Our first #newprofilepic winner of 2023 is... @isfern2! "My name is Isa. My IG handle is @isfern2 also @dance.isa.dance snapchat- isfern2 I am .5 #English, .5 #Irish, .5 #Kenyan, and .5 #Indian. I don’t fit in anywhere and yet I fit in everywhere. I constantly have people asking me where I’m from, but that’s not my biggest #mixedgirlproblem. My biggest #mixedgirlproblem is being expected to fit into societies constraints because it makes other people uncomfortable that I exist and that they cannot possibly comprehend that other cultures can be beautiful. The biggest issue I have is with our society today and the stereotypical beauty standards and ways of presenting. There are so many beautiful mixed people of many different cultures in the world and their ability to be the one that brings those cultures together is gorgeous. Many people in our world today don’t see the mixing of cultures as an enrichment but rather a dilution of a culture. Mixing of cultures not only created a broader understanding within other cultures but forms more branches and connections for harmony between cultures and I want to be the face that shows unity. I love being able to share so many things about my different cultures with everyone! Being able to have traveled and grown up around the world is not something everyone gets to experience and I love having first hand experiences and people in my family who blossom with color and culture!!" Congratulations to Isa! Don't fret if you didn't get it this time, this is a monthly contest! #HappyNewYear & Happy #MixedGirlMonday! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇮🇪🇰🇪🇮🇳 #happy2023 #mixedgirlproblems https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm7T-nNORNU/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

@melodic.benevolence: "Hi my name is Melo and I’m #Haitian #AfricanAmerican #NativeAmerican and #French. My biggest #mixedgirlproblem is feeling like I never belonged to any group and like I didn’t know who I really was. But now that I’m older I finally feel proud to be who I am and embrace all my heritages💗" 🇭🇹🏴🇺🇸🇫🇷 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ November is #NativeAmericanHistoryMonth! DM me your experiences about being a #mixednative for a feature! November is also #MizrahiHeritageMonth! DM me your experiences about being a #mixed #Mizrahim for a feature! Check out my How To: Be Featured Story for a Shoutout! ☝️ Following me is required! Want to be featured faster?? Follow and dm my personal page @donnisbutterfly and LET ME KNOW THERE YOU SUBMITTED HERE AS WELL! 💋 #mixedgirlproblems #mixedgirl #mixedgirlmonday https://www.instagram.com/p/CWT2ajplS7d/?utm_medium=tumblr

Another post about racist statements from white people that I HATE:

“Which part of you is black? Like your mom or dad...”

“You look so exotic, what are you?!”

“I wanna marry a black guy so I can have adorbs little mixed babies like you!”

“Here let me help fix your hair...oops it’s frizzy now, sorry I didn’t know not to brush it”

@halffronikki in our black harvest crop sweater🖤🥺😍😍😍 #tristanjacobson #tristanjacobsonllc #shoptristanjacobson #shoptristanjacobsonllc • #naturalhair #teammatural #naturalista #4chairstyles #4ckinkyhair #naturalhairday #naturalchixs #naturalhairdreams #naturalhairguru #amazingnaturalhair #mixedgirlproblems #unconditionedroots #hair2mesmerize #4chair #4bhair #luvyourmane #blessedwithcurls #curlspiration #curlfriend #curlboss #blackgirlmagic #kinkycurly #kinkynaturalhair #naturalgirlsrule #cwkgirls #gingercurls (at Sweater Weather) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGRQ5r6njFY/?igshid=1lgpyeadevu6y

Having to detangle my hair this late at night should be a crime🙄😂

Hydrocodone  

Beautiful😍🖤

Sussex Past Life

Erik and I were Augusta (Lady Murray) and Augustus. I wrote about uncovering this. This was discovered nearly four years ago. Stumbling a short while upon an article about the new Sussex royals gave me goosebumps.😳 It looks fucking nuts especially because I can relate to the dutchess in this life and shared the same struggles as her in my past life.

I wasn't recognized as royal blood and therefore our marriages didn't count. I had two children by Augustus (Erik) but he was MIA.

We named our children after us; little Augustus and Augusta.

In this life I have a twin brother and we were named similarly (Monique isn't my first name BTW)

Erik (my Twin Flame) and I were also brother and sister in a past life.

Probably not very significant but still interesting. 😳 When I dug around Augusta I found she had kept journals. It was emotional because I wrote the same way. I posted a comparison picture of her journals and mine. I've also had a separate book kept between my friends to write things in. Just as she did.

We both have interest in natural medicine too. So when I read about what's currently happening in Brittain I was reminded of my past life. They must know about the last Duke and dutchess and I wonder what they think. Like we're thier actions inspired by Erik and myself in that past life? 🤦‍♀️ If anything THEY probably think they are a reincarnation of. 🙄 Psshhh...

