#this is the opposite of a problem | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

silence-between-seconds · 1 month

Text

My sister has discovered Taylor Swift and now I can't go two minutes without a song playing in my vicinity

#this is the opposite of a problem #and yet #i want some peace and quiet #i love taylor #but my god #this is madness #siri speaks #help siri #taylor swift

13 notes · View notes

faygos · 2 months

Text

i swear i'm gonna answer some of these asks soon!!!

#i have so many nice messages in my inbox #this is the opposite of a problem

13 notes · View notes

blind-radio-waves · 9 months

Text

I WENT FROM LIKE 40 ON MY QUEUE TO 212 FROM CATS FROM DARK GXKGSOYCUVYZJ KC

#the host ask blog #DARK. THE CATS.#this is the opposite of a problem

7 notes · View notes

boimgfrog · 1 year

Text

keep getting crushes on autistic ppl cos I think it's rly cute and charming when someone is rly passionate abt their interests and hobbies and guess. what is a common aspect of autism.,

#let me be clear #this is the opposite of a problem #but it has led 2 many jokes in my friend group that i have some innate autism radar that determines my type #jay says a thing

9 notes · View notes

keiachi-chan · 6 months

Text

I keep getting jumpscared by beautiful women

#birthday #kay birthday #women #beautiful women #florida #vacation #the security woman at this resort is the hottest lady I've ever seen #and this waitress is beautiful #this is the opposite of a problem

3 notes · View notes

thesoundofsnowfallingfromeaves · 2 years

Text

I am making granola for the first time (like..homemaking it, not eating it) and I accidentally poured way too much vanilla extract so my whole apartment rn aggressively smells of vanilla

#this is the opposite of a problem

3 notes · View notes

singsoftly · 8 months

Text

I've had Bat Country stuck in my head aaaaaall week

What a banger

If you have any recommendations for anything similar let me know pls

#this is the opposite of a problem

0 notes

what-do-1000-swords-look-like · 1 year

Text

Okay it's official, I have WAY too much Jensen content in my likes. Tbf, at least half of those like is Dean content, 20% is Soldier Boy, 10% is Beau, 10% are other characters he's played, 5% is Radio Company, and the other 5% is FBBC things but still. It's a problem and it's WAY too telling. I may give myself a timeout from the Jensen and Dean tags for a bit lol.

I'm almost tempted to purge this account or make a new one or something. 60K likes from the past few years...daaaaaammmn. Someone should definitely disable my like button.

#blogstuff #i know #this is the opposite of a problem #but to my ocd-leaning brain it is #jensen-relatedposts

0 notes

libriamore · 1 year

Text

I’m visiting my sister and I’ve already told her that we are *not allowed* to go to a bookstore. I bought 20 books in the last three weeks and I will buy more

#my to-read shelf is very large #I cannot stop myself #and i’m okay with that #book buying #I have money now which means I can afford books #this is the opposite of a problem #literature #light academia #reading #chaotic academia #books

0 notes

andtosaturn · 11 months

Photo

BARBIE (2023) dir. Greta Gerwig

5K notes · View notes

human-south-of-north-pole · 1 year

Text

Help I thought there would be lots of trick or treaters in The Big City but turns out there were zero now I am sitting on a month's supply of candy

#this is the opposite of a problem #unless I eat it all tomorrow and get a tummy ache

1 note · View note

thetragicallynerdy · 1 year

Text

too many hyperspecific polls time for the least specific poll of them all

#polls #poll #tumblr poll #hyperspecific poll #but the opposite #i have polls now and im about to make it everyone's problem

3K notes · View notes

wolvesandvisions · 9 months

Text

to anyone who draws and experiences wrist pain like I do i. I figured out the blindspot to solving the pain. maybe this is obvious but whatever. im honestly I'm frustrated at myself for not knowing sooner bcs I was an athlete for so long. but what always confused and frustrated me was that no matter how much i stretched the pain wasnt going away

people always linked n shared resources to stretches and it'd give me temporary relief but not deal with the issue especially not any longer than the time it took me to stretch.

u do have to stretch. but u ALSO HAVE TO WORK OUT YOUR ARMS.

the reason we are hurting so much is because that muscle is doing a lot of repetitive and strenuous motion but the whole length of your arms and wrists aren't strong enough to withstand that much work.

u cant just stretch. buy a set of light-ish weights and just pick a set of wrist and arm workouts u like. do them often. stretch and do those work outs. i really dont even think it matters which you do I do a combination of this and this

just pick ones u like that are good for you, working out can be fun and not miserable i promise. do it. save ur wrists. my life has changed, i still feel pain but ive been able to work and not be ready to cry the next day from daring to try

#wolf txt.#rsi #rsi injuries #if anyone else has tips or favorite workouts share them #like i mentioned i was already an athlete so i am also reverting to some old warm ups i did to help with my back pain too #i played softball #n my thing always was that my arms were weak but my legs did a lot of work #i think i convinced myself that bcs my body wasnt withstanding muscle needed to hit a ball far #trying to push myself to work on my arms too hard was going to create more problems #THE OPPOSITE!!#I JUST NEEDED TO PACE MYSELF N TAKE IT SLOW!!#AAA

1K notes · View notes

nikutsuneart · 5 months

Text

Day 2: Ragnarok | Rebirth

An empty start and a false end.

