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I want someone to tell me when I’m allowed to use the bathroom. Like I love someone else controlling my release.
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two omegas out in public together despite their alpha’s warnings that their heat is nearing. they’ve just finished chatting over drinks when that familiar blistering heat begins to prick their skin, being in heat makes everything 10x more sensitive. the drinks they’ve just had go straight to their bladders and it immediately becomes an emergency. they struggle to get themselves to the train station, eventually being backed into the corner of a jam packed train where they’re whimpering and whining and clinging to each other trying so hard not to pee when their slick is already making a mess between their thighs. and when they finally get off the station they hobble together almost all the way home until eventually one of them can’t take it anymore and wets themselves a street away from home, which triggers the other omega to go as well. they finally reach home wet & miserable where their alpha who could sense the situation from a mile away gives them an “i told you so” lecture before comforting them and fucking them silly in a nice warm bath.
#omegaverse#omorashi#alpha beta omega#fic prompt#omega x omega#water sports#desperate#bladder holding#heat#slick#fanfic#fiction#alpha x omega#nsft concept#bursting bladder#bladder desperation#full bladder#bladder control#bladder problems#overactive bladder#bladder bulge#pee kink#piss kink#pee humiliation#piss k1nk#piss k!nk#a/b/o fic#a/b/o#a/b/o verse#a/b/o smut
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8 hours one diaper
#megamax#overactive bladder#dl#ddl/lg#adult diaper#diapered247#incontinence#bladder problems#diaper under clothes#diaper in public#incontinent#diaper life#bed wetter#gay diaper lover
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Coping with and Managing Incontinence
Dealing with Incontinence can be an emotional, physical and financial struggle. I wanted to share some things I have learned over the years with others to support my community, spread awareness and educate.
1 in 15 Americans deals with a form of incontinence. Alot of negative feelings can come with the realization or diagnosis of incontinence. First, and most importantly you need to know you are not alone and you have done nothing wrong. Incontinence is sometimes treatable and if not, it is definitely manageable!!!
Most people get toilet trained at an early age and never think of potentially having to deal with issues later like dribbling when they cough or sneeze, getting a sudden urge and not making it, wetting the bed or even not getting the signal that you need to go at all. Often, this comes with embaressment due to the stigma and lack of awareness for these types of problems. Accepting that this is a problem and that it is not your fault is the first step, we need to accept this so we can seek help from our providers, make a plan or find management that works!
Talking to your Doctor
Talking to your health care professional about your problem is very important, but in fact surveys show that only 20% of people living with a form of incontinence report it to a doctor, and most reported cases of incontinence are people who have dealt with it for 7 years or more before mentioning it. Doctors see tons of patients and others with this condition and will not judge you or be cruel. When discussing this with your doctor be prepared to answer some potentially uncomfortable questions, bring a notebook with any questions you may have, keep a bladder diary leading up to the appointment.
Privacy and Independence
Loss of privacy and Independence is one of the hardest things to accept. Going to the bathroom is usally a very private thing. Depending on the type of incontinence and the condition of the person dealing with it sometimes help is neccessary which can feel dehumanizing, can cause a loss of dignity and a feeling of dependence. This is okay and is honestly normal. Waking up with a partner in wet sheets, needing help wiping or changing protection, needing reminders to go or assistance getting there or even needing to use a bedside cammode all means compromising privacy, make sure you communicate with your loved ones or caregivers about how this makes you feel and how you can become more comfortable goes a long way. Some boundaries I asserted to maintain my privacy are:
-When using a bedside cammode I have a lap blanket so I am not exposed, it gets cleaned often so as to keep the environment more normal and sanitary feeling and I can sit there by myself until I need help wiping or transferring back to bed.
-When I need assistance changing my protection not making eye contact during it helped, we make random conversation during it so it is not awkward and if I feel I can help or do it on my own I do.
-Checks or questions about the current condition of my protection are to always happen in private, never in front of company and never assume another person knows. Even if you know another person knows do not ask me in front of others.
Equipment/ Protection
There are alot of things available for now for people with incontinence and what works for you depends totally on your type of incontinence as well as your physical limitations.
Bedside Cammodes- This can be great for someone with urge or functional incontinence. Having one right by the bed or your favorite chair means you dont need as much time to get to the bathroom, it is also easier to get to than to get all the way to a bathroom for someone with physical limitations.
