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Hi Fun fact :
I have 3 accounts following me, what’s odd about that?
There pfp’s make me feel a 50/50 on if there p*rn bots or actual people
The only thing there is there pfp’s, i’m not going to block them tho-
But it’s cuz if there actual people and they want that as there pfp then ok they can stay
#be safe#hope yall have a good day#bye bye now my gibbles#bear random talks#:)#and if there real people then plz let me know so I don’t accidentally block you#I just don’t wanna be rude about it
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The Hazbin Hotel fandom’s issue with accepting aromanticism and asexuality
Now that it is officially Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week, I want to talk about this!
I find that, as an aroace myself, I am constantly grasping at good representation and coming up empty— it usually ends up in one of two ways.
One: the character is portrayed as emotionless, cold, and robotic in nature. It’s the question aromantic and/or asexual people are often asked: “Are you heartless?” The answer is no, of course, but general media makes it out to be the opposite.
Or two: Their lack of attraction is seen as something to “fix” because they “haven’t found the right one yet”, and they end up with a partner as a “happy ending”.
It frustrates me greatly because of how little people actually see aromanticism or asexuality as a true part of the LGBTQIA+ community.
So when I watched Hazbin Hotel, and I found out about Alastor being aroace, I was over the moon. I was on cloud nine. I also saw how his voice actor has looked up the term as an attempt to learn about aroaces, which makes me OVERJOYED?? Amir is truly a blessing, and I love that he’s proud to embody a character that’s part of our community. It’s so beautiful to finally have a proper character, a fan favorite at that, who just so happens to be aroace— and that’s another thing I love about this.
It’s never explicitly stated in the show (though it is stated in interviews), but it’s rather clear when you’re watching, isn’t it? Alastor’s aversion to any sort of sexual advancement, coupled with Rosie’s blatant “I know you’re an ace in the hole” comment sort of spell out his asexuality pretty clearly, as well as what side of the spectrum he falls upon. In addition, his Valentine’s day card was strictly platonic, which caters to his aromantic side. It feels so validating to finally be represented, to finally have a character in media who shares the same lack of interest in romance and sex as I do.
When I entered the fandom to look for more content, I kind of expected to see the same respect for Alastor’s orientation there too. But that… wasn’t the case? I am fully aware that aromanticism and asexuality are both spectrums— of course, aromantic and/or asexual people can enter those kinds of relationships. I’m not denying that and they belong in the community as much as anyone else on the spectrum.
But, the more I see the same line again and again and again, the more it feels like an excuse to just ship what you want.
Usually I don’t mind shipping? I’m often a firm believer in people shipping what they like as long as it’s harmless and they don’t go crazy over it. I also know for a fact that Viv doesn’t have a problem with people shipping her characters. They are fictional, after all.
But in this case, people are ignoring the very thing that makes Alastor a part of the aroace community! People are ignoring his lack of romantic or sexual attraction!
Is this not the same as changing a gay character’s orientation to suit a straight ship? If not, how so? I’m told that we are a part of this community, so why aren’t we being treated like it? Why is it so hard to accept the people on the end of the spectrum who aren’t interested?
Something I’ve been noticing throughout my life is that society has not exactly progressed very much on the idea of accepting asexual or aromantic identities. Maybe we have, a little, since the old days— but hell, people in “the old days”, which in truth wasn’t very long ago, believed that asexuality was a medical condition to be “fixed” by taking the right medication or having sex. That’s a pretty low bar to clear. And on the romance side, you’re seen as a “late bloomer” or “boring” if you don’t express interest. These days, being friends with someone is treated like a gateway to them possibly becoming a lover. Not getting married, not going on dates, not wanting a partner— it’s all treated like a crime when it’s not.
Maybe I’m selfish, or sensitive, or I’m butthurt over nothing, or I’m making it all about me. Maybe I’m gatekeeping or whatever the term is. But please, please, please, I just want an aroace character like me who simply is not interested in sex or romance.
