#im sorry i dont make the rules but i am correct
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The most important thing in Love in the Air Ep 10:
Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile Sky's smile
#im sorry i dont make the rules but i am correct#love in the air#love in the air ep 10#prapaisky#lita ep 10#lita edit#fortpeat#thai bl#mame#memindy
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Genuinely concerned and astonished (and also kind of horrified) that “killing people is bad always*, yes, even the people who probably deserve to die for their actions” is as controversial an opinion as it apparently is
*killing people in defense of oneself or others is understandable, not saying people shouldn’t like. Protect themselves or other people. I still think killing should be a last resort but also like yes protect yourself and others obviously
For real though why is that controversial?????? Why do people genuinely think that killing people is fine and good as long as it’s the “right” people???? Do they not realize how easily that is abused? How similar that is to the beliefs of fascists and bigots? What the absolute fuck what is wrong with people??????????????
#i am holding full/metal alch/emist brother/hood and ste/ven univ/erse close and defending them rn#(sorry to screen readers but i don’t want this shit in main tags ill get my ass murdered)#both series are unnecessarily controversial in large part bc people apparently can’t handle the concept of#a justice system that’s rehabilitative instead of retributive. or at least don’t include the death penalty#both series also go very hard on the idea that every person Is A Person. yes even the bad ones. and they should be treated with dignity and#respect no matter their actions bc They Are Still A Person#too many people want to dehumanize anyone they deem sufficiently evil but that’s just not how life works#That Is Still A Fucking Person Now Deal With It You Little Shits#life is not has never been and never will be a black and white moral thing stop trying to make it so#it won’t FUCKING work#im actually very mad about this#auuuuugggggggghhhhhhhh#marijn vents#vent#existentialism is the only correct school of thought in philosophy of ethics actually#fuck all yall bitches who want to ascribe some kind of constant code of rules and shit to everything life dont work that way
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hello! I am very new to witchcraft and your blog has been very helpful to me as someone who does not have anyone i know to look to in real life :)
I have a question, is it okay to just,,, try things out in your craft sometimes because they make sense to you or it feels right? i dont mean saying that this herb means this because i say so, but like lighting a certain type of incense while you do spells not because its supposed to help with the intention but because it calms you. Today I enchanted a necklace for the first time after doing research and reading a lot about what other people do in their craft and did just that along with lighting some candles and opening windows despite no one mentioning that. i know this example is small, but there are a lot of things that i want to do because they make sense to me, but at the same time I don't want to make things up. i see people saying that its about intention and good to write your own spells and all that, but is that something i should be doing when im new to witchcraft? it's just really hard to tell if I'm doing things right sometimes.
sorry for such the long ask, thank you for your helpful posts :)
This is a good question and a good object lesson.
When you're first starting out with witchcraft, and even later as you go on, there are plenty of pre-written spells to try out and lots of correspondences to learn and tips to follow. However, it's important to remember that your craft is still your own. It's not going to be an exact match to anyone else's, and that includes using things in ways that make sense to you but may not match generally agreed-upon usage or correspondences.
This isn't to say that we should ignore common sense or cultural boundaries or safety measures, of course. (And good on you for including that from the start.) But part of learning magic and developing your craft is figuring out what works for you and what doesn't. Sometimes that means adapting a spell you found online or in a book to suit your needs and purpose. Sometimes it means using unconventional materials or using different correspondences than you'll find in a volume of Cunningham.
It may also mean creating your own spells, which is a fantastic exercise that I recommend to any witch of any experience level, including complete beginners. Even if they're clunky, even if they don't work, even you just write them as a creative exercise and never cast them, spellwriting is a great way to learn how magic works and how magical workings are put together.
It's not so much a matter of doing things the right way or the correct way as finding out how and why things are done at all, and from there, deciding which bits you want to do and what you're good at. So unless you're part of a dedicated tradition that has Rules about how these things should be done and is giving you formal instruction on the process, experimentation and experience are going to a big part of your education.
Dabbling is encouraged. Test things out to see what fits. If it works and you like it, learn more. If not, there's always another topic to explore. Making things up, testing theories, and seeing if they work a time-honored part of Finding Shit Out.
We don't learn to paint by expecting to produce a masterpiece overnight. Sketch. Practice. Make a mess. Try again. Find your style and don't worry about how it looks to someone else. The only person you have to impress is yourself.
I'm glad the blog is helping. Hopefully it will continue to do so. If you have more questions, my inbox is always open.
Best of luck to you, witchling!
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Forever And A Day (KTH x READER) series ♡ sunrise in versailles (part 1) (chapter 13)
Summary: your lifelong friend is forced to face his true feelings for you once he breaks the number one rule of becoming friends with benefits: dont fall in love. He knows he loves you, but you on the other hand need more convincing of the most important thing: the right decision.
Genre: fwb. Roommates, friends to idiots to lovers, fluff, angst, smut, the whole 9 yards tbh.
Pairing: taehyung x female!reader
rating: 18+ (minors dni!!!)
word count- 6k ish
warnings- swearing, angst, some kissing, theres an argument whoops. mentions of pregnancy. fluff.
a/n- Hey m'loves, sorry for the late chapter, I hope you enjoy!!! (excuse any typos, have not spell checked!!!)
"what...?"
You tried your best to offer a small smile at the camera, taehyungs parents looked back at you through the screen with confused and angered faces.
"we are gonna have a baby" taehyung declared again, his hand coming down and out of frame to grasp yours, giving a reassuring squeeze.
Taehyungs mother looked more than upset, devastated was more the correct and fit term, while his father just seemed disappointed.
"You told us you werent together" she spoke up, her hand over her mouth as she exchanged glances with her husband.
"funny how things happen, huh?" tae chuckled nervously, this time you squeezed his hand.
"are you sure you are the father?" his dad added, making your chest pang with pain at the accusation that you were the type to sleep around so carelessly.
"You dont need to cover for her" his mom spoke
"I know he is the father, im not stupid, thank you. How dare you ask that?" you spit, feeling guilty at your outburst, but mad at his parents for even going there. "look..it wasnt our plan. Some things....occurred...and we cant change them, all we wanted to do was tell you guys and its up to you to support us or not, either way...its happening, and im sorry if you dont like it" you mumble, taehyung softly nodding and smiling, proud of you sticking up for yourself.