Erik said we weren't supposed to be together.

Just like in all our others. Kind of like now too with him being dead and all. I always felt awkward when I saw the royals and deep down a part of me was 😱😩 jealous because of my past life. It's actually kind of funny. But seeing them struggle. Especially for Megan. I feel sorry for her. I had similar troubles.

😘❤️ I love yall!

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December's #newprofilepic winner is @queentseday! "Hi! My name is Tseday and i’m from #Canada 🇨🇦! I’m half #Ethiopian- #Jewish (#BetaIsraeli)🇪🇹✡️ and half #Canadian- #British 🇬🇧! I love #beingmixed because I am part of so many different cultures! However, my biggest #mixedgirlproblem is when people don’t believe what my mix is🫠" Thanks everyone for entering! Don't fret, the contest will be back at the end of the month to choose our first winner of 2023! 🎄🤍 (at Canada) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClpFTiKuIiJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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I'm so hurt

By my sister. We're mixed black and light latina. Okay so she is talking to this girl at a birthday party for our friend(mostly mine) they hit it off. Me being absolutely socially awkward lose my one chance to talk to and not be weird around this girl. So they go off to her room. Later bc I didn't know where she was. I went looking for her(knowing full well that I was being an annoying younger sibling) they're talking she acknowledges me in an annoyed way (understandabley so) I leave her alone... For a while this repeats maybe two times. Later when we were down stairs i figured out they were talking about hair. Kind of a thing with us so I try to get involved. My sister turns to me and says. "Black womans hair. Yours is too lose" and hustles away.

And it hurt. And I guess she's right. She's talked about me having "The perfect hair".

Obviously I don't.

But it hurt. Really bad. Ihate it ihate thinking this I cant identify with anything even other mixed girls I feel like Icant even belong there

I'm not black enough I don't know much about my roots or history or language. I suck I could be learning spanish but instead I do sudoku and puzzle games amd ignore the world and my loneliness and my not belonging and my suckiness my awfulness to my friends. I don't feel like a friend anymore. I'm not dependable I dont keep up with them. I'm selfish. I just can't bring myself to care anymore. It so hard and awkward to talk to my friends I feel like idotnknow them anymore and they probably feel the same. I'm failing myself and my family. With my education care of myself and friends and I know I don't do enough for my boys.(birds)

Zuzu is okay I know posted something about him a while back he is completely fine.

@piece_full: "I'm #German and #AfricanAmerican. My biggest #mixedgirlproblem is my ethnicity is always mistaken and being told 'I can’t figure you out. Hmmmmm'" 🇩🇪🇺🇸🏴 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Check out my How To: Be Featured Story for a Shoutout! ☝️ Following me is required! Want to be featured faster?? Follow and dm my personal page @donnisbutterfly and LET ME KNOW THERE YOU SUBMITTED HERE AS WELL! 💋 #mixedgirlproblems #mixedgirl #mixedgirlmonday https://www.instagram.com/mixdgrlprblems/p/CYAAoagFhOK/?utm_medium=tumblr

Not everyone deserves to know the real you. Let them criticize who they think you are.

How come standing up for myself is deemed as making excuses and not taking accountability for my mistakes? But then someone white does it right in front of me and they’re thanked for ✨adding perspective✨.

How come I’m never white or black enough for people but I’m hypersexualized by my body, skin color, skin clarity, told that I have the hair they want or that all of my gym progress is not that but instead all to do with my black heritage?

Why do white people always “know the perfect product” for my hair? Bitch I don’t use Cantu that shit is garbage and NO you can not touch my weave.

In California I’m too brown to be white (people ask me if I fake tan🙄), in India I’m too blonde to be Indian (people ask me if I dye my hair🤦🏽‍♀️). No one ever believes I’m half Indian, Half Scandinavian until I show a picture of my parents. It use to bother me... A LOT. Now I’m happy to just be a child of the universe; I’m east, I’m west, I’m American... I’m a Strange girl that never really fit in anywhere, but can also fit in everywhere. 🇮🇳🇺🇸🌈🙏🏾🖤 #MixedGirlProblems #Saree #KeralaGirl #CaliforniaGirl #EthnicallyConfused #Malayali (at Trivandrum, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/BupI6nAB1B_/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=4xfpb25uihfe

This beautiful piece of medicine that I'm wearing around my neck is from no other Tashina Lee Emery. When I’m away from my elders in the southeastern woodlands (whether Chahta/Choctaw or not) this acrylic incased medicine reminds me of the ones like my grandfather, great-grandfather and cousin Sunny. @mxedgirlprobs It’s Native owned, Native made. Check our sister out : https://www.tashinaemery.com/