You know how humans have gotten progressively taller as time goes on? Like, if you go through older homes they’re smaller because people were smaller?

I like to think that’s how Fire Emblem works too.

Like, Marth’s generation is just a bunch of tiny little people and as the games progress the characters get taller until you get to the most recent games (right now Three Hopes) and those characters just tower over them.

And of course there are exceptions. People who are tall in the older games (like Cain or Jagen) and characters who are short in the modern games (like Lysithea or Caspar) but my main point is that I think it would be really funny if in Fire Emblem Heroes, Marth is the tiniest protagonist.

Immediately I think “Wouldn’t it be so funny if Byleth (either one, maybe both) is just standing there and the summoner comes up to them and is like “Hey, have you seem Marth?” and Byleth just steps a bit to the side and Marth was there the whole time.

Tldr: give me tiny Marth or give me death.

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Screenshot redraw of the boisss🎉🎉🎉

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same staff?

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How do I forgive myself?

My main thing about this is it’s very hard to move through life if you can’t forgive yourself—not only in terms of your relationship w yourself, but also in terms of your relationship w others. Whether you realize it or not, the way you treat yourself very much bleeds into the way you treat others. If you can’t forgive yourself, can’t let things you did go, don’t allow yourself the grace of being human, you won’t be able to forgive others, let things they did go, or allow them the grace of being human. That can become a very miserable existence if not addressed.

I was at my angriest, saddest, most miserable etc etc when I was hard on myself. It made me get hurt at every little thing someone did. Literally every single thing. I could not extend them the grace of fallibility, because I could never extend that to myself. If I was slightly hurt, it was very easy for me to get defensive & forget that the person I’m talking to is prone to mistakes. Forgiving yourself really does mean exercising your ability to forgive others more. Without that skill you’re just constantly resentful—both towards yourself and towards others. It’s not like I never get hurt now, I def do, but it’s so much easier for me to let it pass through me and move on w my life.

Finally I just kind of learned that not forgiving yourself is a waste of time. Hating yourself isn’t productive, even if it feels like it is in the moment. In actuality it’s just the path of least resistance. It’s easier to hate yourself than to admit you made a mistake and commit to doing better. I do think there’s a place for holding yourself accountable, but that can coexist w being self-compassionate and moving forward. It can coexist w reminding yourself that you’re human and that mistakes are an unavoidable part of life. I can’t remember a single time I gained something from locking myself up in a fortress of self-loathing tbh. Or an instance where I saw it benefit someone else. It just expended their time & energy unnecessarily.

Frame self-forgiveness in a way that encapsulates all facets of your life: your relationship w others, your relationship w your time and energy, and your relationship w yourself. It will help you see the big picture & move on faster if you think of self-forgiveness as an absolute need in how you navigate your life, rather than a choice you can live without.

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he's wise to it by now, hiisi. (i did manage to take 500 gold out of his pockets in the falkreath sanctuary with a 56% success rate though)

Ianthony in the smosh reunion shirt

i’m beginning to realize.

i have a lot of extremely tall people in my life, while i myself am short

my perception of “tall”, and height differences, is INCREDIBLE skewed, and i haven’t realized that till recently when i. draw characters and people are like GAHDAMN you drew him tall

like “what?” *looks again*

“huh”

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