Taehyungs mother simply scoffed, her hand wiping her tear that had fallen.
wow. she really wasnt happy about this, about you.
"we taught you better than this, and y/n I know your mom taught you better too....you know how things are supposed to be done. You get your career started, you marry, then children." his father cleared his throat
"we dont need to do things in order, you know" taehyung spoke against his dads words, "we have a plan...I think we will be alright"
You smile at your boyfriend, hand rubbing his back. "Yeah...." you whisper, "and besides...my parents had me before marriage, they were younger than taehyung and I when they got pregnant" you try to point out.
His mom glares down at you through the laptop screen, "yeah and how did that work out for them? wheres your dad now? hm? exactly."
Your face falls at her words, you didnt even have anything to argue back, a sick feeling falling over you.
"mom..." taehyung warns, his eyes darting to make sure you were ok.
"why would you bring up such a thing?" you whisper
She shrugged, "because its life, and things dont always go as planned. I wanted my son to be an established business man by now but no, you've tied him down to the ground again."
You watched, feeling numb, as she spoke more
"we had a feeling you two would end up together, but not like this...no no...not like this"
With that, you looked at taehyung before looking back at the screen.
"I think we are done here" you were quick to hit the disconnect call button on your laptop, standing up immediately as you ran upstairs.
"y/n!" taehyung closed the computer, standing up to follow you.
Once you were inside your bedroom, you wrapped your arms around your stomach, pacing the carpet. Taehyung abruptly walked in "baby..."
"why would she say that to me? why would she go there?" you cry softly, questioning how his own mother could be so cruel.
"I am so sorry my love" he is quick to wrap you in his arms.
Your hands held him tightly as you tried to calm your breathing.
"im terrified to tell my mom now" you whisper
"something tells me she will be a little kinder..." taehyung chuckled softly.
You moved to sit on the bed, suddenly feeling uncomfortable given you were still in your work outfit from this morning. You were a bit stressed at all the sudden life changes, and the least you wanted was some compassion. You will never understand how such cruel people could birth and raise someone as loving as taehyung.
"Im sorry" you lay back, eyes on the ceiling.
"for..?" he climbed next to you, laying on his side as his hand crawled up to your stomach.
"all of this mess...your parents..."
"baby thats not your fault...screw their opinion...I have my girl, and if its just you and me in the end, im alright with that. you know why?" he mumbled softly
"why?"
"because we've already made it this far, look at how good we are doing, hm? I love you, and im proud of you....please dont listen to my mother or father, their words mean nothing. Focus on us, on you and me okay?"
You gently nod, holding his hand as he kissed your cheek. You both laid in the comforting silence of the room for a bit, before taehyungs voice brought you out of your trance. "lets take a bath"
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The next morning you were up and at work early, checking attendance for the young children at the daycare center.
You and taehyung both agreed to hold off on disclosing the information with your mom for a few days until it felt right to do so, however part of you wanted it over with. You were about 3 months along, and it felt like things were passing quickly.
"Daniel?" you called out gently, looking around the room to find the small hand raising up to your attention.
You checked off his name before finishing the list, handing it to the main teacher.
The children were adorable, there wasn't many, only 8....5 girls and 3 boys. Though its only been a few days of work, most have warmed up to you just fine. One even trusted you to watch over their stuffed animal during recess time (thats a big responsibility)
The group was mainly produced to watch over little kids who's parents worked all day, which, you hate to admit, but made you feel a bit sad.
Children need full time attention and care, and you questioned if you would ever hand your child away to some strangers for hours, days, weeks at a time. It was crazy now that you had this wild perspective.
During your lunch break, you sat down in one of the empty classes to facetime taehyung, who answered after a few rings.
"hello?" his groggy voice came through, the screen showing the ceiling.
"aw sleepyhead, did I wake you from your nap?" you giggled, speaking sarcastically as you watched for his face.
"mm" he finally looked over his phone, a soft smile apparent, "hi baby...hows work?"
"its good actually....im not as nauseous as I was when I woke up, thank God"
"thats good."
you nod, smiling as you bit into your protein bar as you slowly sunk into your desk chair more. "how are you?"
"im good" he smiled, "I fixed the drain"
"woo!" you giggled
"I know..." taehyung yawned, rolling over and out of bed. "It doesnt make that weird noise anymore, see?" he pointed the camera down to the sink, the water flushing through normally
"good job, thank you" you smiled at your phone
"Oh and also...um, my mom called me again after you left."
"oh....?"
"yeah, I think me explaining things sort of helped her, she still isnt happy but she takes back her comment."
You sigh, "well im still upset about it"
"and you have every right to be, im just saying....she knows she was wrong"
You nod, crumpling the wrapper in your hand.
"and of course, I told her that we haven't told your mom yet, so no contact. She promised she wouldn't say anything" he mumbled
"well...thats good" you smile blankly, "maybe we should tell her tonight? I dont know..." you sigh "im so nervous"
Taehyung looks back to the phone, offering you a sympathetic smile. "angel...I know its scary but we cant not tell her...we need any support we can get"
"i know" you nod, defeated as you look at the clock. "okay honey...I gotta go, ill be home at 3, okay?"
"okay baby, love you" he smiles gently, waving goodbye before disconnecting the call.
You sigh, putting your phone into your jean pocket as you make your way back into the classroom.
"Ah, Kenji is feeling a little bit under the weather right now, I am going to direct you to sit with him for a bit while I begin the next activity?" the main teacher came up behind you, pointing you in the direction of a young boy sitting at an empty table in the back, his hidden face in his arms.
"is he feeling ill?" you question, sympathetically eying the small boy
"no..." she shook her head, whispering, "he told me his parents had been fighting all morning"
your heart pangs deeply in your chest, the surge of the feelings you felt at your own parents fighting resurfacing, you knew what it felt like to have drama at home and then be forced to go to school or work and act like nothing happened, despite being upset.
You nodded sadly and quietly made your way to the back of the room, pulling the stool out from beside him and sitting. "Kenji, you alright bud? whats going on?" you gently rub his back, trying to get him to lift his head up.
"mm..im okay" the tiny voice squeaked
"you know...its okay if you arent" you whispered, leaning your head into your palm. "do you wanna talk about whats going on? you dont have to, but sometimes it feels better to let it out, especially if you dont always get the chance to." you try to course him along, not wanting to pry but rather wanting to provide relief.
