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I find it weird when people tell me they’re blocking me like. Just block me im not gonna respond to you anyways chances are if our some interaction was arguing over something then I don’t want to interact with you anyways?
#it also triggers my paranoia and intrusive thoughts like crazy but that’s not really anybody’s fault#is this a common experience though#like when someone tell you they’re gonna block you does anyone else think they’re being screenshotted and spread everywhere by that person#and fall into a several week spiral#or just me
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I know i said they didnt move anything in me but i have been thinking about gojo and geto and i still can't ship them romantically but they give me the vibes of a codependent teenage friendship that ended so abruptly and traumatically that one of the people involved never managed to fully recover emotionally and still has mixed feelings and issues about it
#idk if this happens to guys i know its a common teen girl experience though#jjk#i didnt consent to developing a fixation on this crap i'll grt past this as fast as i can
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dp x dc prompt: "never ever let a fenton drive", or team phantom's dimension-hopping adventure
danny inherited the abysmal driving skills of his parents. the people in amity park are used to it though so this wouldn't be such a problem if he hadn't started learning to create portals recently, as seen when he opened a portal under his car while driving to avoid crashing into someone else while pursued by the GIW (sue him, it was a stressful situation). jazz is passed out right next to him, sam and tucker are screaming in the backseat while dani's cackling between them, adrenaline junkie that she is. the car is falling into the ghost zone and right out of another natural portal. they land right in front of a group of weirdos dressed in colourful costumes.
"... the only reason why i'm not killing you a second time is because this city looks super goth," says sam, waving the fenton thermos threateningly.
"there's nothing stopping me," mutters tucker, eyeing the costumed people warily.
danny squirms. "well, at least the GIW can't get us there?"
#dp x dc#dp x dc prompt#dp x dc au#batpham#danny phantom#batphantom#bonus point for liminal!team phantom#and the batfam being somehow convinced that they come from a dimension where the whole planet is radioactive#all this because of a throw away comment tucker made about their weirdness being common at home because of the ambient ectoplasm#a possible reason why they were pursued: vlad was somehow caught by the giw and experimented on#turning him into little baby man plasmius#team phantom rescued him very reluctantly#they were caught sneaking out of the facility#though thankfully that was after danny had turned back into his human form#they'll have to come back at some point to close the fenton portal#but i like the idea of them staying and employing their ghost wrangling skills to work with the justice league#either as heroes or support#idk if i like it better if they're still teens in this au or if they're all adults who were just in amity somehow
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Well god damn!! I'M gonna be the one blocking you!! jesus christ!!! Imagine having this heated of a reaction to this image like hello:
its not even remotely about heavy breathing what the fuck are you talking about
i think you seriously need to go outside.
#we are not allowed to find a common friend group call experience meme funny........................................................#thunderclap#dont seek this person out to harass them i left their url out for a reason#but like cmon man. get mad about something else.#other than that just saying youd rather kill yourself than go off for absolutely no reason on a strangers post is so.... genuinely weird#i honestly literally dont understand this reaction at all though what the fuck are they talking about#what do the last few tags even mean. we cant find it funny because that dictates our whole life experience?#a meme that talks about a single very common goof??#what...#this is giving 'person who is experiencing humor for the first time ever' ngl
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Aro-culture is trying to understand why society created the most ridiculous rituals and signs for romance and not finding a single answer/or that makes sense.