Bed Pans/Bed urinals- This can be handy for someone who knows when they need to go but cannot make it to the bathroom due to injury or being bedridden.
Pads, Underwear, Briefs- Absorbent protection comes in all types of absorbency levels ranging from pads for dribbles to underwear for the occasional light or mild accident to super absorbent underwear or briefs for moderate to severe accidents. Plastic backed briefs or plastic pants/covers can help minimize odor from bowel incontinence as well.
Bed pads/waterproof covers- This can help save furniture and matresses from unavoidable leaks, matress covers also help prevent the smell of urine that builds overtime with long term bedwetting.
Catheters- this is something that should be prescribed by a medical professional if needed, there are various types and sizes and collection systems.
I honestly use most of these things pending my situation. I have no bladder control as I do not get ques to go and I have loss of some bowel control. I use underwear at home on good days when I can manage my protection on my own but I use briefs overnight and for long car rides or outtings. I use a bedside cammode when needed to move my bowels as I struggle to get to the toilet on time due to my own physical limitations. I cath before bed or intercourse to minimize leaking and when I have skin breakdown, bed sores or changes are difficult due to my joint subluxations my dr will put in an indwelling foley catheter.
What you use needs to be comfortable and right for you but it can help you gain back some independence and help minimize the exposure of your condition to people you do not want knowing, if you have an accident without protection everyone sees it, if you have one with protection you just gotta clean up. Honestly finding protection that worked for me gave me my life back.
Traveling With Incontinence
This can be difficult for some people and honestly can deter many people from traveling. Here are some tips ive learned in my experience:
1. Carry a go bag. I keep a bag with extra protection, a spare change of clothes and wipes in my vehichle at all times. So if I am ever blindsided I am prepared.
2. On car rides plan on extra time to stop if you need it.
3. In a car, if comfortable, on long drives (cross country trips a couple of times) I have used external catheters or foleys with a perscription when changes would be difficult.
4. When traveling by plane, protective garments can take up quite a bit of space in luggage and add to the weight. I order supplies to or send some to my destination so it will be there when I arrive and I can have all of my suitcase room.
5. Ask a flight attendant for a seat close to the bathroom, if you ask before boarding and explain you have a medical condition most of the time they are more than willing to accamodate.
6. Handicapped bathrooms and family facilities provide more space and privacy and are usually kept cleaner, this usually makes them safer for catheterization and garment changes.
Hospital Admittance with Incontinence
1. While your incontinence may be documented somewhere on your chart, if it is not what you are currently being seen for more often than not the staff and healthcare providers will have no idea. You should share this information with a nurse or Dr. when you get admitted so they do not find out later when you need assistance and they did not know.
2. If you need help managing your incontinence while inpatient it is your responsibility to let them know that and assert your needs.
3. Bring your own protection. While hospitals do carry briefs and pads what they have may not be what works for you.
4. The curtain around your bed is for you for your privacy, do not be afraid to use it or ask someone to draw it for you during changes (wether independent or assisted) or use of bedside cammodes or urinals.
5. If an accident occurs let staff know strait away, staying in soiled sheets or clothes can cause damge to your skin and infections.
6. If your needs are not being met or you feel you cannot bring them up on your own, ask for a patient advocate.
Skincare
Alot of skin problems can come with Incontinence ranging from chaffing, rashes and infections to bedsores.
1. Change as soon as you can after an accident.
2. Using absorbent protection can help pull the moisture away from your skin.
3. Make sure your skin is completely dry before putting on fresh protection. Pat dry instead of rubbing.
4. Be careful of what you put on your skin. Ointments and barrier creams can be helpful but some things advertised for cleaning those areas can actually be harmful and cause further skin breakdown, if you are unsure, as your doctor or urologist.
I hope this post was helpful. I am kind of wanting to do a series of posts with tips and education on things I have experienced to share with others in support and awareness. Please do not be afraid to reblogg this with some of your own added tips!!!!
#mine#incontinence#disabled#disability#disability awareness#incontinence awareness#itsokaytowear#bladdersmatter#incontinent#urinary incontinence#overactive bladder#bladder control#bladder incontinence#bowel incontinence
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More water baby?
Rhea Ripley x reader (afab)
Warnings: wetting, crying, accidental golden shower, pee denial, mention of relationship.