And I want fandom to respect that. I admire the creations that fans make— the art, the animatics, the writing and the character analysis. And I want people to keep creating because creation is indeed a beautiful thing.
But I really would like people to treat aroace identities like they’re important. Like it’s more than just a spectrum to get wiggle room to wrangle in another ship.
#aromantism#aromantic#aroace#asexual#hazbin hotel#alastor#hazbin alastor#lgbtqia#alastor aroace#PLEASE i just want people to LEAVE HIM ALONE#“but it’s a spectrum” STOP USING IT AS AN EXCUSE#RESPECT AROACE PEOPLE WITH ZERO INTEREST IN ROMACE AND SEX#let us have this#we barely get anything as it is#but just to clarify i don’t believe that most people are being intentionally rude about it#nor am i discouraging people from creating fan content because it is FAN CONTENT and you can express yourself#i just would like people to understand a little more that#yes it is a spectrum and it covers an extremely wide range of orientations#yes ANYONE who identities as someone on the spectrum is completely valid#if you wanna argue with that i am showing you the door and kicking your sorry aphobic ass out#my point is that the spectrum is not a loophole. it is not an excuse and it is NOT okay to just use it willy nilly for your convenience
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im not sure what happened to me but suddenly i love queen ripple and she’s my new dress up doll
anyway, let’s talk about her!!
taking the fact that ribbon’s name is ribbon entirely too far (and going off their designs) i think it’d be cool if ripple star fashions leaned into frills, bows, and long or exaggerated silhouettes
since the planet is literally just a heart shape i imagine their aesthetics lean into that sort of romantic and elegant vibe. a lot of ivory, pinks, and reds
(ripple dresses up a little different to see her friends tho)
also flower and butterfly motifs. because they’re fairies of course <3
think it’d be a little ironic if butterflies were a symbol of beauty and all that…
also she’s friends with carol and dedede. they can go to pta meetings or something /j
(taranza can come sometimes too because he’s cool and it makes sense to me)
btw ripple star probably exports a lot of silks (because silkworms in a land of butterflies feels right) and luxury items whereas dreamland is more agriculture focused + maybe some livestock and furs
…yeah i’m saying these places reflect their rulers basically. ripple star can be a little more traditional and whatnot. that’s what makes ripple so endeared to her dreamland friends—they’re silly! and yeah, tragic princess angle, it’s my favorite trope—i think that would really pull at her heart
i won’t get into that right now, but i gotta imagine getting possessed gives you a lot to think about lol
…gah i have so many thoughts on this
there isn’t much to go off of in canon, sure, but i think there’s a lot of interesting directions something like that could go ^^
#big surprise that the person who usually gets attached to cute anime girl characters would get attached to the cute anime girl character#i just havent done much fashion sketching or anything like this in a while and i miss it#i mean most Kirby characters don’t exactly have much in the way of torsos and especially legs#i think she’s cool and i wanna talk about her#i am making it so obvious i like parental figure characters tho lol i just think seeing characters care for each other is cool#queen ripple#kirbyposting#my art or something#king dedede#ribbon kirby#clawroline#taranza#headcanons#yes those are anatomically correct ruffles i love drawing clothes i love it so much#yeah this isnt all that interesting or polished and i have precisely like One type of character but still#i like it and also i wanted to say this before my next post lol so that’s what matters#made her nozomicoded. sorry /j#anyway…#worm in my brain is being awfully rude but you know what? it’s a Wednesday#i dont even do worldbuilding lol??
