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traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors · 12 days

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Hi all! I stumbled upon a website pertaining to sexual abuse and assault of men/boys. Here is their page of some books/films they recommend. Trigger warning for sexual abuse.

#sa #tw sa #tw abuse #male survivors #men #tw r #poetry #films #books #trauma #our post #mod misa

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egalitarianchica · 1 year

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Support for Male Survivors

Since today is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Men and Boys, here are some resources for male survivors.

Male Sexual Assault Survivors

- 1in6

- MaleSurvivor

- Jim Hopper

- MenHealing

- O’Brien Dennis Initiative

Male Domestic Violence Survivors

- National Domestic Violence Hotline

#anti abuse #men can be victims too #male survivors

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star-rug-64 · 1 year

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To male victims of abuse

You are valid

Don't let others put you down just because you're a man.

You did not deserve to be abused; do not believe those who think you do.

You are wonderful, and you deserve a lot of love and good encouragement.

Don't let the Radfems get to you; they just want to promote negativity.

What happened to you matters. Don't believe people who say what happened to you is meaningless.

💙 You are amazing! and you deserve to be loved! :) 💙

#male abuse victims #radfem dni #anti radfem #male victims #support victims #men can be victims too #male survivors #mens mental health #Radfems dni

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syfygirl1998 · 2 years

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Honestly Amber baffles me.

She divorced Johnny and won a seven million dollar settlement, won the UK trial and had everyone believing the allegations against Johnny. But instead of donating the money like she said she would and moving on, she decided to write an article (an article that has officially been proven false because all the evidence is against her).

Truly the mind of a narcissist.

#didn’t think this needed saying but this isnt in chronological order?#Johnny Depp #depp v heard trial #justice for johnny depp #anti amber heard #her LYING is what's setting the movement back #not the virdict #me too is not just about female survivors #male survivors

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intersex-idiots · 2 years

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i cant be around women, i cant trust women, im genuinely terrified of women. most of my abusers were women.

but my fear is a joke to everyone because a man cant possibly have trauma right?

cause thats funny now.

#anti misandry #misandry #trauma #trauma vent #cw vent #men are not gross #women can be abusers too #mens mental health #abuse survivor #women are also the fucking problem #male victims #male survivors #rapevictim #tw abuse #women abuse #abusive women exist #female abusers

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overlookedsurvivors · 1 year

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Credit: thesurvivorsadvocate

#female abusers #abusive women #abusive women exist #women are predatory too #male survivors #wlw survivors #sa survivors #female on female sa #csa survivors #tw sa #tw r word

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kunikloj · 1 year

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TW: Mother’s Day, gaslighting, mother mention, father mention, CSA mention. Don’t feel bad scrolling past this.

Last two hours of Mother’s Day. I’ve managed to push away the guilt and pain so far.

I know what the last two hours of the day are like, though. The last two hours of the day are always the same, holiday or not. For some reason, I can never keep up the charade in the final stretch.

I didn’t even text her to wish her a happy Mother’s Day. I know she noticed. She’s probably feeling a lot of pain over it. And she’s probably crying to my dad about it, wondering why I won’t come home to see her.

And my dad is comforting her, acting like he doesn’t know either. Like I’ve just gone off the rails for no reason and decided to cut them out of my life gradually over the course of three and a half years.

He can keep acting like he doesn’t know, because he knows she will believe him. And if she believes him, everyone else will believe him too.

And I’ll just be here, the formerly good kid who went crazy and decided to lob accusations of CSA at him. The kid who tarnished a good man’s name. The kid so ungrateful that he would rather destroy his father’s life than admit he’s going through psychosis.

As long as she believes him, I can’t trust her. As long as I believe myself, she can’t trust me.

I miss you, mom. It hurts every day.

I wish I mattered enough for you to believe me.

#tw mom mention #tw mothers day #tw mother mention #tw mother issues #tw csa #tw csa vent #personal #cw vent #vent #tw sad thoughts #tw csa mention #tw parents #tw gaslighting #csa survivor #male survivors #that should cover it #I really don’t want people to read this unless they want to #I’m just sad

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healthyrelationshipsupport · 2 years

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Last time I tried calling a domestic abuse hotline for help because my girlfriend was hurting me, the hotline person told me that men don't get abused and that I was probably the real abuser.

That was wrong of them, both factually and professionally. Unfortunately, individuals like hotline advocates are still individual people with all the potential for implicit biases.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline cites peer-reviewed research that reports almost half of men in the U.S. experiencing psychological aggression from a partner, and 1 in 4 men experiencing rape, physical abuse, and/or stalking from a partner. Because men are even less likely to speak up for precisely the kind of experience you describe, those numbers are almost certainly lower than reality. You are not alone, and that advocate you spoke to was wrong to say what they did.