With this, Kenji slowly lifted his head, cheeks red in embarrassment as slight tears watered his eyes. "I dont wanna talk" he said apologetically
You frowned for a moment before composing your teacher-like empathy, "thats okay, but is it alright if I sit here with you?"
He nodded, putting his head back down as he leaned closer to you, the only thing you could possibly do was rub his back for a bit longer before grabbing the nearby crayons and paper.
"you wanna draw?"
He nodded, silently as his chubby hand grabbed a crayon. "'dont know what to draw"
You giggled, "well....do you have any pets?"
He nodded enthusiastically, almost as if the mention of his pet was able to pull him out of his behavior.
"really?" you smiled widely "what kind of pet do you have?"
He grinned, his smile missing many teeth, "I have a cat! her name is chibi!"
You laughed, "chibi, small in japanese, is chibi really tiny?"
"yes, she this big" he reaches his hands out to show you the exact measurements.
"wow! that is tiny, you should draw her for me, i'll hang it up on my fridge at my house" you giggle
"really??" he widened his eyes, grabbing the paper as he furiously began to draw, you were happy to take his mind off whatever home troubles were burdening him.
He, at least for that moment, completely forgot about his sulking, and the way he drew quickly told you that.
"I have a pet fish, yknow" you smile, watching him draw.
"ooo!!"
"mhm, his name is Hae" you nod, "hes a tiny yellow fish"
"hae is a funny name" he blurts, smiling as you show him a photo of your pet.
"its Korean for sun, like in the sky" you add, knowing that Kenji isnt super familiar with the Korean language. "My boyfriend bought him one day and now he has this huge tank, we even put a little spongebob figure in there. Do you like spongebob?"
He giggled, "yeah, maybe hae and Chibi can be friends"
you grin, "Oh that would be lovely huh?"
He held up his picture before immediately putting it down "wait!" he grabbed the yellow crayon and began to add a small touch to the corner of the page, turning it around and waiting for your approval.
"did you draw hae and chibi?" you spoke, your hands holding his smaller one.
"mhm!!"
"oh my! this is beautiful Kenji, thank you bubs! i'll make sure to show this to Hae so he knows his new best friend"
Kenji beamed in confidence, writing his name on the page before gifting it to you.
"thank you!" you spoke, kenji gently hugging you before the main teacher made her way over.
"hows everyone?" she cheered, glancing at you
"we're good, right kenji?"
He happily nodded
"your daddy is here to pick you up, but make sure you hold Miss.Y/n's hand out to the front okay?"
You gently take kenji and make your way down the stairs to the parent pick up spot, you kneel down. "do you see your daddy?"
The smaller boy eagerly looks around, scanning the tall adults for the familiar face, "oh hes here!!" he jumps up and down, dragging you over to the man standing against the wall on his phone.
"daddy!!!" Kenji runs and clings to his fathers leg, his dad laughing and picking him up. "this is Miss.Y/N!!"
the fathers eyes drag up to you, offering a greeting smile. "hello" he bowed his head politely, "Min Yoongi" His hand reached out for yours
You shook it, smiling back "nice to meet you, Kenji had a fun day, make sure he tells you all about it"
He chuckled softly, his arms squeezing the small boy in his hold.
"oh yeah?"
Kenji nodded, "I told her about Chibi"
"oh yeah, chibi, our fat cat" Yoongi teased
"shes tiny!!"
"not anymore"
You couldnt help but giggle at the adorable interaction, "well make sure you say hi to her for me, yeah?"
Kenji nodded, standing to his feet as he took his dads hands. "well i'll be seeing you around then" yoongi grinned, watching you say your goodbyes to Kenji
"yep, i'll be here tomorrow" you giggled, waving the two off before helping attend to a few other students.
Min Yoongi couldnt help but notice how gentle you were with his son, it made his heart happy that he could be at a safe place during the day instead of having to witness the downfall of him and his mothers marriage.
He also took in your appearance, noting how beautiful you were, but the thoughts quickly disappeared as his son begging to leave for ice cream.
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You texted Taehyung as you left work, your feet dragging you down the street as you avoided bumping into others
Me: taetae im free...want me to pick you up coffee? (3:06pm)
Tae<3: yes, thanjs my love (3:07pm)
You giggled at his typo as you looked up, turning your direction in the way of the store before you felt a hand on your back, gently asking for your attention
"um..hello?" you took your headphones off as you turned, your eyes widening as you took in the appearance of the man you haven't seen in quite some time.
"Y/n..." he looked upset, rough, and like he had not been taking care of himself, not that he ever really did anyways.
"kaito?" you scoffed, looking around as if this was some joke
"please, im sorry, I dont mean to interrupt you and I know i'm the last person you want to see right now but I just ...I need to talk with you" he exhaled, hands defenseless as they fell openly to his sides, his venerability at show.
Your eyes glared over him before you took a breath, deciding that the risk factor here was low.
"what?"
He swallowed, looking down at you sadly. "are you pregnant?"
Your breath caught in your throat.
Yup. he knows.
Trying to figure out what to respond was hard, the pause and lack of defense was probably enough to answer his question. "I...."
"I saw...taehyung..." he said his name as if it was venom, hard to pronounce, "a-and I know you guys are kinda...whatever. I just want to know....are you? is it...is it mine?"
Throughout everything that has been clouding your mind, you haven't had a moment to sit down and realize the possibility that the child could realistically be either Taehyung or Kaito's.
You rarely were intimate with your ex, but the slight chance was still there, and the fact you never realized it until now only adds another problem onto your already spilling over plate.
He took in your panicked state, speaking up "if it is, im....not mad, I just want to know. I know you hate me and you deserve to, but-"
"yeah"
"yeah what?"
"I am...pregnant" you whisper, "please dont tell anyone?"
his eyes fell low, his expression turning soft. You aren't used to seeing Kaito like this, his kind side..
"Its Taehyung's" you gulp out, because hell, even if it is Kaitos, in no way would you want him back in your life. Not after what he said, what he did. He could swear up and down that he's changed but it wont matter to your opinion or baby, at the end of the day, taehyung would be the father....biological or not.