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I have never been shy about asking to go to the bathroom but it's very different when it comes to people I like. I was sitting on rheas lap while we were a movie. She kept offering me water and I always expected. I must have been on my 8th glass when the need to pee was getting hard to ignore. "More water baby?" Rhea asks. All I can do is nod my head too embarrassed to say anything. I have a tiny bladder and knew all of the water I had drunk was catching up with me.
I still drank the water. I could have just taken small sips now and then or even better put the glass down and said I wasn't thirsty. But, I drank the entire glass and tried my best to not squirm on her lap. I could tell she knew something was wrong but she didn't ask.
After five minutes my need was unbearable. I felt myself leak into my underwear and I knew I would leak onto my pants soon if I didn't say anything. "More water?" Rhea said handing me a glass full of water. Just the thought of drinking made everything worse. I shook my head. I could feel my face heating up as I plucked up the courage to say something. "Do you have to pee?" Rhea asks all I can do is nod my head. "Can you wait till this episode is over?" She asks. I couldn't there was no way I was keeping it in for longer than 2 minutes let alone the 15 minutes the episode had left but i nodded.
Why the fuck would I ever do that? Am I gonna be able to stand up without wetting? I should have asked to go now. Then the worst thing happened. Rhea wrapped her arms around my waist. Putting pressure on my ready-to-explode bladder. I whimper and squirm trying to get her hands off of my bladder. She figured out why I was moving around like that when I put my hand between my legs. "Do really have to go that bad?" She asks. I nod as I leak onto my pants creating a golf ball size wet patch on my front. Of course, she saw it. "You should have told me," she says sympathetically. "Can you stand up?" She asks I shake my head. No, I can't move without leaking. "Do me too help you hold it?" she asks I nod my head. If she's not disgusted with me right now then she can help as much as she can.
Her hands slip between my legs and press hard against my crotch. I feel a wave of desperation come over me. I whimper and close my legs tightly. Rhea gets the message and holds me ten times tighter. I leaked a tiny bit. It was then I realised that when I wet myself I would get it all over her and the couch.
"Don't wanna get it on you" I mumble half hoping she didn't hear. "I'm gonna let you wet yourself," she says back calmly. I was gonna wet. Sooner ir later the floodgates would open and I would get piss all over my girlfriend. I feel another big wave of desperation wash over me.
Rhea holds me tight but I still leak a lot. I'm pretty sure that it's on her lap now. I pissed on her. It is 100× harder now that I've felt that relief and that I'm sitting in warm liquid. Another wave washes over me but this time I don't gain control again.
I can't help tears of shame fall down my cheeks. I start to sniffle as I look down and see Rhea's lap drenched. I'm still going in ruining her couch as well. This can't be happening. After 2 full minutes of me wetting and crying I finally stop. I feel rhea hug me from behind. She shushes me and wipes the tears off of my cheeks. "I'm so sorry" I manage to get out between sobs. "It's okay, let's go get cleaned up"
Sorry if it's short but I have to write days 4-8 fics as well and maybe day 9 and 10 so I can be ahead. Thank for reading ❤❤❤
#rhea ripley x reader#rhea ripley smut#rhea ripley#demi bennett#omorashi#overactive bladder#bladder holding#omo wetting#desperation wetting#wetting yourself#piss kink#pee denial#wwe x reader#wwe raw#wwe smackdown#wwe summerslam#wwe nxt
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Getting the urge to pee right after I finish putting on an elaborate cosplay 🤝 Getting the urge to pee right after I finish changing into my fencing whites
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All I do is pee pee pee no matter what
Got peeing on my mind, can never do enough
Everytime I pee up in the toilet, everybody's hands go up
And they say what (what)
They say what (what)
They say what (what)
#spoonie#disability#chronic disability#disabilities#spoonie life#spoonie humor#overactive bladder#ic#interstitial cystitis#ph1#kidney stones#uti#chronic uti
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"I don’t mind paying to use public restrooms because the paid ones are cleaner!”
Then you clearly do not experience the profound frequency that can make paying-per-pee an itemized travel expense akin to an extra meal in my food budget, nor the level of urgency that has prevented me from ever turning down a restroom opportunity when I need it, which is constantly. We are not the same.