Ever since a 2008 U.S. federal ruling requiring that domestic violence services cannot discriminate against men, most advocates and organizations have gotten better about supporting men who are abused. By law, domestic violence organizations must provide the same services for men that they do for women.

If you're not in the U.S., you may be held to different legal standards, but legal definitions around the world (and including the U.S.) often don't reflect the realities of what survivors of all genders experience. If your region doesn't recognize what you're going through, it's not because your experience isn't real or "not bad enough to count as real abuse."

Some online resources specifically for men:

1in6.org (for men survivors of sexual abuse/assault)

MaleSurvivor.org

Fact sheet and resources from the National Healthy Marriage Resource Center for male survivors: https://www.fatherhood.gov/sites/default/files/resource_files/e000001916.pdf

- advocate mc

#domestic violence #domestic abuse #male survivors #men survivors #hrs asks

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parasitecompany · 4 months

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#fallout4 #main tag #john hancock #male sole survivor #nate/hancock

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lovelyyandereaddictionpoint · 3 months

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Yanderes in a Zombie Apocalypse...The Kind Survivor

Imagine the zombie apocalypse starts and suddenly the entire world itself is turned upside down. Those who survive are the ones who can adapt quickly or be lucky enough to be dragged by the former. You re some of the few that adapt turning everyday items into tools and weapons to guarantee your survival. While you could go at it alone you don’t. Shaking your coworker or classmate out of their horror-stricken state and saving them from being eaten.

“Hey you better move it or you’ll end up just like them.”

Maybe you know you’ll be lonely or that you can’t leave someone behind or maybe it's because it's them. Always so forthcoming and so kind to you before the world turned into this. Maybe you consider this payback for their hospitality, either way, you’re leading them away from the danger to regroup somewhere safe.

“T-thank you (Y/n).”

“It's fine, Wendall. Just keep moving we can’t rest here.”

“Right!”

He’s the Kind Survivor, the one who holds onto his sweet, trusting persona. Leaving you to be the untrusting hardened protector. Your roles become clear as you unwillingly are added to a group of fellow survivors. Of course, it’s him who proposes staying with the team still silently accepting your unspoken alliance. Even when the group discards your opinion for their own plan, he advocates for them, soothing your anger.

“I don’t trust them Wendy!”

“(Y/n) we can’t do this alone! We have to trust in them!”

“Until we can’t. What do you plan to do then?!”

“T-then we can leave. Okay (Y/n)...I’ll start thinking about us….about you more okay?”

“Thanks… I’ll be more open-minded.”

For a while, this will work, with your Kind Survivor becoming an important voice in the group while you gain their respect and reverie. Wendall couldn’t be happier, falling into a sense of normalcy as he watches you grow emotionally. For a while, this feels right.

But this doesn’t last.

The first betrayal ruins him opens his eyes. One selfish member's actions put everyone at risk but who suffers the most is you. Led out on a fool’s errand only to be swarmed and backed into a corner. Nothing but your wits and survival instincts to let you lead the remaining scouts with you. You’re holed up in a roof for days, forced to stay quiet, stave your hunger, and remain vigilant. As you hoped, Wendall and the surviving group arrive with food and medicine as everyone reunites.

“(Y/n)! (Y/n)!”

“Hey, Wendy.”

“Oh, my–(Y/n) you can’t believe how happy I am to see you!”

“...I trusted you’d come…and you did.”

No one’s more happy to be reunited than your Kind Survivor who doesn’t dare relay the frustrating tale of that one’s betrayal. Only holding you close and rubbing his face against your head as he burns your scent into his memory all over again. It's another member who tells you while Wendall lasor focuses on checking you for any and all injuries. You don’t seem all that perturbed–your inclination to trust the others was right—all was well. Sure there was betrayal but you didn’t like that one member much at all so it wasn’t much of a deal to you. The same cannot be said for your Kind Survivor.

“I’m okay Wendy. I’m fine.”

“You haven’t eaten in days I wouldn’t call that fine.”

“Wendy I–”

“Hush. Eat before anything…please.”

He’s still so sweet. Always so kind. But something's…amiss. The other members feel he’s not the same. Those on midnight watch find his eyes staring at your resting form, not even moving away when they joke with him. When he does turn to look at them, there’s something fiery, something dark lingering behind those eyes before he hides them with his typical amicable smile. They begin to fear him.

“Ah, Wendall-san?”

“What is it? Jjitjg?”

“Uh, nothing never mind.”