With a sigh, he covered his face "im not gonna tell anyone....I just...I miss you, and I wish that I was the one with you during this and-"
"you dont deserve to be the one, Kaito." you spit, growing uncomfortable. "annie, chae and dahyun all abandon me over your words, over your actions...I was the one who was painted out to be the bad guy...and not once did you come to my defense!"
He nodded sadly "I know...I know"
"you fucking blame taehyung but hes been the only one there for me through it all, hes the only one I have!" you choke out, turning around in frustration "fuck...the nerve you have to do this to me right now"
"are you sure its Taehyung's?" he whispered, not in a rude way, more so in a last attempt to get you to talk with him
"stop with that!"
"If its mine I want to be there, I want to help out, even if you hate me, y/n" his face read regret and desperation
"as if I would ever let you close to me or my family again...the audacity you have is beyond anything ive ever seen....its never gonna happen, you treated me like shit over and over again, nothing will change, Kaito, and ive moved on. You need to as well...." you spoke before brushing past him
Kaito looked up at the sky with dreadful eyes, not able to watch you walk away from him again. He regretted his actions everyday, and just wanted 5 minutes to explain exactly what has been going on during the past few weeks. He wanted to explain that it was all Annie, that she was the one who spread rumors, she was the one who turned your friends against you, he wanted so badly to sit and apologize for anything hes ever done, and tell you that hes trying to change for real this time....but now the only thing he can do is store his thoughts away, as you leave again.
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"I think we just need to say fuck it and go to Paris"
Taehyung looked away from his hands as he hung up new curtains you bought, the ladder he stood on shaking as he turned to you. "hm?"
"I think we should just go, I really need to get out of Busan"
He smiled gently, eyes returning to his task "I thought we agreed to go in a few weeks, that way you can visit your mom after words during vacation time"
"we should go now, I dont really care anymore"
He frowned a bit at your tone, "whats the urgency, baby? everything okay?" he stepped down the ladder.
You swallowed, "everything is fine, I just need a vacation, and I think its good to just...go"
He nodded slowly, trying not to pry into your sudden desire to leave, "okay...um, we can do that. I'll call them..." he smiled, "what about your mom? thought you wanted to tell-"
"it can wait"
"are you sure youre okay Y/N?"
you sigh, laying into his chest as you hug him, "I just want to be away and alone with you, stressed." you mumble, deciding against getting into the whole kaito thing, knowing he would blow it out of proportion.
Taehyung rubbed your back "ahh...okay....well how do you feel if I move the trip to Monday?"
"i'll let work know"
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"here"
Taehyung handed you a cold cloth that he had dampened in the airplane bathroom, allowing you to put it on your neck.
Given that there has been time between your last airplane experience to now, you were more prepared on what to do when you felt sick.
"thank you" you mumbled, closing your eyes "how much longer?"
"6 hours baby" Taehyung spoke sadly, looking back at you, your face was pale and clammy.
"mm...damnit"
"I know but just sleep, i'll be here, okay? breath through it" his gentle smile brought you to feel even a little safer.
The flight was long, and bothersome. When you werent on the verge of puking, you tried to sleep, but the seat was too uncomfortable so you tried to lean up against Taehyung, who was moving too much, so you decided to just lay back and count the minutes until this hell ride was over.
The only safe thought was that soon you and taehyung would be alone, entirely, in Paris. The most romantic place...pretty much ever.
You did your best to ignore the whiney nagging voice in the back of your head reminding you about what Kaito said, and how the baby could possibly be his. You wanted to discuss with your boyfriend, which would have been the right thing to do of course, but the way Taehyungs eyes light up when you talk or even slightly mention the pregnancy in anyway, makes you feel like a knife was throw directly into your heart. You cant break him, its okay to lie in some instances, right?
Besides, you were 99.9% positive it was taehyung's anyway, considering there was only a few times you and Kaito ever did it, and only once without secure protection. Chances here are, youre worrying about nothing.
This trip will be nothing but relaxing, a week away from all the shit in both of your lives.
The last time you and Taehyung went to Paris was a few summers ago, it was before the whole friends with benefits and emotionally constipated feelings arose, so this time around will be like an incredibly new experience.
Once the plane ride did finally come to a stop, Taehyung helped gather your luggage as you made your way to the center of the airport arrival gate.
"The taxi guy told me he would pick us up around 6:25pm, we have a few minutes, lets grab something to eat....you didnt eat on the plane"
You smiled, pulling your bag behind you, "because the food was gross, and I felt awful"
"are you feeling better now?"
"a little...I just need to sit and drink water"
He made sure to allow you time to relax as you felt your nausea slip away
Once you both got in the taxi, you eagerly looked out the window to admire the beautiful city that is Paris, the way everyone dressed, the beautiful agriculture, Busan had its perks...but Paris was such a different experience.
"im glad we're here" taehyung whispered, kissing your shoulder as he reached for your hand
"me too" you grinned softly, leaning forward to press a quick kiss to his lips "thank you for taking me"
"I wouldn't know who else to take, your my only one." he whispered, squeezing your hand
It was late in the evening, but the sun was just starting to set once you both arrived to your hotel
"oh this is beautiful" you spoke as you stood out of the car, admiring how fancy everything seemed.
"wait until you walk in"
your boyfriend assisted you with getting the bags out, putting them on a small wheeler as you began to lead inside the building.
A cool breeze hit you once you entered the lobby, an overwhelming aroma of cleanliness and bakery foods filled you, making you turn to taehyung "wow..."
"yeah...." he smiled, eyes looking everywhere, "lets check in, I wanna see our room"
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The room that was arranged origanally just for Taehyung, included a king sized bed, a large flat screen tv, a mini fridge, and.....a terrace with chairs.
"this is so fucking cool!!" you giggled, running around the spacious area before collapsing on the bed
"this is so exciting, look!!" he ran to the terrace, admiring the view of the now dark city, lights shining everywhere.
You had gotten up to follow, a smile creeping onto your face as you hugged him from behind. "I love you"
He turned his body to face you, arms grabbing your waist before pressing a delicate kiss to your lips "I love you" his forehead was pressed to yours as he gently swayed, the music from the cafe below was loud enough to hear from outside, adding to such a perfect moment.