(No seriously, all the explanations I find are dumb. Send help)
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#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod axel#honestly all i got for u is that romance is a socially described category of emotion#and social categories are notoriously full of all sorts of cultural biases and assumptions and history that got lost to common knowledge#not to mention the human tendencies to create lil rituals that sometimes become big (ie knock on wood / slug bug)#so u end up with like. 'yeah u gotta not directly tell ppl that ur in romo with them immediately because...'#culturally it signals like. moving too fast or it's seen as embarrassing or you gotta do xyz things first#my sister advised me as a teen that in her experience and opinion - delivered like the words of a sage - if someone is bad at kissing#then they are bad at sex#(me [a kissing repulsed aro person who enjoys sex]: uhhh)#and honestly like. especially when viewed from the outside those things are fuckin wild#like... my mom came from a tiny backwoods type of place in [redacted]#and when i moved to [redacted] and one of the biggest cities in my state (though tbh not that big actually lol)#it caused all sorts of fun. she thinks it's exceptionally rude that not every single person on the street smiles and says hi#if there's not a crowd#she also gets really upset that service workers are less likely to make small talk#and both of those come from City Etiquette being more about like... not taking up ppl's time and attention and that being respectful#like smiling and saying hi to every stranger on the street is... honestly gonna be seen as a Huge Danger thing#and service workers do not have the *time* at most locations to chat with you - especially if it's busy - and it's seen as disrespectful to#both the workers and the people in line behind you to insist on it#but from her POV with Country Etiquette#this is equivalent to like. getting slapped in the face and told that you are specifically mad at her#and she gets legit anxious about it in a very 'this means i fucked up' way
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it's been like 10 hours and i am still thinking about gerry child experimentation canon. fuck my entire life
#r.txt#confirmed in tmagp which i do not listen to and will not listen to but i was Shown The Evidence#this also confirms that he's a candidate for DID in addition to his already extremely traumatic Rest Of Canon Story Don't Fight Me On It#because he would have been 7-11 years old#probably Closer to 11 though if he was one of the last ones experimented on before the institute burned down#so not DID forming but certainly contributing to the highly likely prior split! his mother is mary keay! he had baby trauma#almost never seen a character more likely to have DID than him and i have seen a good handful#now i'm just on my soapbox about how common DID actually is in our society given the huge prevalence of childhood trauma#anyway. this is the spiral i was sent on because of this new information#still won't be listening to the new thing but i can't resist objectively horrible facts about my poor fucking baby#they did the milgram experiment on him! and he scored low! because obviously!#empathy index 95%! baby!!!!#ugh. ugh!#the things this could have influenced in pbrrrrr. in TSP!!!! fuck!#if i really did just bring pbr back out of nowhere it'd fit right into the scene i was gonna do in the next chapter which is insane#uuuugh
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since i was speaking of Ackar and Mata Nui, funniest dynamic platonic or otherwise they could have together in my humble opinion is Mata Nui (synthetic soul, 40Kft tall robot pilot, intergalactic multidisciplinary researcher, and God of an entire microuniverse) looking at this dude who is just A Guy and earnestly telling him "you are so strange and fascinating. I want to write a thesis on you." And Ackar being so genuinely flustered that he briefly forgets how to breathe
#bionicle#mata nui#ackar#kiina (taking Alien Notes): would you still love ackar if he was a worm?#mata nui: of course! though i think hed be much closer to the salamander which is an amphibian of the urodela order common to holarctic rea-#(he procedes to talk at great length about salamanders)#(which leads ackar to experience the potent attraction exuded by an infodumper in their natural habitat)#(they werent lying. that neurodivergent charm CAN bewitch a body and soul)
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I'm thinking I should reread dungeon meshi because I feel like I would've connected with it way better had I not decided to read the whole thing lying sick in bed from food poisoning 💀
#bro why did I even do that to begin with#who pukes their guts out and then decides they wanted to read a cooking manga about eating monsters#ok but like also even though I was extremely nauseous the whole time I still enjoyed it a lot so it says something to the quality#I was watching the anime and was thinking “bro this is so fucking amazing why didn't I have the same experience while reading the manga”#and then I remembered that I had to stop reading for a few minutes because everytime they showed food I felt sick 😭😭#food poisoning is top ten worst illnesses btw#up there with sore throat and the common cold
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might sound weird to say as a person with a couple ocs who have Big Horrible Event(s) in their backstories or as a person who has like 3 ocs total bc he sucks at writing and as a person who hopes their ocs arent too Boring with [the thing im about to mention] but the thing about writing [characters] and [people] is that like.
