Shipping: Definition, Sexuality, and Sources
There are many different areas of fandom one may be interested in. Characters, world building, history. You could be interested in it all or just enjoy the canon material as a casual fan. One aspect of fandom that has been particularly villainized and warned against however is shipping.
Shipping is the romantic pairing of characters within fandoms (note the s, it can spread across multiple fandoms). And though there are shippers that go overboard, overall shipping is no different than the other aspects of fandom. And the intent to establish relationships between characters in order to make your favorite people happy is actually not odd in itself.
Shipping encompasses both canon, or confirmed in the story/by the creator, and non canon pairings. A simple example of this can be taken from fandom powerhouse Harry Potter. The canon ship is Hinny, or Harry and Ginny who get together in the sixth book and eventually marry and have children. A non canon pair on the other hand is Drarry, or Draco and Harry. Non canon pairings are driven by the question ‘what if?’ What if the friends became lovers? What if the hero and villain fell in love? What if the creators were more open to LGBTQIA+ ships?
Where canon can fail us in terms of sexual diversity, shipping can offer a variety of LGBTQ+ relationships to aspire to, establishing a norm that’s long been denied. In it’s own way, shipping can offer representation that the canon works are too scared or prejudice to offer up. In fact, the most popular ships on fanfiction websites, and in many fandoms are now LGBTQ+ pairings. For instance, the top 12 pairings of AO3′s 2021 top ships are part of the LGBTQ+ family. Only 27 out of the 100 accounted for ships were not LGBTQ+.
As a shipper myself who enjoys multiple relationships across multiple fandoms/canons, I’ve found quite a few good websites and channels that can fulfill all your shipping needs. In order to potentially help anyone getting into fandom or the shipping aspect of fandom, some of those sources are listed below.
Info-YouTube Channels
Shippers Guide to the Galaxy- A YouTube channel specifically centered around explaining ships, recommending fanfics, and defining aspects of fandom that may be difficult to understand, the woman who hosts it is very open and tolerable. She’s well versed in all aspects she talks about and is ready to discuss the topics from every angle. Her soothing voice and amazing editing style also helps, and she draws from a wide variety of sources depending on the fandom.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvp198WlRp6t72Rm5YXvOTw
Are They Gay- This man lives to prove one thing. That these perceived heterosexual men are in fact in love with each other. He has a few vids of Queer history, but the majority of his work revolves around specific couples. His Cherik, Wolfstar, and Reddie vids are my favorite, but he also has Ineffable Husbands, Spirk, Lams, and Spideypool just to name a few.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2ME6cK8jWnRSWyUdV0yWJw
YouTube Fan Music Videos
DemonDove- Lots of gorgeous Destiel vids, plus she dubs the dialogue audio onto the music audio and I love the little quote intercepts. It makes these types of videos all the better.
LisaWinchester- Reddie, Cherik, and more including gen and single character vids, the editing is beautiful and more often than not the song choice is killer.
Other Random Sites
Fandom Wiki- Not always reliable but can offer good information.
Pinterest- Has some beautifully edited photos and boards full of ship-specific posts.
DeviantArt- Home to some of the most beautiful fanart I have ever seen.
Wattpad- My first fanfiction website. I’d recommend it for your first go because it’s easiest to navigate.
Archive of Our Own- The biggest fanfic site I’ve visited full of everything you could possibly want.
And of course, the glorious Tumblr
Happy shipping!
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i am BEGGING you to make that jondami ship guide. not because i need anything to make me ship them more than i already do but because they deserve to have their good moments highlighted
Jondami/Damijon shipping guide.
A collective guide to any cute moment between Jon and Damian in DC comics or motion pictures. Any moment that could make a reader like them more as a ship will be put all here in one Tumblr post.
• Superman (2016) Issues #10-#11
This is the first time they meet each other and they immediately knock heads. Jon’s lighter than life personality clashes with Damian’s cold personality and they don’t seem to get along but you can tell there’s something growing behind the eye rolling and tongue clicking… a friendship?
• Super Sons (2017)
This is the first of the Super Sons series, the series is really short but gold nonetheless. No Super Sons comic that I don’t like but this one is my favorite. They still are knocking heads and refuse to call each other partners but they grow and learn to be heroes together.
• Adventures of the Super Sons (2018)
They slowly start to get used to each other and this comic shows that Damian isn’t just straight up mean but is starting to somewhat ‘like’ Jon.
• Challenge of the Super Sons (2020)
The last main Super Sons comics. This one is fine but I love the others so much. These comics are essential to know Jon and Damian period, it’s the main comics of each others story and in a way they are important to each others development.
• Batman and Superman: Battle of the Super Sons (2022)
Now after all that reading treat yourself to a movie because Jon and Damian got their own movie. This is what started Jon and Damian for a lot of people and this is probably where a lot of you are from. This movie is great and fun. They made Damian wayyy nicer than in the comics and their friendship easier.