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The man truly can’t take a genuine compliment 🙄
#my art stuff#digital art#baldur's gate 3#bg3#astarion#astarion ancunin#this is part of a series I like to call “I’m never settling on a singular detailed artstyle”#I have no consistency in drawing realistic people/characters other than my shapy cartoon style#but I truly don’t get enough opportunity to properly shade anything with art in that style-!!! it always looks weird to me-!!!!!#I think some rude lil worm in my brain is wriggling around telling me it’s a futile attempt at still doing realism#cus I’m one of those “gifted” artists that grew up promising his parents he’ll end up among the big names or whatever#constantly training to become better at art but with realism oil paintings as the goal#you know how it is 😔#I wanna shade my lil funky designs but they never feel good enough to really put energy into or whatever so I compromise with stuff -#- like this where I try to draw characters more accurately while still stylizing them and shading them however I feel like it#which is great and all but I should really learn to give my more relaxed and less perfectionist art a chance#I deserve to enjoy the process and the result without working myself dead#it’s so much easier and rewarding to copy cartoon styles - stylizing realism makes me too anxious of doing it “wrong”#at least cartoon styles give me a goal to reach or a reference to strive towards#man I really should just cut myself some slack altogether#either way - this man is a flustered mess and he’s embarrassed about being called adorable in public or something#being teased in an affectionate way about his sweeter side and stuff#don’t ask why he’s shirtless - anatomy is just a lot more fun for me to draw sometimes#tasteful nudity and all that is extremely gorgeous to me#i need to practice anatomy more cus I just kinda did some shit and went with it this time with a BIT of consideration for muscle structure
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REALLY IMPORTANT UPDATE PLEASE READ
Hey y’all, so this blog is probably gonna be on a VERY SHORT hiatus. Just like. Literally less than a week.
The short long of it all is that my parents are coming in tonight for the holidays and unfortunately as much as I tired I didn’t have time to queue up enough stuff for that period of time.
The ask box is STAYING OPEN during this period of time! So you CAN keep sending stuff in there just won’t be any polls for a hot second! Holidays are just kinda hectic, you know? Lol
But thanks again for everyone’s support and I’ll see y’all after I’m done showing my beach parents around the mountains haha
Also! In case anyone is interested! Cartoon Network is on YouTube streaming Holiday Special reruns of their cartoons for FREE for this month! Here’s the link! Happy Holidays and go watch cartoons!!
#also I just wanna say. i know the queue has died a few times#and I’m just really greatful and thankful that even if any y’all DID notice#that no one was like. weird or rude about it#i hope it goes unspoken that yes! i love this blog! soooo much!!#but I also am an adult with a life and full time job lol!!!#but yalls support means the world and I’m so excited to come back and keep going!#also I’m gonna make sure that with the next batch of polls to also bring back the data reblogs!#I’m sooooo dorky I LOVE the data part of it all#but those reblogs do take a LOT more time and effort than the polls themselves which is why they don’t come out as often qwq#BUT THANKS AGAIN#AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO EVERYONE!!!!#toonz talks
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i really got some of the worst combinations of traits that make people think i’m unapproachable or generally unpleasant to talk to irl 😭😭 black + resting bitch face (vine boom) flat tone + can’t handle eye contact (vine boom) acne + eyebags (vine boom) scarring + can’t sit still (vine boom) visibly neurodivergent different in a way i STILL haven’t figured out yet but others have (vine boom)
#at least online i don’t have to worry about that stuff . bc irl it’s like a constant stream of#like no i’m not on drugs i don’t hate you i don’t even know you!!#maybe if people were more like me and stopped assuming so much (remembers all my flaws for a second) okay well maybe it’s best they aren’t+#like me lol#but seriously about that last one how have people known since kindergarten and i still don’t know how to identify it and hide it !#like hello i’m trying to get a job here just tell me what puts you off so i can get money!!#’no no no it’s nothing i don’t wanna be rude’ well i don’t wanna be broke start yapping#i can’t be as confident bc that will get me killed 😓 like i’m not even joking right there i will be targeted and beaten and possibly killed#not spiderstuff
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Me: hmm I did not care for that interaction. “Blocks” ahh that feels better. Now I can go about my day.
