Me: sex, kink, bondage, orgies, monster-fucking, tentacles, demons, leather, bottoms, tops, the flesh, the flesh, the love and the flesh

Also me:

The day that ppl stop equating all non-romantic affection with platonic attraction (or empathy but that's a whole other can of worms lmao) is the day my aplatonic alloaro ass will know peace

Decided to make this poll

Aphobes and arophobes fuck off this isn’t for you

Fandom aro culture is being too afraid to talk about your aspec headcanons because the vast majority don't like that and you'll be either ignored or receive hate

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also if ppl keep equating "being ace" to "not having a libido" im going to jump out a goddamn window

some ace people fuck and enjoy fucking and yall could stand to not Constantly invalidate them for that

@ anyone who says aro & ace people aren’t a part of the LGBTQ+ community; do a somersault & eat your own ass 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕

omfg not to be publically arophobic again or whatever but this is kind of insane behavior. why is this so common for these people its like the height of selfishness to act like people are predators for having normal human emotions just because you dont reciprocate them. like jesus christ the creepy part SHOULD be how they act about those feelings not the fact they had those feelings in the first place and people spouting shit like this is the reason we have whole generations of young gay people being convinced theyre predators for merely having feelings for straight peers. maybe next time someone says they have a crush on you instead of acting like your preferences mean other people should stop having human emotions you could simply kill yourself instead.

gently requesting the aro community to remember as they go to defend loveless aros and nonpartnering aros and whatever else that society Does Not in fact support aromantic love and relationships, platonic or otherwise, friendships or otherwise, and acting as if they do hurts other aros who are not in fact any more supported or encouraged.

aphobes choose the weirdest shit to get mad at I swear

Not really, but you do you.

hey i just wanna give a quick shoutout to loveless selfshippers. I’ve made a post about arospec selfshippers before but if you’re loveless in this community you are so cool and strong. I know y’all probably feel alienated as hell from this whole shebang but I promise you are seen and you are appreciated.

saw a post talking about the prevalence of ace/arophobia on this website and how contradictory and harmful it is

which is fascinating to me because i a) am aroace and b) was Not on this website when all that was at its peak

all my experiences with telling people im aroace have been, therefore, Vastly funnier (smthing im very grateful for ofc). people are either in the "but sex is so fun :( im so sorry for ur loss. dating sucks tho, dodged a bullet w that one babes" camp. or the "oh shit. me too" camp

i cant even feel offended or hurt by aro/acephobic rhetoric because in my mind being aroace is such an obviously cool and chill thing, anyone who gets pissy about it is simply Incorrect

Legit I’d want Marinette and Adrien to be separate people from Ladybug and Chat Noir if only it would mean Marichat and Ladrien could be cannon to absolutely piss tf out of that stupid ice cream man