Love seeing aces venting about how they can't talk about their identities because it's "alloaro erasure" and me thinking "No it's not? Why would they think that?" Only to see they have me blocked.
Like. You're intentionally trying to villainize alloaros by claiming that we're saying that. We aren't. Talking about your own personal experiences with your aspec identity is rarely incorrect. It would only be fucked up if you were talking to someone who's clearly ignorant on the subject and intentionally spreading misinformation by claiming your experience was the "correct" or only one.
There's a difference between "I'm [identity] which means this for me" and "[identity] people don't do that" One is clearly about you and the other makes a blanket statement about the whole community. Past that, misunderstandings about the aspec community aren't really your fault or responsibility.
Like, it would be great if you did clear up misunderstandings and made it clear we existed but I wouldn't demand it from you because, in general, personal conversations aren't as far reaching or important as the things posted online in public spaces.
It shouldn't be that much effort to just... Not frame yourself as the Default and One True Version of aspec. It doesn't come with this horrific ruleset that's arduous and ridiculous to follow.
Y'all are either just fucking dramatic as hell because we said "hey we wanna be equally represented in the community" or you're intentionally trying to make us seem unreasonable and hostile towards aces.
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RISOTTO NERO BABY YEAHHH
Once again based off a vogue model >:)
>:)))
I can't help but think he looks like shadow the hedgehog...
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you did not reblog. coward /j
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Challengers
dir. Luca Guadagnino (2024)
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