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On of the less intuitive things about love, I've found, of any kind, is the importance of needing things.
I didn't realize it until recently, but I've always seen love as something requiring sacrifice, selflessness, patience, and generosity- to ask for nothing is to be the best person I can be, small and quiet and never in the way, always happy and helpful, self-sufficient and present when desired.
It's only as an adult, now, that I'm beginning to see the selfishness of wanting nothing.
I cut my friend's hair in my kitchen the other day. They wanted a trim and I had the skills, so I offered, and was genuinely excited when they stopped hesitating over "bothering me" and took me up on it. It was a peaceful afternoon, and we had tea and chatted for an hour or more.
My brother and I shared popcorn at the movies a while ago. When I came time to pay, I pulled my card out like a wild western sheriff and slapped it on the machine before he could fight me for it first. The satisfaction was delightful.
Someone called me crying on the phone the other day. Kept apologizing for disturbing me at work, talking about how they were bothering me on my lunch break. I was telling the truth when I told them that really, I was flattered and honored and relieved, knowing that if they were hurting I would know, that I didn't have to worry in silence. It felt good to hear them slowly come down, and to know that they knew it would be better soon, and to hear them laugh wetly on the other end. We're getting together for a visit next week.
It's hard to need things, if you've trained yourself not to. It's hard to want things, when you don't know how to want anymore. Trusting people is difficult, and so is relying on them, but I don't know where I'd be without the people who rely on me.
I've heard a lot of people say, "Nobody will love you unless you love yourself". I've had a lot of thoughts about it. It's not right, but it's not wrong, either, I think.
"Nobody will love you unless you love yourself"... I've always taken that to mean, "You will not be lovable until you develop a positive view of yourself as a person".
Now, I think it's sort of inside-out.
"Nobody will love you unless you love yourself"... because nobody can show their love to you in a way that you can accept until you treat yourself kindly, and learn what you need, and what you want, and how to ask for it, and then give that vulnerability away.
Love, for me, is someone I ask for a ride to the airport. Whether they end up doing this or not is irrelevant.
It's not needy, or selfish, or taking up energy. It's giving the gift of being wanted, and needed, and thought of. It's giving someone the security of being part of someone's life.
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#noticed this post was made by a TERF so get stolen idiot#and in case she sees this: if cats could understand the kind of hate you stand for they’d avoid you forever. you don’t deserve cats#animals#cats#eepy#seepy#eepying#iz sweepy#soooo eepy#kittens#sleepy
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•nighttime smallness•
⭐️💤🌙
- cuddling with stuffies
- can barely keep your eyes open
- tiniest stretches !
- little mumbles and "mmhs" throughout the night <3
- lullabies playing to soothe your wild mind
- listening to the outside noises, and maybe you're a little bit scared of them (don't worry! the outside noise won't hurt you, dear <3)
- falling asleep and waking up once or twice in the night, just to fall back asleep immediately
- waking up in the morning with sheet marks on your skin, because you just slept so well <3
good night, little one!
sleep tight ^_^
NO NSFW INTERACTION AT ALL
#agere#sfw agere#dni if kink#age regressor#sfw#stuffies#age dreamer#age dreaming#age regression#agere community#agere little#coping#coping mechanism#am baby#sleepy eepy#i am eepy#im seepy#seepy#agere blog#agere aesthetic
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my sona in my new outfit :3c
#furry#furry art#fursona#art#furry artwork#furry fandom#furry community#oc artwork#artists of tumblr#artwork#wolf fursona#wolf#wolfsona#wolf furry#silly#cloud pants#cozy#comfy#seepy#sleepy
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tucked the fuck in
#lady#cat#my cat#cat pics#all tucked in#sleepy#eepy#seepy#sleepygirl#kitty#snoozin#late night scout#pets
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napping
#bungou stray dogs#bsd#bsd atsushi#bsd aktugawa#fem shin soukoku#shin soukoku#akutagawa my beloved#akutagawa ryuunosuke#украрт#artists on tumblr#bsd wan#silly#seepy#she eepy#akutagawa x atsushi#bungo stray dogs akutagawa
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@konamipanda for their ask on my @pink-onyx-au page saying Nyx reminds them of a cat. Have a doodle of how Onyx gets ready for sleeps.
Their spikes go all porcupine if the stretch is REALLY good.
#pink onyx#pink onyx au#stretchums#seepy#scribbles#pencil#sketch#shitpost#doodle#steven universe#steven universe future#ceephorart#c423art#jasper#steven#fan fusion
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#art tag#lisa rpg#lisa the hopeful#beltboy#benny oberwinch#was also gonna make edits of it to be asexual spectrum/transgender spectrum but euuuuh dont feel like it#seepy
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seepy time
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Hijack from smthn I read recently
They are very silly and very dumb <33
Drawing from Tarzan by SofiaHuizar1994 on ao3
Ignore the drawin in the corner please and ty
#httyd 1#hiccup haddock#hiccup horrendous haddock lll#hiccup httyd#jack frost#rotg jack frost#rise of the guardians#toothless#hijack#seepy#honk shoo honk shoo
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In need of some lesbian cuddles. Someone will be a pillow.
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sobbing
she’s 3’2 - 4’3 don’t squids her please
#rain world#iterator#rainworld#rainworld oc#iterator oc#oc#original art#rain world iterator#nervous#eegy#Seepy#the#baby#literallt so ggn#Brines Wave Softly At The Moon
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Possum wants to smimimi but can't. Therefore possum is angry.
#opossum#opossums#possum#ask#possum is me#ask blog#please ask questions#possums#ask questions#i am possum#eepy#so eepy#seepy#so seepy#i seepy#smimimimi#rage
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BEWBWBEBWBDCNFVJEF-
I promise you I was already drawing this before I saw the sfsb thing, I swear
#they r a little deranged and that’s ok#there was other dialogue but I forgot it lol#trash rambles#trashcreatyre's art#sonic 06#mephiles the dark#sonic fanart#sonic forces#infinite the jackal#mephinite#mephinfinite#mephiles x infinite#infinite x mephiles#sonic ships#doodles#ik 11 pm isn’t late by staying up late standards but i uses#usually wake up at like 5 something am so 11pm is almost like 3am to me now idk#seepy#might delete#idk we’ll see how embarrassed I am in the morning
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more of lady!
she seepy 🥺
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