Liking Vyncent Sol and defending his honor on Tumblr.com isn't enough, I need to go back and rewatch/listen through all of Prime Defenders and take notes on his character so that I can make a giant character analysis on him so that people can understand that he's so much more than just "the dumb silly guy" and "the guy William has a crush on."

Assuming that Kirby still goes to Magoland, how does he interact with the 4 of you nowadays?

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Magolor: Yes Kirby definitely still comes to Merry Magoland! Normally once or twice a month he’ll come with his friends, but it’s nice to the familiar face again!

(Holy F U CK- this has been in my inbox for over a month I’m so sorry- are these two most likely from the same person based on how it’s worded the same way? Absolutely. Am I putting both in here just in case? AB SO FUCKING LUTELY)

(But as you can see I decided to have it look like they’re being interviewed in a room- does it look ok? Yeah I’d say so, am I doing this again? I hOPE N O T -)

(But since we’re here HEYYYY KIRBYYYY- little guy doesn’t have that big of a role in this AU, besides the fact that he’s a doctor (the 13 year old gets a medical degree in 2 seconds) but shhhh that’s for later-)

(BUT ONCE AGAIN THANK UOY SO MUCH FOR THE ASK- I kinda wanted to put a spooky twist on it but the art wasn’t arting so I had to scratch the idea BUT ITS O K- because I kinda made it work??? Kinda??? Idk it depends on if anyone can spot it- BUT THANK YOU SO MUCH AND ILL SEE YOU GUYS NEXT POST and next post WILL BE A SILLY ONE- MAYBE- DONT QUOTE ME ON THAT)

procastinating at work but here's my philosophy for today: it's okay to hate a behavior in someone else but also understand that this behavior does not make them a bad person. like i HATE when i'm venting or talking about a serious problem i have and then the person i'm talking to starts trying to relate by talking about a similar experience they've had. like absolutely hate it. make me feel like the focus is being taken off me and it genuinely is in some ways, regardless of your intent. yeah, i understand that's your way of trying to comfort me -- but that's not the way i need or want to be comforted, and that's what matters in a situation where i'm coming to you to be helped.

and that's okay! like. no one is in the wrong here unless i have explicitly asked you to support me in a different way and you're intentionally refusing, or if i lash out at you when i could just disengage. it just means you're not a person i should go to for help when talking about my problems. we can still be friends, you and i can probably support each other in different ways, but we're just incompatible in this regard. and that's like....okay. it's okay to be incompatible with people.

so when others joke and it flies over my head and i take it very seriously and people end up annoyed/make fun of me

and when i try to make a joke and end up taking to too far and offending people and end up apologising profusely

someone teach me where the line is fr

yeah emails suck but have you ever had to text someone back

I know it's only ableist normie neurotypical assholes coming in here going "I can't believe your favorite hyperfixation died and you're upset that so cringe, you don't deserve respect" because if other neurodivergent people came into actual fandom spaces with their art prints and shaker keychains and tattoos of their own hyperfixation characters and were absolutely infuriated that not only do people have other viewpoints and tastes as them but that they don't deserve to express them, and then proceed to invalidate tf out of them, maybe you're not covered under the tolerance contract. Maybe we don't want you in neurodivergent spaces until you stop acting like a skinwalker.

Nds shitting on other nds when the world already shits on us is literally the most fucked up thing. Hope you never have nd kids, guys. Something will definitely get lost in translation. And if you're offended by this personally, lol. Then yeah it was targeted directly at you cuz you definitely don't get it. Cool people do.

This episode they really showed how Uea wants sex to distract himself to make the bad feelings go away for a while and King is the only safe option (not the best way of coping maybe atm but it gets better). Hope they will make him talk about it because I feel many in the audience still don’t understand the link between sex and comfort and coping especially for an abuse victim who always turns to it after triggering events (still think this part is more about the mom, cause whenever the stepdad is part of the trigger he can’t have sex or cuddles ... at least can’t enjoy it as we have seen in this episode). Shortly said, an orgasm gives you dopamine, and it’s all your mind and body focuses on in that moment. Reasons why this could end up in an addiction under the wrong circumstances. Under the right ones it can be therapeutic and have an antidepressant effect.

Uea is a bit torn with King. The caring side of King is an unexpected surprise for him every time. He doesn't really expect kindness from people. But he's glad whenever he receives it from people he trusts. Which King became a part of way too fast for Uea to admit (he’s a player after all). That’s why he rarely shows King his smiles when he’s fond of him. I think the cake scene was one of the rare moments he truly showed him this kind of vulnerability to him (him being truly happy, it’s a delicate feeling easily snatched away under his circumstances). He also took a long time to even understand that King really means it, that this birthday cake is really for him because King really wants to make him happy and he’s allowed to take it. I wonder if the little cake fight and unceremonial bite into the cake is an emotional defense from Uea to not get too deep into vulnerable emotions and turn it into fun / silly & sexy moment instead while still keeping the good vibe.