The person I just blocked: on public social media “And then they BLOCKED ME. IT WAS SO RUDE. IM ENTITLED TO TALK TO OREO AND NOW THAT THEY HAVE BLOCKED ME HOW AM I GOING TO TALK TO THEM??? I’m deprived. Oreo is problematic actually! 🤬🤬🤬
Me: wow I’m so glad blocking people means I don’t have to see what they are saying. I’m living my life now and moving on.
The person I blocked: MOM SOMEONE ON TWITTER BLOCKED ME CALL THEIR MOM AND MAKE THEM TALK TO ME.
#the fact that multiple people are going to assume I’m talking about them specifically says a lot#I’ve had to deal with pushy or rude people over the years#I’ve always just blocked and moved on#if someone else blocks me I see that as them saying they don’t want to interact and I respect that#I’m not entitled to their time or energy#that goes both ways#if I block someone I’m not obliged to talk to them anymore#that’s why blocking is an option#so many people online treat me like I owe them something#wether it’s art or a conversation or a friendship#I don’t owe people anything#I just wanna draw weird robots#I’m not going to name any names or call anyone out for being obnoxious#if people want to make public callouts denouncing me for the crime of blocking them that’s their problem#I will say though that what I have been shown of those posts is so cringe#I do not regret a single person I have blocked#if you end up blocked on the internet build a bridge and get over it.
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Venting on tumblr always feels weird bc I like the catharsis of talking about my feelings without the shame and guilt of going to someone to talk about them bc I don’t wanna be someone who just bitches all the time. But at the same time venting on a public online space makes me feel self conscious of like, ppl thinking I’m ranting for attention idk bad brain hours
#zk.txt#vent#augh augh I feel like I’m failing as a person and letting down everyone I care about but I also!#don’t want to say anything stupid while I’m super emotional!#and I’m terrified of wearing ppl out with my bitchery! or being too much!#i just wanna be a good friend and person to have around and I feel like I’m inherently annoying augh!#which also makes me feel selfish bc I have ppl who care about me so it feels rude to still feel bad about myself augh!
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i will never understand how people think Kent hates animals for what he said to Heroine after Kuro’s death.
let’s start with how after Kuro gets hit by the car Kent immediately takes control of the situation directing both her and the driver so Kuro can get to the vet quickly so he doesn’t die.
next what he says to the Herione isn’t him blaming her it’s him trying to help her by pointing out what she could’ve done/ can do in the future to prevent something like this happening again. Heroine actually agrees with kent she fully acknowledges that this happened due to her in proper care
Kent is coming form the perspective of learning form your mistakes and keywords here
Respecting kuro
the heroine right after this flash back realizes that Kent wasn’t acting maliciously and did care.
he quite literally feels guilty for Kuro’s death despite knowing it’s illogical.
he doesn’t hate animals or anything he’s just not a dog person.
#‘he was so mean to her after her dog died’ you don’t even know kuro’s name shush#this isn’t targeted at anyone or serious i just wanna blab about my man#Shin is a bully Ikkyu is an alcoholic toma is toma and ukyo is horrible d.i.d rep#yet Kent failing to comfort someone after their dog died and coming off rude is where you draw the line?#he was literally trying to help he just isn’t good at it#and he apologized for having done it poorly!#stop lying about my man being some disgusting animal hater#he just wanted his crush to stop ‘oh who’s a good boy!’ her dog and pay attention to him#amnesia kent#amnesia memories#otomegame#kent amnesia#amnesia otome#🧠thoughts
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When you take a five minute break and pull out a lil treaty treat (newest chapter of a yaoi) and a coworker has the nerve to come up and start small talking 😩
Like congrats on your new boyfriend, can’t you see I’m busy watching both of mine bang?