The members have a right to. Wendall is dealing with an anger he’s hardly ever experienced. All his life had been a constant string of highs—working his dream job, meeting you, getting to hang out with you. But then the world turned mad which didn’t initially scare him as much as it should. Somehow being saved and haphazardly comforted by you it still wasn’t so bad. He thought the same when you both joined the group. But when that one member betrayed the whole team it shattered him. How could they?! Leaving his (Y/n) out there! When they so courageously followed the so-called leader on this goose chase!? What was his baby doing now while they simply huddled in fear of that one?! How were you feeling being so far for so long?!

He? He was dying.

Would you be disgusted that your Kind Survivor was truly contemplating letting all the others die while he went to search for you? Disgusted in knowing that it was he who was behind that one’s sudden psychosis? He didn’t care!

But when he saw your smiling face he was relieved but still fuming. This..band of wretches was why you were bedded for a week. These worthless meat sacks were using up the supplies meant to take care of you. These fleas were eating all the food that should have rightfully belonged to you.

It was a rising resentment. Pushed down and suffocated every time so that he could steer this group right and properly encourage your latest streak of compassion. It made you so much more integral to the group, as a protector and a leader.

It made his skin crawl. He was so proud of you.

It was another member’s incompetence that puts the nail in the coffin–the entire group’s coffins. Since the death of your old leader the group was out of sync; squabbling and running around like chickens with their heads cut off. Of course, the most incompetent one volunteered for the role; forcefully pressuring the others to follow their lead. It led to chaos. The chaos that relied on you to save everyone again. Again, forcing you to risk your life.

“This–this–this is the second time–”

“That I’ve survived the impossible? Don’t know, guess I’m just the best human shield there is.”

“No! This is the second time you’ve almost died because of them! I can’t–I can’t!”

He snaps.

You can calm your Kind Survivor all you like but the damage has been done. He’ll bow and apologize to everyone who’s witnessed it. But he’s not sorry. He’s determined. At a moment's notice, he fights to free you from them even if you resist. Physically you might be able to overpower him but he shouldn’t be underestimated. After all your Kind Survivor has learned so much. So many ways to subdue you, so many ways to trick the group; running off with you will be easy. With so much time to plan he’ll get his plan off without a hitch.

By the time he’s done, you’ll both be miles away from the ruins that were this ragtag team.

“I’m sorry (Y/n)...I thought we’d be safe with others. Now I know we’re better off on our own; where only we can trust each other.”

Your Kind Survivor has grown a lot and he’s learned not everyone’s worth both of your compassion. In fact, he’s made the executive decision to actively keep it and you all to himself.

By any means necessary.

#yandere x reader #yandere x you #lovelyyandereaddictionpoint #yanderexrea #yandere #yanderes #yandere zombie apocalypse #yandere survivor oc #yandere original character #yandere oc x you #yandere oc #male yandere x reader #yandere oc x reader #yandere survivor x reader #yandere survivor #yandere male oc

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egalitarianchica · 2 years

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Female abusers (whether physical, sexual, or emotional) are just as disgusting as male abusers. They deserve absolutely no sympathy.

Male survivors, whether victimized by other men or women, aren’t rare. They are just as valid as female survivors. They deserve nothing but sympathy and support and they certainly don’t deserve misandry.

Amber Heard is just one of many female abusers. Johnny Depp is just one of many male victims. If you support Amber Heard and/or don’t support Johnny Depp, fuck you.

#anti misandry #anti abuse #women can be abusers #men can be victims too #male survivors #justice for johnny depp #anti amber heard #amber turd

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opinetheshrine · 2 years

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DEPP V HEARD- Opining

TRIGGER WARNING: Abuse, SA, Grooming,

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“He may have won the defamation case but he’s still an abuser.”

How?

“ He lost the UK Case. Because a judge found him guilty on 12 counts out of 14.”

Because the UK High court judge held the weight of Ambers testimony-based on hearsay-to be bigger than these Witness testimonies.

* Kate James

(An SA survivor, veterinary trained, ex-personal assistant to AH. Testified of AH being verbally abusive, taking her child for a paparazzi op, and more disturbingly- Stole Kate’s SA story. Which Kate James had to relive by submitting a document where she had to “prove” her SA to a UK high court for a trial that had nothing to do with her Survival story. All because of AH stealing it.)

* The officers

( Four officers, two of them specialising in DV, did not identify Heard as a DV victim.)

* Hilda Vargas

( Member of JD’s cleaning personnel who found AH’s “ dirty thirty” while AH was in the apartment and Johnny and his team were overseas.)

* Travis Mcgivern, Sean Bett, Sterling Jenkins, Malcom Connolly:

( Depps security team. All three have training in the marines or the police force. They’re mandated to report abuse or any suspicious activities regarding their clients. They all testified to Amber as the aggressor.

Sean Bett testified an incident where AH threw a can of drink at JD.