any little thing a person experiences can take up their whole existence... its actually something "fun" to experience as i meet new ppl and do more things. My friend had something happen that she'll be talking about forever. I had several things happen last year that ill never stop talking about, some of which other ppl think werent that bad actually. In the same way I'll forever remember about the way my sister accidentally insulted me almost 10 years ago, it's really interesting and Fun to find and assign smaller things like that to characters...its really Real. some people's dealbreakers are other people's solvable problems etc etc
#(as well as the opposite: Big Event that maybe shocks everyone around em but they genuinely werent shaken by)#though this one is more common and leads to those ''ohh i didnt know that was normal oops'' moments#talkys#inspired by recent me and friend events#and also recent events where i told sum ppl more stuff about Thing and they responded as if it wasnt a big deal. but it was to me.#and also how i thought a part of al's childhood backstory was kind of maybe dumb and not realistically as impactful as id expect#but i saw someone on reddit almost word for word write that as their experience and how its shaped em as a person#and thats it like... the small things are boring and hard to keep track of sometimes#its not like you'll include every single little event your oc was shaped by in their bio#but idk. its like Fun to piece together for fun. to mold a human being#ykwim? wld be silly to tell everyone ''oh my oc struggles with self image due to many instances like... when their sister called em ugly''#or write it anywhere but it is fun to Know and have in your head. and its real !#just like if a friend told you about something that happened to em#long post#delete later#sorry i keep saying stupid obvious shit lately ive always been bad at oc making AND socializing so im learning everything late#but anyway yes. idk even as i keep making ocs that are ''similar'' its like. every person so different#people can react to anything in any way for any reason. i love people#this is why i struggle a bit with keeping ocs to archetypes i guess bc like. what is ooc for an oc. people contain contradictions all the#time. you can change yourself at any time.#ok nobody will read this far so ill go to the real insane rambling#part of this has been a part of my chats with talon while trying to get him to share more info#like. yeah ok you're 400+ years old the things that happened to you were such a comparatively small part of your life#but humans dont live as long and think about small things until they die. i dont think time would heal all wounds actually. not all of em#some thoughts just always come to gnaw at your brain. its ok to not be over things. i feel ill never be over some things#and also complainerism can be fun but thats something else entirely wee hee ^_^
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A lot of the more 'drastic' effects that I got within the first few months of HRT have mostly subsided.
But one thing that seems to be 'staying' is that I can giggle myself into a laughing-fit the likes of which I and my friends have never seen. "Are you laughing or crying?" is a phrase I hear at least once a week, and which goes unanswered for a good several minutes before I'm able to regain my composure (the answer typically being 'both' by that point).
Being happy is cool :>
#sketch#cel (wyvy)#hrt#trans#transgender#laughing#Also to be extra clear this IS uncontrollable laughing#NOT uncontrollable sobbing#(though that does happen very occasionally too)#which I'm also happy about I was never able to cry like barely at all pre-hrt#actually taking a moment to let myself cry feels amazing#The particular instance this sketch is referencing I don't even remember what the joke was#but my friends were genuinely confused about what I was laughing at because nobody else even registered it as a 'joke'#(a common experience in VCs I'm in)#if that tells you anything about my sense of humour#Not my fault that my friends are absolute gods of comedy without even trying
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We need to stop letting people get away with cross-tagging aspec content imo. Posts that only talk about asexual experiences should not be tagged as aromantic. Posts that only talk about aromantic experiences should not be tagged as asexual. Yes, even if the OP is aroace.
It's not fair to make the main tags unusable to non-aroace aspecs. I see so many allo-arospecs and non-SAM arospecs talk about how they gave up on going into the main aromantic tag, because so much of the content is unrelated to aromanticism. About how they stick to microlabel tags or tags like 'safe for aro' or 'actually aromantic' instead. These tags started out as a way to avoid aphobia and gore in the main tags. People are feeling unwelcome enough to retreat to tags that were made in response to aphobic attacks on tumblr aspec communities.
It seems like such a small thing, but it's indicative of a larger problem in aspec spaces imo and it contributes to non-aroace aspecs feeling less welcome in aspec spaces.
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#Very true#only use the aro tag for aro stuff please#It’s common courtesy#Our arospec experience#Arospec#tw aphobia#Tw gore#only mentioned though not described
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hiii re: your most recent post, im pretty sure i remember the voice actor of spanish dub dean confirming that y yo a ti was not scripted? there was a panel a while ago where either he or the spanish dub director said it was not scripted/part of the translation but was a choice made by the team on the day based on the rest of the work they had done on the series. sort of along the lines of like, they decided to add y yo a ti bc they knew the show well and knew that's the right response for dean? i would have to dig through 2 years of my blog to find a source for this but I do remember it
ah yes! i honestly forgot about that one ksjshs. i've dug out a couple of posts: [one], [two], [three], and yes, it looks like it would've been the team's/director's choice based on that. some of the posts i linked here aren't 'official' sources, but neither are the recent posts about the translator's confirmations. though it's been almost three years and different people involved so i'm not too surpised about discrepancies
#just from personal experience - adding/removing/changing stuff as part of translation is quite common as in most cases you wouldn't be#translating word for word especially if we're talking about media etc. but i don't know much about script translating so maybe there are#different rules there. what i mean to say is that i wouldn't be surprised at all if the line was added by someone#though scripts do go through numerous changes so can't say what exactly happened there#the line could've been there in english at some point though that's obviously very much a random speculation not based on much#unfortunately i don't remember how many/if any versions of the script have been made public but might be something that could help#with clarifying stuff as well#spn trending asks
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some of my other atla art (+cyno??) from this years bout of fandom craziness
#i have never been able to draw before during my atla phases but this year is rlly bad#most of these are like. experimenting#like experimenting with which character designs i like or lighting stuff#anyways i really like zuko can u guys tell!!!!#i love aang too though he’s so silly he’s my fav show protagonist#also the drawing of zuko and cyno. they have absolutely nothing in common but they’re my favorites so i draw them together sometimes#i haven’t played genshin in a few months actually idk what’s happening there at all but i still love cyno he’s my bbg#zuko#aang#amon#atla#lok#gi cyno#wiklm art!!