#Kingdom Hearts #soriku #sora x riku #sorikuweek2023 #chain of memories #watch me draw something completely opposite of yesterday #also the idea is that sora is starting anew but void of what he needs to know #where riku thinking he could never be redeemed is the only one facing his problems and growing

982 notes · View notes

autball · 3 months

Text

Contrary to popular belief, “hating praise” is not just a PDA thing. There are many reasons it could not sit right with someone.

It’s also assumed that people like this just hate all praise, but that’s not true either. What we hate is feeling manipulated, or lied to, or monitored, etc.

I mean, do you realize how much adults are encouraged to use praise to manipulate kids and people in care?? We’re supposed to use it to get more of the behaviors we like, and to promote a “growth mindset,” and to encourage them to stick with activities we think are good for them, and so on and so on.

That’s so much trying to get people to do what we want them to do! Is it really any wonder that praise could end up feeling disingenuous and manipulative after a while? How often are we just genuinely appreciating something they’ve done or who they are as a person, and how are they to know the difference?

If you have someone in your life who reacts badly when you praise them, maybe take a look at your motivations or the way you’re doing it instead of assuming they are the one with the problem. Maybe there’s something like low self esteem or rejection sensitivity skewing their perception, or maybe their perception is just fine and they’re picking up on your ulterior motives (and they don’t appreciate it!).

And please know that you don’t have to withdraw all praise. Everyone wants to feel like they’re good at *something* and that people like what they do. Just wait until it’s wanted, and make sure it’s genuine, with no expectations attached.

#autism #autistic #actually autistic #adhd #audhd #pathological demand avoidance #pda autism #oppositional defiant disorder #autistic experiences #autistic feels #autistic problems

447 notes · View notes

yume127 · 9 days

Text

I find it interesting how Roxas is often described as the “angry one” or “short-tempered one” when compared to Sora or Ventus, mostly because I always felt Sora and Ven have a shorter fuse than Roxas.

The association between Roxas and anger is understandable, because many of Roxas’ most poignant moments in the series happen when he is very (and understandably) angry, but I also feel like it’s a disservice to his character to only reduce him to his anger, especially when it’s far from who he is in normal circumstances.

For example, during Days, many Organization members treat him poorly and insult him to his face and, for the most part, Roxas doesn’t react at all. In Halloween Town, Lock, Shock, and Barrel throw bombs in his face multiple times before Roxas finally snaps at them. He senses that many people around him are keeping things from him, but it takes him months before he confronts someone about it. That’s far from someone I’d consider short-tempered or easy to anger.

The only situation I can think of when we see him get upset quickly is if anyone does or says something bad to Xion and, even then, the most of his reaction is verbally snapping at Saix to make him stop disrespecting her. In Axel’s case (when Roxas is upset with him for attacking Xion), Roxas doesn’t confront him at all, he just avoids him altogether. Also, I think it’s important to note that every moment in which Roxas is very angry happens when his entire life is falling apart, which is a situation in which, I believe, everyone would be upset.

Roxas seems the kind of person who bottles everything up without much reaction until it becomes too much and he explodes, and that’s when he has a hard time controlling his anger/emotions. Having spent most of his life in the organization probably plays a part in it as, every time he brings up any emotion, his feelings are invalidated and suppressed. That’s not an environment that gave him the tools to process strong emotions in a healthy way.

Let’s compare that to Ventus. Ven is the definition of short-tempered in BBS. He’s ready to throw hands with Vanitas the moment he says something remotely bad about Terra, which was minutes after he met him for the first time. He fought the dwarves without a second thought just because they refused to talk with him. His first reaction when he becomes small and is trapped in a mousetrap is to shout. These are just some examples from the top of my head, but it’s clear Ven has a shorter fuse than Roxas.

Ventus usually expresses how he feels in any given situation and has a short fuse. On the flip side, he doesn’t seem to hold on to these feelings at all. He externalises them the moment he feels them, but then he lets it go and it doesn’t bother him anymore. Out of the three of them, Ventus seems the most open about his emotions and, from what I remember, when he opens up about feeling a certain way with his friends, his feelings are usually not invalidated nor brushed aside. In UX, Ventus seems calmer and doesn’t have much anger in him, but he’s still open to expressing his feelings of low self-worth and sadness with the other union leaders.

Sora, I think he falls in the middle? He seems to have a shorter temper compared to Roxas, which was especially clear in KH2, where he snaps at the Organization multiple times, but he also bottles up his emotions more than Ven, especially around his friends. This happens mostly with his sadness, which he always tries to hide or brush aside, but in KH3 we can also see, for example, how much he’s bothered by everyone constantly bringing up him not passing the Mark of Mastery, even if he tries not to show it.

I think Sora feels like he should always be happy for his friends’ sake, and even during the rare moments when he tries to express his sadness, his feelings are not truly welcomed (“No frowning. No sad faces. This boat runs on happy faces”), so he just tries to brush it off as a joke. He’s loud in expressing any kind of positive emotion, and he openly expresses his anger against his enemies (and to his friends too, sometimes), but he also doesn’t hold on to that anger and is pretty forgiving. However, he usually bottles up his sadness, low self-esteem and other negative feelings, and then explodes when he can’t hold it together any longer (like it happened at the Keyblade Graveyard when he thought all his friends were gone forever).

#roxas #ventus #sora #kingdom hearts #kh #i wonder if this misconception about roxas happens because most of his personality is shown in days #like in the actual game not in the movie #and maybe people who didn't play days don't know his characterization during the game #even if i would argue sora and especially ventus suffer from the same problem but opposite #where they're often described as always happy and sunshine when there's much more to their characterization #anyway i just wanted to talk about them #sorry for any mistakes #long post

272 notes · View notes