"this is gonna be a fun trip"
"I agree....lets just not worry about anything, just you and me" you whisper, hands cupping his face
"just you and me, thats easy" Taehyung chuckled, spinning you around before teasingly dipping you over, kissing you again
"how romantic" you giggled, holding onto him
"mhm I try" he led you back into the room "we can unpack in the morning while we have breakfast, I plan to go museum searching tomorrow anyways"
"that sounds fun...let me at least unpack an outfit so I know what to wear" you ran to your suitcase, eyeing some dresses and taking them out as taehyung laid on the giant bed, eyes looking at the french tv guide.
You held a fluffy white dress up to you in the mirror, tilting your head as you decided if it was a good choice or not. Taehyung looked over and smiled, "thats cute, baby"
"is it?" you look over, "I tried it on before we left....its okay, its kinda tight around my stomach and you can kinda see the bump at this point."
Taehyung stood to stand behind you, arms hugging you as you shared a gaze in the mirror. "my beautiful girl" his lips reached your neck "why wouldnt you want to show it off? youre sexy" he teased, gently squeezing your butt as you sighed
"ahh! stop" you jokingly scolded, folding the dress "I guess i'll wear it...its supposed to be really hot tomorrow" you tossed the clothing down on top of your suite case as you turned to look at your boyfriend "what are you doing?"
He scrolled through his phone, tapping something before a gentle jazzed tune emitted throughout the room, you raised an eyebrow as he set the device down.
"dance with me"
"no" you giggled, turning as his arm gently grabbed yours
"please, baby, just for a little" he smiled, voice low and quiet as you fell against his chest. "you look so beautiful...wanna enjoy every moment I have with you"
You blush, closing your eyes as he sways a bit to the music "i look dirty...I am dirty, we just had a 12 hour flight"
"you're always beautiful, and we can take a shower after this"
"so you admit it, I stink" you giggle
He sighed, pulling away to look you in the eye "no, im just saying we can clean up after, stop questioning everything and just let me love you right now and always" he smirked
"mmkay...." you smiled, hiding your face before swaying again
The room was dim, and you had to admit, you were more at peace in this moment than you had been in the past month.
"love you...so much" his hands grazed your back as he spoke against the top of your head.
"Love you more" you whispered, tightening your grip on him.
For a split second you felt guilt, guilt because you forgot that you were pregnant, and it wasnt just the two of you...and you will never have time like this alone again...and somewhere deep down you feel sad about that.
As if he knows your mind is wandering, he leads you to the bed and sits down, pulling you to his lap. "do you wanna sleep before we order dinner?" he asked, hands combing through your hair
"yeah.."
he pulled you down to lay on his chest, between his legs. The rather loud sound of his heartbeat allowed you to melt into his touch.
You couldn't help but imagine as you closed your eyes, that is was just you and taehyung....and you had done things the right way....just you, and your boyfriend together on a trip.
The thought was rude, and selfish, but it didnt stop you from thinking it.
Life would change, and you knew you needed to start taking advantage of these moments now, before youre mom and hes dad.
right now?
you're Y/N and Taehyung.
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Help
Hiii
I am 17 female and my partner is 18 nonbinary.
So my partner, came out some time ago, as non binary. And they've since then asked me, if i could help figure out whether they should get a binder or transtape.
I said sure and been trying to figure out, where to get the best quality, what one should do when using either of the two, and so on.
I've hoped i could have it all figured out, so i could have given it to them as a birthday or christmas gift last year, or maybe as an anervery. I wasnt sure if ive found the right info back then. I have been having some research spirals, but seem to come up empty handed every time.
So now i decided to ask here in hopes of help.
(Sorry for the background story, thought it might be nesscescary.)
Im looking for general guidelines when it comes to wearing a binder and transtape.
The pros and cons for wearing both.
Ethnical and trustworthy places online, where i can possibly get a binder and transtape for my partner.
The correct way to apply transtape.
Excercise/stretches that might help when wearing the binder or tape.
Important things/rules to rember when wearing both.
Forums where i can maybe gain more information on both transtape and binders.
Just general advice, so i can help my partner when body dismophobia kicks in.
Maybe forums i can suggest to my partner, that might be helpfull when it comes to body dismophobia. And places they can be where they dont feel as alone.
What material should i look for when looking at binders and transtape?
What should i be more on the lookout for, when looking at the products?
I am so sorry for the long post and bad enlish. I really hope this post makes sense, and somebpdy can help me.
I really wanted to suprise my partner with both a binder and transtape for their birthday or our annerversery, but my resarch dive didnt help me one bit. So im hoping maybe, this post is able to get me the help im looking for, and i can give them this on christmas.
Again im so sorry, and i really hope i got the right group, and i doesnt come across rude or as if im disrespecting of any sort. I am just really confused, and really want to help and support my partner.
-Ems.
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anon is right though. my love is kinda running out. like ive been a staunch advocate for love and to trust the world to be good and to let love exist in your heart and shit. but to be honest i am not feeling as though it is really correct still !!! perhaps the world is just kinda bleak. i think perhaps shit just kinda sucks. sorry!!! i dont make the rules!!! but yeah. tldr. youre right anon. im kinda running out of the capacity to give a fuck about much lately
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lilith for the ask game sorry im ill about her. if you don't wanna do her hunter
i will do lilith (threat)
What I like about them
she is petty and hilariouos. also once she chills out in S2 shes very like. awkward but trying her best.
What I dislike about them
she lacks so much common sense i am sorry. she is smart but not wise. please make better deiciosns i am frustrated watching you. you can ask others for assitance it is ok
Favourite moment
punching belos in his stupid face but also just like most of elsewhere and elsewhen
Least favourite moment
when she spent the entirely of o titan where art tho trying to wriship her 8 year old nephew like girl. please see a therapist steve is very correct.
A situation with this character that I want to see explored more
this kind of applies to eda too but id love a little more of like. clawthrone dynamics as kids or even as teens before/after the curse. i want to see dell being a good dad to lilith because i have. thoughts. on gwen.
An interesting AU for this character
once again i am advertising my reverse au. lilith has The Worst Time ever because she winds up stranded in the castle after like. season 1 finale. there is only one chill adult (chill is very relative and onlu applies half the time) and its hunter. god i should post more about that au lmao its so FUN
A crossover
uhhh hmm. i dont really have any crossovers i guess??
