible things they have done] but it's okay cause I did for you out of love."
His mother abandoning him and killing people who hurt him without ever being present and beside him and reassuring him that he's loved while she lived in luxury is okay because she was doing it all to get him all the riches, give him the entire company.
So Eun-seong should be happy with her now, he should stay beside him and appreciate all the work she's put in while throwing away and forgetting the torment he went through as a kid. Because that doesn't matter now that she succeeded and gave him everything she wanted to give right? Right?
Same way Eun-seong digs the ditches for Hae-in and pushes her in them constantly so he could play saviour, if he saved her enough times she would see his love and fall for him right, she had to. So what if that reason she was in that ditch was him? He did it out of love, he did it to keep Hae-in with him, unlike his mother who abandoned him, he will make sure to keep Hae-in by his side - not stay by her side - even if it means breaking her and forcing her to stay, she has to stay with him because he loves her and thinks Hyun-woo doesn't because he doesn't try to keep Hae-in with her -very much ignoring that hyun-woo instead stays beside her than force her to be with him- Hyun-woo who willingly signed the divorce papers, hyun-woo who was preparing the divorce papers (because he truly thought Hae-in didn't love him or want him by her side) but still stayed with Hae-in after, never leaving.
Eun-seong didn't get that. The difference between him wanting to make Hae-in stay with him and Hyun-woo wanting to stay beside Hae-in.
The difference between obsession and in a way devotion.
Eun-seong and his mother love obsessively but their obsessions are slightly different yet so similar.
Both may have different approaches to what they do and how they do but they hold no regrets about it, after all they did it for love.
All is forgiven for love it only makes sense.
The reason Eun-seong feels pathetic compared to his mother is because of how fucking stupid he is.
She loved him sure, she abandoned him while she plotted for what? 20 years.
20 years of hardwork into breaking the family and the old man to get all the rights.
And then there's Eun-seong, fucking crazy, that's all, he's not smart, he's not suave either. He's just pathetic and he's ruining things for his mother.
Because he loves Hong Hae-in.
But obviously Love is not enough.
Even for Hae-in and Hyun-woo love wasn't enough. They need to communicate, meet each other halfway to make it work or they would fall apart, almost did fall apart.
Love is never enough, it's not a term that makes everything right, it's not a feeling that makes everything right either.
Love can hurt and more often than not does hurt because love comes from people and just like people it's not perfect.
But love is not reason enough to stay.
You can't control who you love but you can and should control how you love.
Hyun-woo and Hae-in are still figuring out how to love the other, they always knew how they loved each other's but they just needed to figure out how to love each other. Hopefully Hae-in lives and they are able to sort it out and have a happy ending they deserve.
I am so close to feeling bad for the mom, not because I think she should win or deserves better.
But because she was sooo good at girlbossing this entire thing and the one reason for her downfall would be her idiot son who is a fucking loser and can't get the fucking hint.
She has covered her bases and was so ready for everything except her stupid fucking son ruining her plans.
I wanted her to fall but with Eun-seong fucking up so much... I am surprised she's not going down faster and that's simply because she is still smart and gets shit done. Unlike her own son.
(he's such a good actor though, brings out the anger in me like so easy. Everyone is so good with their acting in the show.)
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