general fandom consensus over the past couple days

You’re joking. Seriously A LOT of you guys in the TGC fandom need to watch this video and respect their boundaries.

And here’s a little add on for Grunk in case some people didn’t see his tweet. Don’t write smut about people or even write anything about them in they specifically said they feel uncomfortable with it or said not to. It’s just human decency.

advice on how to become a spnblr blog?

watch spn (at least 324 episodes. you’re allowed three No Thank Yous and that should include the finale)

blog about it

sleepover saturday

hi instagram made me angry

Hi I’m a mlm boy. I like dudes. I am a dude who kisses other men. Hi wsp what’s good.

If you aren’t aware, the term ‘fujoshi’ literally means rotten girl. It is used by girls who consume yaoi/bl content. They are calling themselves ‘rotten’ or ‘sinful’ for enjoying gay content. This is an issue, and if you are in fact capable of critical thinking I’m sure you can see why.

I want to be entirely clear with this: I do not have an issue with girls/non-mlm consuming mlm content. That is not a problem AT ALL. There are a lot of really good mlm stories and character out there and they should be appreciated. The issue comes when non-mlms start writing or romanticizing awful, abusive relationships in fiction just because it’s mlm. The biggest example of this I can think of is Killing Stalking, a mlm webtoon that showcased an absolutely horrid relationship.

It also becomes an issue when these non-mlm fujoshi (or whatever version of the term they decide to use) start carrying this mlm obsession over into the real world. There are countless stories of mlms being asked if they’re a ‘uke’ or a ‘seme’ after revealing their relationship or sexuality. There are hundreds of accounts of non-mlms obsessively shipping boys from their schools just because it’s gay and they think they’re so quirky and silly and goofy for it. Shipping real people is weird. Shipping real people just because it’s gay is weirder.

You should not be proud to call yourself a ‘rotten girl’ for liking mlm ships. Viewing mlm ships and people solely as a twisted form of entertainment is not support or allyship.

And if you’re a trans/non-binary/gender-questioning/etc person who’s using mlm content to explore your own gender and sexuality, that is okay! There’s nothing wrong with using content to figure that out because again, there is nothing wrong with non-mlms consuming mlm content as long it isn’t only harmful content or you aren’t bothering real people with it.

I can’t stress that point enough. Consume and create all the kinds of content you like! mlm content isn’t solely for mlm people! That being said, if you find an account that’s labeled as mlm only, don’t be an asshole and respect that. Some places are simply meant for support and as safe spaces. Just don’t cross any boundaries, don’t romanticize toxic and abusive relationships, and leave real people alone. And for the love of the stars, don’t call yourself a ‘rotten girl’ for enjoying mlm content or refer to your favorite mlm ship as ‘sinful.’ That’s just all kinds of harmful.

@anotthatblkraven 🖤 Just a little booty

If Sun or Moon were spotted by the kids did they ever tickle the kids or play with them while parents aren't watching?

They probably would've, but only if the kid was okay with it.

Still gotta respect personal space, after all. Some children don't like being touched in general.

Btw it doesn't suddenly become cool and funny to break people's boundaries just because you're a minor and the person whose boundaries you are breaking is an adult

It's still fucking weird to intentionally break and ignore people's boundaries. Especially when it's a very normal and completely reasonable boundary that is very easy to respect like.... an adult not wanting to interact with children on their literal fucking porn/nsfw focused account.

I’m not sure what “feminism” has come to but friendly reminder that PUBLICLY interrogating your friend about all of the most private, intimate, details of her personal sex life while she is trying to have a relaxing afternoon by a pool is not exactly revolutionary feminist activism. Especially not when every woman has different experiences and trauma and many women struggle with self esteem.

Seriously one of my friends did this yesterday to my other friend and publicly mocked and bullied her for being “sexually frustrated” because she hasn’t had a penis inside of her yet by a public pool where the sound echoes off of the concrete and anyone can hear everything!

She then said “I love feminism! I love that we can talk about this!” No you are not being a sex positive feminist you are publicly embarrassing your friend!!!

Watching “Sex and the city” really convinced a generation of women that being a rich straight white woman in a big city who has friends she over shares about her private life with is inherently what “feminism” looks like 🙄

All this does is make women compete against each other for experiences with men and it is fucking WEIRD and INVASIVE and DISRESPECTFUL and SOCIALLY INEPT and fucking RUDE! It was none of her fucking business to be publicly invasive like that. Can we bring back social propriety???? Do men talk to each other like this????

Women today think this is “feminism” while we still don’t have maternity leave, childcare, etc!!! And sex education and contraception is under attack!

PSA: While normally I am happy to chat.. especially with respectful mutuals... if I for some reason do not respond to your message... please respect that boundary that I am silently setting. I blog because I love to share content and if you like what I share, then I want you to enjoy it. I don't want to block anyone. But messaging me repeatedly when I am not responding is not a way to get my attention. Nothing good will come from that. Have some dignity. Have some respect. Chances are, it has nothing to do with you and it's not personal. But it will be if you continue to ignore my boundaries. I don't generally message first but I promise, if you've messaged me once and I want to chat I will respond... eventually 😊

That is all😊 Thank you😊

a reminder for everyone.

if someone says they're uncomfortable with sending nudes, stop asking for nudes! and don't call them names for not doing what you want.

like literally just respect people's boundaries.

it's not that difficult.

shit like this makes me want to quit this site when i usually have so much fun on here.

I don't understand why someone would come up with the concept of "the friend-zone" when it's about wanting a romantic relationship and stuff because I don't really find anything wrong with being in that situation??Like bro, you made a new friend despite her not wanting or just being not ready to have romance in her life yet or ever and you're upset about that??I don't know but sometimes people just don't make sense to me -_-. Oh well, anyways women, men and nonbinary people who aren't okay with anything other than a platonic friendship don't owe you anything so don't be a dweeb and get angry at them for having boundaries!!♡

If a girl says “yes” because you are pressuring her or trying to convince her, it is not consent, simple as that.

People who get mad about what other people put on their dni lists are so funny like. I’m sorry people have boundaries i guess

PSA: If you can't respect a creator's boundaries when it comes to a story's fanworks, maybe you shouldn't create fanworks of any media at all.