• DC Rebirth Holiday Special (2016)
Please find and read this. It’s so cute. I love it so much.
• Dark Nights: Metal issue #3 (2017 -2018)
They make a rock band in the beginning, its so cute.
• DCeased (2019)
• DCeased: The Unkillables (2020)
• DCeased: Hope at World’s End (2020)
• DCeased: Dead Planet (2020)
• DCeased: War of the Undead Gods (2022)
This is such a good series, and story in general please read it. DC peaked with this one and its so angsty. I don’t care what comphet was happening, Jon was there for Damian like no one else. I think Damian ends up with Cassie which is weird to me because Damian has never shown interest in anyone before but I excuse it since it’s not really gonna happen again since they were in a relationship just for the story to be more high stakes and sad. Jon and Damian’s relationship was at the forefront and for comic book readers DCeased made people see the potential in Jondami.
• DC’s Terror Through Time (2022)
This is so cute, please read this. It’s a halloween special and they switch uniforms <3!!
• DC Saved by the Belle Reve (2022)
They help a nonbinary person navigate school and it’s so damn cute.
• The age up incident.
(Disclaimer: You can pretend this never happens and I wouldn’t blame you for doing that.) A writer named Brain Micheal Bendis comes into the writers room for DC and ages up Jon in short. The story is that Superman goes missing (He travels to War World and gets stuck there) and Jor-El comes back to meet Jon and he takes him on a trip to explore space, then they get trapped in a wormhole, Jon gets stuck on Earth-3 and has to fight Ultraman. He’s stuck in a volcano for five or six years and becomes seventeen (we think) when he comes back. This was sad to me because it took away all the potential interactions for Jon and our ability to see him grow up, it was rushed and purposely so. Jon takes up the title of Superman somehow and starts to date some guy named “Jay Nakamura.”
• Superman: Son of Kal-El (2021) Issues: #1, #3, #6, #13, and #14.
He does get a boyfriend here and I think it’s amazing the fact he simply gets a boyfriend but no one really likes his bf so… and the are real reasons why Jay as a character is problematic BUT if you just don't want to see him with someone else than every time you see a pink haired twink, quickly skip.
• Super Sons (2017) Special
This is them reuniting after the age up and it shows how Damian reacts to it. I can’t actually find this and if anyone can please let me know where it is. I can only find bits and pieces of it scattered across the internet. All you need to know is that he doesn’t like the age up anymore than us since he says “I miss my friend.” which is really sad to me because the age up ultimately really hurts what people like about their dynamic as well as tarnish Jon’s character almost completely.
UPDATE: found it, it got attached to
• Dark Crisis (2022) till Issue #5
This is fine, after issue four Jon and Damian are not there anymore and if you read half the story just for jon and damian you might as well finish it.
• Green Lantern: Blackstars (2019) issue #2
They hug here. You’re welcome.
• Action Comics (2016) issue #1030
This is the best thing to come from the age up. This is so cute of them.
• Teen Titans (2016) Issue #45
i didnt really like this, im not gonna lie but it has some damian and jon interaction worth noting with jon being protective over damian.
• Flash (2016) Issue #797
jon defending damian. this is such a cute moment for them. jon talks damian up and says how hes the strongest person he knows and how hes misunderstood.
• Superman (2016) Issue #21
iconic damian and jon sleepover, so cute. so flipping cute. damians outfit is adorable.
• Legion of Super Heroes (2019) Issue #3, ?, ?
dont read this. its rlly bad but this is full of jon being the number one damian apologist, quality jondsmi moments over quantity. worth mentioning
• Wonder Woman (2023) #3, #4, #5, #6, ?
literally them raising a child together but their ages are a bit wonkey, i still dont personally know what age either of them are supposed to be there...
DC MEETS HANNA-BARBERA - Super Sons x Dynomutt
I’d say they aren’t exactly written right, well over all they are but their personalities are more relaxed and they care about each other a lot and will go out of their way to make sure the other is okay and protect them from danger, make them laugh etc, theres nothing wrong with this, its really cute but you can tell its not the typical jon and damian writers is all. I like it.
- Fandom
Artist that draw Jon and Damian:
(I don’t know any of these accounts intimately so if they’re problematic in any way than I am sorry in advance)
Sheiya Vlad
Pechaghtlecha
Corinthianrm0
Hobiiiebrown
spider-jaysart
arunneronthird
Twitter
Hokke
Gozer
@_1209E
YouTube
Justice Lords Animation
Japanese Animation
Super Sons Meme Animation
- Fanfics
Trust fall by Ididloveyou_once
Those Who Wait by InsaneTrollLogic
moving in stereo by TheResurrectionist
Reasons to Not Fall in Love by nanami
Growing Pains
These are fics I read and liked, I don’t have much. I don’t read a lot of Jondami fan fiction so I insist that you recommend your own fanfiction in the comments. (Don’t hate me for the self promo)
- Music (A silly lil playlist I made for them)
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