Travis testified to AH’s and her sister’s stairs incident story, was a misconstruing of an event where Amber got violent towards Johnny.

Sean Connolly removed JD from the “ Australia incident” and took him to the hospital. He was instructed to pick up JD and arrived to find out JD’s finger was severed by AH.)

* Tara Roberts

( The estate manager of Depps private island. Witnessed AH aggressively scratch and yell obscenities while violently grabbing JD as he was leaving their property due to an argument.)

“But he groomed Winona Ryder.”

( Has Winona Ryder said that? If she has, please instruct me to where Winona Ryder stated that JD groomed her. I’m aware she was a few months shy of her 18th birthday. I am aware of the men who prey on adolescent/teenage women for relationships. And it is Vile. However, Winona has expressed her support and appreciation for JD throughout this trial.

In fact, most his exes have.

What’s more telling: His own Daughter, Lily-rose has supported him throughout this entire ordeal. She even issued a statement when this all began.

“ I believe Amber Heard.”

That’s fine. Just don’t bash other women who don’t. Don’t invalidate the female survivors who support JD , let alone believe him. You don’t have to be a fanatic to believe someone is a survivor. Just like you don’t have to misconstrue the legalities surrounding a case to fit a toxic and sexist narrative that “ Men are abusers and women are victims.”

“ I believe Johnny Depp and AH should die and all her supporters too”

No. Just, no. Don’t become the bully for the bullied.

#depp v heard trial #johnny depp #amber heard #feminist #feminism #male survivors #abuse

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intersex-idiots · 2 years

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"nOt AlL WoMeN" when its literally all women

like girl stop lying to yourself. you do know that in your pursuit of YASS FEMINIST MAN HATING STANDING UP FOR THE POOR WOMEN UWU bullshit youre just enabling female abusers, right? 🙂

i need better friends, i really do.

-🧃

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apollodarling-writes · 4 months

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omg i had a thought about dbd ghostface. mdni !!

cw : yandere themes, perv danny, non-consensual kissing, danny dry humps you, non-consensually nsfw themes, non-consensual picture taking, danny forces an orgasm out of you, slight knife-play, danny calls the reader bunny, afab anatomy but no prns used, danny cuts open readers shirt, implied murder of other survivors,

“thaaats it, bunny. cry f’me.” danny’s eyes lock onto yours as he shifts to grab his polaroid. his breathing becomes labored as he lifts his mask angling the camera to get the both of you, pressing a sloppy kiss to your cheek. a broad grin stretched across his features, sweat dripping down his temple as he admires you.

“pl—please…. let me go.” you cry.

“let you go? but bunny, don’t you enjoy our time together?” he sneers, trailing the cool blade of his bowie knife along your exposed flesh. his fingers roughly grip your jaw, molding his lips to yours in a feverish display of his obvious affection. his lips trail along your jaw and throat, groaning as you try to squirm away from his onslaught.

danny presses your shoulders down, grinding his half-hard cock into the soft meat of your thigh. he angles his hips in a way that causes a wave of pleasure to wash over you, a grin splitting his cheeks as you squeeze your eyes shut.

“y’liked that didn’t you, bunny?” he groans, rutting his hips into you faster, his head dropping to the curve of your throat and pressing open mouthed kisses to your bloodied and sweat-slicked flesh. “just be a good bunny and take it.”

you soon feel a familiar sensation pooling in your tummy, panties unwillingly sticky with arousal, and you couldn’t feel more disgusted with yourself. you feel the tip of his blade slice open your shirt, tracing what you assume to be the letters of his name on your stomach.

“bunny,” danny murmurs, “i’m gonna cum. need y’to cum with me.”

you shake your head, a sob ripping from your throat as he sinks his knife into your thigh. “cum. or i’ll make sure your next match is hell.”

danny brushes his cockhead against your clit in a way that has your back arching and a poorly muffled whine leaving your lips — cumming with the man that has made your new life hell.

“that’s a good bunny, cum f’me.” he growls, his rutting slowly coming to stop. danny watches with interest as tears stream down your cheeks, his tongue darting out to lick them away.

“so pretty.” danny’s eyes soften ever so slightly as he leans down to kiss your lips before throwing you over his shoulder. you find no will to struggle against him — you knew you would be hooked and killed by the entity immediately. that’s just how danny rolled.

to your surprise, danny walks right past every hook he comes across, seemingly searching for something in particular. was he going to let you get hatch? was he really going to let you escape? sure enough, danny drops you right in front of hatch, stealing another kiss as compensation.

“bye bye, little bunny. i look forward to our next trial together.” he waves at you in a way that has you scrambling to exit through the hatch, a frown tugging at his lips as he pulls his mask back down.