OTP (or OT3+ etc…. just… favourite ship)
NONE ARO LILITH IS REAL
Other ships?
nope
BROTP
her and darius are just. bitchy. they joined the coven together so it was like. they are mean girls. they dont Trust trust each other but its like i know you wont backstab me or try to assasinate me
NOTP
hm. again just no weird age gaps or incest. again. aro lilith. so nothing. uh lilith/belos is esqpically squicky
An assortment of headcanons!
uagghhhh um. so many of my hc about her are from YOU its theivery but uh a few of my own (mostly family dynamics lmao):
shes the kind of gal to chew on her pens and have them explode in her face
i imagine gwen was more focused on like. eda as a kid (she was a bit of an overbearing mother and so if one of her kids was in distress/unwell/needed help she would focus all attention on fixing their issue be it sickness or homework. and most of the time that was eda because lilith made more of an effort to keep straight As and Follow the Rules) so lilith wa sleft to her own decives a lot (espeically since I HC dell wasn't arounf as much as he wanted to be bc of work) so shes independent and super weird about accepting help
oh and also shes autistic. on so many anxiety meds.
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hi! i hope this ask isnt too out of place but i thought you seem very knowledgeable and maybe could help?
when i was young i was introduced to divination methods, these ones being tarot and runes, by my mother. nowadays i have my own tarot deck, an oracle one, the same old runes, and a bunch of pendulums.
apart from that i do sigils and charms, i started doing them very young and i didnt know they even had a name until i started to look it up on tumblr/reddit etc
im not gonna lie the community in tumblr scares me a bit, im afraid of being called out by not practicing magic correctly or using the correct terms and so on
i had an incident where a wiccan witch got pretty angry at the fact that i was a trans dude and after that i have kept my distance, i dont even use the word witch to refer to myself
also had an encounter with a strange woman, that is a friend of my parents, that insisted i was a medium and i had to be trained under her teacher. i said no because it sounded all very creepy and she told me that i would suffer forever and a bunch of very scary shit
am i doing something wrong? am i appropriating stuff? honestly i am just doing the stuff that comes naturally and when it comes to divination i just try to investigate and see if anything else calls to me
sorry for the long ask, feel free to ignore!
Oh dear. Come over here, sit down, have a cup of jasmine tea, and listen to me.
It sounds to me like you have unfortunately run into some serious assholes, dear one. And unfortunately, they are out there and everywhere.
People like that "strange woman" need to be told to fuck off. Anyone who insists on having any say or being any kind of authority over another's spiritual path is a manipulator at best and a potential cult leader at worst. People who would go so far as try to fearmonger others into submitting to them are dangerous.
Your craft, your journey, are yours alone. You alone decide what and whom to include, you alone decide which direction to go. There is no such thing as "practicing magic correctly". As long as you are respectful, not hurting anyone, not being a bigot, and not appropriating from practices that are closed to you, you make the rules.
As for those transphobic "Wiccans", fuck them. You are beautiful. Who you are is beautiful. Being a trans male witch is beautiful. You are beautiful.
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rant below
tw: covid mentions & other med talk | MA = medical assistant, P = physician R = Resident , SDr/MS = medical student , student doctor
MA: got a patient on the phone would like to speak to a doctor.
P: let one of the residents take it I need to make rounds
R: I’ve been paged stat please let one of the SDrs handle it.
lucky med student with raging social anxiety that gets put on the call: me.
MS: hello this is student doctor *last name* unfortunately both the resident and physician are busy at the moment but I will try and help you to the best of my abilities. How can I help you?
😤: I AM OUTSIDE YOUR SO CALLED HOSPITAL AND IM NOT BEING LET IN. I NEED TO VISIT MY WIFE
Me: Sir, there is no need for yelling what is your wife’s name?
😤: *says last name*
ME: sir our chart says you called yesterday to let us know you have covid
😤: THAT IS CORRECT NOW TELL THEM TO LET ME INSIDE
Me: sir, I cannot let you inside where there are immunocompromised patients, including your wife who just got out of surgery while you are covid positive
😤: AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF WHO GOES IN ANS OUT YOU INCOMPETENT FOOL
Me: sir, with all due respect yell at me one more time and I will hang up. I do not make the rules I am just asked to follow them. It’s not only a CDC guideline but also a state and local code.
😤: SUPERVISOR
Me: as stated at the beginning of this conversation the physician is busy at the moment
😤 : FUCKING FEMALES PISSING ON EVERYTHING LET ME IN OR I WL GET YOU FIRED. YOU DONT HAVE THE MENTAL ANYTHING TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO
Me: if you wanted to come see your wife then maybe you shouldn’t have gotten covid. This was a scheduled procedure which would have given you the necessary time to prepare, isolate & wear masks. Thank you for calling *hospital I work at* and I truly hope you have a nice drive home, the surgical department is truly sorry your wife couldn’t get any visitors. Goodbye.
if you have made it this far it’s important to note that I am currently shivering like a chihuahua that got shaken up by a raccoon.
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No ok I got a bone to pick with the whole being good at your job thing and getting done early.
I am a nurse. Let's say 1st med pass is able to start at 8, and can go til 10. I would get done at day 930. I'd offer to help others with doing theirs, and would if the nurse let me. But they aren't my pts and not my priority as idk a thing about them. So then I'd ask if anyone needs anything and the answer was no. Ok so then I chart and got all my charting done so there was nothing for me to do so ONE GIRL HAD A PHYSICAL BOOK meanwhile I read on my phone.
I got in trouble for being on my phone, they didn't care about the girl with the book. When I pointed out the policy said we can be on our phones once our work is done, and I offered but people declined help and I cant chart for them only help answer call lights and pass meds, then my work is fulfilled. They then corrected and said I got my work done too quickly and should find something else to keep busy, like sweep.
