Forget the Love Languages. Talk to me about the levels of intimacy you seek?

The 7 Forms of Intimacy

1. Emotional - deep conversations, expressing feelings, empathy, understanding

2. Physical - hand holding, kissing, hugging, sexual activity, physical closeness, cuddling

3. Intellectual - sharing ideas, thoughts, engaging in stimulating conversation, discussing deep topics, exchanging perspectives

4. Spiritual - religious/spiritual practices, sharing beliefs, exploring philosophical beliefs

5. Experimental - new hobbies, new activities, going on adventures, creating memories together

6. Crisis - during a time a challenging time of trauma, face adversity together with mutual support, understanding and resilience

7. Cultural - shared cultural values and traditions

Conversation is a Form of Intimacy

I used to think, “People want to use me” when I was sober and didn’t understand how alcohol works. Yes there are people that just want to use you. But don’t we all just use each other, one way or another. For pleasure, for comfort, for love, for money, for our physical cravings, to fulfill our dreams. But I tend to think conversation is the best way to pull apart a cosmos of earth. When you…

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domesticity with kageyama is when, before you’re married, before you’re even engaged, tobio will hold your hand under the dinner table, his thumb absentmindedly stroking your ring finger. it’s the way fans zoom in on his paparazzi photos, to catch a pixelated glimpse of his lockscreen; he’s a private person, but the lockscreen is definitely a selfie of the two of you. it’s the way he’s upset over court rules dictating he can’t have his wedding band on while he plays; he doesn’t like anything separating him from the feel of the ball, but his ring feels as if it’s always been a part of him. (it’s him looping the ring around the laces of his shoes, so he can always have you on the court with him). it’s having him be the designated Tall Guy; the person you look at and point to the top shelf of the cabinet or the highest shelf at the grocery store, and he’ll always be ready to grab the items for you. it’s you struggling to open the cap on a water bottle, and him always cracking open every water bottle before he leaves for an away game or big trip because he worries about you. it’s him always needing to have his toothbrush standing next to yours on the bathroom counter. it’s him being featured on a box of cereal, and you make a joke about how cute it would be to have a little kageyama enjoying breakfast promoted by his father; it’s the blush that creeps up on him as he can see it all perfectly in his head. it’s the way he can’t seem to sleep unless he’s holding you; even if you two don’t fall asleep cuddled up to each other, you can bet you’ll wake up in the middle of the night to find his arms wrapped around you, pressing your body against his.

Bryce Emley, from "A List of Waters"

I love blowjobs I love bulge worship I love road head I love people who pay attention to the balls I love deepthroating I love swallowing I love people who lick cum off their fingers I love how drooly mouths are after giving head I love facefucking I love slow and lazy head I love anyone who loves me enough to put their mouth on my cock

durge and gortash dialogue centered doodles with a poorly concealed Facade reference in one of them. Drew her another outfit bc why not

content. fluff, mentions of nudity, usage of celsius (the only correct way of measuring temperature iktr).

it’s an unwritten rule in your relationship with satoru that you two must sleep skin-to-skin. it doesn’t matter if the room is -4 degrees or if it’s nearing 32. you’re bare—partly or fully—and you lay touching the other. on some days, you lay chest to chest, on others you’re spooning each other (satoru is mostly the little spoon, but on rare days he switches it up), and on others it’s merely your pinkies intertwining as you two sleep peacefully during the night.

some part of you, no matter if it’s big or small, has to be touching him. actually touching him. without the barrier of infinity, that keeps him from touching the world in its entirety. and without the barrier of clothing, that keeps him from touching you—from truly touching you. the two of you need to feel each other, to feel the other on your skin and know that they’re here and that they’re real.

to be so vulnerable together, and to have absolutely nothing separating the two of you. it’s just you, and it’s just him. and suddenly the world doesn’t seem all that bad.

. . .yeah, sleeping skin-to-skin is an absolute must.

just came here from your nievan and astarion comic and it said you love talking about them so hi I want to know more about them :0

hi I do dearly adore them and sometimes I think I’ll never shut up about them so thank you for the ask! 🫶🏼

Nievan was locked in a tower for 70ish years (it’s a long story) and had barely any physical contact during that time. It’s early in he and Astarion’s relationship that he realizes he’s absolutely starved for touch — while at the same time, Astarion’s figuring out his own relationship with physical touch. I like to think they learn how cuddling works together (and at first it’s super awkward, but then something clicks and suddenly they can’t get enough of it).

So at some point the entire party realizes they’re always touching — whether it be their shoulders pressed together, gentle touches to the shoulders and arms, a hand on the hip or waist, a gentle tucking of hair behind an ear, constant little kisses to the forehead and nose and cheek (when they think no one is looking), and of course

Hugs.

Anyway thanks for coming to the ramble I hope you enjoyed

I’m convinced that if I woke up every morning to Joel Miller lazily playing with my pussy, all of my woes and ailments would be cured.

You feel me?

everlark + glances

+ Butch 4 Butch +

(Except neither one of them is rlly that butch but holy fUCKING SHIT THAT SONG IS LITERALLY THEM… the version of them I made up in my mind palace… it’s them.)

Anywayyyy. Yeah! Have a tagr art dump..! aka, those vibes when you, out of a series of moments of temporary insanity, end up finding, taking in, nursing back to health and eventually falling into a tangled messy yearning situationship w the asshole tsundere alien who tried to destroy your entire planet… rlly extremely relatable vibes!!

domesticity with nanami is him leaving you a kiss on your forehead before he leaves for work; you’re still asleep, and he has to be in the office bright and early. it’s you packing him lunch with notes written on heart-shaped sticky notes, telling him to have a good day! i love you! it’s the way he says your name after a long day at the office, on an exhale, and it would be almost like a sigh if he didn’t sound so relieved when he says it, like just the sight of you, just the sound of your name, shoots life right back into his system. it’s him having you pick out his tie for work, and he’s fully capable of tying it himself, but even when you struggle to do so, having to get on your tiptoes to even reach, he loves how his tie looks (crooked, loosely knotted) when it’s you doing it for him. it’s you reading the books he hasn’t had the time to get to, and it’s him listening intently as you summarize everything that happens in it. it’s your name with a heart next to it in his contacts; no one else has something so special and unprofessional saved in his phone contacts. it’s buying stuff from ikea and sitting pretty while he rolls up his sleeves and starts assembling it for you. it’s comfort and security in knowing that you can love someone so much to be satisfied with a simple life.

c c could aventurine be a husband. can we actually think about this for a second. let me be so clear this would take years. YEARS. of assurance and Reassurance and encouragement and support. but realistically it could happen right guys. right. he would have his ring under his glove, guys. because one he does not want to put You at risk two he can freely use his charms still and three less of a risk of losing it. d do you even get it. his devotion to someone after soo long and having the Right to be called a husband. i don't think there'd be a wedding or a ceremony and shit maybe it isn't even legally binding but just. behind closed doors "is that any way to treat your husband" aventurine. him being a light sleeper but sleeping well and thoroughly at your side. him looking around at your shared home and mourning the fact that his family will never ever be able to come visit him and see how far he has come but also relishing that he once again has a Shared Space with someone. kisses that aren't greedy because he knows he already has you. kisses that are so tender that it's like you melt into each other. domesticity. domesticity, guys. does anyone understand me am i insane AM I INSANE

Sherlock and Watson now regularly sharing hugs and high fives is my cup of tea

I think Slay the Princess is so popular partially because the *gets stabbed* "I'm in love" reaction is both intentional on the part of the developers and then they completely follow through on it.