#paid restrooms#restrooms#bathrooms#overactive bladder#interstitial cystisis#voiding dysfunction#benign prostatic hyperplasia#Diabetes#vaginal prolapse#bladder prolapse#painful bladder syndrome#urinary tract infections#chronic utis#bladder stones#disability#invisible illness
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It is not normal to have continuous bladder pain for *years*. It is not normal to run to the bathroom more than 15 times with minimal fluid intake. It is not normal to feel so much pain all the time. It is not normal for the pain to return when it goes away for two days. It is not normal to feel like you're being stabbed in the bladder all the time.
I'm in so much pain that I can't get out of bed.
It's not normal.
And even if it might end up being a UTI (it isn't most likely) it is not normal for a UTI to repeat for years and not go away. Chronic UTI is serious too. Chronic UTIs need to be taken seriously too.
Some people with Chronic UTIs get diagnosed with Bladder Pain Syndrome later in life.
Chronic bladder pain havers, respect to us all /srs
-Amber (any pronouns)
#disability#disabled#actually disabled#chronic illness#cpunk#chronic disability#chronic pain#bps#bladder pain syndrome#chronic bladder pain#chronic uti#oab#overactive bladder
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I weighed myself again this morning. I’m 7 pounds under what I was when I started seeing a GP again.
I was already feeling down on myself last night because I felt it was necessary to reschedule a meeting with my case manager for today to try to get in contact with my credit card company. And then feeling sick this morning and having another instance of urinary urgency and finding out I’m losing weight again and am even worse than before? Fuck!!
So I’m very weird today. Haven’t gotten out of bed yet other than trips to the toilet. Really, really didn’t want to go to therapy but like. I know logically that is when I need therapy most so I was going to force myself to do that at least. But then my therapist canceled the appointment instead. I could email him about how I’m feeling, but reaching out when I feel like this is so difficult. If I even manage to post this instead of deleting it, it’s a miracle.
I should get out of bed. But I don’t want to. I don’t want to possibly have to interact even just briefly with the roommate who is home right now. My partner is out on an errand for a little longer. But even if they were here to be a buffer I still don’t want to be seen today. I feel awful. I haven’t been crying much but I feel like I must look like I have been. I just very much do not want to exist today thank you, why do I have to have a body that requires things like food and a toilet and water? And god, my fucking medication. I take 5-6 pills every day currently and it’s only going to go up from here.
Why can’t I just. Know what’s wrong? Why am I losing so much weight? What do I need to do to make it stop? I’m so bony that I can’t even comfortably lay on my side anymore because my knees hurt to be stacked on top of each other and if I don’t stack my knees my hips and spine hurt from my back not being straight. And I feel awful even complaining about being skinny on here but like. It’s negatively affecting my QoL, so I’m gonna complain about it. And it’s scary! I’ve lost almost another 10% of my body weight in like 6 weeks! I don’t understand how, because I’ve definitely been eating better with the holidays happening!
And I still have to call the Patient Care Coordinator back about how the surgery referral hasn’t resulted in any kind of appointment yet. The ganglion cyst on my wrist is starting to cause me pain more frequently.
(Very open to suggestions about things I should be asking my doctor to look for at my physical in a couple of weeks, so if you see this and think “hey that sounds like what I/this person I know was dealing with maybe this blogger should ask their doctor to do this test” please leave a reply)
#personal#vent#chronic illness#chronic pain#depression#unintentional weight loss#overactive bladder#ganglion cyst
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8hr a bang and 2 mtd
#megamax#tena#Tena diapers#overactive bladder#dl#ab dl lifestyle#gay diaper lover#diapers at work#diaper life#diaper under clothes#diaper in public#diapered boy#adult diaper
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Yesterday I left work without using the bathroom first. I felt a little urge, but I figured I'd be okay because I'd last used the toilet a half hour ago, and it'd only take me 10-15 minutes to get home.
How badly did I misjudge? Well, I peed myself all the way down the elevator ride while leaving work. Turns out what I thought was a "little urge" was really my bladder warning me to go now. 😳😞
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Just for y’all to know, I don’t really enjoy scat/messing, I do omo wetting! And I don’t do female omo mostly.
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Every day I try to kid myself into thinking "maybe if I try my best to completely empty my bladder now I won't get an urge ten minutes later while I'm busy" and every day I'm wrong. Sighhhhhh.
#oab#ic#oab and ic#bladder issues#overactive bladder#interstitial cystitis#medical issues#actually disabled
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