It isnt my job to sweep, we dont even keep those supplies on the floor!! I never once had a pt complain, had pts recommend me and give me kudos, but apparently I got my work done too quickly and was on my phone too much (when I looked at it my screen time when I worked the max I ever saw was 2 hrs OUT OF 12 AND YOU GET A 30 MIN BREAK)
ughhhh i’m sorry:( that’s so annoying and frustrating
unfortunately i hear about shit like that all the time and it’s incredibly difficult and unfair imo.
at my job, my boss (like. OWNER of the company, not just my manager) said i was “too fast” while i was working…… when they’re constantly pushing speed and efficiency…. it’s not like i’m not personable or rushed (i know basically all the customers by name, and have a full convo with them as i’m working) but still im doing something wrong??? …alright. sometimes i just think they’re looking for a reason to complain BAHHA
then. corporate made a rule about being on your phone…. if anyone sees you (even once) on your phone, you’ll immediately be fired on the spot…. no warning… and like. listen. i understand the “no phones” rule, some people take advantage and neglect their work. but when i’ve done every possible thing i could to keep myself busy (mop, clean, restock), im gonna be on my phone unfortunately….. and to fire someone without warning over something so superficial is an extreme over exaggeration imo (they created this rule in response to employees asking for lunch breaks during 8 hour shifts)
it’s crazy how easily people get taken advantage of, especially when people can still be payed unlivable wages. it really makes me sad to be honest:/
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3. How have you grown as a rper this year?
End of year asks: RPC Edition!
8. How have you grown as a rper this year?
((idk lmao. send post.
((i am only... half joking.
((really? truly? i do not know. i feel like... im a lot friendlier than when i first did carol?
((but you gotta understand there's been a, minimum, five year time jump from catmun back then to catmun as she is right now. my rules have gotten less scary and im more open to doing things that arent Just Asks.
((i dont finish all my threads. i dont even respond to all my asks or look at all my messages a lot of the time. i have this habit of not making starters because it feels like there's just a fuckton of things ive already got going on. there's a pseudo bubble im in where im down to interact with just about ANYONE, but i dont like, put myself out there to do so?
((im trying to copy how other people do things and im trying to throw myself at more things. there's this anxiety about doing that kind of thing while carol isnt in a period of rest--aka, a big arc isnt resting on her shoulders--because the arc takes precedence, right? im gonna finish the arc before i even think about any other threads that need to get gotten to
((this isnt mentioning the stuff ive uh... ignored. accidentally or not ive still done it and it doesnt make me feel good.
((and it feels like way too much time has passed to actually respond to the thing at this point so im sitting here like. ''i saw that thing, finally. what do i do about it. does it just sit there??? i guess it fucking does!!!''
((do you know how much it fucking SUCKS to ask someone for a starter and then you do not respond to said starter. i promise i wanna interact im kind of just A Mess and probably still a dick somewhere in there. unintentional dick, but still
((being nice is hard sometimes!!! being a ''good'' roleplayer is hard!!! so many things are scary. like what if someone has something planned for x y and z and you wanna do something with x y and z but you dont wanna step on someone's toes about it or what if someone doesnt LIKE your idea but is too shy to tell you and they do this ghosting thing about it and you cant properly apologize and correct or or or
((roleplaying can be stressful sometimes dude. i still have my abandoned twitter rp acc. i have just totally not vibed with that atmosphere twitter provides and i think im too far deep into rping this carol that rping another version of her just wasnt fun for me, y'know? things were fun in the beginning but then the passion for this carol grew at the same rate the passion for twitter carol died.
((i am a human who pays too much attention but also not enough attention i am akin to a walking paradox
((. . .
((uhm. sorry about that!!! probably shouldnt vent like that on what's supposed to be a FUN little ask meme
((tl;dr: IDK. IF YOU ASK ME I PROBABLY HAVENT IMPROVED AT ALL SO.))
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𝐍𝐈𝐇𝐈𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐌; is the rejection of all religious and moral principles, in the belief that life is meaningless. / extreme skepticism maintaining that nothing in the world has a real existence or importance.
this is a slow activity, highly selective, and fairly private 𝐑𝐎𝐋𝐄𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐘 & 𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐁𝐋𝐎𝐆 for 𝐇𝐀𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐀𝐊𝐈 𝐊𝐔𝐑𝐎, a fandomless original character. exploring themes of immortality, religious failings & abandonment, struggles with mental health, concepts of morality & growing from the sins of one's past, and finding things to live for. due to triggering content here i need everyone- new mutuals or old, to read my rules. they can be found under the readmore.
verses: honkai.star.rail , twisted.wonderland , dis.lyte , blood.borne
𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐃 / 𝐏𝐈𝐍-𝐁𝐎𝐀𝐑𝐃 / 𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐘𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐓
due to the darker material, and for my own comfort-- i prefer 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐒 𝐃𝐎 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐋𝐋𝐎𝐖 𝐌𝐄. i also will not tolerate those who write triggering content and media including p*dophilia, or inc*st. anyone who does will be blocked on sight.
PLEASE BE WARNED!!!! kuro deals in a lot of very heavy topics, and themes. All of which include: Mentions of self harm, Depression, Anxiety, Death, Religious horror & Trauma, Nihilism, Existentialism, Potential explicit & adult content, Cosmic horror, Murder, Torture, and Starvation. i do tag everything accordingly, and of course if i do miss something specific not seen here- please tell me.
the icon borders i use are by paletterph / girlfox. <333
my name is rhys, they/them.
just for starters, my activity is extremely slow, and i am 100% selective and picky about who i write with. just due to the fact my attention is quite unpredictable, and i do work a full time job which really wears me out.
if i dont follow you right away, or at all please dont take it personally. i like to keep my dash clear and not too cluttered.
communication is extremely important to me in roleplay- as most of my interactions are pretty plot dependent. obviously real life comes first and is always first. but i don't really like being a temporary fixture tbh, and being thrown aside as soon as someone's done with me. so i will occasionally clean out my following of people who don't communicate, or make no effort to interact. no hard feelings honestly, if there isn't any desire or ability to interact then it isn't there. but im not here for a big following, i just want to write with people. and make some friends who i can share ideas and stuff with. if this sounds harsh, i'm sorry. but the rpc has grown incredibly toxic in recent years, and i've had a lot of nasty experiences with it. i'm too old, and too tired for it.
i don't care who you are. childish behavior, pettiness, bullying, and insane behavior will get you blocked.
if you write or interact with saccharot ( kae ), do not follow me or block me or whatever. likewise, if you write with kiingsroar ( dia ) or any of their other blogs, i ask you do much the same. i'd be more than happy to explain what happened and why i'm uncomfortable with these users. but please, i don't want them on my dash.
if you want to ship? tell me. i will never assume, or default to shipping with people. of course i practice the same, and like to make it very clear i want to explore a particular dynamic. if things wont work then that's fine! but i need clarity when it comes to stuff like that. i really go 0 - 100 on shipping, and LOVE development, and plotting.
please, i don't obsessively hover on dash or deep dive on people. i roleplay as a hobby, and rarely prioritize being here. if someone i interact with is GENUINELY an issue, or has done something problematic and troubling- chances are i very likely do not know. or haven't heard about it, because i really only come on tumblr to rp and post art. i am okay with being corrected, or told these things. but do not spark drama, accuse me of things im not aware of, or assume i am okay with it.
pleeeeaaaaaaaase. PLEASE... TAG REALISTIC SPIDERS.
i use YORU, from the manga GOKURAKU/DISTRICT for my oc's faceclaim. but, quite a bit of the art i do, unless otherwise stated is going to be done by myself.