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Hello, I noticed that my huskies, mostly the husky I have now has a tendency to bite like to play or to fetch in a way a little rude or annoying, he also chews and destroys many things (my first husky stop to do it so often after he had 6-7 months) instead my saarloos wolfdog never used the mouth to play with me in an annoying/slightly painful way. Could be a siberian husky thing or also other nordic breeds have this behaviour?
Mouthing is pretty common in huskies & malamutes in my experience. My dogs like to play the bitey face game with each other and with us in a more gentle version. When playing with other dogs in a group they do tend to go for the neck area a lot (part of the reason they do NOT make good dog park dogs imo, many other types of dogs actively hate this).
HOWEVER. Chewing and destroying things that are beyond the dog's specific items is a classic sign of boredom and lack of stimulation. I would say that a dog displaying these behaviors is in need of more mental tasks to do such as puzzle toys, kongs, lick mats, snuffle mats, sniffy walks, trick training etc.
#dogblr#faq#yeah they use their mouths but nordic breeds with the correct mental and physical stimulation are not destructive#and i also find that a lot of people with sledding breeds won't let them be super sniffy on walks#not saying you do this OP#but it's pretty common for sled dog breeds to not get proper stimulation out of walks bc they also aren't given a proper avenue to pull#thus when they go on walks they pull pull pull#and don't sniff#when in reality they need an outlet for working energy#so that walks can be about sniffing#just my experience though
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DANA YOU CAN’T HAVE BELOS BE RELIGIOUS AND NOT GO INTO WHAT HIS BELIEFS ARE WHEN IT’S A DRIVING FACTOR TO HIS CHARACTER !!! DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY DENOMINATIONS THERE ARE?!!! EVEN THOSE WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO BE PART OF THE SAME RELIGIOUS GROUP CAN HAVE THEIR BELIEFS AND PRACTICES VARY!!! THEY CAN BE INFLUENCED BY LARGE FACTORS SUCH AS TIME PERIOD AND LOCATION AND SEEMINGLY MINUTE FACTORS SUCH AS WHAT CHURCH THEY GO TO!!! ONE’S BELIEFS AREN’T STAGANT AND TEND TO EVOLVE OVER TIME EVEN FOR THE MOST DEVOUT!!! YOU CAN’T JUST BE LIKE “HE’S A PURITAN WITCH HUNTER” AND LEAVE IT AT THAT!!!!