#ugh so rude#misha rants#for legal reasons this is a joke#I don’t read yaoi at work when there are others here 😂#but I did wanna check what’s been updated this morning#and I AM happy for her!!!! I just… don’t really care about real people’s dating life xD
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tumblr’s whole thing with the machine & the mechanical , and the artificial intelligence and the computer are all slightly making me dislike robots & all that etc
#we peaked with “stick your dick in the vcr slot”#i don’t much care for the eroticism of the machine or whatever you guys call it#i don’t wanna hear anything else about how you want to fuck the iron ingot#sorry if this is rude i’m just impulsive as uf right now
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is it normal to be waiting for almost a year for an art comm that i paid for? i’ve asked a couple of times for any progress updates/the approximate date when the commission would be finished and all i received back were kinda vague answers lol
#i just don’t wanna be rude about it ya know#cos i’m a pretty patient person and i srsly don’t wanna nag them about it#but like…… a year?#like is it wrong to pull back from it and ask to get my money back idk??????#:(((((
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Finished watching the Avatar live action and I can say I really liked it. I will admit that I’ve only seen the original once 2 years ago so my memory of the storyline is a bit foggy so I can’t say what was off and what wasn’t in regards to that. But I will say that it was genuinely enjoyable and I don’t particularly understand where I’ve seen people say it was boring or terribly written. Yes there was a bit of odd info dumping but other than that I thought it was pretty good. Maybe this is just cause I typically don’t go into shows wanting to nitpick anything and instead go in with the thought of hoping I’ll really like it
#raineyrambles#I’m never really too critical with stuff I watch#mostly cause why would I spend hours watching something I’ll just spend the whole time complaining about#if I really don’t like something i just won’t watch it and I’m not gonna go complain about it cause I don’t care that much lol#I don’t mean for this to sound rude to anyone I just wanna make that clear#y’all are free to have whatever opinions y’all want#here’s just mine#avatar the last airbender#atla#avatar
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#sometimes I really just wanna delete this whole thing bc it’s not the fun escape it once was and it’s tiring having some people act#like such assholes when they don’t need to be. a casual constructive conversation about a topic I can do but people being rude is something#that I don’t like and that isn’t necessary#also a lot of you lack nuance and only see things as black or white when in reality most things are a lot more complicated than that
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if you bring your loud child to the library please FOR THE LOVE OF GOD take them to the youth department!!!! PLEASE I AM BEGGING YOU ON MY HANDS AND KNEES
#there are times and places where children should not be allowed to scream#and one example is in the adult department of the library at literally any time of day#we have youth department for a reason#if you do not need to be in the adult department with your child THEN DON’T BE#people come here to work and study in a quiet environment#they do not come here to listen to you play trucks with your screaming toddler#use the designated area for that#i am not trying to be rude but dear god it shouldn’t be this hard to figure out#we encourage being loud and playing and having fun IN THE APPROPRIATE AREAS#the adult department is not the appropriate area#please i am begging you to be aware of your surroundings and considerate of others#and the part that really bugs me about this is that i’m not allowed to ask them to relocate unless a patron has made a complaint to me#but of course no one ever makes a complaint even if they want to bc they don’t wanna sound mean#and my own personal inability to get MY work done doesn’t count as a valid concern apparently#god. it’s so incredibly frustrating that people are so inconsiderate#i have nothing against children!! but there are designated areas in the library specifically for children to be loud in#it’s not that hard to just use them#ok rant over sorry#anya.txt
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Worst part abt my energy vanishing: brain determined to convince me that I’m annoying and give me psychic damage every time I take breath to wanna ask if I can clink my characters with someone else’s characters abt it
#brain: ok but what if they don’t WANNA be on abt that character rn. what if that’s not the vibe#logical brain: shut up that’s a decision for them to make#rude dumb brain: ok but what if they’re TIRED-#it’s like oh my god I just wanna ask if more folks can go on the nature walks where folks get soso excited abt things and can teach their#friends abt it#puppet and eiteth r rambling abt decomposition and podsol goes :0!!! about a bug they’ve not seen in ages and dex is helping identify plants#so podsol doesn’t end up dealing with poison ivy (again) and
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