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Hi! Sorry if this is sudden or unwelcomed but i was wondering how would one go about ''fixing'' Sanji's character and your personal interpretation?
Now what i mean is that Sanji is an already great and complex character who has a lot of good moments and stuff, but the rampant misogyny really, really holds him back.
It just feels demeaning to an inmense degree, like that the only reason Kalifa - a member of the cp9 - won was because Sanji was holding back. Which feels like bullshit as she's a literal assassin and you could easily have rewritten it to make it so he lost due to her devil fruit instead. (or more emphasised).
I dont have a problem with an intrinsic vow but i just wish it wasn't this. I guess i just find it fustrating on how something so misogynistic is treated as a virtue. He could have had another vow instead like 'never kill' or 'don't fight someone when its clearly going to be a onesided beat down from you' or something to that effect. You know a vow that still causes problems when it comes up but doesn't devalue the agency or prowess of the other characters if that makes sense?
Idk, sorry if im being rambly. I finished reading the pre time skip stuff and its been bothering me whenever it comes up. I know it gets worse post-timeskip but i havent read that far yet so sorry if this seems premature in anyway. (I do know about Wano to a degree tho).
I haven't really seen any alternatives to sanji's behaviour - hell i seen someone argue it was necessary so he wouldn't be overpowered. And its kinda fustrating as a Sanji fan as it feels like in these moments his other qualities are kinda getting sidetracked in favour of his perviness. I dont mind he's pervy, but the way its utilised just feels kinda like a coppout more than anything and, well, misogynistic. (which im not saying remove all his misogyny, but tone it down and not make it seem virtuous if that makes sense?)
sorry for going on a rant. Its a topic ive been trying to look more into and i just want to hear more peoples opinions on.
so let me ask you a question anon, where do you think sanji first says something misogynistic? this isnt me trying to gotcha you or anything, i legitimately am curious.
i think how you "fix" sanji purely depends on how sexist you individually think he is. i think it ultimately comes down to, do you think when he treats women positively he's being sexist negatively? how much of that is a flaw to you, where do you draw the line? is your comfort level purely at where you can only stand sanji being negative towards men and treating women neutrally, or do you think you're comfortable with the opposite?
when i was a kid, i learned that characters are just a set of rules you make for yourself that when you add them to a situation and the application of those rules becomes a character. the character is both the solution and the equation, and i think the problem with sanji inherently lies not with his character at all, but how the narrative treats him for those actions, like you said.
i think it comes down to the fact while op does acknowledge and commentate on sexism a little, it doesnt have a strong enough commentary to support the characters like zoro, tashigi and sanji. who are amazing, wonderful characters, but are ultimately boggled down by the fact that oda doesn't do anything productive with them.
for example: both sanji and zoro (in their male feminist debate) are correct contextually, but op should be better at illustrating how zoro's "if theyre women they should be treated the same always" ideology can be wrong sometimes too, which would even out the commentary on them a lot more.
zoro and sanji should also progress as characters to ultimately seeing the contextual side of each others arguments and develop to the point where they know when its appropriate to apply each-others points
tashigi should've been sanjis rival, and helped the narrative illustrate how sanji's habit of treating women favourably can lean into sexism, which i feel like is the point of tashigi even being there but odas got the ingredients but is really bad at making a stew out of them.
i think ultimately the problem is that the narrative doesnt compensate for sanji, not that sanji doesnt compensate for the narrative. i think there's a conversation you can have internally with yourself on whether you want to write sanji as completely devoid of bigotry or whether you want to pick and choose and that's valid as well and i think would inherently apply to sanji even if op's commentary on sexism was well written, but. you're asking me how i'd "fix canon", and i think the fact that sanji doesn't get compensated for is indicative of a wider problem present in both tashigi and zoro's storylines as well (and the narrative also not compensating for them)
#asks#modposts#godspeed anon#anyways basically my opinion is that none of what op does is wrong its just the narrative around it needs to be stronger than what it is#i think you can have sanji be defeated in enies lobby its just that it shouldnt be played for dramatics like his flaw is a good quality#because it isnt#i really tried to get at the core of your question. if you want my opinion on what you said about how people precieve him uh yeah i agree#for the most part#also i get the frustration with the vow thing#it isnt a problem in the way i think you think it is but i do wish oda would commit to more general nonviolence for sanji and#have that be explict as well#like maybe ideally it would go with his character progression from i dont hit women to something like the examples you gave when he sees th#flaw in treating women spefifically like theyre delicate all the time#like he goes 'i dont not hit women anymore i protect the innocent' or some shit with the same intent just clearer
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Oh im so sorry in reality I don't know nothing about writing so i just saw the things you rb and thought i was doing it right. My bad
-@freshlychaos
Oh no dont be sorry at all sweetheart! I have requesting rules because people were sending me a buncha requests that I just like couldnt or wouldnt write. I always struggle with Xreader stuff because I like to go deep into descriptions and I just always find third person more fun! Thats nothing against you or anyone who requests stuff from me! You did everything else 1000% correct and I am not upset, we all make mistakes and mistakes are completely okay! Thank you for explaining I really appreciate that! If you would like to pick a ship you like and another prompt. I am more then willing to write that!
also if youre looking for x reader stuff I have people tagged in my requesting rules and there are some great people that I reblog from occasionally! If I stumble acoss anyone writing orange cassidy fics I will make sure to tag you!
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