#I’m so close to creating specific beliefs for Belos.#Me: *has severe religious trauma and a bunch of non- views of religion*#also me:#Fun fact there being multiple realms was a common ancient religious view even in monotheistic religions such as Christianity#This is still present today obviously though it’s less common ( from my experience anyway)#It’s also soooo interesting how stories of one religion can come from other religions and beliefs and practices can merge and split#the evolution of religious stories and practices is fascinating to me#I’m on my religious dissector arc#weird hyperfixation but okay#toh#emperor belos#philip wittebane#toh salt#toh critical#religious discussion#religion#tw religion#noelle's rambles
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the rwd season 4 qna inspired me to start thinking about college au headcanons except a lot of these are gonna be really specific to my school and y'all are just gonna have to deal with that <3
Kyana feeds some of the school cats. she would feed all of them if she could
Dani smuggled Plug (the scrawniest black cat you've ever seen) into her dorm room illegally and somehow management hasn't caught her yet (based on a true story) (Kyana visits to see Plug all the time)
Finbar keeps an updated tier list of every canteen in the school with breakdowns of the best stalls/dishes for each
A senior from the school of engineering once said to me 'all the engineering people dress like rats cuz our classrooms don't have aircon' (context: tropics) anyway that's Dani
Kyana would probably be involved in a lot of freshman orientation events from second year onwards. she just likes talking to the new kids and giving them advice like she would be the kind of orientation group leader who'd get messages from her freshies asking about all kinds of random nonsense because she's made sure they know they can always contact her with questions
VR-LA is The Guy you go to for textbook pirating resources
(this is more of a 'wouldn't that be funny' but VR-LA is just Veerle's discord handle)
Docent is the name of VR-LA's old laptop that broke down so he gave it to Cassimere (computer engineering major he met once at a networking event) to fix except Cassimere got everything off the hard drive and then somehow managed to fuck it up Even More so he had to get a new laptop (and named it Emi)
Roy has gotten food poisoning from his dorm meal plan at least once (based on at least one true story)
The heap trio + Mandy would be those friends constantly playing majong in the dorm lounge and if all the majong tables are taken they just play in one of their dorm rooms on a towel to dampen the tile shuffling noises (it was Mandy's idea)
Every morning Dani goes to the drinks stall at her faculty and orders one iced coffee to the point where the stall owner starts preparing an iced coffee whenever they see her approach (based on my true story)
Roy would be one of those people who goes clubbing every other week and every time he tries to drag the rest of the heap trio and Egan almost always goes and Dani would go if she didn't have a good excuse but always begrudgingly. anyway Roy would always be the only one having a good time until Egan gets drunk enough to start having fun
Finbar actually uses the dorm kitchens instead of just buying canteen food and it always makes the hallways smell really good
Vhas also uses the dorm kitchen sometimes but like. one time i walked into the pantry on my floor and someone had left cut sweet potatoes and 2 eggs in an inch of water in a pan on the stove. that's Vhas
Kyana's constantly applying for overseas exchanges and international summer/winter school programmes. the world is large and she wants to see it!
Maxim's the definition of a hall phantom. you know he lives on your dorm floor because you pass him by in the hallways sometimes and literally nowhere else. sometimes you're not convinced that he actually exists
VR-LA and Maxim's friendship stems from them being from wildly different faculties (VR-LA's in STEM, Maxim's doing anthropology so arts/social sciences) but also having lots of weird interests they cant really bug anyone in their home faculties about
Elyse is in student government and every once in a while Finbar receives a series of angry texts about the newest idiocy she's had to put up with
MR-SN and AS-TR start a stargazing club together. other notable members include AS-TR's girlfriend E-DN, MR-SN's friend C-RA (the one who always volunteers to carry the heavy ass telescopes) and MR-SN's friend K-LB who he pestered into coming to fix one of the wonky scopes even though K-LB's actually in electrical engineering but he's the only engineering person MR-SN (an arts student) knows
oh and of course VR-LA joins because he genuinely just likes space (developing a crush on his club chairperson was not on his bingo card)
Kyana and E-DN were MMA sparring buddies at one point which is how she found out about the stargazing and joined immediately
honestly i can probably think of more but this post is fuckin long LMAO
#rolling with difficulty#'do not let the internet turn you into an american' i say as i make posts that can be understood by me and me only#i mean im not sorry about it this is my house#like my experiences are just gonna be extra incomprehensible because my countrys fuckin tiny so the target audience really is me and me onl#too bad! you think its hard to read my posts? i gotta live like this!#if i sound extra confrontational i got 5 hours of sleep for the whole week unfortunately so just know its all /lh more or less#really tempted to make some kind of business major joke for roy even though obviously the heap trio would all be in engineering#bc its just common knowledge in my school that business majors are the ones with the most free time to go clubbing all the damn time#and *also* theyre the faculty that dresses the best which also tracks??#didnt really nail down specific majors for everyone (besides the obvious ones like food science for finbar and mech eng for dani)#but i kinda like the idea of cs for VR-LA because of that 'programmers are real world wizards' joke and also.. projecting#cs with focus area in AI would even make sense bc of docent and emi. if i want to make the projecting Even Worse!#also if i ever do human designs for the old crew (doubtful cuz i find drawing robots more fun than drawing humans)#look up sally hansen hypnautical nail polish bc i wanna give human AS-TR that as a nod to her original design#didnt really get into the fashion of it all bc again i live in the tropics so nobody really dresses well here#the goal is to dress to not sweat more often than it is dress to look good#hands down my favourite line in the cqna was noir's i thermoregulate through my forearms#so in the middle of summer i still wear all black and just roll up my sleeves#like thats ME. except its summer ALL YEAR ROUND#walao#asto speaks
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