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heartstopperthoughts · 4 months
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There's something really interesting that happens for me, where I find myself only shipping mxf couples if those relationships were very intentionally written to not be romantic in the show, and I couldn't help but wonder why that is for me. And I think I finally figured it out; women characters very rarely get proper development or personalities UNLESS the show intentionally takes them out of the main male characters dating pool.
When mxf canon couples are often introduced, the show has a tendency to not take time to show a good dynamic between the two. They're just opposite sex characters so of course they're going to like each other. And because I'm queer and on the ace spectrum, I have a hard time buying into it.
So suddenly, I get to see flourishing mxf friendships, where the woman has agency, personality, and reasons for existing outside of the main male character. And the man isn't constantly devaluing her as a person with random moments where he's obsessed with her in a sexual capacity. And the show is explaining to me why they get along, why they're close, what makes them a duo, the ways in which they make each other better.
That I want to ship!! When I find both the characters compelling, and interesting, and fully formed without the other character! Then they get to come together, and be really spectacular together, and I just find that lovely!
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sophiemariepl · 5 months
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I think we need to talk about fetishizing celebrities, or more precisely, about borders of it.
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It's something I recently spotted among fans of my new favourite actors, that is, Ewan Mitchell and Tom Blyth.
Like, I can get that many people (including myself) find them attractive rn. I get that many people feel h0rny because of them. I can get lots of smut being written about their characters (in case of Ewan it's mostly Aemond Targaryen, and in case of Tom it's predominantly Coriolanus Snow). Heck - I can even get smut fanfics being written about these people as themselves (e.g. Ewan Mitchell x reader or Tom Blyth x reader fics).
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But damn, I have recently seen some very unhinged comments and discussions under their photos in which people comment on… Tom’s and Ewan’s actual p*nises.
Like, people, are you okay? Like, do you even understand how disgusting and degrading it is? Or even dehumanizing?
If you don’t understand what I mean, ask yourselves how do you respond to such comments being said about female celebs, especially by a predominantly male audience.
For instance, men commenting on Pamela Anderson’s, Salma Hayek’s, or Florence Pugh’s breasts. Or commenting on someone else’s butt or other body parts. Or even publically describing what they would do to these women.
These celebs may not even read all of the comments about their bodies, or they may not be reading them at all, but what matters here, is the other message.
Such behavior sends a message that it's okay to dehumanize, degrade, overly sexualize, and fetishize the people we find attractive.
And it has to be stopped.
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painsandconfusion · 5 months
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ever think about the fact that answering assmonkeys like like is just enabling them and your followers dont want that on our dashes? you barely even post content anymore. you just yell at assholes.
Go ahead and click on my url to bring up my profile. You may have to repeat this step twice.
Near the top of the blog under my bio and next to the ask button, there's a little button that says 'following'
Go ahead and click it, and I won't be your problem anymore.
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majimassqueaktoy · 6 months
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Im gonna be real with you guys, dead souls is fun and it plays like ps3 era fps. Every time I see someone saying its unplayable levels of bad i just... dont get it. And the graphics look great to me. It's really worth a play if you can find a copy for cheap or have a good enough computer to emulate. AND THIS IS COMING FROM ME!! VERY CONFUSED GAMER GIRL WHO SUCKS AT FPS!!
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gramarobin · 1 year
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ouch. I know I did. I'm so sorry.
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hopelesslygaysstuff · 7 months
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me to all of u
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ywilkis · 14 days
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today i am choosing to spread love and kindness and respect. tomorrow? who knows! will probably also choose to spread kindness and love and respect
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vaxildanthechampion · 2 years
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We’ve always known how much the game means to every single one of them at that table because it means that much to all of us as well. Decisions aren’t always straight forward and knowing the consequences of any decision made can be shattering in these games, especially when there could still be a tragic outcome.
I love this cast so much and even though things were bad for the characters these last two episodes, we have more amazing things to see and find out for this story. I for one am SO ready and excited, even though I’m sad as well after ep 34. But it’s amazing narrative and I’m so excited to get engrossed next week.
So much love to all of the cast and Matt for these latest episodes. I seriously adore each of them for bringing what they do each week. Giving them all a massive lot of respect as well because you could tell how hard of an episode this was for them all.
Just complete love and admiration for them all!
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pumpkinscissors · 1 year
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Jeffrey Combs in Spoiler (1998)
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patchworkpunk · 10 months
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i think im going to start expressing my frustration and general upset with politically charged graffiti and protest stickers
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wariosupporter · 2 years
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Izzy is tragic. He wants his daddy Dom back because if Ed is not Blackbeard the violent pirate , then there's no way he'll ever touch Izzy again. And the only touch Izzy would accept and understand is violent, but to him that's the only intimacy that can exists between men. And he craves it anyway, it's all he allows himself to have. So fucked up and sad
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mistysprings · 2 years
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so many batfam fics in which cass only exists as a therapist lmao. She only knows how to say ‘big brother’ and ‘baby brother’ and ‘bruce’s fave kid’ and be able to instantly tell how everyone’s feeling and help them out and solve all their problems💀💀. just like the rest of the batfam, she is good at fighting but there is more to her than her ability to read body language and just because she can read it doens’t mean she understands why. She has her own struggles and problems too, and there’s more to her than the assigned therapy role or the fighting junkie the fandom has given her.
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ihearthes · 2 years
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calumthoodshands · 2 years
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not to like....be toxic and talk shit but that person who has 6 soundchecks has gone to even more shows and the little group that they're with (idk their pronouns) all have histories of being stalkers and harassing 5sos and their families to the point that lauren called out one of their friends on twitter
mhmmmmmmmmmmm alright okay
see i mean... i'd be lying to say that doesn't fit in my eyes i'm not sorry. i've read about people attending twenty two shows. twenty. two. that number is insane. some people don't go to that many shows in years. and abt the stalking and harrassing... yeah no i'm sorry you suck. that's not what being a fan is is about. you don't stalk people. you don't harrass them, you don't go all fbi to find out where they're staying just to stall them for photos. people like that should really really touch some grass
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i really wish there was a secular equivalent of “you’re in my prayers”
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