He’s not ready for an emotional bond with him yet when they clearly stated from the beginning this will just be about sex and they don’t even like each other (we all know that’s a lie). I suspect Uea has trust issues as well since his stepdad always acts nice, caring and misunderstood... so Uea needs a while to learn if people really mean it or if they just want something from him.

I bet that will become a big issue at some point, when they both think the other has no feelings while they secretly do have feelings. I fear Uea will push King away for a while when their feelings get clearer.

Yknow something that gets me abt certain fanon depictions of kai is that he’s portrayed with no sense of self preservation, as if he’s self sacrificing and burned out, and I think I dislike it bc it feels like the opposite of his character most of the time.

Yeah some of the actions he takes are harmful to himself in some way, but it’s never intended to, they were ways of coping and making himself feel better.

Like the green ninja plot, he is insecure in his place, so he strives for the highest title to make him feel better.

The red shogun isn’t him beating himself up and not caring about his own well being. He was winning fights, fully engaging in the job, taking his frustration out on others and drinking away his issues, and yeah there’s self loathing in that, but there’s also him trying to make himself feel better, to redirect hurt away from himself.

Him prematurely concluding his parents were the bad guys in s7, is (imo) his way of rationalising his mixed feelings, in order to keep himself okay.

He’s not a reckless war machine who throws himself into battle with no hesitation, he tries to keep himself safe.

Kai is self-prioritised and yknow I think people in general really demonise that kinda of trait both in fiction and irl and that’s actually kind of harmful. The self sacrificial trait is so grossly over romanticised and idk it’s a breathe of fresh air when you see a character who doesn’t start out that way or end that way. Like nothing wrong with that trait being written, it’s just like sometimes it feels like people are only allowed to prioritise themselves if they previously have no sense of self care, bc then it’s seen as a healthy improvement. But in any other case, it means you’re selfish and that’s a bad thing apparently.

Like no. Being selfish and loving yourself and thinking you are hot shit and the smartest person alive and prioritising things that make you happy. None of that makes you evil or morally wrong. If in attempts to meet your needs you try to hurt someone else, or end up hurting yourself, then the action you took was bad but the intent isn’t! Fuck the media that finds people loving themselves as immorally wrong! Fuck it! It is not sexy to hate yourself actually.

I want more fanon Kais indulge in activities that make him happy, Kais that make bad decisions in trying to protect himself and Kais that have good coping mechanisms because he’s still trying to protect himself he’s just found better ways of doing it.

Bc it’s canon and it feels like it gets erased a bit because people somehow don’t find self love appealing unless the character was self hating first.

I have appeared on this site once again to give you a headcanon: Natsume Takashi from Natsume Yuujincho is autistic.

Bro, I'm so tired.

it goes something like this. you do something random, something unconventional, because it brings you joy - you let out a weird little noise bc it's satisfying, you wiggle in excitement, you make an oddly specific remark because you think it's a clever observation, you enjoy art/media that's considered just a bit too cringey or meme-y - and immediately your friends laugh, saying how "funny" and "random" you are, how they "can't imagine what it must be like inside your head", and wondering if you're perhaps drunk or under the influence of drugs. And after a while, you start to present your happiness as jokes, because it is much better to think that you've made your friends happy by making them laugh on purpose than to have them laugh at you, until you no longer understand why it hurts to hear others laugh at your own jokes

When people find out I have no social life, no friends, no relationship, nothing, and they go: "Oh wow, I could never live like that!"

Like ... Yeah buddy, me neither.... Me neither. But no one asked me if I want to life like that...

i havent actually looked at any s3 shadow and bone bits that have been dropped purely because, despite the fandom at large hurting my relationship with the show, i still have Too Much feelings about it

you know, where you like something So Much that you physically can’t look at it? it’s like the same but opposite of being too scared to peek at…i don’t know, a spider or whatever you’re afraid of. i really Want to see the s3 stuff bc ahhhhhh the reactions i have seen floating by seem really promising, but…it is Too Much

i love hearing u be autistic about book binding i am definitely interested and will check it out

cookies ill start sobbing an wailing and sobbing :((( thank you i love talking about books a lot. artist books are so so deeply cool and unique but theyre a dying art and often overlooked in favor of other art media! which i get but artist books are SOOOO amazing. go look up dragon scale binding rn. heres a picture of some to tempt you oooohhhh hypnosis hypnosis subliminal messaging you think book arts is cool!!!!

Noticed a strange trend and wanting to test something…

Feel free to reblog for sample size—and feel free to explain further in tags, text reblogs, and replies if you vote! Also please say whether you found it helpful or not (if you read it) if you want; personally, I never do. Just curious about a trend.

(ALSO feel free to tag with any type of neurodivergence or tag or whatever! I cannot reasonably think of every tag or way to be neurodivergent so feel free to help with your tagging! And if a single one of you is ableist towards any form of neurodivergence on this post I will joyously smite you into the sun.)